What do you do for a living that allows you to follow this soap opera every day? Let me guess, you are a successful businessman. I'm still amused that there are two people in the world that have these atrocious writing skills. I caught Joella's comment and she's right. How the heck do you make a comment telling us that your "grammer is fine?" That's like selling cars for a living and misspell 'Kars'.
I don't care about spelling and grammar but it's just much of a coincidence. Ms. Markowicz could never spell for two reasons 1.) She lacks intelligence and 2.) the keyboard can't keep up with her mouth. The words 'grammar' and 'incredibly' are attributed to #1 while the word 'sund(sound)' are attributed to #2. And just how successful can you be when you can't even remember how to spell someone's name after being told about 8 times now. LOL. I mean you have to spell it correctly to do the name search that you do every day. So how could you not spell it correctly? In the business world, once you've misspelled someones' name, say, about 3 times then you're not getting the deal. And if it's not that, then it's just a sad attempt to throw us off, like giving us all your area code. LOL.
And for your information, I am a semi-successful businessman. Now how the hell you would know whether I was or wasn't is puzzling. Actually it's not that puzzling at all. Because the only person I know that would say something so stupid would be my ex-wife. When I hear a woman tell the whole world how 'cheap' I am and how my family supports me, then I know that James Webb is Lisa Markowicz's twin. There's nothing cheap about me and if I am 'unsuccessful' then she must be the covergirl for LOSER Magazine. I mean we're dealing with a 45 year old woman that has NEVER lived on her own until the past two years and she has been in five houses in two years. And I'm quite sure it's not because she didn't LIKE the accomodations. It's easy to call others 'cheap' when you've had everyone else cover your bills for you your whole life. Again, 45 year old woman, never leaves home, two kids, two daddys, no ring on her finger, two abortions, bankruptcy. And you call THAT success. And I attempted to take that on, so how am I the one that lack the title of success?
Furthermore, as far as my 'fathering' skills. How the hell would you know? I'm not perfect but I know I could be a lot worse. If I were to compare MY son to HER daughter it might give you a better sense of just WHO is missing which chromosomes. If I could have had MY son with my current wife, I'm quite confident the results would have been even more successful. As far as me being an idiot for having gotten married to wife #1, guilty as charged. But those of us, that can admit our mistakes and our shortcomings are the ones that can grow, improve, and become better people. So I figure, that I have LOTS of growing room.
For some reason, you just assume that I have attacked 'Alexandra'. I could sit here until I'm blue in the face defending myself on that one. I don't care. And you know what, it could all be a big lie, who knows. It sounds like a lot of trouble to go through but anything is possible. I can't say it suprised me. You have a spoiled girl, with no work or moral ethic being taught to her. Chances are, she might have some problems growing up.
I blew my whistle and sang like a canary in a few reports on this website but with me it was out of principal. Lisa Markowicz played dirty from DAY one and it was all at my expense. And, as far as I'm concerned, my son's expense. There isn't a whole lot that anyone could say or do at this point that could possibly embarrass or upset me more than what I have already experienced at some point along the way upon dealing with this woman.
The bottom line, we weren't right for each other, we had a wonderful son together and I thought we were BOTH pretty decent parents, with good intentions but we just didn't get each other. I walked into an attorney's office, I said just that and explained that I wanted it handled with 'respect' and 'dignity'. She decided to take another route and I don't think I deserved that. And what cracks me up about the whole thing is that she STILL uses this guy. She never hired the guy because he was a GOOD attorney or a CHEAP attorney or a NICE guy. She hired him because he was evil. I mean the guy called and threatend my 70 and 75 year old parents. And she thinks it's funny. Good job, John Temrowski.
So you can think what you want about me Mr. Webb but the fact remains, you don't know anything about me. I USED to be a nice guy, Mr. Webb. The reality is, being a 'jerk' is a learned behavior. And I've been in class for over two years now. Fortunately for me, I have a good woman at home that has been trying to 'teach' me to be a nice guy again. We both know it's there, it's just a matter of getting it to surface again.
When you KNOW that a boy is SUPPOSED to spend the day and have dinner with his father, step-mother, grandparents, and step-siblings and you PURPOSELY set up a ruckus, use obscene gestures, set up phony witnesses, make a false police report, call child protective services,and tell the boy that he is going to ANOTHER party with all kinds of fun and pretty girls what exactly do you think is going to happen? I mean seriously? I can deal with Alexandra and her mother. And quite frankly, nothing surprises me with either one of them. But why would you do that to your own son and brother? Yeah, poor little guy was mad at his father for over three weeks. He didn't see his father for three weeks. I spent another $3000 in a court room to demand her to let me see my son. So her plan worked. It usually does. I can say what I do but she can be a bright woman when it comes to tricks and games. She got me good but she also got her own son pretty good too.
You have a woman that raised one child on bitter feelings and resentment of her father, masterly planned. Now she's working on child number two. And she's probably doing an even better job this time around. I think since she's older and probably won't have any more children that she's decided to go out with a 'bang' this time.
So you really don't have a clue of what you are talking about Mr. Webb. Once you kick a man when he's down or put him into a desperate position, you might not like what you get thrown back at you.
My son is #1 to me. But when you get put into a position where you just can't win then you just let the bird free and hope it comes back. I signed up to be a father, not a punitive sentence to an innocent 11 year old boy. I used to enjoy being a father and took a lot of pride in it as well.
But if I have to choose between a woman at home right now that loves me unconditionally or an innocent little boy that is made to be MISERABLE half of his life and only part of which I have any control over, WHAT WOULD YOU DO????????Mr.Webb
I'm all ears.