I have 4 children who reside in Collin County as do myself. The courts strong arm child support parents for money they simply dont have. The managing conservator (even with joint custody) seems to get hard core representation from the AG's office even though they say they dont represent either party. Right! My Ex and I had finally agreed on the $5800 payments made to her by check and prove up was successful. The AG's office suggested to my Ex that she not agree to that at the time. We argued for 2 years over that and we finally agreed and then it was quased by the AG?
My Ex is a very unhealthy person to live with, depression, Bi-Polar, alcoholism (Treated), low self esteem, trashy, terrible home keeper, just nasty to live with. I have not been able to get the courts to see how my son at least needs to be living with me. He is missing some male presence and is growing up angry and is in lots of trouble. NO ONE will listen. Everybody's concerned with what I dont pay and not really the welfare of the children. Money will not fix or replace the fathers or the mothers in these situations. What a child needs most is their parents. At least they could order counceling for the children and parents. Something of benefit. (They dont need $100 pair of flashy tennis shoes!)
Too easy to get married in Texas and way too easy to get divorced. Its all about money..the demize of respect and honesty.
Judges come from attorneys, DA's come from attorneys, Judges are partial to attorneys so we have no chance of penetrating the good ole boy deal. Can you imagine what a child must think if the court places the parent in jail for not paying child support because they cant! Yet never missed a pick up or an event or has lots of contact with the child including lunch with all nearly twice a week? I am an active parent/Dad. My kids will never say "My dad never said I love you" or "I never saw my dad much".
If the system was working wouldnt we see a sigificant decrease in children and their adaptation to life and living in society. Tatoos, piercings, guns, violence. What part do these people not get? I really dont think the State should be in a position to tell anyone what to do with the Ex wifes/husbands and their children. I wonder how many couples would stay married if they knew that. When its quitin time you have a whole responsibility to consider. Even mental illness should not be an excuse..(For better or worse)Women cant raise children by themselves and men cant either...no brainer guys. Love and commitment to the family and the children is the answer.
The State would save Billions of dollars and reduce their payroll if they would stop trying to mind the world. Its out of control.
I cannot even get CPS to go have a look see. Im so afraid they will take the children that I dont want to bother. The kids (at least the boy) should be living with me...How can I get a CPS investigation anonymously....OMG I am so afraid of the fiasco. Anybody know?
The "Original Report" says it all. The children are really not the focus..its all smoke and mirrors.
PlanoDad, kalien54@tx.rr.com