Scott Olin Vanderberg Scottie, Scotty, Vandenberg, Brandon Vandenberg, Vandenburg Cheater, Liar, Thief, MW4MW ads on Craigslist, Manipulator, Takes sexual pics without others knowledge Kelso, Washington

I was stupidly with this "man" for many years, and helped raise his children after their mother passed away. We also happened to be neighbors at the time. I was manipulated from the beginning since he knew my husband and I had recently split up, and my self confidence was a bit askew. Then came offers of marriage,  nice cards, love poems, and professions of his so called "Always & Forever" Love. I found out he was using Meth 6 months after we started seeing one another.

He claimed it was due to wife passing, stress, etc. I actually believed him..lol. but within a short time, we got in an arguement and broke up. He left shortly after the arguement.Scott had went and picked up his coke dealing friends g/f who was also fighting with her boyfriend. He brought her to HIS house, with his 3 kids, right next to MY HOUSE within 8 hours of us "splitting up" and had sex with her. I, of course didnt take it well.

He then changed his mind..lmao..and wanted ME..ONLY ME he said. Dumba** that I am, I believed him. Yet, things started disappearing, or showing up at his house. "You musta left it here" or "oh I borrowed that" is the usual response I would get. Then my wedding rings disappeared. "No..he couldnt be THAT bad & actually take them"  I told myself. Well WRONG..pawn tix to prove it I find out two years later. There is too much to put in such a small space, and I could go on and on and on. I was a fool that stayed MUCH, MUCH, too long with this pathological person..SO BE AWARE Folks.

A few more highlights of Scott's "fun"~

-Sexual relations with his BEST FRIENDS {of 25 years!} Mother. Scary to think of just HOW LONG they have been intimate... lol. I as well as others such as her other son, suspected..but got the usual 'We are crazy to ever think such a thing" B.S. I ended up lying to Scott and said I 'saw them through her window having sex" He admitted it..but that it was only ONCE. Well..he ultimately admitted to 10-12 times..but who's counting right!?! Scott's oldest son had unfortunately witnessed and was aware of their behaviour. It bothered him enough that when I kicked Scott out..his own son refused to go with him and remained with me since he had just turned 18.

-He rarely works..his Social Security report stating his TOTAL yearly earnings since his first job in the 80's, is UNDER 20k. He is over 40 now. Go figure.

-Engages in/places, and responds to "Swinger" style sex with random people off Craigslist personal ads/ and from bars

-uses his Widow status as manipulative tool with people

-takes sexual, up close photos/videos of his "partner" while asleep or passed out from drinking

-his Meth use which he is VERY good at "hiding" from most people..even ones that have known him for years{ I have been present when he has admitted to them he has been using and have seen their surprise and shock as to how much he was doing}

This list could go on and on. Yes, a lot of this behavior is a persons personal right/choice to be involved in. But it is a completly different story when it is lied about, hidden, blamed for, and even accused of doing yourself, to take the heat off of him. That is my issue. The mental destruction he has no problem bringing to YOUR door..and into YOUR life..to YOUR bank accounts & assets, and worst of all, around YOUR kids/family. He has lived around Palmdale, Ca. / Gresham, Portland, and Troutdale Or./ and Kelso, Longview, and Castle Rock Wa. where he is currently living.

These have been MY personal experiences with this very untrustworthy, dishonorable, and very destructive person. It is my warning to others if they happen to come across him. And yes, I can back up what I have posted here...