Bank of America recognized an illegal transaciton in writing but now reneging as husband passed away Plano , Texas

2009 I leanred of husband's illegal financial dealings after being removed by deputies for domestic ivolence on june 2,3 2009. I was sent to my bank to find out hwo much damage was done and learned he had refinanced our home with both names on mortgage but left my name off title. I had no knowledge of this and it was done whlie I was very physically ill begin sent to Mayo Clinic in Mn longt erm care.

I filed Deniao of Financila responsibility with Bank of America and they called to say it was  not my name on refinancing and I was not responsible for it as I had rec'd proceeds for sale of previous house with 164k in proceeds to buy the current house. Bank of America recognized in writing the fraud and sent me a letter saying his doings were not my responsiibility were not of my doing and would not effect me in any negative way. Husse was paid off with previous lender. Now that my husband passed and I ahve returned to house I am being threatened with foreclose. Didn't tak ethem long after husband's passing. The CEO office says they are trying to help me. I learned they are debt colletor and JMA services hwo does BofA collections came to door and wrecked my property using orange paint and other items destroyed. Now don't knwo what to do as permanently disabled at home