• Report: #734971

Complaint Review: Abdul Gadry

  • Submitted: Tue, May 31, 2011
  • Updated: Fri, August 12, 2011

  • Reported By: Lucy — Victoria British Columbia Canada
Abdul Gadry
201-2121 Kingsway Vancouver, British Columbia Canada

Abdul Gadry This man sexually assaulted me while my Mom was in the next room and took 6 months of my life away that i will never get back Vancouver, British Columbi Canada

*General Comment: Smackdown, Mr. Rik, Inspector, Brownsong

*Consumer Comment: TROLLS!

*Consumer Comment: Lucy Comment #4

*General Comment: Smackdown - Comment #8

*General Comment: LUCY

*Consumer Comment: Lucy

*General Comment: College Graduate

*General Comment: College Graduate

*General Comment: Stupid Comments From Stupid People

*Author of original report: you dumbs**t

*Consumer Comment: Yeah

*General Comment: Good stuff!

*Consumer Comment: What a crock!

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This happened last year sometime in mid March 2010 in his office while I was 17. He was my mom's best friend for a few years so he became pretty close to our family, and eventually he started saying I was like a daughter to him and I kind of thought of him as a father type figure and looked up to him so much. He taught us a lot about spirituality and how powerful it is. Me and my mom used to go to his office all the time to get readings and were always impressed with how accurate he was about our personal lives.

One day while his brother, Ousmane, was staying with Abdul from Paris, my mom and I were invited to come over to the office and just hang out, talk and have tea in the waiting room in his office like we would do sometimes. There were instruments hanging on one of the walls that I was curious about, so I asked them what they were for. Abdul said that they were the spirit's instruments or something like that and asked if we wanted to hear the spirits play them. This amazed me so I said yes so he turned off all the lights and told me and my mom to close our eyes and keep them closed. Ousmane guided my mom to the other room and sat her down in a chair where she sat the whole ritual.

Abdul was guiding me around but instead of seating me right away he guided me around the room that my mom was sitting in. First he was guiding me around by placing his hands on my shoulders, but at one point they went lower and he slipped them into my tanktop and inside my bra so he was cupping the sides of my breasts. He told us to keep our eyes closed a few times throughout this ritual thing so we just listened. He guided me to the room next door (a waiting room type area) and sat me down in one of the chairs. He reminded me to keep my eyes closed so i did, and he left me alone for a few moments and walked around the room. He came back and he reached down into my bra and twidled my nipples around.

Then he put his robe over my head and took it in his hands and rubbed it on him, up and down so I could feel his p***s under his pants with my forehead. Then he pressed something against my lips and was persistant with it, and then just put his p***s in my mouth and pushed my head down several times so I would suck it. I was pretty freaked out at this point, but at the same time i didn't know what to do about it because my mom was in the next room and at the time she was going through a lot of sh*t in her life and I didn't want her to worry about me. Not to mention that this guy was her best friend. I just froze. It didn't last for too long and after he pulled his robe off me and left me alone for a bit. I was completely shocked, I felt so violated, angry and confused.

After this whole 'ritual' thing was over he turned the lights back on and we all sat back in the waiting room. I told him that were a few things about the ritual I didnt understand and asked him to step out of the office with me so we could talk about it so we did. Then I confronted him. I said "What the f*ck just happened?" and he responded with something like "The spirits make you feel what you want to feel", and I told him that I know that that wasn't the spirits. He told me that the spirits were going through him and he was just doing what they told him to do, and that it was an initiation into the spirit world and would bring me happiness. I was so furious that i was actually shaking.

He told me that if I wanted, he would tell my mom right away what he did, or he would call the police on himself because if we walked back into the room and my mom saw me shaking, she would know something was up. He got down on the floor and literally begged me for forgiveness at my feet, and me being so naive at the time forgave him because he seemed really innocent at the time, like he knew that what he did would actually bring me happiness in my life. I feel pretty stupid writing this right now, I know it sounds completely nuts that I would believe him but me and my mom were seriously into spirituality at the time and I really didn't want to believe or think that I was just taken advantage of by the man I looked up to so much. So we walked back into the room and it was getting late and my mom was tired, so we didn't stay too long after that. I could tell that Abdul was thinking about it a lot and he looked really upset, so I when I hugged him goodbye I told him not to worry about it and that I forgave him.

It was on my mind a lot for the next few days after that, I became very moody and irritable towards my mom and sister but never told them what happened. Eventually I just blocked out the possibility that I was taken advantage of and was able to push it to the back of my mind. Over the next couple months after that I noticed that I started feeling really low and self-concious and I didn't even know why. I just really wanted to be alone so I stopped hanging out with friends as often. Eventually I stopped hanging out with them all together, and even stopped using Facebook. Over some time I isolated myself so much that I would barely go out in public and outside even, and would just sit home all day and watch tv. I became agoraphobic (extreme fear of public places because you feel exposed) and developed a severe social anxiety disorder, which made it really hard for me to even look people in the eye and say a word to them.

