I can't believe it. The writer and respondant's stories are nearly identical to mine. I met JoAnn and one of her associates over a year ago. Initially, they were very professional. We met for over 2 hours and discussed the particulars of what I wanted and what I expected. They showed me over 2 dozen men that they said would be "perfect" or good matches for me. With that being said, contracts were signed and we also discussed distance and other particulars.
It took quite a while to hear from them. They matched me with someone who clearly was very sedentary (while I am very active). When I said something to them about this, the associate appeared displeased. The second match was worse. He was about 15 years older than me, retired, and liked to go antiquing. Antiquing! While nothing is wrong with that, I do not consider that exciting or active. He and I spoke on the phone. We agreed we had nothing in common, we had different energy levels, and we were probably match together only because we were close in proximity. Not long after I received a call from JoAnn who told me that, basically, while she couldn't tell me to have plastic surgery a woman at a certain age should seriously consider it because I looked at least 10 years older than I am and no one wants to go out with me. Then, I sent the photos to friends and quizzed them on how old they thought the photo made me look. They told me about 10-15 years younger. When I shared this fact with JoAnn she hit the roof.
It took about 6 months to be match with someone else. He was nice, but we didn't have a lot of chemistry. The second date I went on was the same thing. I was contacted about another man and was told they would follow up, but that was over 3 months ago.
They still owe me a date. If I don't hear from them I have to chase them down. JoAnn is insulting. In the meantime, I've had countless dates from interesting, intelligent, educated and successful men who find me attractive- and ARE NOT from this awful service.
This service costs thousands and thousands of dollars. DO NOT WASTE YOUR MONEY!!! If you want to spend lots of money and be demeaned, go to a dominatrix.