Please..please drop the "victim mentality", you will be much better off in the long run.
You received a loan for 19%(yes that is very..very high) which means that you probably had "less than perfect credit". But if you are saying that you had gone to another dealer the week before and they would have given you an 8% rate, then the only one you have to blame for agreeing to the 19% is yourself.
The simple fact is that you made a legal agreement where if they loaned you money to purchase a car you would pay them back a set amount of money each and every month for a set amount of time. There was nothing in that contract that said you only had to pay it when you could, or that they had to give you extentions. But guess what, this is how it would be for EVERY other finanical institution.
I still wish that they could of gave me that extension, I could of lasted another two years of paying for their greed, they say I breached the contract, but really, who ended up breaching what to whom?
- You did breach the contract by not paying as agreed.
Now, the "major" lenders will generally not reposess a car until you are at least 30 days behind, and most will wait 60-90 days. So unless this is some new policy to reposess after 3 weeks late(and if it was I think there would be a flood of reports), there is probably more to this report than you are saying.