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Complaint Review: Tresha Gazzola - Las Vegas Nationwide

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 I'm terribly embarrassed I even have to write this. I'm a professional music producer and moved to vegas in January 2015 for a residency at a major hotel and write and album I was going to release. I met Tresha VIA a dating site. We met and had gone on 2 dates before Tresha had dragged me down to a vegas courthouse at 11:30 pm on a Saturday nigh while I was wasted (she was sober might I add) and coarsed me into marrying her. She also purchased phony wedding bands and engagement rings to solidify a performance. She never disclosed to me she used to be a stripper as I would never in my life entertain marrying a stripper or former stripper for I am constantly in the public. She would constantly brag about how money was never an issue and would disappear for hours on end after her day job. I attempted to end the marriage as early as a week later but she gave me a guilt trip how we were brought together "by a Devine connection" and I decided since the marriage had already taken place to give it a shot as a result of my "want to be a savior instinct" . She later disclosed to me how she didn't know who her father is, and how she hated her mother so much she couldn't even stand her own last name. This was a huge red flag. She also used to brag about "always wanting to marry an Italian man and have an Italian last name". After our 1st huge fight I had moved out (which was only appoximatley 3weeks later). As a result of me moving out she decides out of spite to put a restraining order against me, while immediately going to DMV after filing a restraining order , just to change her last name to mine. Who would want the last name of a person you are filing a restraining order against? When we finally came to civil communication , I asked her what sense it made to file a restraining order, while changing her last name to mine, she stated that "if she wasn't going to get anything from this marriage, at least she was going to get a new last name. Finally , she framed me into looking like I stole property from a former best friend that used to live with us, while also engaging in sexual relations with him. She's also currently using my last name and that "she is my ex wife" to befriend people in my inner circle to manipulate them and also isolate th from me. She post nude to semi nude pictures of her in different suites at various hotels in vegas and it's an embarrassment to myself an my deceased father. She later purposely files a second retstraining order, while simultaneously communicating with me and begging me to come home. I have record and audio of all of this. While on tour she's threatened to give my (2) pitbulls service animals to a shelter because I couldn't make it home fast enough or return her phone call when my phone was dead in the middle of a music festival. She's also filed false affidavits to file for divorce vs an abullment , stating my whereabouts were u known just so I can be "server by way of publication", me not know about it, and her win by default resulting in her keeping my last name and "payday loans she took out" . Any normal person without a motive would agree to an anulment after knowing someone for 5 days and agree to how stupid getting married was. But this was her plan because she knew all my family had died and that I was in a very vulnerable state. SHE'S A CON ARTIST AT ITS FINEST. IT COMES WITH A SWEET INNOCENT SMILE THAT YOU DONT EVEN SEE COMING

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#17 Consumer Comment

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AUTHOR: HonestyIsPure - (USA)

POSTED: Tuesday, February 16, 2016

Its been years !  Amazing when searching for someone to check up on them to make sure their ok to find such hostility in ones self and reputation.  Sad but yes believable.  I have to say john soul is golden for a thought and yet not for long.  It is he who finds him self in the situations.  In life you go through trials and tribulations over and over again until you get it correct.  And it seems that is not so for Mr. Gazzola  and all honesty, the name states for its self.  You claim to honor the Gazzola family name.  However, did you ever ask your self and be true to your self how you father was as a person and with you.  Hmm I dont think so, those memories must be deep inside for you to forget.  Yes he was a nice man, taught you how to play the guitar, but you seem to forget waiting by the window for a man who never showed up.  Not a call nothing.  There was good times and bad but im not going to get any further with this conversation.  Im not here to bash anyone.  But i will tell you this much Your mother couldnt be any pure, she has tried to help in so many ways and yes some parents make poor deciscions at times and so do you especially.  You have had the time/years to correct your self instead of living in a fantasy world trying to make your world a believable place.  You have knowcked down ever one who has cared for you and has helped in every way possible.  But thats ok its only hurting you with your lies and additional fabrications to the stories you tell to make yourself look good.  You should try and be honest with yourself and get help.  But my dear brother life throughs you bricks and bubbles to make you a stronger person but yet it only destroys you further maybe its time for a change and to be positive with your self.  God dont like ugly.  AND FYI I stuggle for nothing, my mother is my best friend and i stand by her till the end.  I have 3 beautiful kids and i want nothing but the best for them and want more than what i got as a child.  Thats what life about so before making statements about a family you havent seen or heard from in years.  You should check your facts of LIFE.  So my dearest brother of mine now you know who is writing and i probably can say more.  But i can tell you YOUR Mother IS A GREAT loving caring giving women that would give you the shirt off her back and the last dollar in her pocket  (OH WAIT SHE HAS ALready) i wish you the best of luck with your future.  With all my love sincerely yours truly YOUR #1 OLDEST SIBLING)

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MR. FELIX PENA

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POSTED: Sunday, October 18, 2015

 If you were so honest about what you were saying, why wouldn't you stay anonymous? 1st off I stopped paying rent as a result of a breech in contract, more grossly being sexually harrasmed by you and your gay brother on multiple occasions. Even as early as my 1st week there. You lossed in eviction court, were ordered to retun my deposit and didn't, and begged me not to file a civil suit against you during mediation for the sexual harrasment. Not since you still continue to harass me and defamate my character, here is the proof to what I'm saying, and I'll be seeing you back in court :) have a great day

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#15 General Comment

DO NOT TRUST JOHN GAZZOLA! YOU WILL REGRET IT!

