HERMAN & SONS
DUTCHTOWN RD.
BUTLER Pennsylvania 16001
U.S.A.
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MARTIN & SONSHERMAN & SONS ripoff SEX GAY FIEN JIM CAMESA BUTLER Pennsylvania
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SIR:
I AM WRITING THIS LETTER TO COMPLAIN ABOUT ME INVITING THIS INTO MY HOME FOR AN ESTIMATE ON HOME IMPROVEMENT AND JIM CAMMISA EXITING WITH MY HUSBAND BREAKING OUR MARRIAGE OF TWENTY NINE YEARS. I CAUGHT THE BOTH OF THEM MAKING LOVE. I ASKED OF JIM CAMMISA IS HE HERE TO DO HOME IMPROVEMENT OR MAKE WITH MY HUSBAND .
I FOUND OUT THAT MR CAMMISA OPERATES A BUSINESS IN HAIR STLYING NAMED CAMMISA'S HOUSE OF STYLE MAIN STREET BUTLER PA. .
SHAME SHAME ON YOU FOR THE BETRAYL OF TRUST TO ME .
NOW I HAVE MOVED TO UNIONTOWN IN FEAR OF REPRISAL .
Elizabeth
RONCO, Pennsylvania
U.S.A.
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#1 Consumer Suggestion
AUTHOR: John - Trenton (U.S.A.)
SUBMITTED: Wednesday, August 04, 2004
POSTED: Thursday, August 05, 2004
First, you DO have my most sincere sympathy concerning your tragedy.
Next, I am fully aware I don't know either you or your ex. However, I have observed this tragedy "played-out" with other couples.
I wouldn't be suprised if you've been advised to "get on with your life; put this unhappy incident behind you"--as best one can do that after 29 years marriage.
As to my "House of Cards" title: It wasn't really the fault of the home improvement guy, was it? Could this have been more a case of two (understandably) scared people who couldn't bring themselves to acknowledge/talk about the thousand pound "elephant" staring them in the face (your ex's sexual orientation)? Over, say the last 15 years, didn't you notice some "inappropriate" stares; find some gay pornography; or receive some "unusual" phone calls? Again, it's much easier to overlook these things and hope they will go away.
Your ex clearly was, effectively, lying to you with the result being that you have suffered some serious "damage," although, perhaps not irrepairable. While you were not lying, you nevertheless did have a responsiblity to confront your ex--in some clear way.
Lastly, the current view in medical science is that one is BORN with their sexual orientation. Hetero-, or homo-, sexuality is NOT "taught" or otherwise ingrained by protective mothers or being around gay or straight people. So, for what it's worth, your ex did NOT wake-up one day and decide that it would be fun to be a member of a minority group that is hated in almost every corner of the world. When you two married it's possible your ex honestly felt that, despite his gay leanings, he could make a hetrosexual marriage work. It's difficult to imagine that, of all the marriages ending as your's did, the gay partner INTENTIONALLY began the marriage on the basis of fraud/dishonesty.
I am NOT suggesting you dislike your ex any less than you now do. Nor do I suggest you try to contact him--unless you want to. I am trying here to offer a "why" as to the tragedy you experienced.
Good luck to you.
