Jason Stuhmer Jason C. Stuhmer Abusive Con Artist and Narcissistic Sociopath - Ladies Beware Las Vegas, Nevada

Women might be able to fake orgasms. But men can fake whole relationships. - Sharon Stone 

Ladies, this alcoholic/addict/compulsive liar/sociopath con man is on the loose and looking for new victims. BEWARE, he is a bonafide socialized psychopath and will destroy everything and everyone in his path.

I spent 2 years with this man on and off, during which I knew something was not right aside from his obvious irresponsible behavior. He abused me insidiously, stole from me, cheated on me, and I soon realized the entire relationship was a fake, a lie on his part, so I would continue supporting him financially and emotionally. This man destroyed my life slowly, and is so manipulative he had me convinced it was my fault. I developed PTSD and Stockholm syndrome as a result. Lost my job, my home, many friends, but most of all my sense of self. He uses people and displays ALL the symptoms of a sociopath/NPD/BPD. He puts on a mask to the outside world, but only his intimate partner gets to see the true demonic ugliness behind that mask. 

He's choked me nearly to death on 2 occasions, which is a felony. Pushed me out of a moving vehicle, held me hostage in my own home, pushed, restrained, roughed me up many times. These were on the rare occasions that his emotional abuse was just not enough. Usually it was.

He stole my car to go see the girl he was trying to cheat on me with and racked up thousands worth of damages I had to pay for. He got thousands worth of parking tickets. Stole my money to buy cocaine, slandered me all over town, destroyed my computer and 2 phones of mine. Plus, couldn't hold a job and conned me into working 2 jobs to support him financially while he drank beer with his friends all day and worked out for 2 hours at the gym. 

Everything out of this man's mouth is a LIE intended for him to get what he wants/needs from a person. He will tell you the most wonderful things, promise you the world, butter you up, just to get what he wants from you. He feels NO empathy, remorse, guilt, etc. He does not care AT ALL about you. He is PURE EVIL. A true socialized sociopath.

He is convincing and gorgeous, very attentive in the beginning. Says all the right things. You will WANT to believe him. Don't ignore your instincts! Here are the traits of a sociopath, this guy scores a 2 for EVERY ONE!!!

The following questionnaire is based on research and experiences of socialised psychopaths.  For each trait, decide if it applies to the person you suspect may be a socialised psychopath, fully (2 points), partially (1 point) or not at all (0 points).

1. Do they have problems sustaining stable relationships, personally and in business?
2. Do they frequently manipulate others to achieve selfish goals, with no consideration of the effects on those manipulated?
3. Are they cavalier about the truth, and capable of telling lies to your face? 
4. Do they have an air of self-importance, regardless of their true standing in society? 
5. Have they no apparent sense of remorse, shame or guilt? 
6. Is their charm superficial, and capable of being switched on to suit immediate ends? 
7. Are they easily bored and demand constant stimulation? 
8.  Are their displays of human emotion unconvincing? 
9. Do they enjoy taking risks, and acting on reckless impulse? 
10. Are they quick to blame others for their mistakes? 
11. As teenagers, did they resent authority, play truant and/or steal? 
12. Do they have no qualms about sponging off others? 
13. Are they quick to lose their temper? 
14. Are they sexually promiscuous? 
15. Do they have a belligerent, bullying manner? 
16. Are they unrealistic about their long-term aims? 
17. Do they lack any ability to empathise with others? 
18. Would you regard them as essentially irresponsible?

A score of 25 or above suggests strong psychopathic tendencies.  This does not mean the person is a potential mass-murderer: socialised psychopaths are not mad, nor do they have to resort to violence.  Even so, a close professional or emotional relationship with a socialised psychopath is likely to prove a damaging experience.