When I posted a little bit of information about Christi Messer about 3 years ago, she was a mere $5000 behind in child support. As of this date she is almost $18,000 behind in child support, in addition to the roughly $15,000 she will soon owe me for past attorney fees, travel expenses, etc. for my having to travel to and from TX to clear my name due to the false allegations she continues to make about me. See, I have custody of my daughters for good reasons and this is seen by her as a golden opportunity to make a better life for herself, excluding her daughters in almost every possible way. She still continues to send no child support, claiming that she gives me her $100 tax return each year (which the government strips her of because of her failing to help support her daughters financially, not to mention emotionally or in any other way), and "what more do I want from her..... don't you understand that I'm a student.....", and any other excuse she can give to try to preserve her name.
Christi Messer is manipulative, narcissistic, and I'm certain that she is an undiagnosed sociopath. Watch it if you have any interaction with her, business or personal, because she uses people to better herself in whatever way she can. She has caused my daughters much strife, stress, and emotional turmoil, only to blame me for all she can so that she feels justified in what she is not doing as a parent. Suffice it to say, she isn't even a "part-time parent" because of her consistent lack of communication with our daughters via birthday cards, Christmas gifts, or anything that makes a child feel special in the eyes of their parent. There was a book fair and me, being the Dad that I consistently strive to be, struggle with having to tell my girls no for anything (although it must be done at times). They asked me for book fair money and I gave them a few bucks. Their mother, Christi, told them on the phone that she'd send them $20 for the book fair. A week later she told them that it wouldn't get to them in time, which it would have if she'd sent it when she told them she was, so she decided to not send it at all. This is the type of thing that a child sees and in due time is able to form their own opinion about the types of situations they're placed in. However, as a Dad who struggles to provide everything for my daughters, it is very hard to not call a spade a spade - mommy is a liar. I bite my tongue as tough as it is. This is her character, don't let her snow you if you are involved with her in any way, and maybe one day the TX child support enforcement will do the right thing, being in the best interest of the children so they say, and hold Christi accountable for her actions. My suggestion for anyone looking to work with her in any way - look elsewhere so that you have peace of mind in knowing the truth. Don't be snowed by innocent words and the "woe is me mother" card she loves to play. I have documentation to back up all I claim, including the fraud on the court she pulled when she drove to SC and yanked my daughters out of school, telling them they were never coming back so say bye. What kind of mother completely neglects her children and manipulates them in such terrible ways? WATCH OUT FOR HER!!!