AUTHOR: Anonymous - (USA)

POSTED: Thursday, October 01, 2015

 I rented my house here in Las Angeles to John Gazzola who also goes by DJ John Destiny. He ruined the house and harassed me after non-stop...Relentlessly! I ended up having to file an eviction on him. He didn't pay the rent and had excuses for days. We went to court. He accused me of the most absurd and crazy disgusting things that did not happen, and praise God the judge saw right through him. I was awarded damages that he has yet to pay, regardless that he lied under oath. John harassed me in text messages, phone messages, slandered my business with the most off the wall lies. This guy appears great at first until he turns on you. I highly suggest you never rent your home to this kid. Like me, you will be out a lot of money, and suffer the stalking and harassment that I went through if it does not work out. Be careful when dealing with him. He is the worst con I have ever experienced, not that I have experienced many, but I know first hand that John is one most definitely. He talks a good game when you first meet him, but he is a sick dishonest individual... ABSOLUTELY 100% CRAZY!

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#14 Consumer Comment

John Destiny Is Character Assasinating Tresha Gazzola! She Is A 100% Solid Good Friend!

AUTHOR: S. S - (USA)

POSTED: Saturday, September 05, 2015

How obnoxious of John to write this! It shows how desperate people can be for attention. This is a sick attempt to con people to believe his vicious statements. Tresha is nothing like John Destiny described. She was never ever a prostitute like he claims. If you met her, you would see instantly that she is a strong confident woman who doesn't even need a man by her side. She has her s**t together. Unlike John who does not. Tresha has been a complete angel in our lives. I cherish our friendship. And, I told her that I would look this up, and comment on how she has been a dear friend to me and my family when I had time.

The marriage did not go down how John is explaining it. Notice how John never tells you all the wrong doings he did, and how he doesn't acknowlege the fact that he wasn't man enough to pay his own bills, or get a real job. He was verbally abusive. It's absolutely sickening to think that a man would even stoop to this level of character assasination to avoid paying her back.

And, he obviously doesn't know that definition of stealing someone's identity. LOL What a joke. Tresha is embarrassed and humilated that she married such a creeper.

As far as what I saw, Tresha was very hurt and devasted for months. She genuinely cared about John, and did everything she could to accomodate him. He will regret losing her deep down inside one day. I'm sure! Because she is a good person. Tresha is not the kind of woman that needs to manipulate any man into marriage. She has a great identity and reputation all by herself. She has always been a strong independent woman. She doesn't even need a man. Let alone  a man like John who is less than desirable. She married the least successful man of all the men she has ever been in a relationship with. She has a good heart.

I just wanted to state what a good friend Tresha has been to me, and that I am sorry to see this report. I will absolutely stand by my friend, and let you all know right now that she would never in a million years have to con anyone into a marriage. She will always tell you the truth. She is all about that life. That is the kind of woman she is. A stand up person 100%.

Usually when people accuse other people of things like this...It's to deflect thier own wrong actions and intentions. John is using slander to make himself look some kind of way, but it  looks like it all backfired on him. How sad!

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#13 Consumer Comment

JOHN DESTINY! PUT TRESH THROUGH HELL! HIS TWISTED LIES ARE DISGUSTING!

AUTHOR: Jen K. - (USA)

POSTED: Wednesday, September 02, 2015

This report by John Destiny is completely disgusting and full of twisted facts and tortured lies.

Like someone else mentioned Mr. John Gazzola is absolutely pathetic. I agree! One day John will look back and see that he should have kept his divorce/annulment private. No one has time for this kind of malicious and spiteful delusions. He is only making a mockery of himself by calling people names, while his own family says he was disowned, fired, and obviously has not been able to maintain friendships and work relationships. I have no idea why Tresha would even marry someone like him. She can have any man she wants with her looks and good character.

The DJ revolution is happening right now, and John is playing music from his livingroom and backyard lol while real DJ's in Vegas and Europe are making millions. He should stay in the underground where he belongs. My friend married a loser to say the least, but at least she was smart enough to file for divorce to get out of it early. Who cares if it's an annulment or a divorce...RUN FROM THIS GUY! FAST!!!! Who cares about the money he owes you. It's a small price to pay for his insanity is right.

Anyway, Tresha is an amazing great friend. Full of integrity and honest. She has always lead a very nice life traveling the world when were were flight attendants, and now with her current job of over 7 years in property management. She has never been and would never be a prostitute. Never. No way. It's not in her. She is one of the most conservative women I know. A stable job history says a lot about a person. I don't know anyone more honest and solid than she is.

