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Complaint Review: Stacey Longmate Goodrich

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  • Submitted: Mon, December 19, 2011
  • Updated: Mon, February 20, 2012

  • Reported By: Ira and Leslie — Silverdale Washington U.S.A.
Stacey Longmate Goodrich
Kingston, Washington United States of America

Stacey Longmate Goodrich kingstongirlie kingstongirlnews kingstongirl Purveyor Of Personal Insults and Manipulation Kingston, Washington

*Consumer Comment: The remarks are valid

*REBUTTAL Owner of company: Still fooled!!!

*General Comment: Must be hard to be both Anonymous AND Righteous...lol!

*General Comment: Lhorna--The Originator cannot remove- Its owned by this site

*General Comment: Please, be BETTER than this.

*REBUTTAL Individual responds: I am sorry.

*General Comment: Just a few facts

*General Comment: not a dime or penny

*REBUTTAL Owner of company: The Ryan-Longmates should have changed last name to TOTALTURDS

*General Comment: Not what I've heard...

*Consumer Comment: Shameful, hateful and degrading.... unnecessary... and a horrible testament...

*General Comment: This is a sad, sad testament....

*Consumer Comment: Might wanna look up

*General Comment: Disgusting.

*General Comment: Disgusting.

*Author of original report: More personal putdowns and empty threats from Stacy and Friends, no suprise here

*General Comment: Concerned

*Author of original report: More Threats From Stacy Longmate Goodrich

*General Comment: contact a lawyer

*Consumer Comment: A little harsh, but very true!!

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Stacey Longmate-Goodrich Purveyor Of Personal Insults and Manipulation

Stacey is a overweight unhealthy female who has been attempting to manipulate a few people around her since she was placed in North Kitsap High School Poulsbo.  She was very unattractive and unhealthy then and she still is now.  This can be easily seen in photos of her "cheering" and her current tatted up overweight photos with her and her family.  She claims, "It is at least a 6 can a day at least habit. I have been this bad for years. I can stop but two days into stopping I get a bad headache and so I would rather keep drinking it! Despite the warning signs." However it is obvious Stacey drinks more than Coke.  I am sure her habits include eating as much food as possible at the events she gets other people to pay her for. [continued below]....
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Stacey Longmate's Manipulation Of Locals And Close Friends

This is exactly the type of manipulation you will expect to see with her.  She will contact her local friends and family, ask them to attend an event or function, and then when there are a few people that are interested in going, she will be sure the people who attend will pay in some way.  She takes money from her friends in a manipulative way by pretending to "help them" when she is really just hiring out the work to someone else and depends on others who are easily manipulated to pay for her function.

Stacey Longmate Goodrich Reunion and "Party" Ripoffs!

This can be see in obvious ways at her tiny events like "Party-To-Go" or the horrible feedback she received from the reunions in Kitsap and other farmers market like events where she sells trash to her friends for a small profit. 

Stacey Longmate Goodrich White Trash Inked Up Husband And Family

Her inked up husband as well as the rest of her family is also very overweight and my guess is that there is plenty of cushion but very little pushn' these days.  If there was some pushn' there would be some excercise and some healthy behavior.  I feel terrible that their kids are growing up with examples of parents that are so unhealthy and inked up like this but when they read this please know that you can overcome it and be your own person that does not need to manipulate or trick others to get your way. 

A Word Of Hope To Stacey's Kids

To the kids:  Make your own path, help others, and question those that seem to have power or manipulation over others.  Just because your mother has manipulated and put down many other people does not mean you need to as well.  You can be your own person, she will be gone one day, and you will be able to live in the way you see fit.  Watch and observe.

Stacey Longmate (Goodrich) Use Of Web and Email Technology

Stacey Longmate (Goodrich) grew up in Poulsbo, Kingston, and the North Kitsap area and has started trying to review her own events and happenings along with a few of her friends.  Her site like:  http://kingstongirlie [dot] blogspot.com/ is full of trash, useless content that really does not help others, and just brags about her own unhealthy behavior.  She also uses her fake blogs to display her silly manipulation when she messages things like, "more cooperation and communication between the various organizations in the area so that everyone is working toward the same goal."  Really what Stacy means here is, "everyone needs to only listen to me and work twards my goal because I know it is the best."

Stacey Longmate (Goodrich) Personal Insults And Put Downs

Stacey also tries to use her email and other sources to put down others in her community that question her or her manipulation with email addresses like kingstongirlnews@gmail [dot] com -- She may make threats to you, like she has to me and others, that she will email "everyone" some hurtful thing in an attempt to put you in a negative light with email addresses like the gmail account or kingstongirl@comcast [dot] net -- She will say things like, "You are crazy" or "little girl" in an attempt to send personal put downs.  She will then cut up your messages and try to make you look as bad as possible to others.  Most people obviously see right though this manipulative behavior and are able to think with out Stacy's abuse.

Stacey Longmate (Goodrich) NKHS 1996 Class Reunion Failure

Another example of Stacey's manipulation is when she said she would manage the NKHS 1996 class reunion (then said it was really a group)  but really she just signed up Reunions Unlimited with her friend Carol Riley in Olympia WA 98508 to take as much money as possible and put on a poorly reviewed event.  Even though the event could have been free for all of the class and put on by the class, Carol took her cut, and make sure Stacy received her portion for giving the event away to the company.  If someone asked if they could help, Stacey would just say the company was running it and if you contacted the company they would say to contact Stacey.  This is just another example of the way Stacey tries to make a profit off her friends and the locals around her with out providing any type of return or quality.  When Stacey asks you to come to an event, think about the time, gas, entry fee, sales at the event, and other money you will need to spend just so Stacey can say she did it.  There were so many disapointed people from the reunion that I felt sad for the people that did pay only to find it unattended and poorly organized.  Next time I do hope that someone, a real leader from our class, creates an event that everyone can attend safely, and with out worry.  An event where people can add their own gifts and abilities.

