Lisa Markowicz Huddleston Obsessed Woman Threatens My Husband and I with a Lawsuit and the Police Birmingham, Michigan

On  June 6th 2011 Mr. Kirk Huddleston lost his Def/Slander case in Macomb County Michigan.  Mr. Huddleston was sued by Utica Attorney John Temrowski ( The one and only) for Def/Slander.  The case # is 2010-005044-NZ.   The party was given $250,000.00 in damages b/c this guy or better referred to by the court as a callous Coward slandered a family business on the internet.  Can you say Karma????  I told his ex-wife Lisa Markowicz Huddleston that I was going to run this son of a b***h's a*s up a flag pole and thats exactly what happened.   
    Judge James Biernat Jr. was appauled at what was written on all of the examples that I brought in of Mr. Huddlestons work.  While he was so busy trying to slander my family name and businesses I kept my cool long enough to know that this idiot was to much of a p***y to show his face in the court room.  Not only was this guy running like a chicken when his wife filed for divorce in Feb of 2007 everytime I tried to serve him ,but he did it this time as well.   The guys on every dating sight known to man and or pervert and when she decides to get out of the marriage you'd think he'd be happy yet ran like a leopard to avoid being served ( must have been the tax return he lied about).   This time it was a little more difficult but well worthit.  
    I'm going to financially choke this guy like the chicken he is for what he wrote but no matter what its personal satisfaction just knowing he has to pay the $ to even file it in a Bankruptcy in 2016 LOL!
This would make 3 times this guy couldn't manage his affairs ( uhhhummm no pun intended) or his finances.  He lives off his wife who unfortunately has been nothing but a menace to the whole situation as well.  She called me in December and was crying to me how her husband walked out on her.  Though this didn't surprise his ex-wife at all to her it was simply 'typical' of the guy I actually almost dropped a tear for her sake and I don't even know why.  
    Lets not forget that he supposably was deceased according to his "mail" that came back to my office but I too soon found out No such luck.  You think this grown p***y would have learned by now that it just does you NO good whatsoever.  In January he lost visitation of his now young son for exactly this kind of behavior.  Like I've said many times before he simply has nothing better to do with his time and how happy can he be in his 'marriage' to spend so much time on me and others not named here.   All I can say is "Thanks Buddy"!!!!!!!!  I will be mailing this judgement out to people I am sure will appreciate it, businesses he's put an act on for and future victims I can see coming his way.
                                           He's Toast!!!!!!!!!!!!!! J.T.T

As if there isn't enough written on here now we have all these people coming out of the woodwork. Couples in Houston, the single woman who just came in from the Mayan Riviera and now Rona Barret who just happens to run into this. Read it, Read it all and tell me what you honestly gets out of it......you may honestly understand why I would not let some  a*****e come on a sight like this and talk about my children the way that he does.  I'm tired of actually having to see some drawn out old, bitter, tired worn out guy use other people as a whipping board for his miserable life.

I don't know either of you, but I am deeply disturbed by your posts, Lisa and Kirk. Kirk, instead of complaining that your son has 2 pairs of pants, BUY YOUR SON SOME PANTS! Lisa, instead of spending your time sitting on this computer worrying what Kirk has to say, deal with the situation your daughter is having at school. Yeah, it's absolutely ridiculous you two grown m-fers are on here arguing like children. Stop worrying about writing rebuttals to each others' reports. When you respond, it makes you seem like fools and also makes it appear that the other person is making valid points. If someone called me a blue dolphin, I wouldn't respond because I KNOW I AM NOT A d**n BLUE DOLPHIN! Get it? Kirk, when you respond to this chick calling you a bad dad, you validate her. And Lisa, when you respond to Kirk calling you a crazy b***h, you validate him. STOP AND TAKE CARE OF YOUR KIDS!!

Who is it that I called?  I just think it's funny.  We got some speech the other day about your trip to Las Vegas(that your dad sent you tickets and room and board for), Pistons tickets( that were given to you) and Kalihari( that I'm pretty such was a complete lie because I never even heard my son talk about it) but you don't have money to buy a car or a lousy pair of pairs for our son.

Those are some f'd up priorities there.  I think you need to feel as if you have a stalker but it's not me.  As I said before, welfare, WIC, two lawsuits, living with mommy until 37, living with a brother for another year, and living in a house that you let fall into foreclosure for another 7-8 months.   Now you have two daddys taking care of their respective children while you live off of the child support.

