Monroe County Domestic Relations, Stroudsburg Pennsylvania Don't give a d**n! Stroudsburg Pennsylvania

I am sick and tired of calling a child support office and the agent is extremely rude.  I did nothing to you to be rude and the only reason I am now being rude is because you were.  If you dont like your job get a new one. 

This lady said that I am going to court because I am not there for my child.  I said excuse me I am sorry that I have always paid my child support if you would actually look at my pay stubs and see how much I make then you could see that there is no way for me to pay that much and actually be able to live on my own with my other 3 kids and wife.  I said it is also not my fault that they will not let me see him and that they all ready take 60% of my check so that I can not actually travel up there to see him.  Even if I had a visitation schedule I would not be able to afford to travel because it is so expensive.  I live in Georgia so there is no way for me to pay for anything after 60% is gone.  

It just kills me that I am paying everything that I can and I am still behind even though it is taken automatically out of my check from my employer and extra opn top of that because I cant keep up and actually be able to provide for my family now.  I am going to have to get a second job just to be able to do anything with my kids now. 

I was also told that I could do a phone hearing but everything must be faxed in before the court date.  My court date is in two weeks and I just got the paper work.  I then called the office in Georgia where the original case was handled and they said sorry cant do anything for you.  Now I see why there are so many dead beat dads.  If you get just a little behind they want to suspend your license.  This whole system needs to be fixed by congress and we need real men not just men that are trying to get out of paying child support because I take care of my kids to the best of my ability but when I cant even live with my family now it is a little ridiculous.

DAD OF 4

When I went for my child support meeting I brought all copies of my pay stubs and anything else that showed my income. Domestic Relations never even looked at the copies I brought with me. They asked me if my job was listed as full time and I told them that it was BUT I was getting maybe 32 hrs. a week.

They did not care that i was making only part time hrs. and in turn based my support payments on 40 hrs. They need to start paying attention to those documents, that, they tell you ( non-custodial parents ) to bring with you to these meetings and stop basing the child support on whether your job is full or part time.

I am a very long time payer into the system in Monroe County D/R. I had no problem being 100% involved with my child's life & willfully payed when in mid 90's the former system denied my ex, i gave instead. If i knew now what was going to happen too me since in no way would i have given anything. A whole year & 1/2 after the decision was made & the child support was given at a much higher rate than was said, my ex drags me back into MCDR & there is a new sheriff in town & the word was she is giving away support & custody at a huge rate. With no new change all my ex said was "I don't think the court knew what i was asking for" during her saying this the new sheriff was not paying any attention & was working on new numbers, not only was support went through the roof they added spouse support. After all the months after the 1st hearing in which my ex was flat out denied, i was told "If you don't agree with the order you can fight it" in turn i lost, mind you on 2 major issues, nothing new was giving & all the money i was giving was erased as if it never happened int he tune of almost 10K, i would have never gave anything over if i knew they could change this order based on a huge lack of info. They also dragged me into court on a false issue & had the nerve to say i was behind when the matter was already settled.