In California a lender can not foreclose on a property without going to court and filing a Notice of Default (NOD). Once a NOD is filed, the pre-foreclosed homeowner is immediately notified and has a certain a certain amount of time to bring the loan up to date before the home goes into actual foreclosure. This amount of time is set by state law, not by the lender. Once it's in foreclosure, getting it turned around is very difficult.
On the other hand, there are houses in my neighborhood that were scheduled for auction months ago, and the home owners are still living there. So miracles do happen and some home owners do bail themselves out.
It's hard to believe that you were foreclosed on and not notified. Lenders don't like to foreclose, especially when there's no equity in the property, and they lose money. They will usually go out of their way to keep the homeowner in the property.
I suggest you find someone at the band to work with besides Michael Proctor, and try to get back on schedule. Not only are you going to lose your house, you will have a foreclosure on your credit record and your life will change dramatically.
If you can't possibly make up the payments then you need to find an investor who might be able to "bail" you out by taking over the house and making the over due payments, and at least saving your credit. That is, if your house has any equity. If it has enough equity, you might even get some "cash" out of it. But don't count on it.
In any event, there is a "grace period" between the NOD and the actual foreclosure, a period of time when you have the opportunity to make up the payments or work it out with the lender.