I visited this Cemetery at least once a Month for the last 30 years. because my Mother & my Maternal Family are interred there. On Oct. 2003, at my Aunts Funeral, my Mother's Stone was missing, we eventually found it behind a tree, but the entire scene was unbelievable & would take many pages to describe. I went back 6 times in two weeks to make sure what I was seeing was real. I contacted Financial Services & after several calls back & forth Mr. Wheaton informed me this is an Exempt Cemetery & there is not much he can do, but after my calling again & again, he did me a favor and sent an inept Investigator to do a Probe & that told me I was right. That too is a long story. I contacted a Law Firm that signed me up right away & we kept close contact. Then I received a letter that they are putting my case away until I go thru a Disinterment. A horrible ordeal but I hired a PI to put it together for me & finally after this Cemetery put it off three times, the stress was unbearable, we had the Disinterment & what was found was more unbearable not only for me but for the PI. The pictures showed me it was absolutely not my Mother, just by the teeth, which were a Man's & other reasons. The Nuclear DNA wouldn't take, too much contamination, etc. So I had to go thru Mitochondrial DNA at great cost, also Contaminated with two unknowns & a small strain of mine, which the Lab said could have come from a Maternal Relative in the close area such as my Grandmother or my Aunt that was newly buried. The Lawyers closed my case because they said The State wouldn't work with them, so they said. I started calling Lawyers & the ones that would attempt to try a Cemetery case, wouldn't, after they also found it was an Exempt Cemetery. So I decided to take this situation in my own hands &made a study of Caskets, Cement Liners, Gravity, Implotions, etc. and started reading about what has been happening in Corrupt Cemeteries such as this, absolutely shocking & the scandal of SCI here in Florida & that hit me very hard, because I believe my Mothers Remains are no longer in this Cemetery. Where are the Ethics of these money grubbing people? They fill up these Cemeteries & then either Stack or remove Loved Ones. I got back to The State & bugged Diana Evans who is one of The Heads of Funeral & Cemeteries at Financial Services & she has been trying to give me some help in a limited way. The last Lawyer always told me to reach The Rabbinical Society of Greater Miami, which I did & when I told him what was going on, he didn't sound a bit surprised & just said he will speak to The Pres. of the Board..after a few days, he called me & told me to call Mr. Stauber, Pres. immediately, which I did. He was very appologetic & we talked & I asked him why he stood over the Disinterment when he knew this was not my Mother's Grave, he didn't answer & then he asked me what would make me happy & I replied "Finding my Mother's Remains" what he said, I didn't want to hear, but he said "That's impossible" he would have to dig up the entire lot. Again, he said what else would make me happy, couldn't even get the words "I don't know" out of my mouth. Then in his words "What should I bring to the table at the Board meeting." In a few days he called me back & said it rained the night before & they couldn't have a meeting. A month passed & I didn't hear from him, so I called him, he starting dragging his feet about a meeting so I told him as The Pres. he can call an emergency meeting. he said OK..didn't hear from him again & now I'm really upset & absolutely don't trust him or his Board, especially the one that was nasty to my PI & I when we called him to reason, just so not to go thru with the Disinterment. So now I'm raging & really don't know what to do. I purchased a phone tape recorder & called him & taped it all as he said the same as he did before & again "What should he bring to the table" I asked him, "If this was your Mother, what would you want?" He called me back the next evening & said they had their meeting, which I know was not so, but he said The Board said they were not LIBEL! He did sound almost tearful. Whether I did right or wrong, I'm more relieved that I taped these two conversations. And I was able to release some of my anger onto him. If Governor Bush's Office & State Attorney's Office couldn't or wouldn't help me, then who can I turn to. I don't know if they all think I woke up one morning & decided to bring this horrible grief & financial problems upon myself. The only thing this State says to me "Change The Laws" I can give you all the names of who I called from this State, that I voted for, that wouldn't help me, not even for the sake of other Families that may one day be in my position. As it turns out, just last week there was a story about a Ft. Lauderdale Cemetery & the story mirrored my situation to a tee. These so called Orthodox Cemeteries are over selling spaces & need room. A few weeks ago a Lawyer came to my mind, I was on his jury many years ago. We set an appointment to meet, we did & he had an Analyst with him & looked at everything I brought, he didn't handle these kinds of cases but he knows who does, the next day this Lawyer called me & gave me the name of this other Lawyer, I was dumbfounded, it was the Lawyer who signed my dismissal letter from the first Law Firm, before I could get to call, he called me, he said he didn't sign thatletter, they just used his name??? He is the Lawyer that supposidly broke the case at Menorah Gardens, SCI & my first Lawyers that he was with represented the Families. In 2003, when the State couldn't help me, I got off the phone & the NEWS was on & a man mentioned a Cemetery, I started watching it & heard what was going on, couldn't believe it, had no clue that these things happen, jotted down that Lawyers name & that how I found that Law Firm. So I've come full circle & now I'm waiting again to see if this Lawyer will help me. I should know by next week. I'm writing all this with the hopes that other families are not devistated as mine are. And the only advice I can give so far is if you see something at these Cemeteries that doesn't seem right, it is not your imagination, it's so! And the more Consumers stand up for their beliefs & Ethics, the sooner these Rip-Off Artist, Religious or not, get caught, the sooner these sickening problems will end. Forgot to mention, when I told The Head Rabbi that The Board said they had no Liability, he called the Pres. & called me back & said this will be the last call. They probably told him to mind his own business. I love Animals, so I can't call them that, they are beyond words, behind a cloak of Religion. Thank you for hearing me out & hope you are spunky enough to print this on your site, seems this CATAGORY is taboo with most People as I found. The entire story if told is so unbelievable & I have enough right now for a book of at least 25 Chapters & everyone around me is urging me to do so..which maybe so if I don't drop dead from a heart attack. Sincerely! S
Will keep you posted!
Sondra
Aventura, Florida
U.S.A.
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