Does Stacey Longmate (Goodrich) Come To Your Event Or Function In A Helpful Way?

Try asking her if she will come to your event, make it free for her and close to where she is at.  Will she come or just say she will and not make it?  My guess is not, if she does, post it here and let us know how it went.  My guess is if she does come, she will try to sell your guests something of no use.  She may have changed her number but her old number is (360)620-1431 if you want to see if she can make it.

The User And Taker Stacey Longmate (Goodrich)

Stacey uses people, goes back on her words, tells lies, makes threats, attempts public personal put downs and in a socially unhealthy way is an abusive mother and wife.  My suggestion is to loose the spare tires, show your kids that you can be healthy, stop looking like trash, and help people instead of using them and trying to take a little bit of money from their pockets.
There is more to be exposed about Stacey's manipulation, unhealthy lifestyle, and hurtful behavior so keep checking back, more to come soon!

This report was posted on Ripoff Report on 12/19/2011 12:55 PM and is a permanent record located here: http://www.ripoffreport.com/r/Stacey-Longmate-Goodrich/Kingston-Washington-98346/Stacey-Longmate-Goodrich-kingstongirlie-kingstongirlnews-kingstongirl-Purveyor-Of-Persona-811368. The posting time indicated is Arizona local time. Arizona does not observe daylight savings so the post time may be Mountain or Pacific depending on the time of year.

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#1 Consumer Comment

The remarks are valid

AUTHOR: Righteous1 - (USA)

Lhorna- Thank you for your "opinion". Please take a moment to read the 'Terms of Service" and The Release of ramifications that each "poster (anonymous or NOT) " agrees to. This may save you from making the inappropriate and false statements.

Here is a portion of what every person who post agrees to:

"By Posting this report, I attest this report is valid. I am giving Rip-off Report irrevocable rights to post it on this website. I
acknowledge that once I post my report, it will not be removed, even at my request. Of course, I can always update my report to reflect new developments by clicking UPDATE. Further, I agree that by posting the report that the State of Arizona has exclusive jurisdiction over any disputes arising out of this posting." End term consent.

Suggesting that any poster take legal "advisal" is for their protection. Legal Advisal does not mean Court action, most rationale persons would be able to differentiate that statement.
It stands as valid. As do any of the comments made by ALL the Anonymous posters that made known their opinions.

Best to you in your crusade. 
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#2 REBUTTAL Owner of company

Still fooled!!!

AUTHOR: Getta Clue - (United States of America)

 I believe that people have a right to respond to all the false attempts of " doing good for local businesses" As Stacey has claimed to be doing all these years. Stacey also claims to be a writer of a novel and travel books. Stacey abused not local hotels in the name of Kingstongirl, but Oregon hotels, State of Washington ocean hotels. Great wolf lodge and downtown Seattle in the name of Kingstongirl. I am sure these businesses were not given nothing more than some cut and paste report on her blog that no one reads but her and her so called family. Have you noticed that Stacey claims everyone to be her sister or every friend to be a Uncle or Aunt???? Is this part of it takes a village mentality. I think its sad when Children have children. To Lorna who wrote that the Longmates should help this poor excuse of a parents in their financial help, I say maybe if she was twenty and her husband had no means. But this is not the case. Stacey is always in need of attention!! Even this page of peoples opinion is more attention although negetive still attention! The Pretendas aka Ryan longmates need to start figuring out how to raise these kids without the help of the village. Stacey go get a real job. We all have children and we all make a living on our own. If your families help is none of our biz, then stop all of your" my babies were born too small and so sick." It really bothers people to think you needed to torture some sickly babies in order to stroke your selfish" I was made to be a mommy "act. People are concerned for those kids because they have seen you and your husbands track record of constant failures and pretending to be something you are not! The grandparents of these children should move as far away from Kingston as they can. I dont think Stacey could last a day outside of Kitsap county, but a fresh start and people around her that dont know her ways and truth would be fresh meat to start up her scams again.
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#3 General Comment

Must be hard to be both Anonymous AND Righteous...lol!

AUTHOR: Lhorna - (United States of America)

        First off let me state that it must be nice to be both "Anonymous" and "Righteous" -or both in order to avoid taking any responsibility for your statements and opinions whether they are valid or not. Secondly, let me remind everyone that it was the original author of this post who made the decision to involve the children publicly in this matter, going so far as to address them directly on what is supposed to be a consumer advocacy website. So yes, my moral compass dictates that is wrong in every sense of the word. I stand by the fact they should have been left out of this matter in the first place, and everything that can be done SHOULD be done to remove this post... a court order may be necessary as this is a consumer complaint website and horrible things were said about both the original author, as well as Stacey. This is why I stated that it was "careless" to post these issues here. After this post, I will no longer visit this website and I encourage others to boycott it as well since many sites like this only exist if people come to it. There should be rules, there should be effective moderators and in this case there is/was neither. 

     It also did not go unnoticed to readers who have contacted me regarding my post here that despite "Anonymous Righteous" very clearly attempting to chastise me for my "think of the Kids"..mentality", he/she (or both) decided to add unfounded allegations to this pot of garbage by stating the following "if we are to think of her kids, then she is indeed behaving as a poor role model". So way to go telling me what my "place" is supposed to be, then being hypocritical enough to even follow the statement up by opining about the exact same subject "Anonymous Righteous". 

