#5 Individual Responds
AUTHOR: D - Aurora (U.S.A.)
SUBMITTED: Saturday, March 31, 2007
POSTED: Sunday, April 01, 2007
"I have received a total of six (6) payments from him for our son"
"Our son"? The kid is of Hispanic descent. Neither you or I are Hispanic, Crystina/Lana/Jennifer/Paige...Albertus/Page/Santiago/
_____(3rd husband's last name). There were 6 guys that you messed around with when you became pregnant. Only one was remotely Hispanic and that was that Cuban guy named "Chilo". Take responsibility for your own actions.
You have continually violated the restraining order, including when you last called me in Colorado Springs at the address listed.
I have told you that you could file to have me removed from the birth certificate and put 1 condition upon that. You were supposed to send me the papers for step-parent adoption(Husband #2)four years ago, but wanted the adoption and to score yourself some cash for a child that is NOT mine.
You could have contacted me easily(Via a lawyer, as I don't care to speak to you), as the bills are in MY name, not my wife's, along with a listed phone #, however, you haven't, until this new person came along.
As for your sick games...I care not to play them.
AS for the "3rd wife's children", That's funny as you are 28 and in your 3rd marriage, so the pot is calling the kettle black.
Implying that I am being a "Deadbeat Dad" is preposterous, as money is coming out of my wages for my 3 blood children and back child support:
Tysius, Tony and Tricia and that is almost paid off, though..the other person posting to this (Kaye) and her husband(Or ex-husband?) have not fulfilled their requirements(By the court order) of me having contact with the kids(Well, Tony is now an adult and Ty and Tricia are quickly approaching that age).
Then I am told that my ex(Darcy and I have been stripped of parental rights?? Obviously, you, Kaye have had no problem finding my address and have put that in writing here, so the story of trying to contact me to the court will now be considered perjury, when you stated that you couldn't find me to send the proper court documents for removal of my rights.
Thank you.
"During our marriage, he was extremely emotionally abusive, and finally physically.", etc.
That's slander and..YOU, Crystina, attacked me 4 times, physically, (Emotionally..the whole relationship, from trying to spend time with my blood children, to being friends with anyone that wasn't of your approval)the last of which I defended myself when you came at me like a berserker in one of your bi-polar flip-outs. I plead guilty, under duress, and you, completely, know that, as I was being an idiot and believing that you had an ounce of truth about the child being mine and if I didn't plead guilty, that I would lose him forever, along with the rest of the lies you told myself and the court.
"Dan, feel free to reply. I'd love to know your reason for abandoning four of your children."
I have 3 children that are of my blood: Ty, Tony and Tricia, along with 2 step-children.
Abandonment?
Is that what it is called when your ex-wife and her parents keep finding ways to to disobey court orders, lure away the kids from scheduled meeting times with offers of their favorite playplace, ice cream and reward the kids for saying nasty things to you, until you come to a point that you realize that it is doing so much damage to the kids emotionally, that you don't want them to go through that suffering anymore, so, essentially, you let the grandparents take over, as there isn't much of a choice if you really love those children with all your heart and soul and are trying to prevent them from any more, unnecessary, emotional pain than they have been through already?
As for that 4th child: you played around, you got pregnant, as you preferred to not wear a condom with those guys and now you have a child as a result of that. Want me to take a blood test(Sent to a reputable hospital here, in Colorado, not somewhere that you can manipulate the tester)?
I have, ABSOLUTELY, NO problem with that test, as I know the truth, as I have NO Hispanic roots, whatsoever, nor do you.
I, also, noticed that this site has a policy of "No removal", this is a shame for this site, as there are quite a few slanderous statements here, unverified, that could cause a future lawsuit to both the writer and publisher who is liable, by Federal Law, for anything transmitted online that is slanderous. Filed through the "State of Arizona", as the bottom statement says, does not take this out of the jurisdiction of the Federal Courts of the United States of America, which is the governing body that controls transmissions that cross state lines(A simple statement to click on, to reply to slander, does not give a state government authority over the governing body of the internet).
"Prefer not to disclose, Florida"
This is humorous too, as you, supposedly, seek to contact me? It appears that you just want to trash talk.
I'm sorry your life isn't how you hoped it would be, but.. I am not your husband, am not your friend, have no problem with signing the papers you referred to with the stipulation that I stated the last time.
As for the statement about eviction for myself and my wife from our last residence: she is deciding, currently, on whether to file slander charges on you, as we (Her and I) have never been evicted from anywhere, since we started our relationship.
I am sure that the landlord in question would testify that you lied, as he is well aware that we moved, with 30 day notice to another town.
By disclosing the information of the address, as you stated, he violated the law AND our address has been placed on the internet(Under her old name, of which he knows) for my wife's ex to see, even though there is a restraining order there forbidding him from ever seeing or being around my step-children ever.
You, and this site have risked their lives, when you, Crystina could have, easily, contacted me via my hotmail email address that has been there since you and I were married.
You've committed fraud, by misrepresenting a need to move with some charities when you moved to K.C., you forged a check of my Dad's, of which my sister still has and you have slandered me beyond any level that ANY person should EVER have to deal with.
Remedy the situation, somewhat, to me: send me the papers(Step-parent adoption, along with the agreement that I owe nothing for your child) and then, stay out of my life once I sign them.
We aren't together now, aren't friends now and won't ever be again. One simple filing of the proper custody papers will have us out of each others life, forever.
Kaye, you have my address, feel free to give it to the children. Much damage was done to your daughter by the lie you told her of her father being beheaded(Though, he was alive and well when we met him 20 years after the supposed car accident.) and the lies you have stated about me having gone to prison to my own kids are, equally, the same, as I have NEVER been inside ANY prison, except to visit your husband(Or ex?)Robert when he was(is still?) a guard for the I.N.S. prison.
You know my email address too, as you have emailed me twice at that address.
Take a mature step, both of you, as 1 of you needs to just mail the PROPER paperwork and the other just needs to stop being peeved because her daughter and I had a failed marriage and a divorce that drug out with many hurt feelings.
I hope she(Darcy)has found what makes her happy.
I hope that you and Bob are still together and happy.
I hope that the choice I made, benefited the kids, emotionally, as I prayed that it would, as it was the toughest choice and one I have rethought a thousand times+ that I have EVER made.
I love them with all my heart.
Have no doubt, EVER, about that!
I know how I tried to be a parent, but still felt like a kid myself, back then, and that I made some wrong choices in parenting and some right choices, but we all do that as parents, as the instruction guide doesn't come with them and, even if it did, each child is their own entity and no guide could be a fix-all for the differences in the children(If anyone has a copy for my step-children, please send it now for the tween child :) )
I think that should about cover it, other than;
I am now:
1) A responsible member of society.
2) A good parent.
3) An imperfect human being(Aren't we all?).
4) A Father with enough love for his 2 step-children AND his 3 blood children.
5) A forgiving soul.
D. Phalen