Came to this post because it had referenced ULUST Felt it imperative to let people know the truth about ULUST and their affiliated sites IN MY OPINION The site ULUST if nothing more than a fraud. it is FAR worse then you can imagine STATED over 5,000,000 members.. most are so old they have not visited the site in over a year or more the women in the chat room (most of them) are frauds as well they show 40 to 80,000 people online.. yet no more than 20 people in ALL of their chat rooms. FEW women will ever go off-site meaning no Yahoo or phone.. in 6 months on that site I went OFF site with 2 and 99 percent of the men I have spoken to have never gotten any women to go off site YES ULUST is a FRAUD The same man answers Customer service phone all the time.. they don't protect chaters from fraud or abuse, they refuse to answer any e-mails questioning their statistics of membership or online people.. the entire site looks like a fraud to me. When a group of regular chaters (a men obviously.. as the women are not really looking but appear to be paid to participate and can be seen working regular shifts ) the men who were discussing how the site is misleading and fraudulent had heir accounts canceled without notice to silence them. IF your looking for REAL women to date or start something with.. THE ULUST SITE IS NOT THE ONE IN MY PERSONAL OPINION I BELIEVE I HAVE BEEN DEFRAUDED (RIPED OFF) AND THAT THE STATISTICS ARE FALSE AND MISLEADING AND NOT IN KEEPING WITH A REAL HONEST SITE.