    While organized religion is a subject I do have opinions on, I could only laugh at the whole "let the "morals" be done at church" remark. While I have attended churches in the past, and spoken to friends or clients who attend regularly, I have never ever heard of morals being "done at church"! I believe you take your morals with you no matter what building you happen to be in. Addressing personal issues on this site or personally insulting anyone -whether it is the author or Stacey is not supposed to be why this site was created. However, maybe the only thing that matters to the moderators of the site is that people are visiting at all. If this was strictly a legal matter or a consumer complaint, Stacey's weight, parenting skills, tattoos, relationship with her parents, etc., as well as the nasty things stated about the original author, would have been addressed by moderators before being approved particularly given that those issues have nothing whatsoever to do with her business matters. It is my understanding that the author nor "Anonymous Righteous" have witnessed Stacey parent whatsoever, so they would not have any grounds to comment on those skills, and to do so is simply slanderous. 

    Finally, it is in my opinion "Anonymous Righteous" is someone who has a curious interest in this matter either going to court, or at the very least continuing on here -as this masked bandit failed to mention or encourage any mediation options, choosing instead to encourage the parties to waste their own resources on a seemingly unspecified and unfounded lawsuit... way to encourage them to not pass GO, to not collect $200, but DO go straight to clogging up the courts, I base this on "Anonymous Righteous"'s following statement- "Let the legal system prevail"... really??? And let us not forget the last paragraph where Stacey's parenting was judged by "Anonymous Righteous", which is odd since this person does not seem to know the conditions of Stacey's parenting, age of the children, or obstacles the children have faced already -so I am go about an inch out on a limb here and say this person very likely has no idea who Stacey even is, but still found the need to egg her into returning to this site by insinuating there was any proof whatsoever much less a "grain" of it. I am basing my opinion on the following statement by "Anonymous Righteous" in her/his comment -"she is indeed behaving as a poor role model given that there must be some grain of truth". How bizarre... please enlighten me with what that proof is? OR could it be this person has a reason to encourage this feud? A reason to want to bring more visitors to this site? Hmmmm... ? I guess we will never know, but I would encourage Stacey AND the author to NOT visit this site again, to absolutely not post anything else here. This will be my 2nd to last visit as well (I'll ONLY check back to see if this post is actually posted). I don't really care what some masked stranger has to say, especially someone who would encourage a feud such as this. It seems strange to me that out of all of the hatred filled filth written on this post "Anonymous Righteous" would choose mine (where I encouraged both parties to put this dirt behind them) to lash out on... another BIG Hmmmm? Makes a person wonder. I will not respond to anymore comments on this post under any circumstances, let the masked bandits twiddle away while the rest of us move on and go about living our lives.




 
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#4 General Comment

Lhorna--The Originator cannot remove- Its owned by this site

AUTHOR: Righteous1 - (USA)

Lhorna- All reports are property of the website here. The Original poster cannot remove it. It remains online ad naseum.

What is failed to be aknowledged is that postive feedback was given. The Poster who created this Needs to get legal advisal if Stacy indeed did these actions. Its not my place nor yours to play the "think of the Kids"..mentality We don't get to toss guilt around. Its for the judicial system to make a decision from these allegations.  If (and I stress "IF) Stacy is accountable for these actions then she Does OWE it to the public to own up to her deceptive actions and make proper restitution.

And if we are to think of her kids, then she is indeed behaving as a poor role model given that there must be some grain of truth. Let the legal system prevail and let the "morals" be done at church.
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#5 General Comment

Please, be BETTER than this.

AUTHOR: Lhorna - (United States of America)

I am not going to be one of these people who do not submit their name, or use this website as a cowardly way to take pot shots at anyone, the author, or Stacey. My name is Lhorna (you can find me on Facebook or at my house on D Street in Bremerton) and I worked for the same company as Stacey for years and I was a fellow employee to her, as well as her husband, and her father -we were all government employees. I would like to reason with the author to remove this entire post and here is why. Although you may not like Stacey, I just cannot imagine that you would want to put her ability to earn an honest living in jeopardy forever, making it hard for her to support her two baby boys. My father (r.i.p.) always told me that one thing you do NOT do in life is take food off of ANYONE'S table. Many of the problems you listed seem like they are personal in nature, not professionally or financially abusive to you, and this is simply not the proper forum for this. Where Stacey and her family live, or what their living situation is does not affect you, me, or anyone else's life. I looked at the dates and this post has been up for some time now, so anyone who was "ripped off" by Stacey has had ample time to share their experience and by all means should have -but all I have read are personal attacks on both you, and Stacey, and I am here to tell you that it makes no one here look good. I have no idea who you are, but if you are a good person, don't you want to get on with your life and let Stacey get on with hers? Whatever she has done in her past has no bearing on her actions now or in her future or yours, therefore this post will only serve to affect her children in a negative way. Even if every single thing you stated or insinuated about Stacey was true, why not give her the opportunity to learn from this and go on with her life? You have made your point, she has given her side of the story, she has apologized, so what more do you want from her? I believe you must have been hurt by what you perceive Stacey did to you personally, but you cannot hold her responsible for the actions of her friends. At this point it seems as if this post is only serving to humiliate Stacey and her family (the words to the babies were especially in poor taste as well as the repeated weight comments). I doubt what ever she did to you could be half as bad, and have all of the same negative implications this post has had, and will continue to have, on her life and the lives of her children -whether she realizes it or not. What is so wrong about getting help from her parents? I have two children who I try to give the world to on a daily basis. I am often accused of spoiling my children as well. I am sure if you have children there are times when you spoil them too, as parents we are all guilty of that at times -but what does Stacey's parents have to do with business or scams? It is not as if they have raised a murderer, drug addict, rapist who is terrorizing the citizens of Kingston. So you felt she sucked at throwing a party, this is what you do to get back at her? The Longmate parents help their daughter, who cares? I have a daughter who is a freshman at the University of Washington this year, if God forbid she could not have children of her own one day I would do anything in my power for her to be able to be a mother -and help her to realize any other dreams she has. Even if you believe in your heart that Stacey is evil, why would you do anything to permanently paint her name with such a dark brush? Kingston is a small town, it will be those little boys that pay for these words put here so carelessly on the internet for everyone to see. Do you want to be responsible for other parents not letting their children play with the Longmate twins because you were mad at Stacey back in 2012? Will you sleep well knowing it was because of this post that those children are taunted or bullied? Could you imagine if someone had written every piece of gossip spewed about you, or perceived mistake you ever made on a public internet site for everyone to see? It is just not fair, it is not right -it is personal and good people do not do this. Again I know Stacey, but I have never done anything outside of work with her, never been to her home, a single event, never so much as met her for coffee... but no human being deserves this type of cruelty. Please take this down, if not for Stacey, or your for your own integrity, than for those little tiny boys who despite what anyone thinks, deserve to have a mommy right now who is not being subjected to a public flogging internet style. Stacey deserves to be filled with the love and grace of a mother right now, not worrying about who is going to say what about her on this public hate page -and that is EXACTLY what this is. These posts threaten to bring shame to those beautiful babies who have already been through so much. Please find it in your heart to remove this. More than enough people have read this post about your personal experiences with Stacey, trust me I heard about it and don't even live near Kingston and never have. ALL of KINGSTON has likely reviewed this and had the chance to speak up on whether or not Stacey scammed them, but no one has. We have only read these distorted, partial stories, and second hand versions of events that took place years ago. Who cares how many tattoos people have? How much diet Coke they drink? How one woman feels about another woman's body? Or how many parties she doesn't make it to? How often her parents spring for her to go to Vegas? Her father was a respected public servant who worked for the state for over 30 years to earn the right to take his family on vacation wherever, whenever, and how often he wants, so what? How does that affect anybody else in a negative way? Again, I do not know you and you could very possibly be one of the nicest people on the planet, but this post is not the right thing to do. As a matter of fact, it is ugly, mean spirited, selfish, includes many untrue statements, and designed to make people feel a certain way about someone, and make this person look as bad as possible to others -which is MANY of the things YOU have accused Stacey of doing wrong, no? No one can possibly have this much hate in their heart, please take it down. NONE of us are without sin, and NO ONE deserves to be held as a prisoner of their past for the rest of their lives. 
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#6 REBUTTAL Individual responds

