A couple of points of fact I can clear up.
#1 Cheryl did in fact on more than one occasion told me she regretted haveing Cassandra. Now I wonder if she is also sorry about the two children we had together?
#2 Cheryl has a huge temper problem, not only out of control verbally- yes I am guilty too- but also a physicall control problem when angry.( yep me too)
#3Cheryl is a ripoff.she promises and then does not deliver, thats a ripoff. (Wifely duties)
#4 Cheryl has accused me of threatning her. Not true. Out of the blue I was contacted by the police, questioned, and was told to have a nice day. Of course Cheryl did not stop there she filed a request thru the court for action. The court would not even consider it. I was accussed of this during the divorce as a strategy to reduce my visitation time and increase her child support. ( supported by police report and court documents)
#5 Maybe Cheryl scams the public in that she quit her job. (perhaps not because it took away from her study time ,,, but MAYBE it was because she wanted to devote more time for a relationship.) So much for standing on your own two feet.
#6 Cheryl does have some good qualitys, but she has used the " poor me" ploy many times while we married. In regard to her first marriage, her job, the way her mom ignored her while married to me,.... For all her good qualities she ( yep like me) is FAR from the angel depicted by her supporters.
#7 Quote
TIFFANY - DURAND
"Let me tell you that asking for help while she is trying to better herself is not shameful. She does recieve help because she is not too proud to ask for it to be able to care for her family. She is a single mother going to school and works very hard to better herself and her families life."
I call BS on that response, Cheryl is single by choice, Cheryl knew what her income would be when she filed and moved out- she is in trouble because she overextended herself financially- sooo many people in this state need help but ussually do not bring it on themselves. Cheryl bought a mobile home that comes with lot rent. There are other cheaper ways to live.
Cheryl quit her job- uhhh how many people work and go to school at the same time. While married to Cheryl I worked TWO JOBS and went to school , at night AND weekends. Yeah yeah its tough to go to school and work- so what- Cheryl could earn up to 11,000.00 a year and it would not effect her child support. She CHOSE this life.
Cheryl made a promise to her first husband, perhaps she broke it for behavior and habits he had when she married him. Thats a ripoff. Cheryl made a promise to me when she married me and then AFTER i changed the same habits and behaviors I had when I married her divorced me as well. Thats a ripoff. Some may say- hey the trust was broken- oh OK fine, but people work thru issues all the time.Fact Cheryl ran away from our problems,perhaps she ran away from the problems with the first husband , and perhaps she probably ran away from the issues she had with Steve. Who is next on this ever growing list?!!
I do acknowledge that Cheryl had her reasons to , not trust me, and eventually divorce me.
I did get two beautifull kids from her anyway, and have many great memories of our life together.
I have stuck to responding to issues allready brought up but would not be suprised
if posts will now come in attacking me and all the horrible stuff I have done while married.
And as for the comments from people who do not identify themselves- you are cowards.
Steve as hard as it may be try to forget about her, at least you are not tied to her thru children.
have a nice day
Ex number two dave
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