חדש ימינו
CHADEISH YAMEINU
Jewish Renewal Community
PO Box 3578 Santa Cruz, CA 95063-3578
831-429-6936
www.cySantaCruz.org
September 13, 2009
I
serve as rabbi of Chadeish Yameinu, the Jewish Renewal community of Santa Cruz,
California. In this capacity, I have had
ample opportunity to observe and interact with Rabbi Yitzhak Miller as both a
congregant of mine as well as a colleague.
When
Rabbi Miller, whom we sometimes affectionately call “Reb Yitzi,” returned to
the Santa Cruz area, I was aware of an article in the Riverside
Press-Enterprise which claimed Rabbi Miller suffered from significant “anger
management issues and challenges working with leadership at the temple where he
had been employed.” Naturally, this was
of concern to me as he began to resettle in this community and particularly
since we were looking to him to do some work in our community with children. Therefore, I made it a priority to both
observe Rabbi Miller in various settings and interactions, as well as to talk
with him directly about the situation. I
soon found myself at ease knowing that, in fact, he was quite self-aware and has
been perfectly appropriate at all times.
Rabbi
Miller has become very active in our congregation, as well as in the broader Jewish,
secular, and interfaith communities. I
have personally spent time with him as he serves on our Finance and School
committees, and is currently a member-at-large of our Board of Directors, and
has been the inspirational force behind, catalyst of and an instructor for a
new program of outreach and education for young children and their parents
which our community has developed.
I
have both observed and interacted with Rabbi Miller in all these settings, as
well as in meetings of local rabbis and in personal social settings. I have certainly seen situations which might
trigger frustration and possible anger for anyone. For example, there were months of meetings
under intense time pressure to get our new school programs together. There was bureaucracy and process that
seemingly exceeded that which was necessary for a community of our size. Moreover, there have been occasions when
Rabbi Miller himself proposed ideas or plans that were changed or rejected by
one of the committees or the Board, sometimes in ways that were quite
insensitive on the part of others.
Having
had conversations and counseling sessions with Rabbi Miller, and knowing his
personal challenges, I paid particular attention to how he handled these
situations. Since he has shared so much
of his personal challenge with me, I have even recognized when he began to get
triggered in challenging situations, and it is clear that he has done
substantial personal work to handle these triggers in a cordial and polite
manner. Most importantly, I have watched
him use these situations as opportunities for self-reflection and personal
growth, and often offered back in an open manner that has been a true example
to the rest of us.
I
have now worked directly with Reb Yitzi for over a year. Not only do I have no concerns whatsoever
over the picture the Riverside newspaper painted of him, I can with great
sincerity say that Rabbi Miller is one of the kindest and most generous people
I have ever met. He is an intelligent
and gifted teacher, a good friend, and an invaluable member of this community,
whose generosity of time, resources and spirit have been an immense gift to me
personally and to our entire community.
I would wholeheartedly recommend him as an exceptional asset to any
organization.
Rabbi Eli Cohen
Chadeish Yameinu
Jewish Renewal Community
of Santa Cruz