Report: Richard John Santerre Jr.
Category: Dead Beat Dads
Richard John Santerre Jr. Deadbeat non-custodial parent not paying child support Manchester Connecticut
*Consumer Comment ..After reading it all, I wasn't suprised by the ending post I just read at all...
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Richard John Santerre Jr.
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Manchester, California, 06040
U.S.A.
Submitted: 2/9/2006 3:28:57 PM
Modified: 5/25/2008 8:25:56 PM
Sharon
Marina, CaliforniaRichard Santerre owes his two children in California $15,378.44 in arrearages for child support and owes back medical support too. We are going to court next week to get the child support to guidelines. He says that he loves his kids but he can't pay his child support because he can't find a job. That is just crap.
He drives a brand new convertable that his 'wife' just bought for him. They had a lovely vacation in Florida because I wouldn't drop the lien that is on his house. He wanted to pay me off with $20,000.00 but the condition was the lien to be taken off of the house so they could move to Florida. Can't do that by law.
He is a deadbeat who only pays what the courts force him to pay. Well, it is time for you to pay what is due for your kids. See what happens next week.
Sharon
Marina, California
U.S.A.
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Updates & Rebuttals:
- Bank of America is charging $1.50 Sharon [2/10/2006 10:12:55 AM]
- anymore suggestions Sharon [2/10/2006 10:49:03 AM]
- Get yourself a good lawyer Tll [2/11/2006 9:53:23 AM]
- He still hasn't filed in Response of Declaration of his income and expenses, and it is to late for him to do it Sharon [2/11/2006 3:55:49 PM]
- Update 2/15/2006 Court Today.. judge has ordered that Child Support be set at $948.00 per month Sharon [2/15/2006 9:17:56 PM]
- JUST LOOK IN THE MIRROR. Sharon [2/22/2006 9:10:42 AM]
- Now he wants to get me fired from my job Sharon [3/25/2006 8:19:53 AM]
- He better not be successful.... Nick [3/25/2006 11:25:39 AM]
- Some of the facts... More to follow... Kelly [3/27/2006 6:41:25 PM]
- Thanx for the support Nick-Now for you KELLY Sharon [3/27/2006 10:00:43 PM]
- Time for Richard to Stand up to the Plate Sharon [3/28/2006 1:08:42 PM]
- Sticking up for a deadbeat - now THERE'S a new one! Nick [3/28/2006 5:22:53 PM]
- Insight Kathy [3/28/2006 6:51:56 PM]
- Thank you again Nick-Hi Kathy I'll reposnd to you Sharon [3/29/2006 6:51:50 AM]
- Kathy-Response now that I am fully awake Sharon [3/29/2006 8:57:39 AM]
- A Matter of Convienence Kathy [3/29/2006 12:47:30 PM]
- FIRST TO NICK THEN TO SHARON Kelly [3/29/2006 12:55:56 PM]
- Sharon your sending out the wrong message to single Mothers Marsha [3/29/2006 1:52:19 PM]
- ELEPHANT BRAIN Kelly [3/29/2006 2:43:03 PM]
- BUTT OUT! Sharon [3/29/2006 4:56:13 PM]
- Money Money Money Kathy [3/29/2006 5:14:27 PM]
- To all the responses I received today!! Sharon [3/29/2006 7:58:23 PM]
- from Richards brother Michael [3/29/2006 8:29:32 PM]
- Good for you KID! Ruth [3/29/2006 8:50:03 PM]
- An observation Vanessa [3/29/2006 9:07:00 PM]
- Saw Your Last post right after I posted mine Vanessa [3/29/2006 9:45:49 PM]
- Sharon and Stefanie Kelly [3/29/2006 10:00:09 PM]
- Last One? Kelly [3/29/2006 10:18:24 PM]
- IGNORANCE IS BLISS! Kathy [3/30/2006 6:52:22 AM]
- Didn't even bother to read your responses Sharon [3/30/2006 6:55:27 AM]
- Lord do I feel sorry for the kids Ruth [3/30/2006 8:51:56 AM]
- This is awful Elizabeth [3/30/2006 9:06:37 AM]
- Just A Note From Someone who Cares! Jim [3/30/2006 9:15:27 AM]
- The floodgates have opened! Nick [3/30/2006 10:04:19 AM]
- Enough is enough! Angie [3/30/2006 11:12:28 AM]
- Angie-thanx for your response Sharon [3/30/2006 1:39:41 PM]
- Two Sets of Braces Vanessa [3/30/2006 1:59:47 PM]
- if you can't take the heat, get out the kitchen Kelly [3/30/2006 3:01:12 PM]
- Part Two for Angie-Answer each paragraph Sharon [3/30/2006 3:20:35 PM]
- Peace and quite Sharon [3/31/2006 7:59:40 AM]
- Response Angie [3/31/2006 9:55:25 AM]
- You Guys IS THIS WORTH YOUR CHILDREN SEEING THIS?! Ruth [3/31/2006 10:48:52 AM]
- WOW Kathy [3/31/2006 1:51:07 PM]
- just a question Heather [3/31/2006 2:27:21 PM]
- Thought it was done? Kelly [3/31/2006 6:12:40 PM]
- Because it's a typical problem! Nick [3/31/2006 11:10:07 PM]
- I cannot beleive this!!!! Sharon [4/1/2006 6:29:49 AM]
- Can you guys JUST TRY TO BE CIVIL FOR THOSE KIDS PLEASE Ruth [4/1/2006 11:19:29 AM]