 I find it interesting that she has only replied to this thread once. Goes to show that she isn't buying into his non-sense. She is obviously so over this dirtbag. Any man would be lucky to marry a woman like her, and any company would find great value in hiring someone like her. She is definitely one of a kind, hard to find, insanely beautiful and smart, especially in this crazy town. I have known her for over 12 years, so I am qualified to have an opinion. I laughed so hard when I read everything John wrote. This is just not my friend Tresha. And, even it was...I'm sure he drove her crazy, and she put up with his shananigans. lol The guy is obviously a loose cannon.

OH! John went to her job and home after Tresha filed for divorce and he literally stole her brandnew Pomeranian that a guy friend (Yes. A friend!) gave to her for her birthday because she missed the pitbulls so deeply. John flipped out when he saw her new dog. She had already file for divorce when John showed up one night.

John kidnapped her dog Gia and dropped her off at the ASPCA against Tresha's will! He threatened her friends and coworkers that he would feed her dog to his pitbulls. When John dropped off her dog at the ASPCA while she was at work, they told him that they don't take anonymous drop offs, and John threw the dog to them and ran out. He lied to shelter and told them he found the dog roaming the street she lives on.

This guy is sick in the head. Who doesn't that?! She knew he was crazy, but um hello. There was more proof! Everyone was like...Get this guy out of your house and your life once and for all!

People should avoid from interacting with John. From what I have witnessed, John is clearly troubled. And, the sad part is that he doesn't realize he is the problem at 35 years old. You can see by how he responds to people on here that he has an ignorant mentality. Do yourself a favor and don't read this crap. His claims are full of spiteful twisted lies that he writes to make himself feel okay, and to hurt my friend. I don't feel sorry for him because I know all they drama he has put her through.

I had never seen Tresha so unhappy as she was when she was with him. That girl did everything for him. A huge mistake to be so generous to someone like that who did not appreciate her, but I'm glad he is out of her life. She has clearly moved on while he is stuck in his resentment.

 

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#12 Author of original report

Hey CJ... Here you go moron

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POSTED: Thursday, August 27, 2015

 This is the last and final time I'm going to respond to anymore of this nonsense. I have nothing to prove to any of you at all. But I will one last time to proved how ganged up on I am with all you b******* people.... AGain "CJ" you poser.. Read it and wrap j******

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#11 Author of original report

CJ , you sound like a hypocrite moron...

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POSTED: Thursday, August 27, 2015

 CJ, if only you had a half of a clue as to what you are talking about.... She was elegant, yet you didn't know her personally? I wasn't a resident at 1923? Lmao I was fired be as I was rude ? You must have me mistaken for Brian Speed , who I did quality control for after cleaning up his mess with all the guest and patrons from my opening night which I still have the emails and photos of... And me bitter? Do you have a clue as to the women and caliber of women I get and have been in relationships with? Bitter? Lmao, that's hilarious. I couldn't run fast enough from this sorry excuse for a woman that goes so far out of her way to conspire. Get a life clearly mine is entertaining yours you idiot. People that know me know he truth, you just admitted to not knowing a thing you moron. I'm laughing at you bro... Trust me

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#10 Consumer Comment

John Destiny Was Not A Resident DJ at Mandalay Bay 1923

AUTHOR: C. J. - (USA)

POSTED: Wednesday, August 26, 2015

When I heard about this I had to see it for myself. John Destiny / John Gazzola was not a resident DJ at 1923. He was hired as a dj like a few other djs we hired at the same time. No one was the official resident dj. John was fired after two nights of work. He was also 86'ed from the Mandalay Bay Hotel property for disrespecting a patron who reported him to the hotel's corporate office. He was unprofessional and extremely rude to other employees and respected friends of the night club. He also harassed the owner for weeks after he was fired via e-mails and text messages. In regards to Tresha, I met her once and found her to be extremely sweet, elegant, and well spoken. Though I do not know her personally; I feel for her getting mixed up with someone like John. Putting your dirty laundry on the internet is classless. I guess John didn't learn a better way to solve his problems. People are laughing you Bro. I doubt she was a prostitute like he claims. I been in Las Vegas a longtime, and Tresha exhibited nothing but class. It appears that the other report John mentioned was detracted and deemed cyber bullying. I strongly feel that is exactly what John is doing to her based on our own personal experience with him. Marrying someone and inheriting their last name is not equal to stealing someone's identity! Looks like she lost more than he did if you ask me! Regardless of anything she may have said or text during arguments. There is always three sides to every story. This isn't a real ripoff. Just a scorned bitter guy here full of hatred trying to make sure that no one else is lucky enough to be with his ex-wife to be. Relationships come and go, unfortunately and fortunately sometimes they don't work out. That is life. No need to throw the low blows Dude. Grow Up.

