TRINA LOUISE ESCARTIN DEAD BEAT MOTHER - GREEDY & SELF-ABSORBED screwed others too slime-ball dead Beat inconsiderate Mom Burbank California

Who are you? You don't sound like one of the kids or one of the ex's. Are you someone who asked her out because you thought she was "easy" but got rejected? What business is it of yours if you aren't directly affected? Why so judgemental and bitter about this woman? Just wondering...

It is plain to see where Ms. Trina has learned how to milk the system because she has had good training. The training she has come from her mother, Joyce. Joyce has taught Trina all her lessons in life and now Joyce has the nerve to belittle her own daugther. Joyce, the apple does not fall from the tree. You are just a bitter old woman because your beauty and your charm has withered away and all the attention has turned toward your beautiful daugther. These hateful words you have spurned on your own daugther are only stinging the ones who might read this, your grandsons, of whom who write about. Have a heart or at least buy one, like you used to buy for your grandsons. You lash out like a viper toward your own daughter when your own elderly parents are being abused by your drug-addict brother. Shame on you for not taking care of your own mother and father who live in a rat infested home, while he steals all their money. Joyce, look in the mirror once in a while. Besides, aren't you the one who left the family, married over three times and has two children by two different men? Amazing isn't it?

Dear Mr. "HUTNIK".

If you think that this type of internet berating is going to hurt me, you are sadly mistaken.

What a coward you are for not even spelling your name correctly. The only reason I don't divulge names in my rebuttal is that I would never hurt my kids.

I see you never shed that selfish gene of yours.

You have no idea who I have become since I divorced your sorry self 18 years ago.

My life without you has become progressively better without you in it!

Remember, it wasn't me who married your lovers friend, nor was it me who was fired from the Barn Furniture for stealing through the back door, nor was I the cheater a few months into YOUR THIRD MARRIAGE!

I'm not sure why you would want to hurt me by displaying such lies about me.

You are, and always be the biggest joke of my life. The only good things that came out of that relationship are my two beautiful and intelligent sons.

The only reason I can think you would write such crap is the fact that I held you ACCOUNTABLE for the YEARS of CHILD SUPPORT you tried to DENY your kids after you started to pro-create with the little elf you married in 1990.

You seem to be the only person I know who holds such remorse for me, but that's okay. You will someday get yours in the form of KARMA!!!

You can't screw people all your life and expect good things to come out of it. For those who know me, they know me only as a kind, considerate friend and hard worker. Can you say that about yourself? I don't think so.

For someone who is a job-gypsy, you live the life of Riely...you spend more than you make and if it werent for your mother-in-law there to help with the mortgage, you couldn't do it.

Your new wife and kids will eventually suck you dry....but if I recall, you recently told an acquaintance that it's "Cheaper to keep her".

As for me, I am the happy one here, and this type of crap can be contradicted simply by the people who know me.

You were always jealous of Mr. Solozorano (note: not the correct spelling as he is still my friend) and to pass judgement on something you nothing about just proves how ignorant you are.

As for the BMW I "Bought from an ex-boyfriend", he was my THEN-boyfriend and he practically gave me that car...it was a bargain I couldn't pass up and it finally gave out on me so I bought a fuel-efficient american car!

Your allegations of my children being a victim are insanely false, as all three of them are happily living with me and my future husband. NOT WITH YOU!

And another thing j@ck @ss, Seattle is in Washington, not Oregon. Oh, I forgot...you dropped out of school in the 11th grade and never went to college!

I came across this post about a year ago. To be very blunt, it pissed me off and made me want to puke! I wanted to respond, at that time, but decided to leave it alone. I've since had some time to think about it and have a few comments regarding Trina that should be a part of the posting. She deserves that much.

I would love to jump on the band wagon here and dog her a little bit, as her mother did, but just can't. You see I had a very brief moment with Trina some years back, and in the time (far too little) we spent together, I saw none of the things mentioned in this posting.