- THE TRUTH... Kelly [4/1/2006 5:58:24 PM]
- THE TRUTH... Kelly [4/1/2006 5:58:35 PM]
- IT ALL MAKES SENSE NOW!! Kelly [4/1/2006 8:42:57 PM]
- Okay, well that's better. More info is good info. Nick [4/1/2006 10:33:21 PM]
- The Truth times 2 Sharon [4/1/2006 10:46:37 PM]
- TRUTH PART 2 Kelly [4/2/2006 5:01:02 AM]
- TO NICK Kelly [4/2/2006 6:09:19 AM]
- Hi Nick Sharon [4/2/2006 7:34:07 AM]
- TO YOU SHARON Kelly [4/2/2006 9:59:13 AM]
- Sharon and Kelly you two have a lot to get over without involving the kids Ruth [4/2/2006 11:49:05 AM]
- Until the court date Sharon [4/2/2006 12:41:46 PM]
- Sharon, pretty sad that you have never sent pictures of the children Dianne [4/2/2006 5:46:44 PM]
- Usually my first impressions are right on.... Hmmm... Nick [4/3/2006 1:20:23 AM]
- Response to Ruth and Diane Sharon [4/3/2006 5:49:30 AM]
- Nick-Thanks for your reply and I will answer Sharon [4/3/2006 8:41:33 AM]
- Good Lord Ruth [4/3/2006 9:43:27 AM]
- Thank God Dianne [4/3/2006 9:58:51 AM]
- Vows of silence.... Nick [4/3/2006 12:44:41 PM]
- In Response to Nick Sharon [4/3/2006 2:39:38 PM]
- Ruth and Nick Kelly [4/3/2006 3:55:57 PM]
- Here we go again Kelly [4/3/2006 4:35:10 PM]
- Again, info is good. Nick [4/3/2006 7:25:36 PM]
- What an episode Nadine [4/3/2006 9:55:48 PM]
- Nick Kelly [4/4/2006 3:51:03 AM]
- In Response to Kelly, Ruth, Nick and Nadine Sharon [4/4/2006 7:09:13 AM]
- What you are doing to those kids filling them with hate and allowing such disrespect is awful. Elizabeth [4/4/2006 2:04:58 PM]
- THIS IS NOT ABOUT SUPPORT, YOUR PoSTINGS MAKE IT CLEAR BY ATTACKING HIS FAMILY THE WAY YOU HAVE Ruth [4/4/2006 3:29:01 PM]
- Weekend...... Angie [4/4/2006 6:34:14 PM]
- The VERY last posting Sharon [4/4/2006 7:24:00 PM]
- Child support Dianne [4/5/2006 4:41:53 AM]
- Ok, Ok, Enough Already.... Concerned [4/5/2006 8:51:51 AM]
- Sharon i did SUPPORT YOU AT FIRST WE ALL DID Ruth [4/5/2006 8:57:36 AM]
- Another last post - I'm not finished yet.... Nick [4/5/2006 10:11:56 AM]
- Priorities are wrong Barry [4/5/2006 11:59:30 AM]
- still doesn't make sense Dianne [4/5/2006 7:43:45 PM]
- MORE INFO Kelly [4/5/2006 8:41:05 PM]
- It is almost over Dianne [4/6/2006 5:45:42 AM]
- Okay I am butting in yet again! Ruth [4/6/2006 8:28:03 AM]
- Hush falls........... Angie [4/7/2006 9:55:05 AM]
- Angie Dianne listen carefully Ruth [4/8/2006 8:19:00 PM]
- The judgement get laid down... Louise [4/14/2006 7:44:12 AM]
- hoping that someone from RICHARD's family or Richard himself will update us after the court date coming up. Elizabeth [4/14/2006 10:56:44 AM]
- This is a soap opera but the mother is entitled to support Kimberly [4/14/2006 12:07:03 PM]
- Kimberly Ruth [4/15/2006 3:20:58 PM]
- Yes I am still here Sharon [4/17/2006 12:10:32 PM]
- Angie and Dianne are finished Angie [4/17/2006 1:47:43 PM]
- Angie Ruth [4/17/2006 2:17:55 PM]
- To all that have contributed, supportive and non-supportive Sharon [4/18/2006 8:23:08 AM]
- No traffic for a while-that is good Sharon [5/16/2006 6:59:53 AM]
- Just a response Laura [5/16/2006 1:49:12 PM]
- Thank you for your concern Sharon [5/17/2006 5:54:36 AM]
- In addition to what I have already stated.... Sharon [5/17/2006 5:50:42 PM]
- Sharon Laura [5/18/2006 10:16:58 AM]
- Neurontin Laura [5/18/2006 6:31:20 PM]
- Laura Thanks for Your Response Sharon [5/18/2006 6:35:38 PM]
- Site info. Sharon [5/19/2006 5:47:28 AM]
- Sharon after reading your entire story Laura [5/19/2006 1:21:12 PM]
- Thanks for your reply Sharon [5/19/2006 6:58:53 PM]
- Sharon Ruth [5/23/2006 9:40:35 AM]
- Sharon.. Has 'daddy' ever met the kids? Laura [5/23/2006 1:24:58 PM]
- It's almost over Angie [5/24/2006 7:59:08 PM]
- This is laughable..better then the soap Sharon [5/24/2006 9:12:58 PM]
- Sharon Laura [5/25/2006 12:18:18 PM]
- Thanks Sharon [5/26/2006 5:55:08 AM]
- Time Line Marie [5/27/2006 9:09:55 AM]
- Marie Sharon [5/27/2006 10:56:38 AM]
- Still Confused Marie [5/27/2006 4:18:08 PM]
- Not that confusing Sharon [5/28/2006 1:36:12 AM]
- Marie WHY didn't Richard PAY IT TO SUPPORT ENFORCEMENT INSTEAD? Laura [5/28/2006 2:52:30 PM]
- Richard Needs to Respond C [5/29/2006 2:59:17 PM]
- For the Record Angie [5/29/2006 8:25:53 PM]
- Is that a defense? Laura [5/30/2006 4:18:33 AM]
- Wrong on both sides Elizabeth [5/30/2006 10:20:19 AM]
- And it goes on... Nick [6/1/2006 2:09:53 PM]
- Another piece of information Angie [6/1/2006 4:22:13 PM]
- Nick Laura [6/1/2006 5:09:40 PM]
- Hello everyone Kelly [6/1/2006 5:42:18 PM]
- Thanx, Nick Elizabeth [6/1/2006 6:03:09 PM]
