Randall Withers, Randy Withers is a liar, abuser, cheater, and has no problem lying under oath in Scottsdale, Arizona

The next day he saw the bruises on my face and the split on my eye and he said he was so sorry, and even cried saying he would never do that again and would not drink anymore.  But he did.  So, I kept to myself in my room for a while and he would yell through the door for me to come out and talk with him, but I was too afraid to, so he would sit and pound on my door constantly- and this happened more than once when I was on the phone and the person with whom I was talking heard the whole thing.  I used to leave my phone on all the time just in case he actually got into the room, which he did after removing the doorknob!  Randy is a narcissist and a liar, and when he begged me not to leave him and not to call the police, I relented stupidly and did as he wanted.  He said it would give him no chance of visitation with his daughter, which was already extremely limited.  I fell for it, but bad things continued to happen.  When he left to visit his dad, I decided to go to a domestic violence shelter (which he calls a half way house full of man haters who messed with my mind.)  I had been talking to a girlfriend of mine and she said there was a really nice place where I would be safe, so I went.  He found out where I was- he said that it is not hard to find out where an abused woman would go, all it took was one question to a nurse at the hospital where he worked.  Needless to say, only bad things continued happening, and the harassment got worse and worse.