Kirk is 'related' to me. I'll just leave it at that. He doesn't even know I'm writing this. I think this whole bashing each other on the internet is ridiculous for one. And that goes for each of you.
With that being said, Lisa has tried to be the victim in all of this but I know better. Lisa moved out 2 times in their first year of marriage, and it was for petty stuff. And now that she's been divorced, she's moved 5 times in TWO years. So you can definitely see the instability there. I also know that Kirk never 'dated' any women until he filed for divorce in 2002 AFTER you had moved out twice already but decided to cancel the divorce because he felt he had too much to lose. And, as we can see, he was right. So don't keep playing it off as if he was this swinging gigalo. He told you he was staying for his son only. And, although, I guess he could be lying, he met women as friends. Granted, a married man shouldn't have female companions but when you made his life miserable by berating him in front of his son and calling the police and having him sent to jail for a night, I can't say that I blame him. He never slept with anyone. Again, I"m taking him at his word but I really don't think he would lie to me about it. Even when his new wife moved into your old home, they were actually just friends whether you believe that or not. And that I do know because that's how he would introduce her. I know one night they stayed somewhere overnight from a party and they slept in different rooms.
I also know that you brought up his criminal record from 15 years ago, before he even met you, during the divorce proceedings. That was very dirty and I really think that's what made your divorce so rough from the beginning. Kirk was good enough to have a child with AND good enough to marry but when the going got tough you used every dirty trick you could think of. And really the only one that has really suffered has been your son.
You had your attorney go after his parents for money that you borrowed from them and decided to deny responsibility. Kirk's parents were more or less trying to prove a point and you try to strong arm them with a crooked attorney. And, once again, you got what you wanted and Kirk's parents caved and dropped their lawsuit. Plus, they lost the $75 for filing the case to add insult to injury.
The last thing I was going to say, is that I got wind of a comment that I heard you say or write recently about Kirk being a better father when he was with you as opposed to his current wife. And that's what really prompted me to write this to begin with. You might have some truth. But I know Kirk and the poor guy has given up. He used to look forward to seeing Nicholas but you had the gall to file a false police report and a false report with CPS, not let the guy see his kid for almost a month. And when it was all done and said, you never even got reprimanded as you weren't even in court that day and somehow ended up getting an extra weekend with your son and took that away from Kirk. So now, he must, by court order not see his kids for TWO weeks straight. And I know Kirk has to work at least half the time when Nicholas is over for the weekend. I know Kirk never wanted to be a weekend dad, well that's what you have made him. He gets to see his son about 3-5 days a month and you think that's fair?
And, as a result, Nicholas is now going to end up being as screwed up as your daughter obviously is. The more I have heard about you, Lisa, the more I can understand Kirk. I really want to reveal my identity but I don't want to get my name slandered all over the internet, so I am restraining from doing so.
I know you accused him of stealing an $8,000 tax refund. What did the guy do with it? He paid the mortgage you were suppose to pay part of. He also paid his car payment and for a new transmission for an older car while you drove a BRAND new truck. And he made more money than you. As far as your comments about him needing to stop sponging off of his parents. I believe that was YOU more than anyone. According to his parents, they haven't had to lend him a dime since he has been remarried. And he admits he's not making as much money now with the bad economy and all. Now let's see, he divorces you, makes less money but doesn't have to borrow any more money. His new wife HATES to borrow money, she has something called class.
Then I just heard last week about that little tramp daughter of yours giving the middle finger to Kirk's parents while you were filing a false police report saying Kirk hit his son. Kirk wouldn't hit a grown man, much less than his own son.
Trust me Lisa, your name is mud in this family. I normally wouldn't waste my time to do something like this but the more I have heard about you and what you've done, I just couldn't resist. It's when we all go online and read the trash and the lies that you say that gets us going. You should be ashamed to call yourself a mother.