- Another opinion..... Lori [6/1/2006 8:02:51 PM]
- Absolutely the kids are the MOST important without question Laura [6/1/2006 8:30:00 PM]
- I totally agree with Lori in that enforcing visitation for a non-custodial parent is near impossible Elizabeth [6/1/2006 8:48:45 PM]
- Wheels keep on turning.... Nick [6/2/2006 12:04:02 AM]
- Hi Kelly [6/2/2006 4:21:26 AM]
- Laura Lori [6/2/2006 5:05:22 AM]
- The Opinions Keep Rollling In! Kathy [6/2/2006 7:37:36 AM]
- I RESPECT RICHARD Marie [6/2/2006 1:35:13 PM]
- Sharon Laura [6/2/2006 2:57:09 PM]
- Marie Laura [6/2/2006 3:46:58 PM]
- Laura Angie [6/2/2006 6:27:07 PM]
- US MOTHERS, I'M A MOTHER Marie [6/2/2006 7:31:02 PM]
- Absolutely Unbelievable. Just.... wow. Nick [6/2/2006 7:42:16 PM]
- Nick Angie [6/2/2006 9:27:27 PM]
- WHEN IS THE COURT DATE Marie [6/2/2006 9:36:25 PM]
- Let's get real Elizabeth [6/2/2006 10:12:15 PM]
- Court Date Angie [6/2/2006 11:17:34 PM]
- The past is the past. Kelly [6/2/2006 11:27:57 PM]
- Objective? Laura [6/3/2006 4:30:49 AM]
- It doesn't matter who sent the gifts the fact that the gifts were sent matter. Marie [6/3/2006 11:04:37 AM]
- WOW Sharon [6/3/2006 1:44:39 PM]
- Bottom Line Kathy [6/4/2006 2:32:49 PM]
- Not over? Laura [6/4/2006 5:12:56 PM]
- Wow, no wonder why are kids are so missed up these days! Phyllis [6/4/2006 7:51:41 PM]
- Laura Angie [6/5/2006 5:52:31 AM]
- the main reason why I say what I say is you all keep right on proving me right. Laura [6/5/2006 10:50:03 AM]
- One sided? Laura [6/5/2006 3:04:27 PM]
- TO ALL Kelly [6/5/2006 5:31:56 PM]
- Apparently, my last post never made it here. Nick [6/6/2006 9:27:23 AM]
- Court Kelly [6/6/2006 3:02:51 PM]
- Paperwork C [6/7/2006 7:49:50 AM]
- FOR MS. KELLY! Sue [6/8/2006 10:11:04 AM]
- Sue get the facts straight. Rich paid child support faithfully for many years. Elizabeth [6/8/2006 11:10:40 AM]
- DID YOU READ THE WHOLE BOLG?? Kathy [6/8/2006 1:37:24 PM]
- Nothing has been solved Laura [6/8/2006 9:30:26 PM]
- my first husband beat me and took off for 19 years Ruth [6/9/2006 12:27:51 PM]
- sharon's lies Dianne [6/9/2006 5:51:54 PM]
- Update Sharon [6/10/2006 7:25:45 AM]
- Two sides to every story Don [6/10/2006 10:54:27 AM]
- Sharon Laura [6/10/2006 11:14:56 AM]
- Wow, this is CRAZY!!! Kelly [6/11/2006 2:51:12 PM]
- What a sad display of championing one parent over another Nick [6/13/2006 7:42:33 AM]
- Nick Laura [6/15/2006 2:09:31 AM]
- To clarify Laura [6/15/2006 10:35:28 AM]
- Okay Ruth [6/15/2006 12:20:49 PM]
- ONE LAST TIME!!!!! Sharon [6/16/2006 6:06:05 AM]
- And the truth is told about Visitation Laura [6/16/2006 12:44:50 PM]
- NO ONE obviously cares about these children Kelley [6/16/2006 2:12:58 PM]
- Back again Kelly [6/17/2006 7:17:19 AM]
- Sanity check Elizabeth [6/17/2006 7:55:23 AM]
- Not all dads are deadbeats D [6/17/2006 9:45:24 AM]
- Comments Laura [6/17/2006 1:36:17 PM]
- Laura Kelly [6/17/2006 8:42:52 PM]
- An Answer for Kelly I mean Rich..No Kelly Sharon [6/18/2006 7:42:09 AM]
- Just another thing to clear up Kelly/Richard Sharon [6/18/2006 9:25:29 AM]
- Kelly Laura [6/18/2006 12:14:08 PM]
- Sharon Laura [6/18/2006 12:37:48 PM]
- DEAR SHARON Kelly [6/18/2006 4:33:42 PM]
- Children deserve all available resources from both parents Chris [6/18/2006 6:10:51 PM]
- Laura Sharon [6/18/2006 6:16:31 PM]
- Kelly Laura [6/18/2006 7:04:13 PM]
- Laura Kelly [6/18/2006 7:17:25 PM]
- sharon Kelly [6/18/2006 7:32:02 PM]
- Kelly Laura [6/18/2006 8:06:23 PM]
- Sharon Laura [6/20/2006 10:34:56 PM]
- Unbelievable... & .. EDitor's staff comment Jennifer [6/21/2006 2:19:58 AM]
- Laura and Everyone Else............... Sharon [6/21/2006 6:27:25 PM]
- Not my intention Laura [6/22/2006 12:14:09 AM]
- Today Ruth [6/22/2006 10:27:55 AM]
- I AGREE WITH LAURA Kathy [6/22/2006 1:49:09 PM]
- This has clearly been about revenge all along Nick [6/26/2006 12:51:21 PM]
- Nick & some thoughts. Laura [6/27/2006 5:59:47 PM]
- UPDATE..... Sharon [6/30/2006 6:36:26 PM]
- What in the world Laura [6/30/2006 9:15:35 PM]
- Me Again Sharon [7/1/2006 8:02:12 AM]
- How quick we are to condemn...... Lori [7/1/2006 8:24:11 AM]
- So what Laura [7/1/2006 11:48:47 AM]
- Lori Laura [7/1/2006 12:28:37 PM]
- Sharon Susie [7/2/2006 7:04:58 AM]
- Thoughts? Sharon [7/2/2006 8:16:14 AM]
- Susie Sharon [7/2/2006 8:59:37 AM]
- My, My Lori [7/2/2006 9:29:09 AM]
- Loss of Employment or Quit Susie [7/2/2006 10:59:11 AM]
- Reply Laura [7/2/2006 1:39:19 PM]
- reply to Laura Susie [7/2/2006 4:55:21 PM]
- Child support guidlines Laura [7/2/2006 11:04:10 PM]
