There is something that I wish to share with you and to let you think about. I know that for this time there are a lot of women who try to find their men from abroad. Of course it is well known that all women who look for their foreign men have different purposes and different goals. It is well known that some women wish to find their foreign friend and to use his help to go to live to abroad and to move from this country or even from Russia. Some women wish to find sponsor without any reason to leave this country but to be supported by their loving boyfriend from abroad.
It is wonderful way for them to live and to meet with their "American boys" when they can come to Ukraine and simply to promise them that one day they will come to their country and they will live together, the same time they know that they will never do it as they enjoy that life that they have for this time moreover they "American Joy" adds so much stability in their finances. [continued below]....
.....Also we know that there are serious women who wish to find their love after so many disappointments with our guys who unfortunately started to be afraid of the word "marriage" and moreover "children". So sometimes these lonely souls try to find their soul mates with the help of dating agencies and other firm who help to meet their abroad dream.
So here is the reason of this my post. I do wish to let you know about my friend who is also such a lonely soul here and who seriously wished to meet her man from abroad. Her story started long time ago when she was registered on elenasmodels.com. (I do understand that it is like an advertisement for them but I do not wish you to think that I will tell you about good things from their side). So she met a wonderful guy from Germany, his name was Martin and they really liked each other. They met for a lot of times, they were really happy together and they thought that they would live long and happy life together. So this my friend, let's name her Irina, was ready to marry Martin and it happened that they even were able to get tourist visa for her to go to Germany.
You even can not imagine what she had to go through in order to get that visa and be sure that she met a lot of humiliation in the German embassy in Kiev. Anyway they were enough lucky to get that visa and to be together in Germany. Irina spent there something like a couple of months and unfortunately she had to go home because her vacation was ended and she had to go back to her work. And another epoppee started. She tried to get marriage visa, she learnt German and went to Kiev to the University to have her exam there and it was the total nightmare for her. She did everything that depended on her and she passed that exam with wonderful result. So they gave the last documents... but... but once Martin wrote that he did not see his life with her any more... what it was?
... some time later Irina found that he married another Ukrainian woman. It was rather great betray for her. I do wish one of you to see her crying and looking through all their photos together... I do wish you to see her when she tried to overcome everything, just life was broken into pieces... anyway in a year she recovered from everything and decided to try her luck for one more time.Here it is the most interesting part that I wish to share with you and to warn you about that site elenasmodels.com. She registered there for one more time. I want you to know that in order to register there she had to go through unpleasant checks when people from Australia phone you and check all the information about you and only then they say if it is possible for you to use their site or not.
So she went through that check and her profile started to be active there. Irina did not work for that time, unfortunately that place where she worked experienced some problems for that time and she simply was in unpaid vacation. I am sure that people from former Soviet Union know what mean now! So she decided to spend all her time for finding the man for herself since she even started to be lost without her right man that she wished to be with. I want to assure you that she is sincere person and even romantic since she still believed in love and believed that one day she would be happy!
So she read all the advices that elenasmodels.com posted there on their site and if you ever were the client of them you saw those advices by yourself and you saw that they simply offer to send as more interests to different men as possible since you can not be sure who would be the right one for you.My Irina spent lots of time sending requests to those men she were interested in. Somehow I started to see her sparkling eyes that were filled with lots of hopes for the future. She started to be sure that something good would happen to her and... unfortunately lots of men were not serious there, they offered sex meetings, they offered to have fictive marriage for having some income from their government and other things.
Some men simply insisted on sending them naked photos.Of course being serious with her intentions she told them no... they claimed that they would complain about her to the administration of the site if she would not do it. Irina ignored it and she continued her search with that naive hope that everything would be ok and she would find HIM! It happened that she had some serious communication with several men as they were real candidates for the future and they sounded really good... It happened one day... as usual she tried to log in her profile and she noticed that she was not active there anymore. She was able to stand inside of her profile but she was not able to communicate any more.
... She was shocked as it was like she was cut from oxygen and she started to be in panic. We did not know what was going on and she asked me to help her. We made a short video and uploaded there as she waited that administrators will reactivate her profile...she wrote to the administration with the request to explain everything and to let her know how to reactivate her profile because it was of great importance for her... for that time I realized that it was such important as her life and her future... She waited for a couple of days but there was no any answer... and... then the most horrible thing happened... again she tried to log in but the access was denied, she tried to use the search and to get to know what happened to her profile.
So when she input her ID number... and do you know what she found there... There was written "This profile lists a known scammer (non-existing person). Was spotted by our 'QualityControl". Can you imagine that it was possible for them to write such things about Irina? She contacted them immediately and she wrote her complain but no one answered it. Also she begged them to call her in order to find the truth, but no one did it. So she spent her last money and called to Australia by herself. They refused to delete their information and stopped talking... People!!! I saw those tears! I saw how awful it was for her to see that all her hopes for the happy future with her beloved man ruined in one moment.
... Here the realization that we (women from FSU) did not have any rights at all and no one wished to listen to us and they simply used us like material for earning money and only. They need to have women for having the chance to attract men to their site claiming that they were serious and so stable and that they did a good service but the same time they did not allow to spend a lot of time there on the site for any serious woman because they need to have their paying members (men)as long as possible and they do not have the chance those men to be interested in a woman seriously. As soon as men start to be interested in a woman they stop her membership and say that she was wrong woman for them and this way they simply make them to go to their search and we all understand that this way they make them to go on their payments and to go on to be their clients...
so such searches continue for lots of time until their clients are tired from their unhappy searches. But I want you to know that those men do not understand that elenasmodels.com policy and they simply stay grateful that they were protected from so called scammers! But elenasmodels.com do it for the sake of its profit and only... Here is the end of the story...All Irina's men that seemed to be seriously interested in her stopped communication because they were warned that she was a scammer for sure and moreover that she did not exist at all and she appeared to be with broken heart and with staining reputation and name... so her real and her own photos are there and they are marked like the photos of the well known scammer... my poor Irina.
So what will you do with it? How to coop with this situation? Australia is so far from here and unfortunately we are not so wealthy to come there and to show them that we, girls, are real and we really wish to find our men and to be with them... Do you have any advices for me to calm my friend as she thinks that she is doomed loneliness after it... so what will you advise me... what to do and how to find the truth???? I hope that some men will be able to visit this my page and to read this sad story and to know what experience some women had. I am sure that it is not the only one case and I will be glad if someone is able to add something.I hope that men will understand that not everything is bad as it was called by someone... Here is the end.