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#9 Author of original report

Oh Mr "Unofficial" Azmyth

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POSTED: Wednesday, August 19, 2015

 Azmyth? The same Azmyth that calls himself a producer that has never made a track in his life? The same Azmyth that I carried musically since I met ? The same Azmyth that plays all my tracks and mixes exactly like me because he studied me for so long? The same Azmyth that abruptly stopped being my friend when I got booked for steampunk and he didn't? The same Azmyth I gave thousands in music production software to? The same Azmyth I gave a residency in vegas to? The same Azmyth that stole music I wrote on his computer and he claims to be his The same Azmyth that can't get a gig outside of the rabbit hole in west hills, that played top 40, told me "I didn't know how to bring it" then steals my idea to make it an underground night? The Azmyth I showed how to get all that pretty new gear you have , without having to come out of pocket for all of it at once? The same Azmyth that I put up when I was "supposed to be focusing on an album and a marriage" because you were homeless while lying to your mother telling her you still were living in LA? The same unofficial , phony a* Azmyth that hides behind social media instead of manning up? That Azmyth? Or the spineless Azmyth that won't let his ex-girl go, tries to steal her from her current boyfriend when she wants nothing to do with you, even after you spend a $1000 on a custom carousel for her. The same Azmyth that's been photographed having dinner with my soon to be non existent wife from a non existent marriage? The same Azmyth that's all over her IG making innuendoes about her t*, and flirted with her to my face? Or the same Azmyth that has to go to music production school at 36years old because I'm not around to teach him another f* thing... Ohhh yea, I knew that unofficial m*f* once. for a hot second. He goes around making people think he knows me better than he does, after knowing me for 6 months. No wonder why him and that broad Tresha get along so well.

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#8 General Comment

Shedding some light on this scenario

AUTHOR: A. Kaminski - (USA)

POSTED: Wednesday, August 19, 2015

WoW!!!!

Where does one even start?

I guess having known the 2 of these people, the accuser & the accused, i can speak a bit knowledgeably upon the subject to hopefully clear the air of many falsities .

Let me explain why i know so much & speak so forward the way i am about too.

I once knew the accuser john gazzola quite personally, we were the quickest of friends.

He is a very charismatic individual with a few great talents. We both met in lowish points of our lives & had similar situations happening with our housing. We are both in the music industry & we worked well together in that respect.

He did move to Vegas to get some s**t together, more so because he didn't have much else for him in Los Angeles. He did meet Tresha on Vegas on a dating site. They did get hot & heavy far to quick & they did get married far too soon, but the decision was far more mutual then previously suggested & seemed to be a bright idea they both agreed with. Personally i thought they were both nuts, but that's what a friend is suppose to do… Be a voice of reason.

I can honestly say that i have met Tresha, i know her pretty well since she took both John & me in for about a month, John much longer actually cause he wouldn't leave or would keep coming back because he had no where else to go. I know this because i had to get a hotel room for us one night when Tresha rightfully kicked us out due to a fight they had.

"Divine connections, guilt trips, we can make this work, your crazy…." sounds like most relationships. Whether these were all fact i can not confirm. I do know that the man who decided to generate this story for all to see for some ridiculous reason; is just digging his hole deeper & making more people see his true side. This all from a man who has fire burning right below his skin waiting to lash out when things haven't gone his way. john was so happy to be married; whether he knew it was a good idea or he was even ready to be married to such a good, caring, generous & patient woman.

I can not clarify about the DMV & restraining order part of how the name change went down, but what i can say is that any restraining order placed against john was the right thing to do. After he & i had our own falling out shortly after he had been kicked out of Tresha's house, I actually mentioned a similar need to feel like i should put in place the same legal action due to his ungodly amount of venomous texting & psycho x-girlfriend behavior towards me. He seemed somewhat stable until i decided that further staying in a friendship with him was a waste of my time & a horrible idea. 

& Here's where things get real interesting & very shitty for me…& I quote

john d: "Finally , she framed me into looking like I stole property from a former best friend that used to live with us, while also engaging in sexual relations with him. She's also currently using my last name and that "she is my ex wife" to befriend people in my inner circle to manipulate them and also isolate th from me. 

1st off:

 Alright, lets clear the air here. So i am said "FORMER BEST FRIEND". & yes brand new un-used gear was kept from me & almost reported stolen. john forgot to get the gear that i left at Tresha's house for him to use before he got kicked out a week later. I spoke with Tresha about it & personally i neglected to drive back to Vegas to get the gear that she wanted out of her house along with ALL OF jOHNS BELONGING'S or anything else connected to him, i.e. my gear.  So once i was ready to actually go get my gear, all of a sudden it wasn't there anymore…? huh, 

Tresha: "john took it" 

is what i was told, so i contact john. 

Me: "hey, wheres my gear?"  

john: "Tresha's got it" 

Me: Well great she says you have it. 

john: "No She's lying, why would i have it"

So i ask Tresha again, could i please get my gear, cause john said she had it.

Tresha: he took it with him last time i threw all his stuff out

Me: Great...

So at this point i was stuck between 2 people who were telling me different stories.

After a few weeks of giving up & just saying, I guess i got screwed. Tresha, was nice enough to share with me the truth because she couldn't stand me not knowing what had really gone down. She said that she' was telling the truth the whole time & john had taken my gear with him once & then brought it back, (They were trying to work it out). I respect how she acted due to the fact she said that she was standing by her man's decision, which she had no allegiance to me but did have to him since still being married. But at this point it was over & she wanted to do what was right & let me retrieve my gear!!!  YAY TRESHA FOR BEING A GOOD PERSON!!! 

