I am just disgusted with this man's behavior!! One of the dearest people I know is pregnant and carrying his child. They met on match.com. He swept her off her feet. He told her he loved and adored her. They planned to spend the rest of their lives together. She trusted him. And gave him her heart. He told her just a few weeks ago that he would love her forever. Despite problems they had in their relationship, she truly believed they would always come out the other end, because he made her believe they would. When she got pregnant, she got extremely emotional and hormonal. Anyone who knows anything about pregnant woman knows that hey can be moody irrational, act crazy, sad, anxiety, depressed etc. you name it, they feel it. She made some rash decisions in her recent weeks. She regretted and apologized for them. It was her hormones talking. Not her. A few weeks ago, they flew to Switzerland to visit with his family. [continued below]....
..... She got emotional and upset and ended up breaking up with him. She later regretted it. By that time, he had already put her on the train that took her down the mountain, at which point, she was supposed to catch another train to the airport. She did not have enough money to get home and pay for flight change. She has emailed him asking for help. She had no phone service. 6 hours later he shows up with his mother who made her feel extremely uncomfortable. I do not want to involve his family because I'm sure they are wonderful people who only heard one side of the story. A side that mde them hate her and tell him to get rid of her. Rather than fight for the PREGNANT girlfirend that he planned on spending his life with. He left her alone. Cold, scared, with nothing to eat for days. She begged and pleaded and cried hysterically for him to forgive her. He ignored most of her pleas. Then, got on a plane back to LA and left her in Switzerland. She finally made it back and spent 4 nights sleeping on the streets of LA with no food, a high fever, most likely suffering from pneumonia. She was too ashamed to call her friends, and didn't feel comfortable going back to the home they shared. Mind you, he didn't even bother to check to see if she was ok until one of our friends emailed him asking where she was. AND, he changed the locks to the house where she lived and where all of her stuff was. He then tried to throw her out into the streets to nowhere to go. She tried desperately to speak to him, and he even had moments of kindness. They had sex twice, which he later called her a "w***e" for doing. He told her that his family hated her so he couldn't be with her anymore. He called her a "deranged b***h". Please, again, let me remind you that she is now more than 3 months pregnant. Whatever her behavior, he should have given her the benefit of the doubt. She is now in a court battle with him and all she really wanted to do was go to family counseling to work on their problems. He has taken all the furniture out of their house, leaving her with a pillow and mattress, he had her car towed to an unknown location. She has had to walk miles to her doctor appointments. He has no interest whatsoever in their unborn child and claims he will do what he is required to do and pay child support.
There are a lot more details which I don't feel the need to get into. We all welcomed James into our lives because we are her family. We have all made attempts to speak with him, without taking sides, to see if there was even a glimpse of compassion. And nothing.
So, ladies, please, for the love of respect for women, stay far away from this man. He was her prince. Then he turned into the frog. The "prince" is an act. He is a fraud. And I hope he spends the rest of his life regretting what he did. He lost the best girl I know. I'm so mad at her for still loving him. He messed with her head so bad. She will be scarred for life. You have been warned. Turn and walk....run away. Anyone else in the world, is better for you than this guy. I promise.