I don't care if I flip burgers at McDonalds, it's more honest work than you have ever had to do in your whole life.  Your own brother had to move out of the state so that he wouldn't have to feel as if he was supporting you any more.

Your mother probably would have lived another 5 years had it not been for all of the stress and financial hardship that you put on her.  And the last I checked, Lisa, you don't live in any CONDO.  It's called a two bedroom apartment.  What happened to your police buddies?  They finally figured out that you were a psycho??????????

This is precisely why my phones will be out of order. 

Who's stalking who here?  So Kirk Huddleston has nothing better to do with his time so he drives in our complex and calls on the other Condo's in on the grounds to see what we pay for rent. I don't pay that much......Talk about Nosey!!!!

I have been told by so many people that I need to file a restraining order against this dumb b***h. God knows how many times I've heard about how she lives in BIRMINGHAM and that I live in Wixom, which I don't but it seems to make her happy to think so.

This is all this b***h needs to make her feel good about herself. Today I get umpteen text messages because apparently the FOC has f'd up their paperwork and I am showing to be about $250 behind in child support so she is filing a show cause motion. How well can this f****s be doing that she has to spend $20 in gas and a whatever other fees because her son's father, who takes care of his son most of the time anyways, is TWO HUNDRED AND FIFTY DOLLARS behind? I mean, let's me honest. You live in BIRIMINGHAM but $250 is going to break you plus my son literally owns TWO pairs of pants. If she only spent as much on our son as she did for McDonalds, then we would all be happier.

I don't file any police reports against this idiot any more. My local police department simply told me to not waste my time on this idiot. Her own attorney said that she was crazy at our last court appearance.

Kirk,

Your reports are really getting a little old. Don't you think it would be best if you found something new to write about.  I mean at least come up with something more interesting for readers in general. We seem to be having them come from all around the globe and I think you are putting them to sleep more than anything.

How many people care about where I work? Really?   If someone that needs care is so concerned that their privacy would be "invaded" then I would suggest going to another hospital.  I hardly think that hospital is losing any sleep over your reports and or rebuttals as well.  Like they told me "Lisa, You are not the first person to be dealing with a crazy ex-husband"  As you saw NOTHING comes out of your complaints and the reason why is there is nothing legitimate that you have to complain about.

Maybe you deal with a different facility for your medical care but where I work at you don't just walk in and "look up" info. past or present on anyone.  If you went to the medical records dept.  you have to give a license or hospital I.D. to view info you are viewing and that is a long process as well.  You literally jump from subject to subject. So we went from a hospital, to my daughter, to their schools to our own son?  So glad people in California are so entertained.  You bore me.

For the whole WIDE world as far as my son is concerned YES, he will have his own opinions on things in our lives as he gets older, he already does and he's only eleven. He loves both his parents, obviously.  He just handles his father very well, and like I said at a very young age "gets it".   He knows who Kirk is, He knows what he's about and he knows what to and not to expect.   Like when he knew I replaced 4 tires on my car do you really think  the first thing out of his mouth was "Gee, mom I wonder who did that?" He already knew who did it, he just doesn't understand the immaturity of a 41 year old man, not to mention that man being his own father. Its pretty sad when a little kid thinks they have to apologize for their own parent.

I have said this multiple amounts of time and I won't say it anymore because I don't care to write on here anymore. I think I've said pretty much all I need too.  If Kirk Huddleston put as much time into our child as he does screwing people over, I think he would be amazed at how much respect he would gain for him.   Kirk is always on this venue crying and complaining how much he does not get to see his son yet when he has the opportunity to he does not take advantage it.  Let me give you an example here.

Mid winter break, Here you are all confused as usual and have it set in your head that this kid is with YOU this break and tell him that you are possibly  planning the family va-ca to Georgia, the e-mail you received clearly stated " Nick is with me for the break but if you have planned something and want to spend some extra time with him that is okay with me, I have nothing planned that can't be changed.  You stated in your e-mail to me how you wanted to take advantage of this time your family had off and have some extra time with him. I agree to it and you call him up to tell him you are "off to the Mardi Gra.  ???????????   Thats my point. When you carry on and on and I basically have the attitude okay thats fine with me. You basically say it because it sounds good to you but when you have the chance to take advantage of the situation all of a sudden "everythings changed" like anyone was surprised.