I soon found out afterwards that john was extremely pissed that she allowed me to get my gear back… what does that thought process say about an individual. Now i presently feel like i'm writing too much. But sometimes you have too share some well explained stories to clear the air.

Go ahead & say what you will about me in any far out rebuttles you decide to further post. but everyone knows my truth, because i hide nothing.

2nd off: 

Sorry john, but to clear the air of your dishonest imagination & set it too rest.

I have not slept or done anything with Tresha & she was not doing anything with me at all during anytime.

I can't say the same about your behavior & thank you for now lying about me & bringing me into this scenario to be adding to your woe's.

Let me also comment on the fact that she might have made friends with people you introduced us both to.

She should make friends with a good selection of those individuals, as i have, there good people & so is she & you don't own anyone.

Similarly to you boasting about how i'll never play in Vegas again…. What do you own that town? Neither her nor i could manipulate anyone in Vegas or Los Angeles to isolate you. You have isolated yourself time after time by your actions. just like writing here for all the world to see.

She did loan you a bunch of money & guess what…. you still owe me a grand as well, so you might want to look yourself in the mirror from time to time & see what the truth really is… You are the truth, stop tearing people down just to make yourself feel better. 

FINAL THOUGHTS

 You screwed up with an amazing woman, she may have made some interesting choices while you were both together, but so did you, far more i'm sure. I can attest & clear TRESHA GAZZOLA'S name, (Sadly she still has your last name which you don't deserve) in the light that she is a very kind & generous woman, was everytime i saw her with you when we were staying at her place; under her roof & her giving US a place to live out of the kindness of her heart. I've met a lot of bad women in my day & an even larger amount of AMAZINGLY KIND BEAUTIFUL WOMEN. Tresha falls into the later category. I've met very few souls as patient & easy going as she is & sweet. Whoever ends up winning Tresha's heart for real is a very lucky man on so many accounts.

Anyone who reads this, believe what you will. I'm not hear to bad mouth anyone, just state facts & tell personal experiences. The energies are always funny around john, I hope that he calms down someday & stops blaming other people for his misfortunes.

FIN

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Don't know who you are Robert and don't care

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POSTED: Saturday, August 15, 2015

 Listen Robert, I don't know who you are, and j certainly don't know who "WE" is that you are referring to. However, if you're referring to my drug addict mother, and her husband, a murderer and drug addict, that won't let me see my brothers and sisters then yes, you are right. Still there and still addicts on the streets of the Bronx. (3) sisters who (3) struggling parents, that are single with no education , as a result of my mothers awesome awesome parental skills. And for those defending Tresha, I'm not concerned about your LACK of knowledge about how and who she really is. NONE of you lived behind closed doors with her, and this is NOT the 1st report about her. Also "Robert" , unless you want me to put my mother on blast, and post photos of how she was begging for my help, and how she was only staying in the marriage for money because of her drug addict husband, or the texts where she's praying for him to go back to jail as a result of his most current OxyContin charges (Joseph Trippardella). So if THATS the family you're referring to, that I haven't seen or spoken to in over a decade now. Yes you're right, they're still alive, and very much dead to me. GO F*** YOURSELF LOSER

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#6 Consumer Comment

JOHN GAZZOLA / DJ JOHN DESTINY HAS FAMILY! HE WAS DISOWNED!

AUTHOR: Robert G - (USA)

POSTED: Friday, August 14, 2015

The fact that you would call the woman you married and lived with for months an idiot shows your true character. Especially if you owe her all this money and caused her emotional abuse. I see that you have not changed since your days back in New York growing up. What a shame and disgrace.

Your mother, sister, brothers, and uncles are all very much alive. How dare you make such an bold lie in public and say that your whole family is dead. We are not dead. Yes, we disowned you for good reason. We are living in New York as you know.

Do yourself a favor and leave Tresha alone. You are destroying yourself by trying to paint her as such. No one wins in these types of situtations. Move on and find away to accept that it didn't workout son. Your look really pathetic. If you were so embarrassed you would not have wrote this in the first place.

 

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#5 General Comment

Bi polar

AUTHOR: Tron - (USA)

POSTED: Friday, August 14, 2015

 While reading this I could not help myself but to laugh. The accusations in this story yes I called it a story because it is a made up story but the accusations are absolutely absurd it's ridiculous. There are actual witnesses to back up your lies and no it's not witnesses that have her side but actual by standee witnesses. From knowing you it is clear you need to be on mood stabilizers absolutely nothing wrong with that there are millions that are on them I think they will help your life. She treated you so good and you used her for every penny walked all over her and left to be a dj. No one forces someone to get married. I really hope you fine inner peace with your obsessions lies anger and stories there is help and I wish you help. Just sign the divorce papers stop being obsessed and move on with your life. You can get help and find happiness again.

