I know I'm going to get in trouble for even writing anything about this guy but I just can't help myself. I have read through both Ripoff Reports as well as all the rebuttals within each report. Whoever he ticked off to start this whole thing, and everyone thereafter, has this guy pegged. I know more about this guy on a personal than I care to. The best I can say about him is that he is harmless. Other than that, the rest is all true.
I know I'm going to give away who I am but I just can't resist putting my two cents in on this report. My first experience with Paul, was when I started dating his ex-wife. I knew her for all of about three weeks and the guy starts calling me. His ex-wife was out of the state on vacation for a week. I get this call from her house. Someone calls and hangs up. It might have been 2 or 3 times but I really can't remember the details. So I call back, no answer. Then I call her cell phone, she answers. I ask her why she decided to come home early and she was calling and hanging up. She proceeds to tell me that she didn't and is still in Georgia. "Why?" she asks me. Then I go on to explain to her that I just got a call from her house. Still, she insists she's not home.
Since we had just started dating, I'm thinking that she had decided to come home early and surprise me so I go along with what I think is a little gag. Long story short, this guy has a key to her house and is going in and out while she is on vacation. Why, I don't know. And, he supposedly has a girlfriend that he is living with at the time. Apparently he was rummaging through her house, found my business card and decided to call me and hang up. Also worth mentioning, a week earlier he was begging her to take him back at a funeral while he is LIVING with another woman at the time. Clearly one of these guys that can't handle rejection.
Ever since that time, he went on a mission to tell everyone that I was a 'foreigner' which I'm not. And for the past year now, he keeps making 'Jewish' jokes about me, since he's convinced himself that I'm Jewish. But to make the whole thing even more amusing is that I'm NOT Jewish. It wouldn't matter if I was but I'm not. I'm about as caucasian as the Pligrims that landed on Plymouth Rock but he wants to think that I'm Jewish or whatever else. So the guy definitely has some racial issues as well. I don't know anything about white supremacists groups or anything of that sort but I can't say it would surprise me.
Besides all that, he likes to call my wife now about once a week and tell her that she needs to 'budget' her money. We are raising three kids with two car payments, a rent payment, utilities, credit card bills from her divorce and put a 'little' away to buy a home in the next year. Meanwhile, the guy jumps from one woman to the next, 10-15 years his senior, moves into their homes as he preys on their sympathy, works for all cash under the table jobs, drives a car with no insurance, indulges in one or two 'recreational' habits but we can't budget our money?
My wife has to be inquisitioned about our financial status every time before he will give her any money to raise his kids. She has to act like we are poor and he's doing us a favor. Otherwise, he starts with, "you're married now, your husband needs to raise the kids, it's his responsibility now."
We get a kick out his BS every time. And if it's not that, then he calls to brag about his new senior citizen girlfriend that he is going to scam for her money and move to the hills of Tennessee. The guy definitely has a problem with women so I can see why he's not married. He won't leave one, until he has another. He's very insecure in that way. He carries on like a horny 15 year old boy that has never had sex with a woman. Yet, at the same time, he goes on and on about what these older women have in their bank account or where they live.
All I can say to Paul, is thank you. I'm glad you don't like being married because I got a great woman out of it. If you would just leave us alone, then you can keep your money. You clearly need it more than we do. Stop using these innocent women, get a 'real' job and get your own place. You're a big boy now, act like one.