SUBMITTED: Tuesday, June 28, 2005
POSTED: Tuesday, June 28, 2005
Julie, OKDHS has too much money and too much power over children and families! I'm glad you were allowed to keep your child. More than 2,000 parents IN OKLAHOMA were not that lucky! Look at the number of children taken into custody each month just in Oklahoma County and Logan County. You are a mighty lucky person! Be careful or your bragging about keeping your child will be reversed. Your case IS in the DHS records but YOU are not allowed to see those records except through the order of a judge! You MAY be next to hear a caseworker say, "Your Honor, the parenting rights should be removed from this mother. This child should be adopted to the foster parents!" I wonder if you'll say their salary is too low, they have too many children in custody and there are not enough workers.
Julie, OKDHS combined a Kiowa Indian case with our case. The judge said, "I cannot hear any of your case until I have a representative from the Kiowa Indian Tribe in the courtroom with you!" The judge held the Indian cards up for all to see and said, "The father signed this sheet of paper stating he is full blood Kiowa Indian! I must have a representative from the Kiowa Tribe in this courtroom!" My lawyer argued with the judge for several minutes with her insisting that she was correct. The father repeatedly told the judge that he was NOT of Kiowa Indian descent. Then, my lawyer said, "Your honor, these people say they are NOT Kiowa Indian! Maybe you should look at the case records in your folder and see if all information is correct that's in your file!"
I think the court records were separated BUT the accusations from the Kiowa Indian child are still COMBINED in our case file! OUR copy of the case record states that the child in custody said, "My daddy smokes tiny cigarettes in a hose in a pipe and I don't like for my daddy to smoke those tiny cigarettes!"
OUR case record ALSO states, "The grandmother visited the school her grandson attended and told him what to say and do." It's a TOTAL lie but the judge believed the lying caseworker! The kinship foster mother called the grandmother and told her that the teacher had called to tell her that the boy's life was in danger in that class. The teacher told the foster mother that she may be calling to have her come to the school and pick the boy up to protect him from harm by other much larger students. The foster mother was baffled with concern so she called the grandmother.
The grandmother told the kinship foster mother that if she could get approval, she would have lunch with him in an effort to let the threatening bigger students know that others besides the two teachers were concerned about life threatening peer activities in the classroom. The foster mother called the caseworker and was told that the grandmother, with whom the child had been living for several months, was NOT allowed to visit her grandchild.
The grandmother's hands were tied. She worried that her grandson might be severely injured or killed by the bigger 'mentally disturbed' students in the classroom. Then, during the next hearing, the caseworker said, "Your honor, this grandmother went to the school and visited with her grandson. She told him what to say and what to do."
THE JUDGE BELIEVED THE LYING CASEWORKER! (The grandmother has a letter from the school proving the caseworker lied!) During that hearing, the judge turned to the grandmother and said, "You are NEVER to visit with your grandson! You are NEVER to give your grandson a gift! You are NEVER to call or write to your grandson! You are NEVER to know what school your grandson attends! If I find you have done any of these things, I will hold you in contempt of court!"
The children were taken into custody as a result of the grandmother reporting that her speech handicapped granddaughter had been sexual assaulted on the school bus.
Julie, these two children have suffered severe abuse and neglect by those underpaid, overworked, well-educated and caring DHS caseworkers. Do YOU think if they were paid $2,500 per month and given only ONE case to work, they'd do any better than now with the ASFA still in effect? Absolutely NOT! As long as the Adoption Bonuses and Adoption Incentives are promoted and freely passed out to DHS agencies, the children will NOT have what is BEST for them! DHS WILL have the BEST! At least they should have the BEST with all the BONUS MONEY they're given to dispose of! LOOK at the ASFA BONUS MONEY reports on the internet!
Julie, this grandmother was employed by OKDHS BEFORE the Adoptions and Safe Families Act of 1997 was enacted by the Clinton Administration. Youth Guidance Specialists, as some caregivers are called, were allowed to HELP children. We were not told to do anything you could do to adopt another child so we'd receive BONUS MONEY and AWARDS from Social Security Funds!