I am sorry.

AUTHOR: kingstongirlnews - (United States of America)

I have waited a while to write anything in response to what was said about me, people can say all that they would like to about me, but I would like to have had the part about the personal attacks on my family left out. 

I know I haven't always been a ball of sunshine and I have made many mistakes that I am sure I have yet to make a mends to many. I have hurt and lost friendships, I have tried about a million direct sales in search that I would find the one I could make something out of, I have searched years from having to end a career that I had due to an illness that has followed me from highschool. I was over weight, shoot I still am. No one looks at me in a critical eye like I do myself. I truly do have the worst self image, so don't worry what you have said about me isn't anything I don't already think of myself.  

Here is the information that I know to be true: 

I did have a hard time in Highschool, but that was highschool and I have been out of it for so many years, I think most of us left highschool where it belongs, in highschool. 

It was said that I claim that this was me being very serious, this was a post in my blog that I was teasing about my Diet Coke Habit "It is at least a 6 can a day at least habit. I have been this bad for years. I can stop but two days into stopping I get a bad headache and so I would rather keep drinking it! Despite the warning signs." I do have to say that I am a size 14 and do what I can to maintain that weight, I do go up and down but alot of women do the same thing. I also drink Diet coke because it contains no sugar and I am a type 1 diabetic so somethings are harder to give up when you don't have much that you can drink and eat. 

I have no idea what the person was referring to with me taking money from my friends or any kind of manipulating people into to doing things for me. I truly do not have that much power over people. The thought that this person said I am an unfit parent is just plain crazy. I was born to be a mom, this is the best thing that has ever happened to me, my life has just started on November 2nd when they were born.  

"She also uses her fake blogs to display her silly manipulation when she messages things like, "more cooperation and communication between the various organizations in the area so that everyone is working toward the same goal."  This was a direct quote from one of my articles that I wrote about from a local business. These were not my words but the words of the person in the interview. 

If I called someone a "Little girl." or said "your crazy" & It was a put down I am sorry. I do say things when I am angry or upset that I many times wish I could go back and take back, again I am only human and I do make so many mistakes and have made so many mistakes past and I will make them in the future I am sure, but all I can do is try not to. 

The Class reunion for the NKHS was put on by a group of classmates, we had looked into the business in Olympia to help us gather information for addresses and contact of missing classmates, after talking about it as a group we made the choice to do it on our own, planning this would be so much easier now then it was back then due to the lack of social media.  I would like to also point out that reunions cost money, we put on a great event, even when we all faced the worst thing that could happen 1 week before the event we found out that the place we were having the event at closed their doors and ran with all but $1000.00 dollars that we still had in the reunion fund. We found a place in that week and they did everything plus the money that people paid to get in to the reunion that night was given right to Mc Clouds in Bremerton, We had food, music and drinks, they saved us and all that attended that night raved how great it was. If there were people that didn't like it, I am so sorry we did our best. 

The party to go was a book party that I did for my cousin who sells scentsy and I was doing it online while I was living in the hospital during the holiday season. It isn't a scam just a party that I know most people I am friends with have done a zillion times as well. This wasn't me making money it was me having a party. 

To the second person that said I did those things to you, If I did it I'm so very sorry. I would do anything to make it better and at one point we must have been friends for us to have a heated argument, like you are saying, I hope you can forgive me and if you want to talk about it so I can personally fix this hurt and hard feelings please personally contact me.  I would love to make amends.

