On Christmas day in 2003, myself and this individual had sexual relations that resulted in a baby. We had been together for two years and I never would've thought that I would have had to raise a child alone.
I seen myself as a good catch. I was in the process of completing my Bachelor's in Marketing and preparing to take ownership of a family business. Well, people can be decieving. After informing Percy, of being pregnant, he immediately stated that he just lost his job and that he couldn't afford another child. I stopped attempting to contact thinking that I was going to have an abortion.
Well, God works in mysterious ways, because I was in a very serious accident driving from New Orleans where my car flipped and caught on fire and I woke up in the hospital. The baby was fine and I knew at that moment that I had to have him. I have been taking care of my son, Desmond, ever since, and I haven't asked him for anything. I wobbled across the stage at my college graduation 7 months pregnant.
When we have spoken in the past I have repeatedly told him that I know that he is struggling with money, and all that and all I would like is for my son to have his father active in his life. But he has only blew me off. So now, I want money. If I can't have the time, the money would definitely help at least with daycare. I work only to pay my car note and daycare, it would be nice to be able to save some money for an apartment, or even buy my son a savings bond for when he turns 18, but I can't do it alone. I have no help from anyone, but I stay motivated and work with my son as much as possible.
There is much to my story, that, I don't know where to end or begin, from me catching him with my bestfriend, to me sleeping with him after I had my son to get his social security number.I do plan on hiring a PI to track him down, but for now, I put 100% focus on my son and his development.