- Response to Sharon and Laura Susie [7/3/2006 3:41:40 AM]
- Guidelines Sharon [7/3/2006 5:31:32 AM]
- The key words here are..... Lori [7/3/2006 11:04:41 AM]
- SSI and child support are two seperate things. Laura [7/3/2006 10:48:10 PM]
- TWO SIDES TO EVERY STORY... Kelly [7/4/2006 5:02:49 AM]
- Right off of the court papers Sharon [7/4/2006 8:29:51 AM]
- NEW DEVELOPMENTS Kelly [7/4/2006 5:22:57 PM]
- ARE YOU REALLY FINISHED YET! Kathy [7/4/2006 6:41:40 PM]
- Kelly, my ENTIRE family has been deployed at one time or another to include this war Laura [7/5/2006 1:43:41 AM]
- Clarification Needed Susie [7/5/2006 4:18:42 AM]
- my name is Kelly not spokesperson Kelly [7/5/2006 5:39:21 AM]
- The purpose here is to hold him accountable for his failure to uphold his responsibilities Sharon [7/6/2006 6:00:54 AM]
- Response Sharon [7/6/2006 5:11:37 PM]
- Food for thought Susie [7/7/2006 3:46:16 AM]
- NO I WILL NOT GO AWAY Kathy [7/7/2006 9:47:43 AM]
- WHY I QUESTION SHARON Marie [7/7/2006 10:07:05 AM]
- Move on the Lein Chuck [7/7/2006 11:15:14 AM]
- hello Sharon [7/7/2006 8:39:22 PM]
- LIES LIES LIES Kathy [7/8/2006 4:51:42 PM]
- Medical Not Submitted Susie [7/9/2006 4:23:00 AM]
- Spokesperson #2 Sharon [7/9/2006 7:07:46 AM]
- Truth - Easy to Find Rebekah [7/9/2006 7:16:15 PM]
- What a mess Laura [7/9/2006 8:15:43 PM]
- Rebeka Sharon [7/9/2006 8:27:25 PM]
- Laura Sharon [7/10/2006 5:30:23 AM]
- Why I do what I do Sharon [7/10/2006 7:14:41 AM]
- More from Honey than Vinager Susie [7/10/2006 2:20:57 PM]
- SPOKESPERSON #1/KELLY Kelly [7/11/2006 6:58:37 AM]
- Sharon I am very proud of your taking a stand Laura [7/11/2006 12:14:32 PM]
- IT'S ALL ABOUT 'CONTROL'!!! Kendel [7/11/2006 1:31:13 PM]
- Spokesperson #1/ Kelly Kelly [7/11/2006 6:17:27 PM]
- I see everyone's point of views here Laura [7/12/2006 12:47:56 PM]
- I do take into consideration everything that you posted Sharon [7/12/2006 6:57:02 PM]
- Proposed Resolution Sharon [7/13/2006 6:41:06 PM]
- Now It is time To respond Richard [8/21/2006 11:06:21 PM]
- hope you guys can move on now Brenda [8/22/2006 8:52:30 AM]
- People make mistakes Laura [8/23/2006 11:35:55 AM]
- Deja Vue Sharon [8/23/2006 7:28:06 PM]
- Disappointing! Kendel [8/24/2006 2:13:16 AM]
- it's not that easy Brenda [8/24/2006 8:48:29 AM]
- Welcome, Richard Nick [8/26/2006 1:10:01 AM]
- Yes I am here Richard [8/26/2006 9:21:45 AM]
- Just Can't Handle Responsibility Sharon [8/26/2006 2:49:01 PM]
- Once Again..... Kendel [8/28/2006 4:54:34 PM]
- You're missing the point Nick [8/29/2006 1:21:01 AM]
- Nick-Cut and Paste-but can you read??? Sharon [8/29/2006 4:50:44 PM]
- Me. Richard [8/29/2006 7:44:28 PM]
- Oooh, we're finally getting somewhere.... Nick [8/29/2006 11:42:05 PM]
- Hello Sharon [8/30/2006 5:23:42 PM]
- Questions never answered... Angie [8/30/2006 9:43:42 PM]
- ALOT OF THIS IS NONE OF YOUR BUSINESS Marie [8/31/2006 10:43:07 PM]
- Answer the question. Nick [9/2/2006 7:17:44 PM]
- I do have a lien on his property Sharon [9/3/2006 11:14:31 AM]
- We're at it again huh? Laura [9/15/2006 10:09:28 AM]
- Sharon has been there Laura [9/15/2006 10:46:18 AM]
- I'm sorry but as I re-read Laura [9/16/2006 11:19:29 AM]
- Yes I am still here Sharon [9/16/2006 5:52:53 PM]
- So Rich IS paying? Nick [9/22/2006 12:21:44 PM]
- This is for you Nick- Sharon [9/23/2006 4:12:31 PM]
- Well Sharon guess you made another child not have a father now huh? Ruth [9/23/2006 11:18:59 PM]
- Wow Laura [9/25/2006 1:51:17 PM]
- Your right-WOW-So nice to hear from you Ruth Sharon [9/25/2006 5:29:16 PM]
- Description of Richard John Santerre Jr Sharon [9/26/2006 7:08:15 AM]
- Sharon Ruth [9/28/2006 8:51:54 AM]
- Wow Elizabeth [9/29/2006 4:11:25 PM]
- Elizabeth Ruth [9/30/2006 12:29:59 AM]
- Enough misery to go around Shannen [10/7/2006 12:22:27 AM]
- Ahhh, more love from Sharon and Laura Nick [10/28/2006 11:38:35 PM]
- well, put Nick Ruth [11/1/2006 7:57:22 AM]
- Again and again Laura [11/22/2006 4:03:11 PM]
- Heavens to Mergatroid Lori [11/23/2006 12:13:06 PM]
- Sad state of affairs Rich [12/29/2006 7:54:31 PM]
- I owe Sharon an Apology Vanessa [5/6/2008 4:57:58 PM]
- After reading it all, I wasn't suprised by the ending post I just read at all... Candellife [5/25/2008 8:19:31 PM]
Bank of America is charging $1.50
I have paid out of my pocket for four sets of braces for our two children, this comes to a total of $11384.50. He owes me half of that which is $5,692.25. He also owes Monterey County the sum of $48,938.00.
