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  • Submitted: Thursday, August 06, 2009
  • Last Posting: Thursday, August 06, 2009
  • Reported By:Florida Florida
Lori Bauer
145 Mosswood Circle Winter Springs Florida 32708 U.S.A.

Lori Bauer Deadbeat mom, abandoned family when she wasn't feeling "fulfilled," refuses to work despite Army training Winter Springs Florida


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Lori Bauer, a.k.a. Lori Segers and possibly Lori Fay, is a deadbeat. She left her husband and two boys (3 and 3 months old) while in the Army to be with her new boyfriend, also in the Army. She used all her allotments in the Army for the new boyfriend and his 3 kids, making her ex and the boys homeless and destitute. She lied to the Army and continued to receive money to support spouse and kids. Her new boyfriend abused one of her kids during a visitation, yet she called her son a liar and refused to help him.

Divorce finally happened and she was assessed over $19,000 in arrears, IDO for her current employer, and received 2 days' visitation per week. She lied in court about dating the new boyfriend and said they were "just friends." The court did establish a no-contact order with the boyfriend due to the reported abuse. Shortly thereafter, she married him, even though they supposedly were not dating. He even filed to relocate his kids to FL right after her divorce. She then quit her job so she could study better, according to her. She then decided to get a stripper job and stated she would get caught up. Almost 4 months later, and she has not made a single payment. She said her father gives her money and her husband's parents support him. Note they are 38 and 30 years of age and still living off their parents, even though they both served in the military. She can afford to pay rent, car, and buy cigarettes, yet she will not give her sons their due child support. She says all her money is for her and when confronted, became hostile and asked if she were just supposed to live on the street.

Her husband has his 3 kids living with them in FL even though he told the courts in OH that they were not here, and that he was here only for school. He regularly travels back to OH for court hearings regarding his kids with his own ex. He told the OH court the girls were living with his parents in OH the whole time. She, the husband, and his 3 kids are all living in a one bedroom apartment and somehow eating fine, traveling, and going camping, and they maintain computer game accounts and Internet services.

CSE has not been helping at all and claims legal action is pending, yet nothing has actually happened. She is currently almost $4000 behind just in current arrears. She threatened she would take the kids in a few months. This deadbeat should be put away if she won't fulfill her responsibilities! The kids would be better off not having her poor example, because she regularly tells them the child support is why she has no money! Any help?

Paige
Florida, Florida
U.S.A.

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AUTHOR: Cory - San Antonio (U.S.A.)

Where do you fit into this picture? Does this loser expect his skanky ex-wife to support him? I don't know what you're being told but I suspect this guy is very good at playing the helpless victim, so I wouldn't believe a whole lot of what your boyfriend's telling you. Some of what you've written can't be true and other doesn't make any sense. The military takes a very dim view of servicemembers that don't support their families. They can get into very deep kimchee. Members are REQUIRED to take out allotments for their kids. Any possibility of child abuse by a service member would be investigated by the proper authorities. "She used all her allotments in the Army for her new boyfriend and his 3 kids". I doesn't work that way. Allotments aren't limited and don't run out, unless of course the person gets out of the military or gets divorced. She couldn't pull the allotments from her kids and husband and change them over to her new boyfriend and his kids. His kids would be getting money from the army already. From the sound of it she, her new husband and his kids are doing just fine.
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AUTHOR: Matt - Winter Springs (USA)

The important question is, where is she stripping???
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AUTHOR: jenimela@aol.com - Winter Springs (U.S.A.)

To respond, though you offered no help and basically called me a liar:

1) I am the fiancee of her ex.  He has full custody of the kids.  We have lived together and I have helped him to support the kids for more than 4 years now.  Before I met him, his mother was helping him.  He and I both work full time.  I love the kids to death and would adopt them if she would give the approval.

2) My fiance didn't "tell" me anything to make me think he is a victim.  I am writing from first hand knowledge based on what SHE stated to ME.

3) When she was in the army, she received her own paychecks.  She lived on base.  My fiance lived with the kids off base and stayed with them so she could do her army training.  He had been working in FL but she said she wanted him to move closer.  She then cheated on him with her boyfriend.  She moved out and in with her boyfriend and the boyfriend's kids.  Her allotments were given to her in her paychecks.  She sent none of it my fiance for their kids.  She used it for her own living and put it into her own bank account.  My fiance was told by her lieutenant at the time that she could be sanctioned, but he'd be better off moving back to FL with his family since she was refusing to support him.  Note that since I've never been in the army, I may not use the perfect phrasing, but I am not a liar. 

4) I'm not sure where you get off saying he is some loser who wants to live off her.  Before she joined the army, he was the one working and she stayed home with their son.  She told him he didn't make enough and had him quit decent jobs in the past. Since she left the army in 2007 (because she said, to me, that she made the choice to do so) she's been unemployed for more time than she's worked, and she voluntarily quit the one job she had.

Yes, I know I've chosen to be with him and to make a family.  Just so you know, we have no kids together because I want to make sure his are provided for the best we can.  I'm just angry and frustrated that their own parent is so unwilling to live up to her responsibilities, and this was an avenue to vent that and perhaps seek help.  I see you have no intention of helping, only to bash what you perceive as what "can't be true" and "not making sense."  No wonder so many deadbeats get away with it...it's always someone being greedy, or wanting to live off the ex, not someone who genuinely struggles to provide for kids when one half of the family decides not to contribute.  Such is life, I guess... 


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