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WIllima k pollard,

I met bill on a christian website called christiancafe.com. Bill and i dated for about 9 months. He plays a great song and dance. Plays all the right tunes (tells you everything you like to hear) and dances (puts on a great show)to the things you like. what bill doesnt tell you is that he is a perfectionist. Much like he job he attacks every project with perfection. Which is good in a work place but when you treat your girlfriend the way you treat a project at work things are bound to hit the fan. His family talks about how "picky" he is about women. no bill takes perfectly fine women and treats them like a project at work and makes you fit into this little box of perfection. and if you have your own way about doing things... well learn to do them alll bills way. If you have an opinion about something plan on being wrong...

I have two little children that attached themselves to bill. My son 3yrs ask me if he could call him dad. and my daughter said dada to him before she even knew how to say mama and i never pushed either of them to say that. Knowing how important my kids are to me i told him from to start to not lead me on. and he did. he bottled up slight issues with me and then blew up on me when he had a near death experience. I only tried to be there for him and what hurts the most is not only did i trust him with me but more importantly with my kids.

No one is perfect and if you are looking to date bill just know that he is a great leader but you have to be so perfect and by perfect i mean to his "standards". it is impossable. Us women have feelings and when you are being told that you are doing everything wrong down to putting something in a dishwasher .. it gets to you but if you tell him that he will say you are having a "pitty party"

He lies on his profile on the website. and dont be fool by his charm.. its easy to do. Bill has taken something from me that will take soo long to get back. Trust. I am a trusting person by nature but bill really took my heart and my little boys heart chewed it up. Do not let bill use you like he did to us. We were the closest things to family he will ever see and he blew it. maybe that is why he is 37 and still alone. Think about it girls......

First of all Bill turned 37 this past August which means when you two were he was 36.

What exactly is a 22 year old doing dating a 36 year old? Age is just a number but it doesn't always work out.
So he drank and smoked? Who are you to point your finger at him let alone anyone else? You are a single mother of 2 or 3 kids AND you are 22 years old. What does that say about you? A lot of people could be calling you a skank or a hoe..I don't know you and I can't say anything. Point is..check yourself first before you start pointing fingers.

How exactly did he LEAD you to believe he was a certain way? Maybe it was YOU hoping and wishing he was what YOU wanted him to be?
No one made you drink or smoke or stay overnight with him..that was YOUR choice.You could have said no..but didn't. Man up to your own decisions!

As far as his blood clot goes, God does things or allows things to happen to HIS children in order to get their attention, and it's not always easy or pretty when He does. It was a wake up call him and God's way of speaking directly to him.
He broke up with you because the relationship was not good. Would you have rather stayed in a relationship that wasn't going to work? or not of God?

He may be controling about certain things but as far as knowing what a person is looking for in their life long partner....I call that just knowing exactly what he is looking for. You weren't it!

You are young..have a lot of life to live..everything happenes for a reason. A reason you may not understand right now and you will know one day, I promise. Enjoy life..get yourself together and more stable as a single mother who has kids.
FYI..you should write stuff like this about other people especially out of anger. I hope this 'kindness' that you have shown to Bill is returned to you.

Your ignorance is comical. I was married when I had my kids that would exclude me from the “skank or hoe” category. I don’t know who you are but I guarantee that bills lifelong partner will be his Aveeno bottle. I was better than Bill I was just bored and wanted someone different to hang out with. He was such a sucker to have spent money on horses for us. I roped him into spending so much money. Some man he is… anyhow good luck with whatever you do in life just don’t bottom feed in life with Bill. Waste of time.

Glad I can be some comic relief for you but I don't think you can call it ignorance when I know a lot about Bill and your relationship with him. Actually have known him since I was little. No one is better than another person, we all have our own strengths and weaknesses. Pretty cocky and rude to think you are all that. I wonder why YOU are separated from your man or are you legally divorced now?  If you are not legally separated from your spouse and you sleep with another man, isn't that considered adultery?  You could have gotten married because you got knocked up..anything is possible..that's all I'm saying. No need to get all defensive okay.

I doubt his Aveeno bottle will be his life long partner and I'm sorry you think that.  God has a way of bringing two people together. He has everyone'e life planned out before he even created them and has their lifelong partners picked before the person even knows.

You should have been greatfull that he bought the horses...I am sure he did it because he liked you. Sides, wouldn't you buy your significant other something just because you liked them?  So, you roped him in to spending so much money...that makes you a user or a better term might be gold digger?  Are one of those little girls who likes to play around with guys etc. because you haven't accepted who you are as an individual and need to get attention etc. to fill a void in your life?

No one is a waste of time...you may not be able to get through to a person right away...sometimes you have to come at the situation from a different angle or sometimes you just have to step away and let God handle it. Imagine if God said you were a waste of time or me even. Why are you still angry about Bill? He's engaged and very happy just so you know. 