He rufuses to answer any e-mails that I send to him and he hasn't paid for Bank of America is charging $1.50 any of the medical that he owes me back. There is a website called fakeford.com that has a lot of information/support for custodial parents trying to collect on back support and back medical. On this site there is a bill of rights for non-custodial, unpaying deadbeats that really says exactly how I feel about his rights and responsibilities as a non-parent, it is called 'Deadbeat Parent Bill of NO Rights'. Anyone trying to collect child support and going through the judicial system should take a look at it and send it to their deadbeat ex. My children have read it and when I get the final order, which will be next week, then I plan on sending all the information and a copy of the NO Rights to the legislators, congress persons, attorney generals, governors and media in both of our areas.
anymore suggestions
His phone number is (860) 649-3611. His wife feels that it is her business to get involved with the case. That is just wrong. She is not the mother of the children I am!! If anyone has anymore suggestions on what to do please feel free to leave me a message
Get yourself a good lawyer
Get yourself a good lawyer. If he is remarried and has any refund from taxes you should be able to pick that up. I can't believe that there are actually women out there who support dead beat dads. That says a lot about a woman! I would be careful. It is obvious that neither one of them care very much for YOUR children. Any woman that would entertain the company of a man that doesn't support his children and then turns around and supports HIM is mental. And a father that would go jobless in order to get out of child support is criminal. If he owes that much why isn't his butt in jail? Why isn't his driver's license suspended? I don't know what state you are from but IN VA people go to jail for this, their credit is ruined, and they have no driver's license (they will actually boot your car). Talk a lawyer about this. I can't believe he isn't in jail at this point. Let us know how things turn out. Really the judge should lock him up when you return to court. Children don't eat once a year! They eat every day many times a day. What a jerk!
He still hasn't filed in Response of Declaration of his income and expenses, and it is to late for him to do it
Thanks for the support
Right now I am preparing to go to court on 2/15. He still hasn't filed in Response of Declaration of his income and expenses, and it is to late for him to do it. When he received the papers in the mail, his wife called my place of employment to find out what my benefits were and then called my on my work phone to let me know what him and his wife had done. I hit the roof and I have proof, which has already been submitted with the court papers, and a written statement from my Human Resourse Department. That takes absolute stupidity to do.
I do know that he is active in the reserves and I have all of the information on where to send the paperwork once the judgement is handed down, which accourding to the attorney that is representing Monterey County, Ca is in my favor. The next step will be to get him to pay the support amount which has been set at $948.00. If he doesn't pay then I will seek to file a Contempt of Court charge against him.
Last week I did receive a child support check in the amount of $138.00, the first that I have seen since Aug. 2, 2005. He also sent along two packages for the kids, which he had promised to send back in October 2005.
My son, who is 13 stands 5'10' was thrilled with the motorcycle jacket and that motorcycle shirts and the odds and ends for his motorcycle back at his grandfather's house in Mississippi. The things that were sent for my daughter looked as if they were bought first for his other daughter with his current wife, whom I beleive is 11 years old now.
There is no way that this stuff was ment for a 17 year old young lady. There was a tank top (biker) that had chains for straps, very inappropriate for a young lady. When the package arrived I told the kids that it was up to them as to if they wanted to open it.
The week before that happened I found out the he still hadn't paid for my daughters senior trip. I phoned her on her cell phone (which he has informed me that I pay to much for cell phones) and let her know that it still wasn't paid for. She was extremely upset with him and she let him know it. There was a lot said during the conversation on the phone but to make it short she told him that when she grows up she will get his daughter and her to get themselves pregnant, leave the fathers with the children on their own because she wants to be just like him. Of course she ment all of this sarcastically. She asked him how does that make him feel, his reponse was that the decision was up to her.
The saga continues and I do appreciate the response. I will be letting this web site know what the final decree is and then I will be sending the web site along with the Deadbeat Parent Bill of NO Rights to the media, state legislatures, state representatives, governors, district attornies and whomever else I can think of to get the word out on him.
