I had broken up with my boyfriend of 4 years, and met Kelly Scott Nunn owner of Sound Source Recordings a couple of months later. He seemed to be a very devout Christian, and felt that he had my best interest in mind at the beginning of the relationship. As it progressed, I caught him pretending to use condoms but not actually using them, getting progressively agressively angry with me for missing his calls and texts, and was constantly talking down to me and acting controlling. I decided to break it off with him because the red flags were very strong to me (passive agressiveness, controlling, lying about using the condoms while having sex in the dark, and trying to pressure me into things I did not believe in).
Well fast forward a couple of weeks (havent seen anyone new or been intimate with)... I went to get checked up with a gynocologist because a month or so after me and kelly started dating I started getting a lot of vaginal discharge that waant normal to me. As it turns out, I am a month pregnant with his child, contracted an std from him thank god it was curable, but now I am worried I also contracted hiv ffrom him judging off of his health problems. He told me he was clean and I believed him. Yet I had been tested and was clean and slept with the same person for four years before him.
When I texted him I was pregnant, he ignored my texts then told me that I am a liar, that my life is a joke, called me a w***e and every name in the book (still have the texts). I emailed him a picture of the test results from the hospital, and he blocked my phone number and me on facebook. I asked him to help me pay for the abortion pill since he obviously played a part in the whole issue, and he replied very conveniently that he doesnt believe in them, and that unless its on his terms hes not helping me in any way (aka, unless I have the baby).
A person like this does not deserve to be a part of any type of christian organization, much less the church he plays in the band for. Hes manipulative, fools you really well at first, and wish that I had never met him because after two months my life had completely flipped upside down. I am now looking at possibly having a disease I will die from when I was doing everything I thought I had to do to be safe and ptotect myself.