I wont hire a lawyer or seek anything out of what all these people think of me, It is all what they feel about me. I did put myself in the spot light, and it was great at the start and my goal of highlighting people with small businesses and women in business was achieved. I was able to meet some wonderful people and create some great relationships. I did a hand full of vendor events over the past two years. Some were amazing and some were not as well as I would have liked to see.  I felt pretty great when we had a line of people waiting to get in to some of the vendor events that we held in Silverdale.  If you ask anyone that does these events some are a hit and some are a miss. I put a lot of hard work into each of them. I didn't make money off these events, I used the money for the events for the events nothing else.  I do know that most of the people and group of wonderful vendors that I had did every single one of my events or asked to be on a waiting list to be part of the next event.  I never did the farmers market thing as much as I would have liked to I couldn't have put it together with out a committee. 

  Stacey and Chris are not good people!! They pretend and have fooled alot of you to think they are, If you attend one of her events the only one who will benifit will be Kingstongirl. She does use her" I have it so bad act", But she lives in Mommy and Daddys house and Daddy payed for her to have the two kids that her cousin carried, She has scammed all of you and she will scam all of you again. Although I find the original report filed on here harsh. I think the majority of it was
right on! She needs to grow up and learn how to make it on her own like the rest of the grown ups. Chris the white trash poser changed his last name and claims to be adopted at 35???? WTF??? Dude move out of your father in laws house and live hard like the rest of us! People please ask her for tax id number and see if she advertises in anything but a free paper. My guess is she will take your money and you will sell stuff to other vendors!! Grow up Stacey, Let this Kingstongirl stuff go and start being a grown up!! its time!!!  
 
Who cares where we live, you have no idea why we are living where we are living and it is no ones business. You don't know anything about my family. There are many reasons why. Chris and I changed our last names because my son's were the first in a long line of girls born in our family they are the frist two boys,  Our last name and family is very important to all of my family and carrying this name with two son's was the reason we did the name change. This again is no ones business, we have a few other reasons but we will not get in to that on here or with anyone that isn't in our personal life.  Also I wanted to say thank you for helping me come into thinking about what was best and I took your advise to grow up and deleted my Kingstongirl facebook pages, and will no longer do any events. My main focus is and will always be on my children.  I guess this is what they mean by me being so unfit. 

 "Daddy payed for her to have the two kids that her cousin carried" Yes my Dad did help us with a chunk of the money for the Dr's and the help with money towards our boys, little do you know that every month we pay my Dad back until the bill is paid in full. It is what family does and he is an amazingly giving man and father as much as my Mom is. I can only hope one day when my children need anything I can do what my parents have always done for us and support us with any way that they can. I am sorry but again this is no ones business has nothing to do with anything and is a private family matter.  

Stacey and her husband Chris had set up a fund via Myspace for people to give them money to adopt a baby, but no child was ever adopted, not sure what they did with the funds they received. "We talked about setting this up, made the page and never did anything with it. We did an 80's prom and all the money for that went for the cost of having the boys. It took a village to have these amazing little men and the people that loved us and still love us help take part in making this dream come true. 

Stacey was Chris's wife's best friend when she and Chris began their dysfunctional and immoral courtship. We were friends, and because of that I wont go into other things around their divorce. Chris and I became best friends and when his ex and him were breaking up we did spend a lot of time together, but I was dating another person at the time. I am not proud of the fact of how we got together, but people again mistakes and when we started dating I should have been straight with her. It was something that just happened and was never planned. 10 years have past and we are still best friends and in a very happy marriage. Sometimes nothing can keep soul mates apart. 
 
Stacey has claimed to have only a few years to live, turned out not to be true. So sorry to disappoint you that I am not yet dead, there were a few times where we didn't think I would make it. Those that I am close with and saw me as sick as I was know that it was a fear that many people had, but people with illnesses never have a time stamp, thank God that I have been able to surpass what many thought, now I take everyday with my husband, my children and my family as if its a gift. 

-Chris and Stacey acted as though they wanted children very badly, but Chris signed over the rights to his own young biological children so he would not have to pay child support as soon as he married Stacey " How dare you! Chris and I were married almost four years when Chris gave up his rights. My family loved them, still do as well as I loved them, I wanted children badly anyone that knows me knows that to be true. The fact that people think Chris gave them up for money, we were both working and had good paying jobs money at the time was not an issue and we wont get into the other reasons why he made this choice that to this day still kills us. I wont talk bad about his ex wife, just know that if her and her husband wouldn't have been such amazing parents to the boys there would have been no way in hell that Chris would have given his rights up. Again two sides to every story and this is very personal. We pay monthly into collage funds for each of the boys, if we were so messed up like everyone thinks we are we would have already transfered into other children's names, but again this is private. & What the hell do you mean his own  young biological children? BOTH of OUR BOYS are his Biological Children as well!! There is nothing more important to us then to one day letting Chris's four boys meat each other and hope that they will be the brothers we would love for them to be. 


-Stacey seemingly is always claiming to run businesses, but has no formal business education whatsoever.
"Never claimed to have a business education." 

-Stacey has done a lot of very public immature and evil things to many people I know who live in Kingston, or used to live in Kingston. I am so sorry, I know I have and I work everyday to be a better person this is why I started writing for the community and trying hard to repair who I use to be. 

-Stacey does seem to always try and sell things and make money off of
her friends, I have witnessed this personally. Again it is a big joke that I have tried to do direct sales always trying to do what I can to make a living. I know one day I will find something that works and I am blessed to have such wonderful friends and family that support me enough to help each time I try something new. I am a bit of a flake and give up on myself and things I try that don't make it right away.

 several hundreds of dollars worth of tattoos at the same time. I traded all my starwars stuff to the artist that does Chris's tats, also because some people know how much Chris wants his arm done at holidays and birthdays he is always given gift certs to spend there. We haven't used during hard times any money towards that. As much as some have thought we have. I have two tats and they were bought before I was even married and the other one was a gift from my mom. 


