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Complaint Review: (((NAME(S) REDACTED DUE TO PERCEIVED HARASSMENT / CYBERSTALKING / CYBERBULLYING / REVENGE POST))) - (((REDACTED))) Kansas

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  • (((NAME(S) REDACTED DUE TO PERCEIVED HARASSMENT / CYBERSTALKING / CYBERBULLYING / REVENGE POST))) (((REDACTED))) (((REDACTED))), Kansas U.S.A.

(((NAME(S) REDACTED DUE TO PERCEIVED HARASSMENT / CYBERSTALKING / CYBERBULLYING / REVENGE POST))) | RIPOFF REPORT POST-PUBLICATION CONTENT REVIEW: EDITORIAL REDACTIONS | Abusive Mother, Vindictive Mother, Lying in court, Laughing in Court Dead Beat Mom Wichita Kansas

*Consumer Suggestion: Fight-Back no matter what you do, you will NOT make you ex a 'happy camper!'

*Author of original report: Thing to remember.... in cases like this is to never grow weak in trying to do the right thing.

*Consumer Comment: YOUR EX NEEDS TO GO WITH MY EX AND THE TWO OF THEM CAN TORTUE EACH OTHER

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Very difficult for me to write this but this is a forum that will not turn it's head because of the stereotype of divorced fathers. (((REDACTED))), since I served her divorce papers in Dec. of 2003, has aggressively applied extreme vindictive tactics, punishing our two young children, to show her displeasure over the parting. Repeated violations of the divorce decree, coming to my house, refusing to leave when asked, anchoring herself in the doorway, screaming for the police when I try to shut the door, telling them I slammed her against a wall, filing a stalking order one week after I filed for a reduction in child support. Going to court I physically abused her a month earlier (never filed a police report), lied in court, and afterwards, my attorney and I saw her laughing in court. Taken away, without legal action, my ability to call our children, doesn't return calls, making up new excuses all the time, follows me despite the stalking order she filed against me (no previous record or allegations), and dares me to report it to the police or courts. Refuses to allow me to take our child to the bus stop, scheduled out of town trip with children on Father's Day, refused to allow daughter to share school acheivement over phone (saw daughter cry over this), dresses one child in heavy coat in winter but other child in light jacket, refuses to take children to doctor for two months while they both had significant rashes on their face. Tells me I have no need to call her, can't call her, to ask about the children unless it is an emergency or about schedule. Thank you for this forum. I have tried to be friendly from day one. I apologize for everything for peace and that is usually when I get more bizarre behavior. I dare ask for anything, and I hear, "I am not comfortable with that," as if that is all that matters, what pleases her. Hate me, just put the children first. My children cry often. I am powerless to stop this as the courts look the other way, telling me it is he-said, she-said, when in reality it is gospel truth when she says anything and he-said, she-said when I speak. It is about facilitating agreements and processing people. I feel for this country's children. I am not the only loving parent who wants my ex to be happy, AND for the children to be happy by being close to BOTH parents without interference. Believe in your cause everyone, no matter the obstacles, and the odds. Keep grinding, have faith in a positive outcome, and God willing, justice and peace will occur. Michael Wichita, Kansas
U.S.A.

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Thing to remember.... in cases like this is to never grow weak in trying to do the right thing.

AUTHOR: Michael - (U.S.A.)

POSTED: Thursday, May 26, 2005

Principle may not be worth fighting for but our children are, no matter the obstacles. Steve and Yolanda, thank you for your letters. You both have had unfortunate and UNNECESSARY experiences with your ex-spouses. That is what is so pitiful, it is all so unneccessary. Some people just are selfish and never grow up. They will do anything to get what they want, even if it means LYING in court and then laughing about it moments later. They are so hurt that they justify their immoral and oftentimes, illegal behavior. Others just heartlessly forget the children's feelings. Once people start lying and getting support from others on those lies, it becomes near impossible to do the right thing and say "I'm sorry." Lies require more lies to continue. I went back to court in an attempt to clear my name, stated the actual events in question, and she didn't deny anything. My experience has signficant time as a reporter, so I'm trained to see details, write them down right away and get quotes exactly. Her experience, sadly, is to revise history to fit her desires. So the lesson she is teaching our children is lying is wrong unless it helps you get what you want. Another lesson she teaches is if you are angry with someone the way to feel better is to lie about them. Our children are paying attention. I KNOW the reason behind all this...she was trying to keep me from calmly asking why the parenting agreement wasn't being followed. She did not want to be questioned for not following the points in the legal document. That, and she wanted to prove to everyone that I was abusive, just as she always claimed I was in the marriage. I tried to leave four times over the years, each time being subjected to screaming, crying, or flat-out told I could NOT have a divorce. Sad thing is(((REDACTED))) was the child of divorced parents, who cried year's later over the loss of her father, yet purposely has stood in the way of my relationship with OUR children. I will have to go to the grave with this lie. She will never give it up, despite her frequent church participation. Check it out angry divorcees.... (((REDACTED))). I wish you all peace.

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YOUR EX NEEDS TO GO WITH MY EX AND THE TWO OF THEM CAN TORTUE EACH OTHER

AUTHOR: Yolanda - (U.S.A.)

POSTED: Thursday, May 12, 2005

I understand not all men are deadbeat dads and your story is a example of that. I also, understand your situation and find some of the courts a joke.

My ex got busted after fifteen years of hiding to avoid paying support for our son. He was allowed to call in from Florida to NY court and he played games for months before almost a year later the court ordered him to support our child and guess what he still is playing games.

I tried to be nice for our son 's sake, let go of the pain he caused and the b*****d kept playing so guess what? I became a b***h and posted everything he does on this site and all over the net.

Maybe if he gets embrassed he will grow up. As for your ex she is a nasty mean spirited b***h who does not think of the children but herself. Fathers have rights too.

If you have to tape record every conversation with her so you have proof of what is being said, complain and complain to all your local officials until someone listens, it worked for me. Good luck

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Fight-Back no matter what you do, you will NOT make you ex a 'happy camper!'

AUTHOR: Chris - (U.S.A.)

POSTED: Saturday, May 07, 2005

I understand your concern. I went through the same thing with my ex. There are a few things you should know and do. First of all, no matter what you do, you will NOT make you ex a 'happy camper!' Don't try to be nice, it doesn't work! Grab your balls and fight back! It appears that your ex is "alienating" the children away from you. There is a symdrome that has now been classified and recognized by family courts known as, "Parental Alienation Syndrome". This syndrome is much differect than just "Alienation" alone. You must seperate the two. You need to find a good lawyer who understands the physcology of "PAS" and file a motion for custody of your children. There are plenty of good site that explain the process of "PAS" and you should read them before taking action against your ex. This way you get the upper hand in court. If possible, move away to a different address were she won't find you. Ex's like her usually land nice guys like you in Jail. I know. Best of luck!

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