Update 2/15/2006 Court Today.. judge has ordered that Child Support be set at $948.00 per month
Today was my court date for the modification of the child support and uncomvered medical costs. The judge has ordered that Child Support be set at $948.00 per month and that any (dental, medical, orthodonic, eye) uncovered medical expenses be split 50/50 between myself and Richard. The only thing that I have left to do is to recalculate the uncovered medical from the time of 4/1/2000-12/31/2005. This will be done and filed with the court and then the final judgement will take place. There has been no response from him or filling of paperwork.
On 1/24/2006 Richard did make a payment of $138.00. Now take into account the last child support check that I received from him was August 2, 2005; that leaves six months months in which NO child support was paid.
Breakdown: 138.00
divided by 6 = 23.00 per month
divided by 4 = 5.75 per week
divided by 2 children = $2.88
The amount that Richard currently owes, because of the 'token' that was given to the children maybe to ease his own mind, one can only guess: is $15,378.44 owes to his children and $49,411.04 he owes back to Monterey County. That comes to a grand total of $64,789.48. The interest that accrues on that for this month will be $649.89. This figure doesn't include the back medical which will be heard again in court. There is also a lien on his property that him and his wife own, which legally cannot be taken off until the back support is paid for in full.
For those of us who actually care about the children that we bring into the world, tell me is that enough to cloth and feed and keep shelter over a child's head. Is that enough to pay for medical bills, I say it is not. For those of you out there who are dealing with the same kind of issue with your ex-spouse I can understand where you are coming from and I want to help you fight for what is rightfully belonging to your children. Please look up the site www.fakeford.com (please title the subject line Child Support) or e-mail myself at ssant11801@aol.com and I will forward the message to the site. It will take a lot of cooperation from you, people on your e-mail list, people of their e-mail list and so on to get the word out and make non-custodial parents pay what they are supposed to pay. But please get the work out. Write to your legislatures, congress people, governors, district attorney's, media and let them know that we, the taxpayers, put them in office and if they don't enforce the judgments that are handed down by the courts then they will not be re-elected again. That is what I am planning on doing and I would like to help others out there in the same situation.
JUST LOOK IN THE MIRROR.
2/15/2006
The court finds that:
The court orders: Matter continued to March 7, 2006 at 8:30 AM in Department 16 (the department number is the only thing that needs to be changed on the paperwork that was just mailed out to you)
Father is to provide the court with an update of all Medical expenses not covered by Insurance (1) one week before the hearing
Request for Un reimbursed Medical was ordered on July 1, 1998.
X Father shall provide health insurance coverage for the child/ren if available at reasonable costs; A Health Insurance Coverage Assignment will issue.
Health Insurance is effective January 15, 2006
Father and Mother stipulate, Father to pay Child Support in the amount of $948.00 per month to the Department of Child Support Services effective January 15, 2006.
*This was the finding of the court for case #DA23891 Child Support. For the month on January you still owe $561.68 and for the month of February you owe $948.00 for a total of $1,509.68. This already puts you in Contempt of Court, for not following the court orders.
TAKE CARE OF YOUR RESPONSIBILITIES TO STEFANIE AND STEVEN. YOU ARE THE ONE THAT REFUSES TO RESPOND TO ANY COURT PAPERS. SINCE WE CAN'T TALK ON THE PHONE WITHOUT YOUR WIFE GETTING INVOLVED IN OUR BUSINESS, AND HER ACTING AS IF SHE IS THE MOTHER OF MY CHILDREN, YOU ARE THE ONE THAT IS SOLEY RESPONSIBLE FOR NOT TAKING CARE OF YOUR LEGAL MATTERS. STOP BLAMING ME FOR YOUR Shortcomings AND LACK OF JUDGMENT AND/OR RESPONSIBILITIES, JUST LOOK IN THE MIRROR.
Now he wants to get me fired from my job
Now my ex has decided to contact my work to tell them that I use business time to e-mail or phone him. Nice try Richard, just like I told you when I called from my cell phone last night AFTER work, I will get your name out as the person you are, a DEADBEAT. You have made three child support payments in the past 8 months, may you be awarded the Father of the year award. The fact still remains, you owe a lot of money to your two children!! You don't like me e-mailing your Sargent with the National Guard about your lack of being able to take care of your responsibilities or e-mailing the Governor of your state, then learn how to be a man. It is your own fault that the kids don't want anything to do with you, your wife has made sure of that.
Instead of being mad at me be mad at yourself and do something about the situation that you are in. Stop with you threats and lies, just take care of your responsibilities. I will not stop fighting for what is right for the kids. I will keep on working with the groups that I work with, and I will keep on e-mailing the people who are elected to office and make the laws. The kids are the most important people in the world to me and I will continue to fight for their rights.
He better not be successful....
Note: I am not a lawyer, nor am I giving law advice, but just a few real-life suggestions that have worked for me.
Three child support payments in the last 3 years? What a loser. That covers what, no food, and maybe shoes and t-shirts? Richard, pay for your kids, you moron.
His 'I sent them something' was only for appearances for the judge. Even on a website, that is pretty clear to see. It may have bought you some time, but now send the check, Richard! Don't forget the date, the amount and the signature.
Sharon, I can sympathize with you. I saw what my wife went through with a similar walk-away from her ex, and it's just unbearable to watch. In our case, we filed for abandonment and won, but that was because I was able to pick up the pieces and didn't need the cash he wasn't sending anyway. He did go to jail several times, and he ended up moving to a state where jailtime was not enforced for being a deadbeat, nor were DLs revoked. It just doesn't seem fair that he found haven in a state, but he obviously got the message that he better find ANY solution, because we were not going to let up. I will NOT post what state that was. Sorry, deadbeats.
If Richard is late, even one day, serve him for court. If he doesn't pay, serve him for court. Every month. Eventually the judge will start seeing 'familiar faces', and get tired of asking the same questions to the same idiot. They tend to frown on people who ignore their judgements.