As for this blog being public, it is no secret Stacey has done a lot to make herself a public figure in our community and when you solicit that type of attention people do have the right to have opinions about you. After all, none of Stacey's defenders are being threatened with law suits for stating their opinions or facts. Good luck to all, including
the original author, the Longmate family, and Stacey herself.  
Very true and it makes me sad that so many people think of me in this light I would never do anything as far as a law suit. I can only say how sorry I am for hurting people, if you know me this is something I find so hard to swallow. I can only promise that over time people will see the change in my that I see in myself.. I did do this to myself for becoming a person in a small communities trying to be in the public eye. 

She uses all money to support her need to buy herself trips to Vegas and gas for driving around to get her name out there. I wish we went to vegas as much as people think. In 10 years we have gone 3 times and most of those times we have gone on family vacations with my parents. Its been years sense we traveled anywhere on a plane but thanks for thinking I have all this money that I rip off from so many people. I don't make $1000.00 of dollars doing fundraisers ever! When I started to do fundraisers I mostly did things to collect items that were not money! 
As far as those fundraisers I have done I have to say I have done some good in our community for that, doing donations for celebration bags, for all the local food banks where I collected cake mixes, frostings and candles and then put them in bags to have handed out so someone with kids or a need to celebrate something great could even when they couldn't put food on the table.  I also did a Kingstongirl shower where I gave back to the community for the love of becoming a mommy with the gift of my cousin having them for us, I had to give back so we collected baby items for the Alive Shelter and the DV house. The other things I have been doing for years and having fun walking yearly to celebrate some really great causes. 

This is all I can say, I know many people don't like me. This is a site is about the business I have done in the community and I have to say that more people will say how good I do and how much I try to do a good job.  I am not perfect again I never claim to be. Kingstongirl is gone and so will be anything to support the community as Kingstongirl, I will do it as a community member until we no long live here. I know that everything is done to learn something. I have learned that with the handful of people that hate me there are a million more that love me.  I am a good mommy and I love my family. I have changed and I think that is what life is all about. For all of the wrongs I have done I truly am sorry. I will be bowing out and enjoying a quiet love filled life. Thank you for those that wrote so many nice things about me. 

I wont check this site again. I have taken to much time on this and away from cuddles from my boys, my husband and my parents. We are a strong family and filled with love for one another. We always do what we do for what is best for us. Every choice is always made together as a family. They are the only ones that could crush me completely if they turned their back on me. My parents know the reasons why we live in their house and the reason why they choose to help us as much as they do. 

To the People that loved Kingstongirl, I am sorry that you will miss her. I hope you can all just love the real me.  I am just blessed that God doesn't think of me the way some do and that brings me peace and comfort. 
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#7 General Comment

Just a few facts

AUTHOR: Jen - (United States of America)

-Stacey has claimed to have only a few years to live, turned out not to be true.
-Stacey has been caught in several lies by locals in my hometown of Kingston.
-Stacey comes from a family of what I observe to be alcoholics, many who I have personally seen acting inappropriately drunk in public.
-Stacey and her husband Chris had set up a fund via Myspace for people to give them money to adopt a baby, but no child was ever adopted, not sure what they did with the funds they received.
-Chris and Stacey acted as though they wanted children very badly, but Chris signed over the rights to his own young biological children so he would not have to pay child support as soon as he married Stacey. My opinion is that children are a life long commitment that you do not replace just because you and your wife get a divorce. My children would be crushed if my husband even thought of such an action.
-Stacey and Chris do not know how to manage their money, so they have to live at her parents home.
-Stacey was Chris's wife's best friend when she and Chris began their dysfunctional and immoral courtship.
-Stacey seemingly is always claiming to run businesses, but has no formal business education whatsoever.
-Stacey was a little overweight in high school, but that was just a low blow from the original author of this post. 
-Stacey has done a lot of very public immature and evil things to many people I know who live in Kingston, or used to live in Kingston.
-Stacey does seem to always try and sell things and make money off of her friends, I have witnessed this personally. 
-Chris and Stacey have claimed extreme financial hardship and had fundraisers to "help" them pay for certain things, but oddly enough they had the money to spend on several hundreds of dollars worth of tattoos at the same time.
Stacey does seem to exhibit signs of a compulsive liar, however I am not a phycologist so it could be another behavioral issue.
I am not in agreement with everything the original author wrote, or how it was stated. I do not think Stacey is beyond redemption. I do think she can change her ways and many more people will respect her for doing so. I believe when dealing with Stacey the buyer must beware, but it does not have to stay that way. I would like to see Stacey rebut this post, admit to wrong doings, set the record straight on any untruths, and apologize to those in our community she has wronged financially, emotionally, and personally. I have a hard time believing she would insist that she has never made any mistakes. As for this blog being public, it is no secret Stacey has done a lot to make herself a public figure in our community and when you solicit that type of attention people do have the right to have opinions about you. After all, none of Stacey's defenders are being threatened with law suits for stating their opinions or facts. Good luck to all, including the original author, the Longmate family, and Stacey herself. 
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#8 General Comment

not a dime or penny

AUTHOR: Righteous1 - (USA)

Never gave this person a dime, a penny or any monetary revenues. Never met her, Never care to have her involved in true charity causes. Never will forget though that their are truly genuinely vile persons who are willing to cast harsh judgment without going to the police . If she is indeed all that is posted then laws are there  to aide in seeing justice served.  File a police report....gather the evidence.
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#9 REBUTTAL Owner of company

The Ryan-Longmates should have changed last name to TOTALTURDS

AUTHOR: Getta Clue - (United States of America)

Stacey and Chris are not good people!! They pretend and have fooled alot of you to think they are, If you attend one of her events the only one who will benifit will be Kingstongirl. She does use her" I have it so bad act", But she lives in Mommy and Daddys house and Daddy payed for her to have the two kids that her cousin carried, She has scammed all of you and she will scam all of you again. Although I find the original report filed on here harsh. I think the majority of it was right on! She needs to grow up and learn how to make it on her own like the rest of the grown ups. Chris the white trash poser changed his last name and claims to be adopted at 35???? WTF??? Dude move out of your father in laws house and live hard like the rest of us! People please ask her for tax id number and see if she advertises in anything but a free paper. My guess is she will take your money and you will sell stuff to other vendors!! Grow up Stacey, Let this Kingstongirl stuff go and start being a grown up!! its time!!!
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#10 General Comment

Not what I've heard...