As anyone will read on here and all the others sights you have written on that will end up saying to resort back to this one, because I don't care to communicate with you like this anymore  you talk just to hear yourself talk.   All your bashing, and comments, and jokes and just plain B.S. on here shows  the type of person that you are.  How many people would text me and act like they are just "appalled" that their son is wearing boxers in front of his Aunt.  Heck, he's tried to where them to the store to go shopping before so it must not bother him at all.

 Here are all these ridiculous texts coming in. Please!!!    Unfortunately that visit was a little more disturbing than anything.   I had to look at paper work signed by YOU because a lady called and was inquiring to my sister in law as to why you and your mortgage co. was passing through loans claiming income that neither my brother nor his wife claimed they had made.

According to her she said "We could not lie about how much we made, we file a tax return every year"! so obviously someone else had. I really don't care, it does not concern me and for a guy that went around bragging how he "screwed my family over" and kicked them in the a*s in the "back door"  I could not help but wonder what really went on.  She was waiting at my house for me because I told her I'd be on my way soon  and since you did not show up on time to get him I'm glad someone was here to open the door for him, I was expecting you to pick him up, not for him to take it upon himself to walk home.

If you or any of our millions of readers notice  I'm sure you will notice there is never any of your family members bashed on this sight. Why? Because regardless of some of my personal opinions I just would not do a thing like that.     Gee, don't think your own kid wouldn't notice that would you?  Did you say stalking???  Why in the world would I want to stalk you? for what?   Personally I deal with you as much as I do because I'm forced to, if it were up to me I wouldn't at all.  Why the heck would you go on here and say that I broke into your parents bank acct?  How stupid, on top of having to hear "Oh my Gosh what a lie" I don't even defend something that stupid. 

If you had half a brain you would know that your son is growning older and getting taller and his body is going through changes and he is becoming a young man. It would be nice to  think for a second that this little guy could confide questions and concerns to someone that is supposed t be a same sex role model.  I don't mind that he comes to me and its fine that he goes to his sister even more, but you are his father.  How many guys tell their 11 year old son on their way from the gym to mass for Ash Wed. that for lent "dad is giving up "j****g *** ".    I know what went through my head and I'll leave it at that, but you think you're funny and I think it's embarassing to him that his father talks so stupid.  Great parenting!  Way to  act with some integrity to your son.

It embarasses me first and it is more hurtful second to see the way some of his friends  fathers are with their boys and then there is you.  When I said to him "he's just acting silly" his exact words were  "Mom, that's Kirk, what do you expect?"  Sad really sad.  Because though I know he loves you for the simple reason that you are his dad, I can't help but know what goes through his head half the time. 

If you would ever wake up and smell the hard drive you would stop sounding like a broken record too.  You have mentioned on here a MILLION times that you were to have him on mothers day and were cheated out of your time.  First of all lets get one thing understood. I'm his mother and mother day is spent with his mom, just like fathers day is spent with you.....his dad.   Normally I would not have had a problem letting you take him to lunch with family, HOWEVER, the reason why I did not allow it is because if memory serves you correctly which I'm sure it does not.  I called YOU on the phone that Friday, YOU initially and told YOU that he really concerned me with what he was saying about how much he sees your wife drinking.  I confronted YOU initially and all you did was ask to speak to him on the phone and instead of act like a man, and ask him WHY he would say what he did, you just started yelling and swearing at him and told him "He was in trouble when you saw him on Saturday and he would spend the day doing NOTHING!

News Flash!!!!!  That was MY day with him and if you thought I would send him to your home after treating him like that, think again.  You are a parent, and you know he is not one to "LIE" despite what everyone tries to convince you of, you know darn well that kid does not just come out and LIE.  So instead of talking like a rational person your're yelling and swearing at this kid, and have your wife calling him and how ridiculous can you get.  What amazed me the most is when you were putting my information all over the internet and I erased the inbox, outbox, and the trash I ran across some of your "personal things"  how's that feel to have someone go and spread your business around?  I saw my name, address, s.s# and phone # to strangers, but thats okay yours was more intersting.

 I saw the -mail where you were fighting with your wife and you said word for word "All you do when you are not talking to people is put on your i-pod and drown yourself in vodka." YOU said that!     I know what I saw, and you wrote it  but you turn around and make your own son out to be like he lied when he repeated the SAME thing you did.  That is what pissed me off.  Though you would not know loyalty to a friend, spouse, family, co-worker, or  anyone..... if it slapped you in the face the bottom line is you through that kid under the bus when he simply repeated EXACTLY what you said yourself.  He must have known that if you weren't going to look out for  his safety I would!

