Yesterday afternoon I had SAPS police come to my work place to hand me a rape charge document. I was charged with RAPE !!! This came a woman I once used to date many moons ago and dont even remember when last I was in contact with her.
I must admit shes a self-centered attention seeker (Xhosa to top it all). The ordeal was said to have begun buy me constantly waiting outside her complex waiting for her to leave so I could hold her hostage and rape her.
The one thing that baffles me the most about that statement is that I travel with my fianc daily to and from work. In retrospect this is what got her jealous, the fact that Ive moved on without her and having intentions to marry. Then she went on to say that while she always saw me stand outside her gate, she eventually allowed me wanting to know if we could still make things work between us.
She claims while we were talking I forced myself on her and brutally raped her. [continued below]....
..... On the 17-page statement she gave a detailed account of her assailant and the rape. It seems rape is the easiest thing to claim and quite refute because there were no witnesses and no evidence. She went to get a charge a 2 months later according to her statement.
Judging from the police report it appeared she and her sister set up the rape scam. This whole rape and abuse story was sexual sadism. In closing I had get Legal help which costs me an arm and a leg. I had to pay a hefty amount for bail for something I know nothing about.
Special arrangements were made for a night court seeing my family situation and work scenario. No formal investigation was launched, I was just arrested. This left my 1 year old son without a father for a night. Arrangements had to be made by family members to keep the situation contained with less impact to my son. My employer has been informed and that there might be days that I attend court.
Id like to warn other men or anyone that might associate with this woman that she is dishonest and will do anything to have her way.