He better knock off that stuff at your workplace. Does he not realize that without a job, 'you have nothing better to do than put all your attention on him'? I would hint that the next time he starts interfering with your workplace. He shouldn't want that kind of attention. You can ask HR to help you, also, if you have a situation with him 'stalking' or 'harassing' you (get the idea?). Maybe someone can screen the calls, or you can just hang up. Either way, at least inform them that you have a personal problem that may attempt to interfere with your workplace, and that you do not want it, nor do you have control of what someone else does with your name. If someone at work has faced a similar situation that you trust, bring them with you to HR, so they can shed some 'uninvolved mutual' problem solving for your workplace woes. Two people confronting HR with a problem like this is powerful, especially if you feel threatened. And when HR pulls out paper and starts writing notes on your situation, that BECOMES A LEGAL DOCUMENT. Repeat the message you want so that they have to write it down. You have lots of rights - make your OWN notes of what was said and agreed upon - you can easily save your job in much much worse situations if you have your notes. Those are YOUR legal documents.
You're obviously a smart, strong-willed woman, and I applaud your ability to juggle life, kids, work and still have a fighting spirit while that little boy left his responsibilities for a tropical lifestyle with someone who supports him. They richly deserve each other. Maybe together they can come up with your child support. Wouldn't that be a hoot? She could be a cashier at 7-11 to pay for your kids - and judging by her 'involvement', seems VERY threatened. Good! Don't back down now! I'd be calling and asking HER when SHE was going to earn the money to feed his kids! Obviously she had little qualms of getting in the sack with someone who had financial and family baggage - and moreso, since she wants 'involvement' so much, she can 'pitch in' and DO HER PART! Of course, she could quit or not pay, but then Richard would go to jail for contempt. Sounds like a tough break, but you know what? That's what you deserve for abandoning your kids and leaving them high and dry.
I'll keep an eye on this thread, and I wish you the best. Deadbeat Dads are third on my list of people I find most pathetic - right behind Child Abusers and Throw-up Drunks.
Some of the facts... More to follow...
First, I have not made sure the kids don't speak with him. We really should speak the truth here and not only what makes you feel better. You clearly said they will have no contact with him until there is child support(which has been being paid since he has been working again) and when court is over. If you need to use me as a pawn then so be it. You obviously are angry with him and have made it your life goal. Don't you think this is unhealthy for yourself and your current marriage? But hey what do I know, I am supposively the one who has fixed it so the kids don't want anything to do with him. I think we should let everyone know that you want them to have no contact. I guess the time you put me on the phone with Stefanie when she was upset with her father was because she wanted nothing to do with me. That makes a lot of sense. When I have the time to devoted a couple of hours I can too write our side of the story. This is enough for now.
Thanx for the support Nick-Now for you KELLY
Kelly (the wife of the deadbeat who can't pay his own bills) you need to back off from me. You married an irresponsible no good boy, who ran from his responsibilities and is still running ,just behind you now. The reason why there is no contact is because he lies all the time and the kids don't like it, and I detest people that lie.
I, being the adult, and the children's legal guardian will not let my children be hurt or mistreated by you or anyone in that family. They want no contact with you or him. Better yet, have him write the story. But I forgot, he can't answer paperwork either so why would he. He would rather have you, who is not the children's mother, or related to them by blood, be involved in his court situation because he cannot speak for himself. He stated (on speaker phone) that you want us kicked out of our housing, because there is a lien on his and your house for $63,000. Just a little bit of change.
I also have the written report from my HR person on how you phoned pretending to be a prospective empolyee to get my benefit package, or did you forget that one. I have every right to be angry. You don't know him like I do. Your best bet it to leave me alone and tell Rich to pay his child support on time, and pay his medical which I am now posting on this site as being unpaid in the amount of $226.94 which is going up as of tomorrow becuase I have to pick up Steven's contacts, or maybe you would like to pay for them. I see you have to answer for him, because he is not man enough to do it himself. When I make mistakes I own up to them and I have made them and no I will not make them again. Back off!!!
Better yet show me what paperwork he has that shows that he is all caught up on what he owes to his two kids here in CA. Can't can you. Have a nice day, KEllY
Time for Richard to Stand up to the Plate
Richard and Kelly-This is being done at my lunch time 11:50am pacific time, just so you can keep track Rich. A few questions for you (or Kelly who does the talking for you)
1. Do you think it okay not to pay child support for 8 months and not have me, the custodial parent, be upset?
2. Do you think it was okay to say that Kelly has reported to my housing to get us kicked out? You said this on speaker phone in front of the kids. Yes Kelly, that is one of the reasons why they don't want to talk with their 'father.'
3. Is it okay not to take care of your responsibilities, the current medical, which has been mailed to your house, and still remains unpaid?
4. Richard doesn't answer court papers, do you find yourself above the law?
I will continue to fight for the children, and yes they are old enough to make up their own minds and they can contact him if they wish. I will not have him contacting them on the cell phones, I pay for that. He can contact them on the home number which he has, but they won't talk to him. Go ahead and continue to think that I fill their heads with lies about him, I really don't care. I have the paperwork to actually back up what I say, he can't say the same thing.
It is so nice of you to worry about my health and my weight, but as I have said in the replies back to you sighning me up for Jenny Craig and the other weight loss places, don't bother I am under the doctor's care and he says that I am doing fine.
As far as my marriage goes, it is stronger then ever and my husband stands behind what I do, because he knows that it is for a good cause and that I will continue to fight for the rights of the children even when they are grown and out of the house because Rich will still legally owe the money to them.
Maybe you should put your energy into looking for a new man. One that can take care of his responsibilities and act like a real man should.
Sticking up for a deadbeat - now THERE'S a new one!
Poor Kelly.