  I'm just glad that he is older and he does know how to deal with the head games that you pull on him and whats even more sad is you drag your wife into  all of this too and she's shallow enough to go along with it, instead of look out for him and just tell you to simply knock it off.     You will make trouble anywhere you think you can get away with it.  Her constant lying for you does nothing but enable your behavior, look what you did to her ex-husband.....classic example.  I don't know the guy but I feel sorry for him that you're bashing him and his business on this venue and the guy is self employed.

I'm not going to lie and say that things are always easy because they are not. Being a single mom is a lot of work but the rewards are well worthit.   I have NO fear what so ever of my son getting older and wondering what kind of parent I was to him in his child hood.  He's already going to be 12 and goes out of his way to say "thanks mom" and "I love you" on a daily basis.  He knows I work hard to give him whatever I possibly can so you being every other person in the world questioning my parenting and acting so concerned, don't worry about it, I'm not! 

I just recieved an e-mail from his teacher, you are welcome to ask her yourself and what she sent me said. "Lisa, I am so pleased with your sons progress in school, what ever it is you are doing at home, please continue to do it because it is working! 
That is called spending evenings at the library, and making sure he does his school work, and teaching him how to be accountable for himself and giving him the best chance that I possibly can to try and build a great life for himself. So for all the "readers" that are so worried about my child, don't be..........I must be doing somethng right.   I think the focus on here should be a 41 year old man felt that going on something like this venue to lie, bash, and attack someone really only ended up making himself look humiliated.

I know I'm pretty convinced.  I don't care if you work for Beaumont or what.  Why the hell their name should even be part of this whole ordeal is deplorable?  Innocent people or businesses don't get accused because they didn't do anything wrong, so just think about that.   I think Royal Oak Beaumont is a big reason as to why this whole fiasco began.  I don't blame the original author. 

When you walk into a hospital you should expect your privacy and this hospital clearly thinks that they are above the law.  They have no one to blame but themselves for this story surfacing.  As far as this person that 'works' for Beaumont, stick to what you know.  Royal Oak Beaumont is a disgrace for violation of patient confidentiality then covering it up for their own selfish needs.

Plus I've read the stories about the crazy bi*h that works for Beaumont and this flows right along with the personality that her herself has demonstrated with her own rebuttals.  So let's keep it real, all.

I am so appalled by all of the comments/reports/rebuttals that are being posted about Beaumont hospital that I really cannot stay quiet. These are nothing short of bashing each other on a site meant to ensure that the average consumer doesn't get ripped off. To air all of your dirty laundry in public like this is showing everybody in the world how crazy you all are. I don't care what she did, I don't care what he did and I don't care what YOU did! The only valid thing I have read about Beaumont has been an allegation that an employee accessed patient information inappropriately. I'm sure that Beaumont dealt with it accordingly at that time. The only person that even has a right to complain or comment about this action is not even reporting it here. Please stop responding to each other on this site as you all look like fools. Maybe Macomb County Friend of the Court will see this and determine that there is absolutely NO ONE looking out for the best interests of the children involved in this unfortunate immature situation.

And, NO, I do not know any of you, nor do I want to.

I do not know any of these people and don't even live in the same state, but I have read months of this. 

Kim, you need to be quite and stay out of this. This is between Kirk and Lisa and no matter how much you want to defend him, legally you have no say. 

Lisa, if everything you say is true, why bother?  You supposedly work in the health care field and claim the child support is $10.00 a week.  Does that $40.00 a month make that big of a difference?  You also said...

"You gave it your best shot, Kirk but the fact is, I have your kid and I will have him believe whatever I choose for him to believe.  Funny how that works.  Just keep handing me over your paychecks.  Do you really want me to call the police again?  You might not get convicted but I'll bet I can have them put you in jail for a day while they sort it all out. "

Really?? What kind of Mother are you to mess with your son's head like that?  He might be the worst father ever but at 11 years old would you like to hear your Mom bad mouth your Dad?  Same to you Kirk, at 11 would you like to hear your Mom bad mouth your Dad? 

