"Hello. The insurance company, whether it be the OPs insurance company OR the insurance company of the person who may have hit them, is ONLY obligated to pay the actual value of the car. The actual value being based on such examples as the Blue Book value, Edmonds, etc. They will only pay what their OPs car was worth."
"I also did not state anything about the wholesale value of the vehicle."
Are you reading my posts? Did you read the OP's post? You keep repeating that they will pay the "actual value". Are you not getting that the OP's and my posts are addressing the insurance company's attempt to pay the wholesale market value? I have a hard time believing you've been in the insurance industry for 10 years if you don't grasp this.
Kelly, Edmunds, etc... all list more than one price for a particular vehicle. The insurance company was trying to lowball the OP by offering the wholesale price. That is the "ACTUAL VALUE" of the car to a dealer. The retail price (which is substantially higher) is the "ACTUAL VALUE" of the car to the OP, since the OP has no way of replacing the vehicle for the wholesale value. Small claims courts deal with these issues all the time and I guarantee you'll never find a judge that uses the wholesale value to determine the value of a totalled vehicle.
Oddly enough, a friend of mine just settled a claim with Progressive yesterday. They also tried to lowball him with the wholesale price from NADA. When he pointed this out to them, they immediately revised the offer to reflect the retail price.