Doesn't she realize that one day, when she gets too old, or too fat or too restrictive in the bedroom that Robert will probably divorce her for the next young woman? Or in this case, RICH woman?
And that getting any spouse support to help take care of her will be just as futile? Kelly, you DO recognize this, right? It's so sad to see a grown woman posture, pontificate and stand by a man who has proven himself to be worthless in providing for his kids - and then watch her expect different results from the same person. I guess you can overlook that, Kelly, since he is not 'worthless' in providing for YOUR kids right now...
But for someone who would stoop low enough to pick out ways to hurt your husband's ex? It takes a soul-less person to feel good about that.
Glad to see you have so much time to call her employer, and banks about liens.... Because the way I see it, you don't have 'a couple of hours' to post responses on the computer. You need to take those precious hours, get back to work and help your deadbeat husband catch up on his child support and pay for his kids. The 'baggage' is part of the package, kiddo, and you chose it. Of course, since he's such a great catch, you shouldn't mind helping him take responsibility one bit! At the end of the day, having him around makes it ALL worth it!
Right? Kelly?
Insight
There are always three sides of a story yours, his and the truth. I am a divorced single parent of three wonderful children. My children are 14, 12 & 8 and have contact with their father as much as he wants. The courts ordered my ex to pay $300.00 a week which I knew he could not afford. We as mature adults did not drag our children through the mud or make our family business public.
My children are accustomed to a certain standard of living and why should that change because we as adults could not get along. We made our own arrangements along with his current girlfriend. Who is is involved because she is a part of his life. The money should not be the issue allowing my ex to be an active father is. When we were married he was never home or working. Our divorce was the one thing we could agree on for the sake of our children. They did not ask to be born or to be born to parents that fell out of love. They being our children deserved to have two parents that are happy apart.
I get mad and so does he at times but I would never put him down or fill my kid's heads with bad things about their father. There was plenty of bitterness on both sides but we both agreed that was our problem and decided to divorce each other not our children. Remember children grow up and they will eventually know the truth. I can honestly say that we as parents have kept them out of our financial situations.
Everyone has hard times and not everyone is perfect. My ex is responsible for half of the medical. I carry the insurance and do not work for any State Agency as you do. I do not understand how the medical is so much on your end considering you work for a State university. Have you been taking the tax break every year on 50% of medical or the 100% you claim to be paying. Were your children sick a lot? I really do not understand why you would publicize your exes name and address on a web site when there is a child in that house. How much sense does that make? What kind of a mother are you? your children have not seen their father in a long time you should feel somewhat responsible due to the fact that money is the only thing that you care about. What kind of a parent are you to talk badly about a man that you once loved? You had 2 children with him not by yourself. You have made all the decisions regarding what your children hear you say!
Life is not always perfect money is tight for everyone. I raised my exes son who was 3 when we got together and his mother never paid a dime of child support. He is now 22 years old and has finally had contact with her because I tracked her down. Not for money but so he could get answers from her not me! I never spoke bad about her or filled his head with hate. I encouraged him to keep his mind open and someday his questions would be answered.
I would really be intersted in seeing all the facts because I just do not understand your math. You were receiving child support payments steady up until the past year correct? I know for fact that it has not been 6 years. I also, know that you did not send actual docotr bills or statments YOU drafted a single page of numbers. Why don't you post the actual itemized medical that you are claiming I assume you have copies to back up your claim.
Thank you again Nick-Hi Kathy I'll reposnd to you
I am glad that you have a good relationship with your ex and I applaude that. I have never had that with mine. For the first 7 years after my divorce he ran from job to job and avoided paying his support. When I told his mother that I would take 100.00 a week for support then Suprise he called me at work, mond you I hadn't talked to this person in probably about 6 1/2 years. We worked out an agreement after three hours on the phone when I got home. I hadn't checked my mail in a couple of days and when I did I found court papers from the county that I live in. Come to find out he was married and had another child. I told his lawyer the next morning that the deal was off. He phoned me again and we worked out another arrangement. Legally I was entitled to 1328.00 a month in support. Our arrangement was for 498.00 per month, once I paid 1176.00 out of my own pocket for medical he would pay the next, then everything was to be splity 50/50. Needless to say I received the 498.00 per month but he never paid on the medical, because it was for braces, which both of my children have had 2 sets of braces. That is waht I am going to court on 4/18/2006.
I have never lied to my children when it comes to their biological father, nor will I start lieing to them now. For 7 years I did receive child support on a regular basis. He choose to have no contact with them thoiugh, he had our phone number and never used it, it was always me who would call him and let him know how the kids were doing. He never sent bithday cards or christmas cards or even called on their birthdays. He will tell you that I am the one who prevented him from contact. In actuallity he is the one who never made the attempt.
Even though times are hard, both parents still have a legal responsibility to support their chilren. That is the way that I feel and if you don't agree then we will agree to disagree. My current husband has never got caught in the middle of this situation and I am the one that deals with it. His wife on the other hand chooses to get involved and now sends me e-mails for weight loss centers. I have put his name and phone number on the Rip Off Report because that is my choice. He is a deadbeat and if you don't agree then please move on to someone elses report.
For the past two years it has been like pulling teeth to get him to pay the support he owes to the children. For a year I didn't receive anything for the kids, then for @9 months I did then for 8 months I didn't because he quite his job for person reasons. I have never quite a job because I have responsibilities and I take them seriously. Yes I do tell my children everything, they are old enough to hear the truth. I happen to be a great mom, ask my kids, their teachers, and the people who truely know me. Not the raving of their so called 'father' who doesn't care and says things to hurt his daughter. I can say things too. I sure did last night and so did my daughter.
As for the current medical that he owes, yes I have the bills to back it up and yes they have all been paid in full and I can prove it. From the sounds of your response you see things from a different perspective and I do appreciate everyones response.
When it comes to raising my children, I have always done the best that I can. My s