Dude, if you're "company" can be taken down down by one RAM, you shouldn't call it a company. You say their return policy is "stupid". First of all, this is an opinion, and not a fact. Second, I bet you it is thoroughly explained in Tiger Direct's terms and condition, that you had to agree to. Why don;t you think of this from the other side of the coin. If you send me a part, and I call you and tell you its broken, or doesn't work, I fully expect you to receive the bad part back, before you ship out a replacement, even if I had made a decision, ON MY OWN, that puts me in a bad spot, such as my "company" being out of commission. If I truly do have a bad part, once the good one arrives, I have no motivation to ship it back, if that was my true intention anyway. What if I just wanted two RAMs? I'd claim the first is bad, and that I really need one - for some reason - right now! Now you go ahead and be nice, and send one out while I promise I'm sending it back, I even send an empty envelope and give you a tracking number, PROVING that I'm sending back. You get and empty box, I get two RAM's. Have a nice day. Now look. the world doesn't revolve around you, and more than likely, also doesn't give a damn about you.
So let me get this straight, you are mad because a company won't allow itself to get scammed? Dude, you gotta wake up and realize just how unimportant you are to the world. Rules are set for a reason, and you can;t expect them to change because you put yourself in a bad spot. You ordered a RAM over the internet, that you 100% needed to work ASAP. thats a really bad call in my book. I would want a place I could walk in and swap same day, if I have a time sensitive situation.
So basically, I'm saying quit being so damn stupid, and wake up and notice that there are BILLIONS of people who have no idea you even exist. Get over yourself.