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Difficult to Believe

AUTHOR: jbmark - (USA)

POSTED: Thursday, August 13, 2015

I find the negative allegations directed at Tresha to be very difficult to believe.
Over the past five years, Ive known this woman in a professional capacity and as a kind hearted, loyal friend. The specific nature of these allegations just doesnt fit her character. I encourage anyone who has read the negative comments directed towards her to reach out to her and get to know her.

After spending five minutes talking with her, you will find the prospect of her doing anything mean spirited or deceitful to anyone just as difficult to believe as I do. I admire her courage and strength in facing these unfortunate circumstances, and will do all I can to help her rebuild her reputation. Wishing you the very best Tresha!

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LIES LIES AND MORE LIES FROM THIS FORMER PROSTITUTE

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POSTED: Tuesday, August 11, 2015

 A) how could my family disown me, when they're all dead you idiot. B) I was wasn't homeless and paid for my stays with friends which included their rent, as well as food for their 4... Yes 4 Children C) I never used you, you wanted me to move in and in fact insisted on it. D) If I bought rings at all, it certainly wouldn't have been at a d**n kiosk in a mall. E) I make over a 100k a year and have for 16years of my life. I don't need to steal or use anyone. Stop trying to turn the tables and re-direct how sick you actually are. You're a delusional , pathological liar with a personality disorder : Just watch her YouTube channel and you can see for yourself

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JOHN DESTINY IS TRYING TO HURT ME BECAUSE I FILED FOR DIVORCE! HE IS A USER! HE OWES ME THOUSANDS OF DOLLARS! AND WONT PAY IT BACK!

AUTHOR: Tresha Gazzola - (USA)

POSTED: Tuesday, August 11, 2015

I forgot to mention in my other rebuttal, that John Destiny / John Joseph Gazzola, my soon to be ex-husband actually stole my pomeranian dog and actually took her to the pound! Notice how he won't use his full  name on this slanderous report done out of spite. John actually stole my dog and took her to the pound. Yup! Seriously. No joke!

My friend gave me a dog for my birthday because he knew I was heartbroken and missing Maximus and Cleo after John finally came to pick them up after leaving them with me for almost two months while he was doing God knows what in Los Angeles. John accused me of having a affair, and all kinds of crazy things that goes through his sick head. I never ever had sexual relations with any other man while I was married to John for the record. It's so stupid that he would even use the term sexual relations. lol He is so ridiculous.

John told me that I better get rid of the dog or he would. He flipped out when he tried to come home and work things out, and I said no, and I told him that I filed for divorce. He saw my new dog and went crazy.

John snatched my phone out of my hand one morning, and he wouldn't give it back to me. He scratched me and hit my arm in the process of me struggling to get my phone back. So I let him have it, I didn't care because there was nothing wrong on it.

It was so embarassing. He called my innocent friend who gave me the dog for my birthday, and literally cussed him out for giving his wife a dog, and told him to stay away from his wife, and told him to come get the f-en dog, or he was going to feed it to his pitbulls. John threatened to kill the dog if he didn't come pick it up. I was mortified!

My poor verbally assaulted friend got worried and called my girlfriend to come get the dog because he didn't know where I lived, and didn't want John to hurt the dog. He was honestly being a nice friend, kind, and thoughtful when he dropped the dog off at my job out of the goodness of his heart. He knew I missed having a dog, and he thought it would help my healing process through the divorce.

He had no idea what he was in for from John. I felt humiliated that John was so out of control and way out of line. Accusing me of having a long affair with this guy, which I was not, and I was telling John the truth, but he was full of anger and rage, and wanted the dog gone. Mind you this is after I had already filed for divorce and John was out of the house for almost two months only coming back on three occasions to get his belongings and the dogs. I had just got the dog as a gift and was still considering if I was going to keep her or give her to my co-worker because this gift was unexpected and so random. I was already too stress out from my marriage to John, and taking care of his dogs for months.

After that, John actually came down to my job and cussed out my co-worker. Told her she better take the f-en dog or he would get rid of it himself and kill it. She told him to not be cruel to the dog, and that he was out of line. She told him that she is not going to get the dog, and to not be cruel to animals. John kept standing there demanding she take the f-en dog. My other co-worker asked him to leave the office.

John then steals my dog and takes it to the ASPCA dog pound while I was at work...He literally stole my new dog from my home, and took it to the pound. Yup! He really did!!! I couldn't believe it! Luckily my bestfriend has a really good friend who is a dog rescue advocate, and with her connections found out that my Pomeranian Gia was indeed there where John told me he took her. They called all her connections at every pound in town trying to locate her for me. I have amazing friends.

When I got the call from my friend saying my dog was at the ASPCA, and they were holding her for me. I immediately had my friend go pick to pick her up, since I was working and couldn't leave, but since he gave Gia to me as a gift they wouldn't release her to him, so I had to be the one to get her.

The ASPCA gave me a hard time getting her back. I had to prove she was my dog with pictures since she was so young and not micro-chipped yet. They were afraid to give her back to me because they felt that in these situations the dogs usually get hurt or killed by the husbands or boyfriends, and they wanted to make sure that John would not hurt her.

