To the other female who kindly posted her story about this man, thank you. Your story is all too familiar, and unfortunately very common. It is not even the tip of the iceberg though. He doesn't have 9 childrn, in fact last I counted there was 13, my daughter being one of them. I dated him in high school, we always used a condom, but somehow I got pregnant. Years later, in a drunken stuper he admitted to having poked a hole in the condom on purpose. This man has used and abused hundreds of women. We are not alone.
Also, his mother did not die when he was a child. Her name is tina, and she's a kind and spunky woman.
I really do not care to rehash all that this man put me through, but besides impregnating me before I even graduated high school, he has also threatened my life a number of times, stolen from myself and my family, and now he is harassing his own daughter.
I am stuck with him circling around from time to time because of my daughter, but she has grown to not want anything to do with him anyway. And we're currently seeking an order of protection against him. As have many other of his 'baby mamas.'
Adding to the list of liar and thief, he has had "careers" as a gang banger, drug dealer, pimp, pornstar, and just all around hustler. He will do anything to benefit himself without a care for who he destroys in his path. And yes, he's done plenty of prison time as well.
He is also bi polar, has taken lithium for this in the past. Not sure if he's still on meds, but he is very prone to manic episodes, and becomes extremely unpredictable and intolerable when this happens, so beware.
I offer this as a warning to anyone looking to do business with him, befriend him, or date him. Just say no.