If anyone would be pissed and want some "get back", I suppose I could claim a little of that. But that would be total horse s*** and down right mean. We had dated exclusively for about 6 months. She was an awesome gal. Beautiful and open with her feelings. Not once did she give me the impression she was a user and only out for a buck. Not once! In fact, she was quite the opposite. She was a very giving person and offered 100 percent to our relationship. I was the one that was an a**. I ignored her feelings and allowed my ego to ruin what could have been a great relationship. I thought handling her at arms length was the way to insure our relationship. To be very honest, she dumped my sorry butt and I deserved it!

Now for some of these claims. If memory serves, mommy dearest is the one who started this crap here. Now Trina, if you are reading this; I have no idea what could have happend between you and your mom, but if this is how she treats her own daughter, I feel for you. Some things need not be entered on the internet for all to see. In my opinion, this was slanderous and a real crappy way for a mother to treat a daughter. Joyce, you ought to be ashamed of yourself. When I first met you I thought you were a nice lady. After our dealings when Trina broke up with me, I have to say you are a little twisted and remind me of one of those mothers who get into everyones business, invited or not. Your a real treat. Not!

In regards to her ex husband, I wasn't a part of that mess and won't comment on what I don't know. She never spoke about him to me in a way that would make me think the guy was a jerk. I gathered it was more of just two people going their seperate ways.

Trina, I read here you were getting married? Congrats darlin, I mean that! I'm sure he's a great guy and you truly deserve someone great.

I was glad to see a few of folks responding to this in the positive, you have some nice friends.

Always wish the best for you!

B

While speaking to Trina recently she reminded me that this flaming rant by her ex-husband is now part of her internet DNA. If you found this post about TRINA LOUISE ESCARTIN via "googling" or otherwise, STOP and do not pass judgement. Do something good to help keep the positive energy flowing for our friend!

My family and I have known TRINA LOUISE ESCARTIN and her three wonderful sons for several years. As the previous consumer stated, I agree that she is none of the horrible things her ex-husband portrays her to be. We've met him and trust me; he's no trophy, a narcissistic and illiterate A-Hole is a kind understatement. I can only attribute his BS RANT to the fact Trina held him liable of his obligation to financially support his 2 wonderful children, Alex and Andrew.

The fact that she did not receive one dime of financial support for her youngest son Peter, and even flew to Augusta, GA in a stealth operation to retrieve him from a bad situation only screams strength and chutzpah! Trina is a kind and loving mother and has raised her children in the most challenging circumstance by far; as a SINGLE mother! To know this amazingly courageous woman and her children is an honor. Those three boys love their mom and it SHOWS!

As far as Mr. Solorozano, not one of her best decisions, but a very short-lived union, and frankly, it's no ones business but hers! She refers to it as her “induction into life decision”. The rest of the family drama that her ex and someone else (probably his troll wife) write about, is highly unlikely as well. She speaks of the love for her family in volumes, and they are as normal and/or dysfunctional as any other family.

Perhaps there have been boyfriends, but after meeting this woman, you realize that she is a homegrown American beauty who is as kind-hearted as she is attractive. We have spent many hours together discussing the philosophy of morals and values, qualities that Trina holds close to her core as she leans heavily on her spirituality, to overcome adversity in a seemingly non-chalant fashion. An artistically accomplished, intelligent, and true spirited individual who gives back to others and her community in many forms. Trina is great listener who holds true compassion for her closest friends and family.

Having worked with Trina, she is a hard-working and dedicated employee. I have witnessed her achieve her goals and climb ladders with horizontal rungs as she is not easily sidelined. Her professional commitment and quality of work she delivers is outstanding. More people should possess these qualities!