Beware, Lisa and Kirk both.  Your son is 11, in a few years he is going to put it together himself and pick his side.  Trash talk about the other parent will be in his decision.  All these threads and you think it will just go away?  Nope it doesn't. My 26 year old googled me and found me in many archives back to 1996.  Thank goodness I never did or said anything I am ashamed of.  You two wont be able to say the same.

You two are in your 40s but mentally my guess is 20.  It is time to grow up, shut up and do what is best for the kid before you screw him up more than you already have. 

My guess is if this continues, every kid involved with this family will be in prison. 

You're right, honey, she is crazy.  I think your ex and mine would make a great pair. LOL! I don't even know what the hell she is talking about; Hoover Dam, Las Vegas having rain, your family bank account and credit card information in our email??????????????????  She makes up her own little stories.  My ex would do the same thing. There's a reason why you and I have each other and they're out there searching for something they will never find.

I love our life together.  This woman clearly has some problems especially since I don't even know half of what she is even talking about.  You just have to do right for you and I.  One minute you don't care about your son, the next minute you can't have him.  She needs to make up her mind. Clearly, she's not doing a good job on her own as a parent.  I think we saw that.   It's just on and on with her.  Between that one police officer, Child Protective Services, your family and mine all know what she did 'that' day.  And I know I can't say what day that was(as if it never happen).  So let it go, my faith in you is as strong as always. That day, everyone saw what she was all about and your son will too.

She doesn't have you, so she saves every email or anything with your name on it so she can keep a part of you; even if it's negative.   My ex does the same thing, have you ever noticed how he refers to me as 'his old lady' or by my first marriage's name?  Or how they both gone one about how we go out too much.  It's all because they can't let go.  We're in love and neither of them probably ever will be.  We live off of love and they live off of other people's money and pity.  They are both miserable and make everyone around them miserable.

I just wish she would let her son have a father in his life and stop being so selfish.  It's not about her anymore.  You're a good man and my kids adore you.  She can't stand the thought of that either.  You are the target of her pain, so she has made you the target of her anger.

Let's look at this as both first marriages.  We both were trapped into our first ones and this one was by choice.  I love you.

I can't argue with that rebuttal and your comment is appreciated.  That's what I've been trying to communicate all along. Then I guess I just got caught up in the whole thing.

I was a well-repected business executive in my community and when I felt as if I was being attacked, I felt compelled to defend myself.  Unfortunately, when you don't defend yourself, then people just assume that everything they read is true.  So for that reason, I felt it better to defend myself then to one day have my child read the relentless banter and make their own conclusion.

I was fortunate to have NOT come from a divorced family but I am well aware of the long standing ill-effects of a divorce on children. That's why you will find this subject to be so passionate to me.

Thanks.

You guys really have kids together? Can you even imagine what the hell you are putting these poor kids thru? I am a product of a nasty divorce.  It was horrible and ruined my childhood. Dont put your kids thru the same thing  PLEASE!!

As Charlie Brown's teacher would say, "wa wa wa wa. wha wah wah wah wha. wa wah wha wah." Get a life! You can't find a man and he can't keep a woman. But somehow my wife and I are the undesirables.  Both of you should hook up. Neither one of you knows how to take care of your kids. Meanwhile, me and my wife are happily married as you just try and convince yourself ,and your make believe friends, that you are being obsessed by your heartbroken lover.

Neither one of your two ding-a-lings would pass a psychological exam and I would bet anything on that. No one believes a thing, you have to say, Lisa, and the same goes for him.  You've been caught in more lies than George Bush at a press conference. Now run along. My wife and I know the drill, we are being sued for millions of dollars and both going to jail. Do you both know how much we sit down and laugh at both of you?  I think the two of YOU are the ones that can dish it out by can't take it when it comes back to you.

Ever thought how strange that I've got two step-kids who are both pretty decent kids because their psycho dad is hardly ever around. Therefore, they are being raised by the better parent as a result. Meanwhile, you have a daughter that has such little repect for adults and authority figures as she gives the middle finger to her grandparents showing such a lack of character and class. And she has primarily been raised by you. Do you see the common denominator? Two bad parents. I hope the two of you don't decide to sit down and decide to give parenting seminars.