Eventually I started feeling uncomfortable around my mom and sister, who were pretty much the only ones who were around me in that period of time. One day i was writing in my journal about that night, and seeing the words written down on paper sounded much more disturbing than I thought. I decided to call another psychic to ask if she's ever heard of that type of situation before, where the psychic makes you give him oral sex to initiate you into the spirit world and bring you happiness and her voice got really quiet and she said "Oh God, no". Thats when it really started to hit me that maybe what happened that night wasn't right and that everything I was denying was actually right. This was maybe 5 months after the incedent, and for the first time I told my mom and sister. They were disguisted by Abdul to say the least.

I'm writing about it here now because there a lot of people out there who think Abdul is an angel who wants whats best for them. They probably trust them with their lives and that makes me so sick. I trusted this guy with my life, he knew everything about me, knew everything I've been through and how I've already been taken advantage of guys and he still did what he did. I would feel horrible if I didn't at least warn people about what he's capable of, like I said, there are tons of people who trust him so much and that really scares me. I'm able to write this right now because I'm almost completely past what happened but I needed this as closure and to warn these people.

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#1 General Comment

Smackdown, Mr. Rik, Inspector, Brownsong

AUTHOR: Slimline - (Canada)

Are you guys all related? You guys all sound the same. Smackdown! Mr. Rik! Inspector! Brownsong! Man, you four should get together and have a foursome. Picking on young innocent girls who has been sexually assaulted and yet, you are so cold and pathetic. Or wait a minute, could this be who I think it is? It's so sad how a psychic can take advantage of young girls and thinks he can get away with it. To bad you were born with a cruel heart.
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#2 Consumer Comment

TROLLS!

AUTHOR: Inspector - (USA)

Mystique and Lucy are the same person or they are related.
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Lucy Comment #4

AUTHOR: mr rik - (USA)

I think you owe "Smackdown" an answer!
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#4 General Comment

Smackdown - Comment #8

AUTHOR: Slimline - (Canada)

You must be related to Abdul. You too must like young girls under age as you don't care about Lucy and what happened to her. All you talk about is sticking it in. What's wrong with you, don't you get enough? Yeah, it's so obvious. You're such a mental case.
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#5 General Comment

LUCY

AUTHOR: mystique - (Canada)

This one is for smackdown, comment #8.



Hey smackdown, you should contact abdul yourself, I'm sure he'd want to "stick it" in you!! You must be the same person in these comments as you all sound the same except for Mystique who has class and defends innocent girls like Lucy. Abdul is an example of someone who say they care about people, when he just takes advantage of them and their kindness. I think you're just an idiot Smackdown. Go back to your hometown and grow up you dumb s**t!!
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#6 Consumer Comment

Lucy

AUTHOR: smackdown - (USA)

Why don't you come over and we can play some games?

Maybe you will let me "stick it in"?

You're legal now, you know.
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#7 General Comment

College Graduate

AUTHOR: mystique - (Canada)

The last comment was intentionally towards the Author: Brown Song in Comment #2 "Good Stuff" because that author needs to think about his comments about saying that 17 yr old kids are not capable of being mature, smart and responsible for their actions, especially about something like this?..obviously, the Author: Brown Song is not very smart.
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#8 General Comment

College Graduate

AUTHOR: mystique - (Canada)

Wow...you weren't that great in school..not very smart to write that on this page..think you need to go back to school because there are lots of kids at that age that can read, write and spell very very well..you know...like validictorians, honor roll students even kids with very high IQ. You just described how uneducated you are..sad...so sad
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#9 General Comment

Stupid Comments From Stupid People

AUTHOR: mystique - (Canada)

Disappointed in all of you who has the nerve to comment against a child who has been traumatized, humiliated and violated. Shame on you. You are insensitive, ignorant and cruel to even say such things to this child. If this hasn't happened to you, then do not even think of commenting at all!! And you, the one that commented that this isn't a Hustler Forum? think you're on the wrong page!!

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#10 Author of original report

you dumbs**t

AUTHOR: Lucy - (Canada)

i said it happened last year when i was 17. and maybe some kids are more mature than others. just because you probably couldn't spell or write properly when you were young doesn't mean that ALL teenagers are like that. wow i'm 18 and i'm probably way more mature than you are. who makes up s**t like that? you must have no life to actually believe that i would sit at my computer and vent about all this stuff that i 'made up in my head'. that was the absolute lowest point in my life and if you don't want to believe that, go for it. cuz you can seriously go f**k your mother you a**hole.
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#11 Consumer Comment

Yeah

AUTHOR: mr rik - (USA)

I think i'm gonna go to fortune teller school!
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#12 General Comment

Good stuff!

AUTHOR: brownsong - (USA)

I want to believe you, because everything you describe about afterward, the anxiety and social phobia, is very common for a victim of this sort of thing. But I don't, sorry. The reason I don't is because of your writing. I consider myself a fairly decent writer, speller, etc, but not when I was 17. At that young age, I would have expected many more typos and misspellings. You are a college graduate probably with a good job and a wife and kids and you just have fantasies about assaulting a young girl and you decided to write about it. You may even be a writer.

You should send in a few articles to Playboy or Hustler. They will pay you. This site doesn't pay you anything. Good stuff though!

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#13 Consumer Comment

What a crock!

AUTHOR: Inspector - (USA)

This is not Hustler forum.
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