Note to Trina, you once discouraged me from writing a response to your ex-husband's original post, but honestly my friend, his flaming banter of lies and complete defamation will be dubiously attached to your internet DNA for all eternity. Forgive me if this seems invasive; never compromise your standards because your beautiful name has been flamed for the world to see! Continue to be strong and move forward to accomplish your goals. When you called today to share your newest hopes and fears on your journey of that thing you refer to as LIFE (your words), I knew I had to post to this thread this immediately. Anyone who reads this will come to their own conclusion, and if they pass negative judgement, it's their loss.

Note to Eric: Shame on you for creating this defaming post. Perhaps you shouold look in the mirror and realize your shortcomings. No one is perfect but this type of flaming was unecessary.

One of Trina's quotes on her Facebook page is “Defamation is Bad Karma”, I think she has a point.

God Bless and we love you.
AMH

Dear Friends, Family and Colleagues,

Welcome to this awful site that allows lies to be posted...you have probably just read the nastiest things ever said about me, in addition to being posted on the internet!

It has taken me several years to finally post what I want to say but here goes:

Most of you already know what a jack @ss my ex-husband Eric is...no doubt about it.  Whether you knew us when we were married or post divorce, he has remained the same heartless and cold individual. Eric (or someone very close to him) has defamed me through this nasty post and to this day will be nice to my face and turn around and continue the only behavior he knows and direct it towards me. 

Sadly, I feel I'm regressing back to a teenager trying to defend my honor. Only this time it affects me for the rest of my life.  Those of you who are my friend, co-worker, or other acquaintance know me on many different levels.  I am an independent, hardworking person who adores my children, loves life and is a loyal employee dedicated to her career.  The root of Eric's defamatory post is based on his accountability to pay child support and evade is financial obligations outright.  Fortunately, I had a great legal representative who ensured that he would not slip through the LA District Atty. office unnoticed.  There you have it!  The honest to goodness truth! 

All of the other nonsense about me, my mom, and my personal life is false and misrepresents me and my mother.  While the defaming post IS about money, I have never "Sucked anyone dry"....actually thats quite funny if you think about it. But this just goes to show you the level of incompetence on the other side.  I was simly trying to make sure that my kids never went without, and they NEVER DID!  If you know me well, you know what I'm talking about.

I am, and always have been a straightforward and honest person who lives a good clean life.  I have no malicious agenda and I'm certainly not looking for "my next victim".  My kids are not traumatized in any form and I have been both Mother AND father to my boys.

Any adversity in my life has been confronted head on, and I seem to always prevail.  Not to say that my life has been a bed of roses; just like everyone else, I've had my share of pain and from that I have gained the wisdom to take me to the left phase of life. I have had my share of poor choices and have suffered the consequences, but these experiences have made me a stronger individual, and for that I am grateful.

There was a time when I was VERY ASHAMED about this post.  However, I've realized that it simply doesnt matter anymore... If you are a potential employer, go ahead and call me, do my background check, you will find that I am just like everyone else. If you are anyone else, feel free to tell me you saw this post and I'm happy to talk about it.

I'm a law abiding citizen who respects others and gives back in the form of whatever is needed at that time.  I am a good person that posesses strength and values.

To the couple of people who have replied in my defense, thank you! Even you RF, I never expected that to come from you!  And AMH, I love you honey...thank you for being an angel from a distance! 

TRINA LOUISE BENAVIDEZ-ESCARTIN

12/12/09

Trina,
there is no reason that you should be surprised that I would have anything other than great things to say about you.  You were (and still are I'm sure) a beautiful lady with a big heart.  Any anger I felt over what had happened was my own damn fault, not yours.  You did what you had to do and I was deserving of your decision to end things.  Can't fault someone for wanting more.  Bottom line, I didn't trust you and that was my hang-up.  I paid the price and you did what you needed to do.

I was pretty pissed when I read the original posting.  If it was in fact not your mom who posted that crap, then I apologize to her and to you.  Maybe I slammed her a little hard,  I dunno.  But, sounds like your doing well and your happy and that's awesome.  I mean that.

Take care of yourself.


RF