You can send my son over to my home ANYTIME, 7 days a week. As for taking care of him, LOL. You were on welfare when I met you for your daughter AND living with your mother. Now you get two child support payments and sit on your a*s all day, meanwhile, living on your own for the first time in 44 years.  I would be glad to switch places with you.  But that will last about 12 months and then you'll have to go somewhere else.  I seem to recall that I had my own place when I met you. Neither me, nor my wife, ever claimed to be an American success story but compared to the two of you we are Mike and Carol Brady. What a jerk I am for actually wanting to spend more time with my son. LOL.

I don't blame you for being upset over some of things that have been written and/or said. Now you BOTH know how we felt. It doesn't feel good does it?  Both of you ask for your own problems.  I believe your famous saying was always," what comes around goes around, baby!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!"  And the reason my phone is shut off is because your new pal, Paul, likes to call me and breath heavy on the phone plus OR call me and my wife 120 times in 24 hours but never talk.

We really can't wait for this defamation of character suit and I mean that.  Gotta go, can't wait to hear what a swell guy Paul is.  I would kill to be able to spend as much time with my son and he COULD with his kids.  He hasn't taken his son or daughter for three months until last night. 

Now that shows the intelligence level of the person who wrote this not once but twice now.  Talk about having your feathers ruffled and fatal attraction boil the bunny?

You literally sound like a broken record, find something new to complain about.  I'm supposed to be listening to a person that from the same e-mail address wrote me and said that she calls her son names concerning his weight right to his face and now are putting the word retarded and your daughter in the same sentence, that's pretty mean!

That's where you got me all wrong, I would never say a mean thing like that about your daughter for any reason, but simply for the fact that she is my sons step sister is reason enough not to say anything cruel anyway not to mention she is a child. Not to mention my son can handle himself, thank you.  You must have not read the rebuttal written on your ex-husbands report that I wrote before you even dreamed of writing this.  It says right in black and white  "I don't know your kids that well, I have met them on few occasions and they seem like very nice people and my son adores them".   I think you and Kirk could both take a lesson from T.J.  he sounds more mature then both of you. I would listen to that 19 year old genius son of yours and then you can listen to mine, he knows how to spell the word "genius and diagnosed unlike you.

I'm sure my sons grandparents are hiding their credit cards from you if you were storing their account numbers in your e-mail talk about stupid what business would you even have stealing their account numbers?  And if his brother thought for a second you had any of his personal info. he'd sock you both again.

Why would you be so concerned that I took my son to  Las Vegas? You know what I told him when he said that he was possibly going to Georgia "Have a good time and don't forget to call". We were not in Vegas for 5 days we were there for 7 days. It was raining when Nick called his dad (sorry that bothers you so much, it's his son, get over it.)  The Hoover Dam IS in Nevada and Arizona. It is on the border so it depends on what you are looking at and where you are standing and Nick took a pic. of himself under a sign that said "You are in Az." so to him that is why he thought that, because he was.  When he stood on the side  where the water flowed he was in "Las Vegas".
  It is very rare that it rains in the desert so that is why he may have made an issue out of it so why make fun him??...........he's eleven, what's your excuse?  So here we go again Nick is calling his dad and you two just happen to turn on the ten o'clock news "Headline" It is raining at the Hoover Dam???? NEWS FL.ASH.  There is your geography lesson.

Any type of defamation suit would not even begin to take place until January/Feb.  When the officer came to my home he had in his hand over 200 pages, e-mails, past police reports and you know what he focused on? The reason he was called in the first place. Anything concerning what was said about my minor 16 year old daughter. I don't care how you let Kirk treat your children, I've seen and I've heard for myself but I do care how he treats mine.  They viewed it as what it absolutely is, Harassment of a minor.  Get with it.   The main concern I have always had regarding you was already addressed with my sons father, the only thing you and I  have in common it seems to be is "Crazy ex-husbands".    

I honestly don't blame you for being pissed, I would too. If I had a guy I was with and he spent countless hours on her I would be upset too.  First it was 30 and 40 phone calls in a row, then it was 30 and 40 texts when he was supposed to be out with you for a romantic evening and now its endless hours with the name Lisa all over his mind letting loose on a computer.  I would not mind the calls if it was to say "Hi how have you been? What is Nick up to? But they are not..... I wouldn't mind the texts if it was "Hey whats up? or  can I come and get Nick for a movie?" but they are not and I wouldn't mind someone writing a "b***h blog" about me if it made them feel better but then you need to tell the truth. If having some pecker contest between you and Kirk with me was some "criminal matter" to me I would have done something months ago.

