moore funeral home eastlawn sheldon sparks rude to greiving wife and mother tulsa, Oklahoma

I contacted moore funeral home for my daughter-in-law as she asked me to help with making the arrangments for my son. Sheldon sparks was going to help us with the arrangments. My ex husband arrived before we did. Sheldon took it upon himself to start without us (wife and mother).

When we arrived sheldon sent on with my ex as if we werent there. If we tried to say anything he would ask my ex about it. When asking about my sons family he directed the questions to my ex instead of the wife. He even gave my sons personal belongings to my ex, not the wife.

After the funeral they wouldnt give the ouest book or anything else regarding the funeral to the wife without getting my ex's permission. My sons wife was not even allowed to have the death certificate. Sheldon said she could order her own if she wanted a copy.

It has always berne my understanding that when you get married and pass away your living spouse has the final say. Well not at moore funeral home eastlawn. To them a wife or mother has no say and no rights. If Sheldon is to continue working with people he should have more compassion for à grieving wife and mother. He needs to know that the wife is considered next of kin and has all the rights and say.