AUTHOR: Katie - (U.S.A.)

I do not know Stacy personally but I have been following Kingstongirl for about a year now. I have never heard any comments or complaints even remotely similar to the complaints and insults posted here. If you have proof that she somehow has scammed people out of money, file fraud charges against her. If you don't, I hope she files a suit against you for defamation of character, slander, and anything else they can get you on for this post.

The purpose of Ripoff Reports is to pass on important information to other people as it may pertain to them. Insulting Stacy's weight, husband, children and character does nothing productive and is, I'm sure, very hurtful. Shame on you for behaving so childishly. I hope you get banned from this site.
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#11 Consumer Comment

Shameful, hateful and degrading.... unnecessary... and a horrible testament...

AUTHOR: Karole - (U.S.A.)

.... to the direction people are going with their entitled perspectives!  To think that one can write such vile words, while breaking the rules of this website, and then justify it all as what????  Who can even know?!  All I got our of Ira, etc's post(s) was that somehow (s)he was threatened (not in the physical sense) by Stacey and or her husband.  I read that Ira, etc. was threatened in the sense that Stacey actually does wonderful things in the community, and that Ira, etc was either not included in the way (s)he wanted to be, or was not in as much control of the situation that (s)he wanted to be. 

I also think that they way that Stacey was described physically, was immature.  Completely juvenile.  I have chastised my daughter for that kind of bullying talk..... WHEN SHE WAS 12!!!  Nobody likes bullies.  Nobody is impressed with they way you have attacked her, her husband and her mother.  AND NOBODY will sympathize with you when you start attacking her as a mother, or you start using her children against her.

Your inclusion of Stacey's email addresses and phone number are clear violations of the policies of this page, and frankly I am surprised there is not better oversight, to penalize viciousness such as you have displayed.

I am praying daily for Stacey and her family.  And now I am praying that the Lord convict you, and your heart is changed.  Whatever came between you and your friendship with Stacey is NOT worth this public scathing, nor is your lack of forgiveness worth your soul.

Personally, every interaction I have ever had with Stacey has been wonderful.  She has run events that she included me in, and I personally thought her organizational skills quite good, considering the circumstances.  She has come to other events that I have participated in as a consumer, and was so sweet; genuinely asking about my business, and asking me questions about my product because she simply wanted to know. 

Her love for our community is so obvious!  I don't see how it could be mistaken for anything else.  I would love to offer that no one is perfect.  If she did make a mistake, then giving an opportunity to repair that mistake is a much better route to take than this.  Why would there be a compounding by throwing daggers?

On a very personal note to my friend, Stacey... You are loved.  You have many more supporters than detractors, and not only does your Facebook page(s) reflect that fact, but I am sure that in time (when people calm down after reading the ugly accusations and words above) you will find that more people than these puny-minded ingrates are supporting you and everything you do, as a wife, a mother and as a beloved community member.  I mean, really!  look at those who have condemned the original author, and they don't even know you!!!  That is a testament to the foulness of Ira, etc.  And also a testament to the overall goodness of our online community.

To all who support Stacey, I challenge you to completely inundate this site in support of our friend.  It's the least we can do.

much love to you all!!!  Blessings!

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#12 General Comment

This is a sad, sad testament....

AUTHOR: Karole - (U.S.A.)

.... to the direction people are going with their entitled perspectives!  To think that one can write such vile words, while breaking the rules of this website, and then justify it all as what????  Who can even know?!  All I got our of Ira, etc's post(s) was that somehow (s)he was threatened (not in the physical sense) by Stacey and or her husband.  I read that Ira, etc. was threatened in the sense that Stacey actually does wonderful things in the community, and that Ira, etc was either not included in the way (s)he wanted to be, or was not in as much control of the situation that (s)he wanted to be. 

I also think that they way that Stacey was described physically, was immature.  Completely juvenile.  I have chastised my daughter for that kind of bullying talk..... WHEN SHE WAS 12!!!  Nobody likes bullies.  Nobody is impressed with they way you have attacked her, her husband and her mother.  AND NOBODY will sympathize with you when you start attacking her as a mother, or you start using her children against her.

Your inclusion of Stacey's email addresses and phone number are clear violations of the policies of this page, and frankly I am surprised there is not better oversight, to penalize viciousness such as you have displayed.

I am praying daily for Stacey and her family.  And now I am praying that the Lord convict you, and your heart is changed.  Whatever came between you and your friendship with Stacey is NOT worth this public scathing, nor is your lack of forgiveness worth your soul.

Personally, every interaction I have ever had with Stacey has been wonderful.  She has run events that she included me in, and I personally thought her organizational skills quite good, considering the circumstances.  She has come to other events that I have participated in as a consumer, and was so sweet; genuinely asking about my business, and asking me questions about my product because she simply wanted to know. 

Her love for our community is so obvious!  I don't see how it could be mistaken for anything else.  I would love to offer that no one is perfect.  If she did make a mistake, then giving an opportunity to repair that mistake is a much better route to take than this.  Why would there be a compounding by throwing daggers?

On a very personal note to my friend, Stacey... You are loved.  You have many more supporters than detractors, and not only does your Facebook page(s) reflect that fact, but I am sure that in time (when people calm down after reading the ugly accusations and words above) you will find that more people than these puny-minded ingrates are supporting you and everything you do, as a wife, a mother and as a beloved community member.  I mean, really!  look at those who have condemned the original author, and they don't even know you!!!  That is a testament to the foulness of Ira, etc.  And also a testament to the overall goodness of our online community.

