Wayne County Friend of the Court, Referee Lynn. Ruhlman, and Absent (until now) father of my two year old daughter-David Chappelle Unjust, uncaring about the child, endangering my daughter to abuse, neglect Detroit Michigan

 Your daughter is not yours and yours alone. Well that is unless the father didnt even provide the genetic material. So unless you had an imaculate conception HE still has rights. As such, dont you think YOUR view is jaded? I mean you are attempting to base a DENIAL of his parental rights on his behavour. Kinda silly when you think about it.

You are trying to deny his given parental rights because YOU dont like him. You are attempting to circumvent the entire legal system BY GIVING YOUR OPINION. It sounds to me that YOU have more of a problem with HIM visiting with HIS DAUGHTER.

You are no different then any other parent out there. YOU have decided that because YOU do not like the woman he is with that YOU are going to deny him his rights. It doesnt work that way. The courts tend to take a very dim view of one parent attempting to deny the other parent their rights. YOU MAY NOT LIKE IT BUT IT IS STILL HIS DAUGHTER!!!! You cannot stop his attempts unless YOU are willing to work WITH him instead of against him. You attempt to deny by citing issues that have ZERO relevance to the issue of his parental rights.

The court WILL NOT care that he met someone online. The court WILL NOT care if he has made mistakes in the past. We all make mistakes. Well maybe NOT YOU!!!! YOURE PERFECT AND HAVE NEVER DONE ANYTHING EVER....riiiiggghhhttttt. YOU need to get over YOUR hatred of your ex. You do a disservice to both him AND your daughter. WHO ARE YOU TO DENY HER THE CHANCE TO KNOW HER FATHER????

I know the mindset of ppl like you and Im 100% sure youre going to post back with "Im HER mother", let me stop you there. HE IS HER FATHER and has the same rights that you have and to deny him his rights because you dont like who he is with IS ILLEGAL!!! If this is just that much of a problem for you, then perhaps YOU shouldnt have slept with HIM and made a CHILD.

You need to work this out NOW!! While your daughter is still too young to remember the issue. You dont want her trying to make up for "Daddy" issues later on in her life. This will send her down a very dark path. One that will ruin her life. You need to get over your anger and hatred NOW while there is still a chance. Stop fighting him on what is his right to his own flesh and blood. If you dont then all you will be doing is making MORE issues later. You dont want your daughter hateing you later in life because YOU DENIED her father the chance to have a relationship with her. And you DEFINATLY dont want her trying to make up for the lack of a father in her life later when she blossoms.

You need to understand and accept that he may be slimy in your eyes, but that may not really be true. He has a right to BE her father. Ok he may be a s**+++y person. Yes he may even be an a*s. BUT its the only father SHE has. And no matter how hard you try you just wont be able to fill that void that NOT having him in her life is going to cause. And if you attempt to fill the father role by getting another husband, wouldnt that make YOU as bad of a person that YOU accuse him of being for finding someone else?

Get over the anger. Get over the hatred. If you TRULY love your daughter then you will give HER the chance to have a relationship with her father. If you dont, then YOU will be the cause of all the problems to follow. NOT HIM!!! So try and work it out.