I don't care what you do, I don't care who you're doing it with.  I never said I did not erase my daughters information out of an e-mail address, I said I did not have to "Hack" into it to do it.  You forgot he's had this e-mail address a year after I met him. The e-mails I saw were not "set up for me" they were just not meant for me to see, just like my daughter and my personal info. was not yours or Kirks  to spread all over the internet but  her and my name was sent to hundreds of people.  Why would you even do that?   I felt what I saw to really be more disturbing than anything.  I actually felt sorry for you.  As far as the "personal" things you said I can't relate to that, I never had "that problem" with him ever once the whole time I was with him through good times or bad so I can't relate.

I think Kirk said it best "It was more fun when we were dating"  It usually is, I could have dated him happily ever after and been fine with it.  Marriage is work, lots of work and when you alter the trust in that relationship you change it. I did not trust Kirk anymore so I chose to not be a part of it, what is so hard for you to accept about that? I don't judge you for staying in that situation, I know what I saw, so don't judge me for leaving it. It never stopped.  Maybe that behavior is okay with you but it was not with me, I did not deserve that.

You always compare my relationship and marriage with Kirk to yours. I am glad he is happy, I want him to be happy, I figure if he's happy then Nick will be happy, that is what is most important to me, Always has been.  I know where I made my mistakes with Kirk, I was more of a mother to my kids than I was a wife to him.  I could not drop everything to go to a euchre game when I had a 3 and 8 year old or a 5 and ten year old, I was always worrying about the kids.  They are older now and I am glad. Your digs in my son just get old that's all but yes, I'm his mom so I'm going to defend him.  I'm going to say what I thought from the beginning KIRK wrote this one too!

FYI.  Nichoals' name was changed on Feb 9th 2000 and I wasn't married until Oct. of 2001. Its pretty much a done deal that day so what does that have to do with getting married???  GET OVER YOURSELF ALREADY!!

Why would the police or anyone "call" you?  So you can turn your phones back on and stop acting like some cowards running scared.  If you dish it out you should be able to take and take responsibilities for your actions.  Like I said a long time ago you worry about your kids and I worry about mine and Kirks and everyone will be a lot better off. When you are taking care of him on a daily basis and providing his daily needs then talk to me.

For #5, I meant to say that my husband ISN'T handy with Facebook.  He didn't even know what it was until two months ago so I hardly think he is emailing your friends.

I also wanted to add, for a woman that is SO offended about what has been said about her daughter, it sure didn't stop you from telling not only your son but my mother-in-law that you didn't want your son staying home alone with MY daughter because she was retarded.  My daughter gets all A's and B's and was just one the honor roll.  Although she has been diagnosed with a slight learning disability, she's not RETARDED.

We know Lisa, you never said that.  Seems strange that those exact words came from both of the two people I mentioned.  Make sure you tell my ex-husband that one as you and him are going on this "Defamation of Character" lawsuit.  I seem to recall my daughter being very nice and polite to you the time she met you.

The last thing I want to say, and YOUR ex-husband said this..............MY kids(his step kids) would never give an adult the middle finger whether it be a step-parent or grandparents.  It's something called 'class' and something your daughter doesn't have or perhaps just the way she was raised.  Under no circumstances, is it okay for a CHILD to give an adult the finger.  I seem to recall that day at Firefighters' Park you coming up to my car door and saying, "how I should be ashamed of myself for going ALONG with my husband in picking up HIS son."  That had to be the most ridiculous statement I have ever heard in my life.  My husband was nice enough to let his son spend the night with you because of attending a talent show the night before and was just going to take him to lunch on HIS VISITATION day yet we were pulling some kind of scam.  I should have stood up to you that day but I guess with your size, I was intimidated.

And, although I said it was my last statement, let's go back to that whole incident at the park.  Not only did the police officer called say it but so did the kind lady from Child Protective Services------you are crazy and shouldn't have any children in your custody.    My husband had to call CPS and find out why you were pulling his son out of school every Friday.  They told him that your claim was so ridiculous and in such violation of your custody order that she had no intentions of even CALLING him and bothering him.  Even though the FOC would have to be the ones to intervene and enforce your custody agreement.

I'm going to make sure that you get all of this and print it out for your lawyer and police officer.  Today is December 2nd, we just couldn't figure out why we didn't get any phone calls since you had your APPOINTMENT TODAY!!!!!!