OP spends more than the available balance...
OP overdrafts account...
OP pays penalties per terms and conditions that the OP signed and agreed to...
No rip-off here on the part of the bank. Perhaps the OP should file another report against the offending party: The OP.
Now, for the OP:
Do NOT listen to Ronny. His sympathy will do NOTHING to help you avoid the overdrafts in the future. Only YOU can manage your account in a responsible manner. Regulators, lawmakers and courts have all upheld the ordering process, so your ONLY recourse is to stop paying the fees i.e. use a checkbook register and track your outlays.