BEWARE ladies! He is waiting and watching for you on most all dating sites ex; Plenty of Fish, SinglesNet. He will be so understanding and caring and sweet online, but when you get together, he becomes a MONSTER!
My son's Father & I are really good friends, and Tom forbidded me to talk to him. Tom forbidded my ex to come into "MY" house. Tom said "Tell him to drop your son off and leave, he has no business here." My ex volunteered to fix Tom's car, I let him fix it, It was fixed and free of charge. Tom never thanked him and told me "Tell that a***e never to touch my car again."
He will not allow you to have friends. And if you do, do not expect to go out with them. Tom has a nasty temper. He threw my personal belongings against the wall several times. Couldnt tell you how many things of mine he broke.
I tried to leave him, he put a cigarette lighter to his throat.Tried to leave again, he put a knife to his chest.
Tried to leave another time, took a whole bottle of pills and locked himself in the bathroom. Cops had to get him out. I had to put him in physchiatric ward. He treated all the Doctors and nurses like s***.
I spoke to his Mother on the phone a few times, she said "Tom has a bad problem of lying. He has always been a pathological liar."
After I finally did escape, he tried to kidnap my 12 yr old daughter. And for 2 MONTHS straight, he called my cell phone 5-15 times a day crying, leaving messages.
His son in the Army....He hasnt seen his son in 10 years, doesnt even know where he lives. His son wont have anything to do with him. Tom could care less about his son.
SERIOUSLY LADIES....BE CAREFUL!