To all who support Stacey, I challenge you to completely inundate this site in support of our friend.  It's the least we can do.

much love to you all!!!  Blessings!



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#13 Consumer Comment

Might wanna look up

AUTHOR: Ashley - (U.S.A.)

"defamation of character"

Go ahead and type it in google and learn.

I hope you can back up all these claims or you are just asking for a lawsuit, and no I do not know the lady this report is about nor do I even know what or where kingston is.
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#14 General Comment

Disgusting.

AUTHOR: anonymous - (United States of America)

What a sad excuse for a human being.  And no, I am not speaking about Stacey -- who I might add I do not know and have never met.  To file a report about your business dealings with her I completely understand, and you may be right, but the way you bash and degrade her and her family -- including her children -- grow up.  To attack ones appearance, really? What good does that do besides make you look like an idiot.  As for your comments about her husband (who I also do not know) being all 'inked-up', really? Do you go out much?  There are very successful, wonderfully NICE people out there who are wonderful parents and good  human beings.  As for them being 'abusive' parents, what would you call yourself, if you are a parent? I sure hope your kids grow up to see that bashing people publicly is not a great trait to live up to.

All this talk of a horrible high school reunion...did you ever leave high school? I've been to a few reunions and NEVER have they been free. Maybe if you move past the high school drama that I am guessing you like to surround with you may be able to enjoy the adult world.

I honestly feel sorry for you.  How unhappy with your own life do you have to be in order to inflict this sort of pain on someone? I hope that Stacey and her family see that this is nothing more than childish behavior and try to ignore your black-hearted statements.  I learned a valuable lesson years ago, when someone says nasty mean things about you, its more than likely because they are unhappy with themselves and jealous of others.

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#15 General Comment

Disgusting.

AUTHOR: anonymous - (United States of America)

What a sad excuse for a human being.  And no, I am not speaking about Stacy -- who I might add I do not know and have never met.  To file a report about your business dealings with her I completely understand, and you may be right, but the way you bash and degrade her and her family -- including her children -- grow up.  To attack ones appearance, really? What good does that do besides make you look like an idiot.

I honestly feel sorry for you.  How unhappy with your own life do you have to be in order to inflict this sort of pain on someone? I hope that Stacy and her family see that this is nothing more than childish behavior and try to ignore your black-hearted statements.  I learned a valuable lesson years ago, when someone says nasty mean things about you, its more than likely because they are unhappy with themselves and jealous of others.

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#16 Author of original report

More personal putdowns and empty threats from Stacy and Friends, no suprise here

AUTHOR: anonymous - (U.S.A.)

More personal put downs.  Very expected behavior from Stacy but regardless something else we should all be aware of is that the claim needs to be false and in this case we have proof.  Stacy gave it to us and there are so many people that have seen her do it that it will not be a concern in court.  I have worked for the court system and taken enough law classes to know that empty legal threats will not stop the truth from coming out sooner or later.
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#17 General Comment

Concerned

AUTHOR: Righteous1 - (USA)

TO the person who "jumps to conclusions about  an objective opinion", Please  reconsider and stop using these boards to add degradation. I will gladly be sworn in under oath that I have no idea who this person is that is being bashed. What I am "concerned" about is that you and others find that ONLINE bashing is the NEW In thing to do. ALmost childish behavior to say the least.

You are ultimately responsible for your words and actions...so yeah on that level....when a liable and defamation suit comes along...at least you have been clued in. Bless you for validating that unkindness is more important in your life....
I could care less if the object of your  hatred eats boogers...it doesnt give you or anyone the right to make a smear campaign legal...Get a life...you gotta have better things to do....
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#18 Author of original report

More Threats From Stacy Longmate Goodrich

AUTHOR: anonymous - (U.S.A.)

It is almost funny to watch as Stacy or one of her manipulative friends posts threats about legal action on an opinion report.  You might want to read the terms.  Also made me laugh that someone else had a similar problem with her and found the report only two days after it was posted!  I am sure there will be plenty more coming out on Stacy from Kingston very soon.  It seem we are not the only people who have experienced her abuse.  I wonder if she actually thought she could take advantage of so many giving people and no one would have a problem with it.
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#19 General Comment

contact a lawyer

AUTHOR: Righteous1 - (United States of America)

WOW. Hope the author and commentary personnel have a good lawyer.  Slander and defamation are seething on this matter. Odd that Ripoff allows this to be posted. I see no good coming from this being posted online.
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#20 Consumer Comment

A little harsh, but very true!!

AUTHOR: Laura - (United States of America)

All though I do not agree with the author bashing on anyone's weight, I have to say this sounds like the Stacey I know. She certainly knows how to manipulate those around her to get what she wants. This however did not work on me.

Stacey is a compulsive liar and will turn on you the momment you offer her nothing she wants or needs. If you don't massage her ego, she will turn her back and heaven help you if you do not agree with her. I was also told I was a "crazy b**ch" as well as calling me "little girl" in a heated argument. She has trashed my name and those close to me. She throws ultimatums and insults like a pro. My suggestion if you ever meet her, get away as fast as you can.

Her "fundraisers" are a joke. Do not believe when she says a portion if any proceeds will go to a charity. She may make $1,000 and drop a 5 dollar bill in a can and call it good. She uses all money to support her need to buy herself trips to Vegas and gas for driving around to get her name out there.

The "please feel sorry for me" act makes me want to gag. What's worse, so many eat it up. Get a clue people, she's a con artist!!

She can turn a common cold into an emergency room visit where specialists are called, x-rays taken,...you name it. Little things blown way up, just to keep her victim roll intact. Kudos Stacey, you are a disgraceful human being!

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