Because our priority was on helping the children in our care, my former co-workers and I worked diligently to help the residents in the group home learn things they'd needed to know about life. If we had broken any of their bones, we would have been prosecuted! It's OK, according the OKDHS records for foster parents to break the children's bones or allow their bones to be broken while in their care. OKDHS reports that the children are doing wonderful in the home where their bones were broken. It puzzles me that a child would be reportedly doing wonderful in the home where their bones were broken!
I wonder, Julie, if you were a caseworker, would YOU lie to the judge? Would you tell parents to get a divorce? Would you tell children that their parents never wanted to see them again? Would YOU use the excuse, "I don't get enough salary!" "I have too many cases!" "I work here because I love children!"
OKDHS, according to reports, (1) has too many cases for the number of caseworkers, (2) takes too long to train new caseworkers (to lie) and (3) can't figure out what to do about the father of a child! READ IT FOR YOURSELF! IT'S WRITTEN IN THE OKDHS REPORT ABOUT COMPLIANCE WITH THE ASFA!
This grandmother could not believe it when she was told that there was no such thing as Parenting Assistance Classes! That's the same thing her son was told when he called OKDHS asking for help for his family. It's mighty strange that six months later, after the father attended several appointments with a private Family Therapist, his lawyer found where the caseworker wrote in the KIDS file, "A letter was sent to the parents telling them about Parenting Assistance Classes and about Anger Management Classes!"
Did the caseworker not have time to dial the father's SEVEN DIGIT phone number because she had too much work to do and was underpaid? It would seem that the ethical thing to do would be to call the father or grandmother and say, "I've located the classes you asked for. I'm mailing you a letter telling you how to get involved in the classes." Or, better yet, why couldn't she give him the information over the phone? It's strange that she SUPPOSEDLY had the time to write a letter and even write a note in the KIDS file about the letter but didn't have time to call either the father or grandmother. By the way, neither the father nor grandmother have seen that letter that was supposedly written in the spring of 2001. Too much work? Not enough time? Not enough pay?
The only thing the caseworker told the father to do was, "We don't have parenting classes. You need to move out of the house! You need to take your children with you! You need to get a divorce! If you don't move out of the house, take the children and get a divorce, you will be charged with child neglect!" He moved the children out of the home several months before he called the OKDHS caseworker. He felt it was best to get help for the children's mother than to divorce her. Marriage vows say, "For better or worse, 'til death do we part!" I find it NOWHERE in the BIBLE or anywhere else except with DHS caseworkers where it teaches that if a parent is ill or needs help, the concerned parent should move out of the house, take the children and get a divorce! WHAT?????
I also find it very strange that about six months after the mother relinquished her parenting rights, OKDHS sent the father a letter stating that HE was required to pay child support the the MOTHER! What is going on in OKDHS? Too much work? Not enough employees? Not enough time to do the job they get paid $1,800 - $4,000 per month to do? Figure that one out! Seem to me that such orders are produced because of IGNORANCE, bad hiring practices or untrained trainers and could be all of these combined.
Maybe President Bush's "No Child Left Behind" program will require that students learn to read and write. Who will teach them to stop lying?
Julie, it doesn't surprise me that DHS agencies are trying to get involved in the Faith Community. Of course, their reasons are two fold. First, DHS wants to take more children into custody when a man touches a child and second, they need someone to help the children learn that Christians can be trusted. DHS employees sure can't be trusted since 1997. THAT, my friend, Julie, is FACT! That, my friend, Julie, will NOT change until the ASFA and ALL adoption promotions and incentives have been stopped. Of course, when Social Security is completely broke, the ASFA will have to stop for there will be no BONUS MONEY available.