I showed them my divorce papers and my lease agreement showing that John does not live with me anymore. My friend instructed me to bring those items with me when I went to get her. I even had to pay $80.00 to het her back. They gave her shots and a installed a microchip in her. They interviewed me twice, and it took about two hours before they would release her to me. They grilled me with with questions, as I was sobbing trying to explain that I'm going through a divorce, my soon to be husband will not be back in my home, and I would make sure Gia was protected from him. I told them how this was done out of spite and against my will. They were really concern that husbands or ex-boyfriends will usually harm the dogs who are given back in my situation.

They told me that John walked in the shelter, and said he found my babygirl Gia at the street corners of my apartment community. A complete lie. He stole her. He refused to give his information when they told him that they do not take anonymous drop offs. The report said, John then left Gia, and he ran out of the shelter.

How sick is that? I called the cops to make a report, but the the police said that because we are married, dogs are considered community propertly, so I couldn't. The part of the law is messed up. What John did was wrong way out of line and beyond disgusting. I knew I did the right thing by filing for divorce earlier that month.

He goes by John Destiny, and his birth name is John Joseph Gazzola. He is seriously crazy. He is mad because I won't change my last name until he pays me back the thousands of dollars he owes me. BEWARE OF THIS GUY. He is evil! He is willing to write on this website about me. I told him about an ex and his girlfriend who wrote a false allegation about me on here five years ago, and how I got a lawyer, and was very hurt by it, but the site is based in Europe, and not worth the fight according to they attorney. John has threatend me many times to do it too. And, he he goes. He also continues to harass me on Twitter and Instagram. And, he harassing his ex-bestfriend too. Even though I have a restraining order against him.

He threatened me many times that he would write something on here about me. I'm not surprised by his desperate attemps to hurt me. I have done so much for him, and all he has done is use and disrespect me. I feel really sorry for him. Clearly he is not over me, and continues to want me in his life when I clearly have moved on a longtime ago, and I refuse to have any contact with him. He continues to harass me on Twitter and his Instagram social media outlets. Everyone is so disgusted by his actions. He is not making me look bad. He is making himself look bad. I hope he will one day become a better person. I know his Mom, Dad, or Grandparents or whoever he was raised by tried to raise a better man than this. Don't be like me and marry someone you only knew for 5 days. It was a huge mistake. The worst of of my life. I just can't get rid of him. He just won't go away!

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John Destiny Uses Innocent Women! Pay Me Back My Money!

AUTHOR: Tresha Gazzola - (USA)

POSTED: Monday, August 10, 2015

Here we go with your disgusting antics and lies. Move on with your life and stop stalking me online!

Anyone who reads this will know that you are bitter, angry, and trying to attack me in this nasty divorce. My character is solid and clearly you continue to attack and harasss me and look like a fool. Nobody cares. Only you. Get over me!

If I was you, I would stop because my restraining order was extended on July 16th. And, it includes online harrassment. I have every tweet, text, and emai in a file that shows harassment and emotional abuse. My doctor even states that my marriage to John gave me anxiety.

John clearly have not learned any lessons from his previous domestic violence convictions in San Francisco with the other girl he was using too.

LEAVE ME ALONE John Destiny or John Gazzola. Stop harrassing me.

I paid those fines for you to keep you from going back to jail. You should pay me back for that too. And, all the other money you conned out of me.

I never had "sexual realations" with Azymyth. Or any of John's two friends here in Las Vegas.

John Destiny akd John Gazzola can be so offensive, and he sadly ruins all of his personal and professional relationships with people. Not my fault he offended DJ Vixen, Roy Evans, and Eric with his opinionated and nasty attitude.

John couldn't  forgive me for giving back the gear he stole from Azmyth is ex- bestfriend/brother The $700 keyboard and $500.00 monitor. He owes him hundreds of dollars too.

I am not a stripper and was never any kind of prostitute or w***e like John would always call me. I have a stable work history as a flight attedant and in property management. I helped John out of the kindess of my heart, and ungrateful, emotionally and physically abusive. He was constantly putting me down and manipulating me.

 

His PTSD, depression, and anxiety mental issues, and bad attitude and mood swings caused a lot of trouble for our marriage and me.

John lost a lot of good solid friends that stuck by him when you were down an out. And it was sad to see.

His family won't even have anything to do with him. They all disowned you from what I was told. And, I can see why. We married each oher willilingly, and he did pay for my ring with his

unemployement money, (which by they way you owe them $4000 for your false claim), and I paid for the bands. 

John was basically  homeless crashing on Eric's couch when I met him.

He saw stable my life was and convinced me. John is the ultimate manipulator. He asked me to marry him, and told me that I was the only person he ever wanted to marry of all the girls he was with.

John was really good at making me feel sorry for him. And, he used he dogs to draw me in.

What a big mistake I made marrying him. I fell for the whole producer thing because I loved that he was creative too, and I had no idea that he couldn't support himself with his so called music career. He lied on his credit application for me to add him onto my apartment lease after we were married, he lied and said he made $3500 per month when he was only making $200 a week. They fired him after his second night of work there.

