Cymax Stores Back Back Backorder and No you cannot canel your order Internet

I placed an order on 10/05/09 for an a $871.00 Oak Curio Cabinet. I waited a few weeks for a tracking number and then called. I got the famous it should be shipping any day. I called the following week to get back order until 11/02/09. I called the week of 11/02/09 to get hmm still on back order. On 11/06/07 I called BillMeLater to file a dispute for a charge that I have been billed for and they want payment for something I have not received. They removed the charge from my account. I called 11/10/09 to get an update on shipping and still not tracking info. I told them I need to cancel this order then. Guess what they found tracking info. I said to bad I want to cancel this order. They told me I could not. I said YES I can. I have notified BillMeLater and the have removed all charges and closed that account number for me so they can not charge me. I have read returns and/or damage goods are even worse to deal with.