I signed up for a month with xdating.com.  I began to get suspicious when women emailed me with brief invitations.  When I replied, they often switched to a different invitation without taking into account anything I said to them.  It seemed like they used generic one-size-fits-all come-ons to keep me interested.  

Then I dug deeper and found that xdating.com is filled with women using false identities.  I gave my evidence to the administrators three times.  Never received any response.  They claim to welcome complaints, yet they never acted on any of the information that I sent them.

HERE IT IS:

Warning!

Are you clever?  Are you seductive?  Are you intelligent?  For some women online, it makes no difference.  These are the women with “fake identities” who never read your emails.  They only send out “pick-up lines” calculated to keep you coming back.  When you write back, they never acknowledge anything you said.  They may refer to  your profile but respond saying, “hot pic” or “attracted by what you say,” generalities that could apply to everyone.  They never take time to address you using your screen name.

And why is this? 

Here is why: They are online with fake identities and are being paid by the number of replies they get from the men they contact.  They are the female “catfish” or the hired “trollers” who make men miserable while they gain recognition and earn hard cash.

Here are some of the fake personalities that I have spotted on xdating.com:

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Q1. So how does one spot a false identity? 

A1. If someone never makes reference to the content of your emails, you have the right to be suspicious. . . .  Then you might try sending something like this:

Some of the "virtual women" on this site have no more reality than what their programmers designed them to be, like Samantha in the recent Spike Jonze film "Her."

So, as a reality check, please include the words "first kiss" somewhere in your next email.  If I don’t find these words, I will know that you are not a real person. . . .

Hug,
your FreeSpirit

A2. If the words “first kiss” do not appear, then I write something like this:

I’m frustrated.  You may have noticed that I have been reaching out to you with multiple emails. You, in return, send me generic replies that ignore my emails entirely. It appears that you paste a one-size-fits-all response to all your "favorites" from time to time by way of drumming up interest, but, in truth, you are hiding behind a mask. I even suspect that your profile pic is a fake as well.

Why would you want to do this? It's a cruel and heartless business. . . .

FreeSpirit

A3.  If this does not prompt your “virtual woman” to come clean, your next step would be explore the “block” and “report” buttons found in the lower-left portion of her profile.  The “report” button allows you to share your frustration with someone who can do something about it.  Be sure to ask management to “send me an email telling me what you are doing as a follow-up on my complaint.”  Keep a copy of your complaint for possible future use.  The “block” button allows you to prevent further frustration for yourself. 

Some dating sites do allow for “false identities” and they offer paid users some way to identify them.  You have to read the fine print on the contract to learn this, however.  So I would call this “fraudulent.”  They, of course, would protect themselves by saying it was “my responsibility to read the contract.”

I am not aware that xdating.com allows false identities.  On the other hand, I have no evidence as of yet that xdating.com closes down those known to be using a false identity.  Let’s be frank.  It may be in their interest not only to allow but to deliberately overlook false identities. . . .

Dear xdating administrators,

Here is even more solid evidence that the following five sites contain false identities.

Again, I request you to send me detailed info as to what action you take against the five named below.  Otherwise, I have no evidence that you are performing your functions properly.

Sincerely,

FreeSpirit

#1 htiderem48

23 years old from Evansville, IN   She writes, “My name's Lisa btw.”

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