James Garda J.R., James Robert Garda Scam Artist Liar, User, Drug Addict, Thief, Manipulator, Abuser, Deadbeat Internet

Bottom line is this post was meant as a warning to unsuspecting women about my experience with this man. The comments listed are true and are based on my experience with him. If he has a good relationship with someone...great! No need to try and sell the audience. No need to comment about it, just ignore the postings. I personally have been contacted by a few women who have expressed thanks that this posting exists. Also, just as a rebuttal...me and the individual that he cheated with are actually friends and invited each other to baby showers, etc. so I do not know what the comment was about that. I am friends with everyone except this scum. Take the postings (there are more) as what they are..warnings!

If a woman wants to be verbally, physically and financially abused by an unemployed, unmotivated man with two kids who he does not contribute to, then so be it. To feel the need to spend so much time writing a three page rebuttal about how great he is - is for who? Who is it meant to impress? His future conquests? The women he cheats with in the future? Who? Again, if he is wonderful in a different relationship, good for you! Maybe he did change. If he does the things I mentioned, then you were warned previously, and it is your fault. 

I personally learned from this negative experience and found someone who is nothing at all like him. Life is...calm. But I want women to know that it was a very very difficult learning experience, and if you are not very strong, you may suffer from it. 

Get back to your 30k a year job lol, and go support james since he refuses to do it himself. You have way too much time on your hands and maybe I should contact LAPD. lol. I am cracking up here. Anyways, again, I am very very busy with important issues like supporting my children that James refuses to contribute to and never has spent a penny on. 

You are pathetic if you exist, and so is he. The excuses made for a grown man who has done nothing with his life and only abuses people is what is sad...it has been a long time since he was a "youth". He has had years and years to get off his ass and do something with it instead of sponging and stealing from others. 

Enjoy a very very non-fulfilling time with Mr. Wonderful. It is time for me to focus on what matters and if you wanna take the warning, great...if not "enter at your own risk" That's all :) :) :) 

First I'd like to say that it sounds like you are mentally ill and sounds like you have major resentment issues. You want to pick on other people and their grammar but yet your postings you too have incorrect grammar as well. I believe that is the pot calling the kettle black as they say. You have no clue who i am but because of your mental and or emotional problems/Issues, you like to pick on others and put them down to make your self feel better. And I am sure any one else who reads your statements, they too will see...

Secondly James maybe a little abrasive and aggressive. I have been his girlfriend for about a month but have known him for alot longer than you. And have seen him get PISSED about things. But if I had his hard life (all of his doing by the way) Id be a little aggressive as well. Not to mention having an ex like yourself who likes to cause drama, (like posting on the internet) I'd be pissed off too. I have also been in contact with another ex girlfriend of his and she completely contradicts your statement you posted on here. ( and yes< the Vegas posting was your doing) You posted a statement on here like it was her posting the statement, and according to her she did not post it and wants absolutely nothing to do with you because she feels you are crazy. and also I might add she wants nothing to do with James because of you and your crazy behavior like this.

But I'd like to say something, according to him you have known he was on disability before you met him, so you knew the predicament he was in. but yet you still had, not 1 child but 2 children from him. (AND ACCORDING TO HIM HE DOES NOT EVEN KNOW IF THE SCOND ONE IS HIS AND JUST BECAUSE YOU SAY IT IS DOES NOT MAKE IT SO).. Unless he held a gun to your head and had sex with you, you have no place to talk! that was the decision you chose to make. So quit cring and grow up and be a woman. And about him not taking care of his children, I know for a fact that numerous times he has asked to have his child with him.

( I HAVE READ THE TEXT MESSAGES) but yet you give a lame excuse about not trusting him but yet you trust him enough to watch his child whenever you're getting your cosmetic surgery done... from the messages I have read that he has sent you he has done nothing but try to reach out to his children but yet you shut him down and make it difficult for him to be around them so , I don't blame him for not trying anymore... my suggestion to you is why don't you give a little and let him be a father instead of making it so difficult for him to be around her and cause more drama in this world. I would suggest you getting over your resentment issues and try a little pill called Prozac.

I'd also like to add a little something about me personally. I am a police officer and have been for many years. I have dealt with low life and scum on a daily basis and I can say James is nowhere near being  a low life or scumbag.don't get me wrong he has made  unwise decisions in his youth, but who has not at one time or another. He is a man who has character, and from what I have seen he helps a lot of people out. But what I cannot understand is why you have to post that you are planning a honeymoon and wedding and planning big ticket events and you have no more time for losers but yet you consistently post stuff on the internet. You know I ask James to post a rebuttal on here, but he does not wish to lower himself to the level of an immature 15 year old that is supposedly planning wedding and big ticket events...
"His words not mine "

he is also asked me not to repeat any of Kristina Coles' dirty laundry. And to anyone else who is reading this let me tell you from what he has told me there is a lot of dirty laundry on this woman side as well....( She too has been in trouble in her younger days)

Now based on what James has told me about Tristinas' demeanor, Im willing to bet that there will be numerous postings after this will be posted by her because she has to have the last word.
Sad, Very sad....

P.S> The Sad part about all of this that there are 1or2 children who are being hurt from all of this nonsense..=(

It is a sad disgrace when you see a woman defending a man who does not take care of his children. not one child, but two...fathered by this lowlife guy. But then again, check out the grammar of this new victim.

What defense could someone have though? seriously, what could he or she say? except that he is a loser? what he says is "I'm on dsability and dont have to ocntribute" how sick that? if two kids doesnt motivate this scum, what would? 

Anyways, these posts are a warning to unknowing women on dating sites, rehabs and NA meetings.

Busy planning a wedding, a honeymoon trip aNd rehabbing our new santa monica poperty as well as other biG ticket events. no more time left for losers.

One month in I thought the same thing. "This guy is cool, fun to hang out with". Contact me when he never has a dime and expects you to pay for everything, or verbally abuses the hell out of you, or gets physically abusive. One month in sweetheart, you have no idea what you are dealing with. Anyways, in 6 month you won't be there so you can go ahead and post that I was right, or better yet, call me from the Emergency Room, when one day or night he gets  a little too aggressive.

Oh, and being bitter means that a person is upset over a result of ending a relationship...not the case one bit. It is the opposite. I am happier than I have been in 4 years!

And finally, are you literally saying it was not his fault that he used someone? It was the victim's fault? You are meant for him. Good luck sweetness. It will be needed, trust me. 

That's it :)

I am James current girlfriend. We have been seeing eachother for over a month and this post made me laugh my butt off. James IS a little agressive, BUT i have not seen or heard of ANYTHING to make ANY of this true. U were used because u let him. Thats your bad. Not his. And just because your bitter doesn't give you any rite to TRY to ruin his reputation. That is all. :)