Wade Patrick Ueckert DEADBEAT DAD WHO WON'T CALL HIS DAUGHTER ripoff Conroe, Houston, Austin Texas

I googled his name and came upon this site. It took me a back for a few seconds because I long ago wrote this man out of my life. I think Leslie will remember me from Wade and when I was with him. Anyway I just want to say Im very sorry this man has had to be a part of you and your daughter's lives for so long. And reading your report I see he has not changed. In 1979 I gave birth to a daughter that Wade fathered. He left about five weeks before she was born. April 15th 1979 to be exact. A day I will never forget. As he drove off in his ford mustang from Austin to Conroe to find a job and get us a home before our child was born, I knew I would never see him again nor would he be a part of my childs life. I have always told my daughter about her sister. My wonderful, daughter is now 29 yrs old and a fantastic woman. She is so good, smart, light hearted, etc. that I was truly blessed to be her mom. She has a man in her life that has been there since she was small and that man she calls DAD. I was very young when I met Wade and the only thing I can ever be thankful of, was that we didnt keep him in our lives and I kept my daughter even after he left me with not even a home to live. His loss not ours. My regreat is that the two children of this biological donor was that they missed out of knowing each other. My daughter also has two sisters and alot of family that love her. I wish all the best to you and Layla and I hope and pray that someday he will understand the pain he caused in alot of lives.

I am Wades other childs sister. I must say that I can not believe that he continues to make the same mistake. Although my sister does not need him nor want him in her life as my father is her father. My sister is my best friend as well as is my mother. I am also going through the same thing with my son's father who disappeared when I asked for child support. I know the pain it causes and I am also glad that my sister has no intention of wanting to know the man who left our mother alone while she carried his child. GOD works things in a pattern and my father stepped up like a real man and raised her like she was his own. My parents had two other children after my sister and we all love her and know what a family is about. You don't want someone like that in your childs life. She is yours, and you just keep doing the right thing and love your child. GOD does not like ugly and Wade will regret his past one day. Although it is already to late as noone wants a loser, please don't waste your thoughts on this man. You have a child who needs you and I'm sure your a good mother. BOYS like Wade will never be on our level.

While I am glad this report did generate a response from the mother of another of Wades children, it leaves a hole in my heart to hear he pulled the same thing...and yet another child was left to suffer due to his gross attempt to be a sperm donor.
TO THE MOTHER OF HIS OTHER DAUGHTER- we were both very young honey, and yet we pulled it together the best we could and raised two wonderful daughters. Layla is a wonderful women with a laugh that lights up the world. she is raising three very beautiful daughters and helps in raising her husbands two (hum, not like her so called father who can't even raise his own) Layla was very excited to find that she has a half sister, and hopes that they can get in touch. Wades family is just like him, all blah blah blah about family, loyalty and I want, yet neither she nor I have ever heard from ANY of them.
yes, you are better off without any of them...
please get in touch, we would like to hear from you

PS the mustang was granny's car, he borrowed it even when we were dating in high school LMAO!!!

I came across this site playing on the internet and was surprised to see the postings. I have heard about Wade's other daughter but my mom and I didn't know where to look for contact information or if the family even wanted to be contacted. If you are interested in contacting me please feel free to email me

I have to wonder about the women who get romantically involved with them. I have to ask WHY?

Maybe you should live with him for 2-3 years, assuming he hasn't tried to kill you in that time --- just to see what kind of guy he REALLY is? He lies to you,steals from you, runs around on you?

You didn't have a warning signal?

You didn't meet his family and talk with them confidentially?

Read the definition of PSYCHOPATH or SOCIOPATH -- you can google it and there should have been some hint that this guy was definitely NOT going to stay around and be a DAD! Especially NOT to daughters. What this does to the kids is INHUMAN and psychologically damaging beyond belief.

There is also genetic evidence that this condition MIGHT be inherited.

I feel very sorry for the children involved. I know what they are going through because it happened to two of my aunts with my loco "rounder" uncles. a total of eight children involved and some children from women these men were never even married to at all but still had to support. One is somewhere in Mexico and I have no idea where the other one is...

You have my deepest sympathy.

I am Wade's oldest daughter and given the situation of the outcome of my mom and Wade I am living a very fulfilled and happy life. I have 3 girls of my own and a step mom of 2 children. My girls are from a divorced family and they are not scared, as a matter of fact they are more happy now than they were when I was married to their father. My husbands children are also happy. They live with their mom and spend the summers with us now, before they lived with us for two years and now living back with their mom because my husbands job keeps him away for months at a time.

After 30 years I finally saw Wade in person and talked to him and he "promised" that he would not loose touch with me again and would be a grandfather to my kids. The first year he did call and send emails. Well it's has been 3 years since this time and I have not heard a word from him. So much for keeping his promise as an adult. Matter of fact I tried my best to get in touch with him and his family when I was pregnant with my 3rd daughter to find out some family history due to a blood test showing that she maybe born with cystic fibrosis. I left phone messages and emails explaining this and I never received any response from any of the family. Luckily she was born completely healthy :)

My mom has always been honest and upfront about Wade and never tried to persuae me to like or dislike him. In a sense deep down I was hoping to get to know who he is and hoped he would change but now I know he will never be able to change and I have no reason to try to contact him. Its his loss not to know his daughters and his grandchildren.

I am happy to hear that my half sister and her mom is doing well although he left them the same as he did my mom and I. Feel free to contact me at yahoo if desired. He is the one missing out on life.

There is a saying that is short, but is packed with a huge message to every person who is looking for a partner......

"Choose well , treat kindly"

It is so important to choose well first and foremost because if you do not then the cycle does not stop. The second part is to treat kindly because one you choose well if you do not treat kindly then relationships will unravel.....

Unfortunatley this man has just done the same thing over and over it appears over the last 30 plus years and the sad thing is....he is the one who is missing out on a fulfilled , wonderful life. It sounds like that the moms here did their best to raise beautiful children despite the fact this guy is a looser so kuddos to you all!