I paid a total of $1500 plus when he begged me to save your car from getting reposessed. He promised to pay me back

and still haven't!  I'm still in finacial stress because of him

And, $1500.00 for the payday loans I got for him, so he could go back and forth to Cali to network with Steam Punk Saloon and celebrate Maximus's birthday. I still haven't see any of that money back. He drove me there to get them.

I did these things and many things out of the kindess of my heart, and I believed him when he promised to pay me back. I have seen on cent back. I made huge sacrifices for John during our marriage...borrowing money from friends and taking out the loans. He took advantage of me, and now trying o justify not paying me back by assasinating my character. He was so desperate to go to Burning Man and be a resident DJ in Steampunk, and manipulated me to paying him to get to Cali to work the gigs hey had book him for. He had no intention of paying me back. I came to realized that I will never see my money back and he was just using me. If anything I was conned.

If I could get money anytime like you said, why were we eating food from the 99cents store and struggling every month?!I never had to do that in my life. I went without necessities just to make sure you had what you needed and you were so ungrateful. You still are ungrateful, disrespectful, and full of anger resentment that will one day haunt you and you may not ever be truly happy because he have hurt so many people, but that is on him.

He saw that I had a stable job, nice apartment, car paid off & made me feel sorry for you. so I let him  move in.

We got married willingly together. I didn't have to marry him. I had nothing to game. He was homeless couldn't pay his own bills. He ask me for $150 before we even met in person because his unemployment didn't hit his account.

When we got married....I paid for the bands and he paid for my ring with his umemployment money. Tell the story right if you are going to tell it. You were not intoxicated when we went down there. Stop trying to lie to build yourself a case. Man up and pay me my money back and be done with this marriage. I don't know what you are holding out for. Let it go. Leave me alone.

I even wanted to wait and have my bestfriend there, but he pulled into the first chapel on the street, opened my car door, and we walked in. He convinced me to marry him. We both did it sober and together. He was not drunk or high or anything like that.

The whole marriage was full of ups and downs.

He came to my job and harassed my co-worker and my innocent friend. He got into fights with all of my neighbors, and his erradict behavior was embarrassing.

At the end in June, John showed up at midnight with the dogs, and begged me to come home, and I said NO. He could spend he night, but had to leave in the morning. I had had already filed for divorce and was completely done with him.

I had no physical address to serve the papers on June 2nd, but started the paperwork by publication, because I was done being hurt by him.

I had already filed for divorce, and it was too late after weeks of begging him to come home because I took my vows seriously and didn't want the marriage to fail. I'm not a quiter, but I was done after I had genuinely tried to make things work until I realized what I was dealing with. I couldnt' handle the abuse anymore.

He knew he was getting served by publication when he  came home. I told him about it. He got a copy of the divorce summons in June the very next day after he tried to come home.

It's public record that you picked it up before it was even served by publication. I told you about it! You didnt have to wait for the publication. You could respond at anytime for free but you didn't. I paid for the divorce.

I wanted to file joint divorce in April after one of our fights, and did the research and got the papers, but he wouldn't do it.

We had lots of verbal arguments and texting arguments too and texted things we didn't mean out of anger, but a cop told me that is not a crime, and it's not against the law to be angry and say hateful things.

Bottom line is I was d**n good to your dogs, you even told me how I saved your life and theirs. I would never take them to the pound. I still had them for weeks after that stupid text. I was just a desperate attempt to get you home. so be desperate and spin it however you want. I have all the other text messages after that one!

John is so coniving, but honestly it doesn't matter anymore. I have had so much relief without him here. He brought too much negativity to our home.

I dont care what he says or writes about me. His opinion doesn't have any value. Everyone knows how he is, and he has no integrity. He has bad credit and a criminal record. Those things I found out after the marriage.

My family, friends, and collegues know me, and they know you used me. I'm an open book. There are secrets. I live an honest life. Always have. I'm very good to people and very generous and trusting.

John destroyed my peace of mind, home, and finances. I'm a good person, and people always sense that when they meet me. Just like you did.

Anyone who would listen to John, and not get both sides, doesn't matter to me. I already have moved on with my life and have refused to have any contact with him since the restraining order in June. Knowing there is a restraining order John continues to tweet and bad mouthed me to anyone who will listen and feel sorry for him. I'm a grown woman and donot care to waste anymore energy or allow this negativity around me. John has no boundries and doesn't know when to stop, but I do. That will be his demise in life. He will never find happiness if he keeps doing this to people.

I don't care if it's a annulment or a divorce. Like I said to him a million times, I will change my name back to Castillo when he pays me back the debt he got us into.

John should man up and do the right thing instead of creating so much chaos. Let it be done and over with.

This could have all be handled privately and in court. His ego is always getting in the way. This is the only and final time I will address this. My only interest was to defend myself. I honestly wish John well because I choose to be a light in people's lives. I wish all living things well always. He knows I'm that way. He is mistaking that kindness for weakness. I rather be happy then be right. I hope he will move on to do big things in this life that are more loving and positive instead of spewing this kind of hate.

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