Julie, DHS caseworkers ARE under heavy pressure to adopt children for BONUS MONEY! No, the caseworker themselves don't get ALL of the BONUS MONEY. Mr. Hendricks stated that Oklahoma's BONUS MONEY would be distributed in increments of $1,000 to MOST OKDHS employees and to OTHERS who have helped adopt the children. That includes foster parents, adoptive parents, contracting physicians, lawyers, courts, counselors and even legislators. The courts are given BONUS MONEY from our EARNED Social Security Benefits FUND for SPEEDING court activities so the children can be adopted faster.
OKDHS even has a SWIFT ADOPTIONS UNIT to speed the adoptions along! The SWIFT ADOPTIONS UNIT was established because OKDHS (1) didn't have enough employees, (2) didn't get paid high enough wages, (3) had to many children in custody, (4) couldn't figure out a way to involve the father of a child and (5) because it took too long to train new employees.
Look on the internet and see how many children OKDHS has posted the pictures to promote adoption. BUT, if you complete the paperwork through the Adoptions Website, it never gets to the Adoptions Unit. That's Fraud, Waste and Abuse of Government Funds.
Julie, in case you haven't heard, Oklahoma Statutes give the order for placing a child in DHS custody. It gives the priority as, (1) Parent(s), (2) Grandparents, (3) Person designated by the DECEASED parent(s), (4) Other family members and (5) Foster parents. a later, Oklahoma Statute changed (4) and (5) by stating the child will be adopted to foster parents ONLY when there is NO family member able and willing to adopt the child. The word "ONLY" is too hard for an OKDHS to understand its full, yet simple meaning. After all, caseworkers must have a BS degree before they're qualified to be a caseworker. They're underpaid and overworked?
When the judge ordered a home study of the grandmother's home, the home study caseworker from North Care said, "Now, OKDHS says that your grandchildren's bones were broken and that you know all about how their bones were broken!" Tears came into the grandmother and great-grandmother's eyes when the caseworker told them that the children's bones had been broken.
Finally, the grandmother dried her tears and asked, "When were their bones broken?" The caseworker looked into her case record and replied, "DHS says their bones were broken sometime between January and March of 2002!" The grandmother then replied, "How could I have known about their bones being broken during that period of time? I have not seen either of my grandchildren since October 2001!" THE CHILDREN WERE IN TWO DIFFERENT FOSTER HOMES WHEN THEIR BONES WERE BROKEN!
When the home study caseworker was leaving the grandmother's home, she handed the grandmother a "GAG ORDER" form and said, "You will not be allowed to care for any child until you sign this form."
If the grandmother had signed the "GAG ORDER" this report could NOT have been written. On one occasion, during a Grand Staffing Conference, the grandmother was told that she must LIE about the father or she would NOT be allowed to visit the children. The grandmother is not a liar so she has not been permitted to visit with the children!
The children were adopted to the home where the handicapped granddaughter was placed in December 2001. And you say, Julie, the abuse and neglect occurs because (1) there are not enough employees, (2) their pay is not sufficient and (3) there are too many cases! Do YOU think that's why the children's bones were broken in the foster homes?
Families who have children or grandchildren need to be protected FROM DHS agencies until the Adoptions and Safe Families Act of 1997 and all subsequent adoption incentive programs are rescinded.
For the life of me, it is hard to figure out why the BONUS MONEY for emotionally disabling children and destroying families is paid in unlimited amounts to DHS agencies. Read the ASFA. That's actually fraud, waste and abuse of government funds!
Julie, it would be good if you would take the time to READ the reports more carefully. Then, you'll KNOW that the Adoptions and Safe Families Act of 1997 and subsequent adoption promoting legislation are NOT being used as was the original intent. In fact, because children are suffering so badly as a result of the enactment of the ASFA, the Clinton Administration should be ashamed that they even enacted the ASFA. President Bush has extended the abusive ASFA through 2008 and lowered the requirements for BONUS MONEY so that more state DHS agencies can qualify for the BONUS MONEY.
AND, American citizen are being told that our Social Security Funds will be running out in the near future. Our Social Security Funds would not be in jeopardy if the ASFA and other adoption bonus and incentive initiatives were stopped.