Dear bottom feeder,

Bill does not have any honor so stop trying to defend something he doesn’t have. Second I find it funny that you say you know so much about our relationship but yet you don’t know how many kids I have or when I had them in life. You claim that you are his friend but you don’t know when his birthday is…? Anyway l am sick of hearing from you. I have better things to do in life. Bill is a settler in life and I am not. He is old and not very fun at all. He must be pretty desperate to be engaged with someone after only breaking up with me four months ago. It is so like him though, sad and lonely, he probably settled for this chick too. Good for him bad for her. He is a liar and a fake. Funny he posts that he went to Bob Jones University but what he doesn’t mention is that he is a drop out first semester. He said on Christiancafe.com that he was a “social” drinker not a fifth a night, doesn’t smoke but he smoked a pack a night and then hid it from his family. I doubt that he is engaged, unless she is a settler too. I can have someone way better them him. He is a heartless asshole who has no regard for anyone else. No wonder he “settled” for a bitch of a wife. He has no sense of style and looks like a cancer patient with his head bald… gross. Bill tried so hard to play this fake person, no wonder God struck him down. One last thing, Bill is kind of upset that once again his name is plastered on the internet and as a “friend” you are contributing!! Go figure. I’m sure he appreciates it.

I didn't know you are an intern at Calvary Church in Grand Rapids...I have visited there several times actually. INTERESTING :)
You have two kids..your oldest is a boy and you have a girl.
I forgot...Bill's bday is in July...just remembered cause he got engaged the day before.
If you have better things to do than why did you bother to respond to this?
Yes, Bill wants to settle down with someone and there is nothing wrong with that. At least he isn't married still and using women when he is bored with his significant other like YOU. What is the point of being married if you aren't going to be faithful to your husband?Why would you want to have the rep for being unfaithful and a cheater?You should have divorced your husband before you decided to hook up with and date Bill...let alone any other guy. (you probably should have been honest about that with him before your relationship began.)
No one told you to respond to anything I have posted..that was your choice to 'hear' from me again.
I can't imagine that the things you consider fun are the same as his...especially since there is a big age gap between the two of you.
Why would anyone want to continue their education when they have no idea what they want to get their degree in? Did you even graduate from Liberty University in Virginia? Oh wait, no you didn't but I do know that you are going to school full time and I believe you are majoring in Religion. 
If you didn't like that he drank or smoked..why did you stay with him for as long as you did? You could have left him whenever you wanted. Guess you lowered your standards to date Bill?NEVER lower your standards for someone...allow someone to accept you for who you really are. Once again, if you had a problem with the way he dresses, the polite and nice thing to have done is either help him out by making polite suggestions or even just accepting the way he dresses.  No one is perfect,k. I didn't know that a grown 37 year old man had to tell his parents everything about himself even when he doesn't live under their roof like smoking,drinking etc SMH
Most cancer patients lose their hair or shave it off so they don't have to watch their hair fall out and that doesn't describe Bill in any way shape or form. If he grows his hair out...it's curly and has to put product in it. His hair has always been like that and was even the same way when I was a little kid.
Are you referring to his fiance or ex wife as the bitch? Such language by the way..coming from a person who represents quite a big local church like Calvary. (And you're majoring in Religion LOL...let me know if you find the words bitch or asshole in any of your religion textbooks.)
God didn't strike him down by the way...Bill is very much alive and breathing. LOL God just used something to get his attention and He will continue to do so for as long as He needs to keep him in check.Same for me and same for you.
So um..how do you know Bill is upset that his name is being 'plastered' once again?I haven't made a report about him on here like you..trying to slander his name or reputation.  And, I don't think you even have any contact with him at all to be honest.Sides, after you sent him that message on facebook (that he didn't respond to) he just deleted it all together. Oh, and I was also told that if he wanted to take you back that you would get back with him in a heart beat which means all of this stuff you have written about him truly is false. (crazy how news travels,huh?)
The only reason why I have even responded to any of this crap you have posted is because it is really horrid you and I stand up for my friends,anyone that I am connected with,and my own family of course .
The bible says do unto others as you would have them do unto you and I know you wouldn't want someone writing stupid immature bullcrap about you on here. All of what you wrote was written out of anger because some guy dumped you! People get dumped every single day of the year for the same reasons you were dumped and others too. You say he is fake, a liar,an asshole,not fun, looks like a cancer patient etc. I am sorry you think that and sorry you got dumped but everything happens for a reason. God had our lives planned out before he even created us etc. and you two weren't meant to be together. Have you asked yourself and or God what you are/were supposed to learn from your relationship with Bill? Do you know why God even brought Bill in to your life? Stop being so angry..get over it already! Check yourself before you wreck yourself.SERIOUSLY. It takes two in any kind of relationship and maybe you need to ask yourself what you think you did wrong and or how you contributed negatively so you don't do it again. Any of the wrong doings and sin that Bill has committed God will deal with him about it at judgement day...you can't. Misery loves company and I know it probably really hurt you and was very all of a sudden but that doesn't mean you need to try and slander and ruin someone's name and or life. You just make yourself look like a fool and you will regret doing this one down the road when you look back on when you first wrote this posting.