Complaint Review: Benjamin Todd Cook - San Diego California
- Benjamin Todd Cook Greenville Ohio San Diego, California U.S.A.
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Benjamin Todd Cook - deadbeat - I refuse to call him a Dad or Father Greenville Ohio
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Benjamin Todd Cook owes more than $22,000 in back support to his three children. The child support has accumulated over a six year period. As a result in his failure to pay Mr. Cook has a court order in Darke County Ohio requiring him to seek work w/10 employers per week. He must obtain the signature showing proof of application from those 10 companies and turn it into CSEA at his convenience as proof of compliance. This order has been in place for at least four years due to his lack in ability to pay his child support. Although he has held the occasional job paying support payments here and there he has been charged for contempt more than five times for failure to comply with this court order.
NOTE:
Contempt of court is a court order which, in the context of a court trial or hearing, deems an individual as having been disrespectful of the court, its process, and its invested powers.
To prove contempt, the prosecutor or complainant must prove the four elements of contempt:
1. existence of a lawful order
2. the contemnor's knowledge of the order
3. the contemnor's ability to comply
4. the contemnor's failure to comply
Please note he's only being held in contempt of his failure to SEEK work - NOT for failing to work or failing to pay his support. The court order is pretty black and white 10 employers per week w/signed proof. At each hearing Mr. Cook has again been sentenced to comply with his original order to seek work and/or pay his support. How is he non-contempt? Why has there been no prosecution?
Mr. Cook is a VERY talented and skilled brick mason and is physically capable of doing the work of a brick mason. Mr. Cook chooses to "pursue his career in music" as opposed to working any entry level position which has a dependable income or even working as a brick mason.
Less than a week after his most recent contempt hearing (November 2008) Mr. Cook fled to South Carolina and is currently in contempt for the 6th+ time again only in contempt of his failure to comply with the seek work order nothing else however, he must be served w/paperwork by Darke County CSEA before the magistrate can sentence him again when he appears or issue a second bench warrant for failure to appear. Until then my children's opportunity to get the support they deserve is on hold and I'll continue to struggle in solely supporting a household and raising three children.
Currently Mr. Cook is traveling across the US and was last known to be in San Diego, CA with a female companion from South Carolina named Christy - "pursuing his career in music". Should you happen to read this and possibly pass him on the street to witness him "proceeding" in his career in music - ask him if he's written any songs about three fatherless children in need of financial support.
This is why I feel Darke County CSEA, Darke County Court System, specifically the Magistrate, Ohio Judicial System AND Ben Cook have ripped off my children.
Denise
GREENVILLE, Ohio
U.S.A.
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#1 Author of original report
myspace.com/whattheladiescrave
AUTHOR: Dmcook - (U.S.A.)
SUBMITTED: Tuesday, April 28, 2009
Check out Mr.Cook's myspace page www.myspace.com/whattheladiescrave see what all he's been up to....fun fun fun!! He was "home" this weekend - meaning he came to our hometown, where my children and I still reside. He flew in to play in a golf outing, didn't even call the kids let alone come to see them!! He did tell them a couple of weeks before that he would be "coming home" then didn't call and no showed because he has warrants for his arrest yes plural warrantS - so not only is he in default on his child support to the point that there's a warrant but there's obviously something else he's in default on. He saw my eight year old nephew and told him not to tell his mom he saw "Uncle Ben" because she and Aunt Denise would put him in jail because they don't like him.....making children lie for him?? That alone shows how upstanding he is.
I just held my seven year old little girls head in my lap while she sobbed wanting to know why her Daddy didn't come to see her. How do you mend young broken hearts? I have three at the moment....it's time Benjamin Cook faces his responsibilities that's all I'm asking is for him to show a smidge of responsibility and help me support our children somewhat financially. I'm living hand to mouth barely hanging onto my job while he's traveling and playing music. When I called Benjamin Cook to confront him about his doings over the weekend he told me "Someday those kids will be 18!!!" Meaning they would understand what has happened when they turn 18. So I guess that means it's up to me to raise them until they're 18 and then they'll turn on the only parent they've known all these years and like an epiphany things between my children and I will go sour. I've never kept my children from seeing their Dad so long as they were taken care of - mentally and physically.
Everyone knows someone in my situation I'm obviously NOT a gold digger - you can't get gold out of a stone - I just want those who know Mr. Cook to know the other side of the story - there are always two sides. Stop by his myspace and get his side -


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