Nick Resciniti and Camillo Resciniti Americorp Enterprises Inc. Solicitor Sherwin Shapiro Nick Resciniti and Camillo Resciniti also stole hundreds of thousands of dollars from me. Toronto ontario

IMPORTANT FACTS SUPPORTING MY OTHER CLAIM(S)

(Set out below the facts that form the legal basis for your other claim(s).)

Background .

1. The Respondent and I became engaged in (((REDACTED))), were married on (((REDACTED))) and separated for a final time on (((REDACTED))).
2. (((REDACTED))) I separated myself from the Respondent completely with no possible chance of reconciliation. All of our married life I had been his victim of metal abuse and physical threats he had crippled me and our child. It was at this time that I could no longer take the lies, threats and secrets that the Respondent and his brother were putting my daughter and I threw. I was physically ill, suffering from anxiety having to call 911 out of fear. I could no longer even sleep at night. I decided for the sake of my health and that of my child's and her future that I could no longer be in a matrimonial relationship with the Respondent. I mentally, emotionally and physically separated from him at this time for a final time. While we still resided in the same house hold and I continued to assist with his medial care as none of his other family members were doing so, I purchased my daughter a new bedroom set as she had still had her small bed from a child and moved into her bedroom where I have remained exclusively ever since.
3. There is one biological child of our marriage namely (((REDACTED))) born (((REDACTED))). Custody/Access
   1. From the moment that we were married our relationship was volatile. The Respondent was never forthcoming with respect to anything in our marriage.
   2. I had attempted to leave him on several occasions due to his secrets and lies. Soon after we were married he excluded me from all couple decisions including monies earned and brought into the household as well as avoiding intimate discussions and plans for our future.
   3. The Respondent would display severe anger when I asked that we talk about our life together. He would always scream "what is there to talk about?!" The Respondent would however spend his entire evenings while at home talking on his cell phone often walking a few blocks away from our home to do so ensuring that I was not privy to what was going on in his life.
   4. The Respondent has never shown any compassion towards my feelings evening if I was crying or destitute. He left me in our house which lacked the basic necessities including food despite the fact that he was financially taking care of himself. These episodes pushed me to call my parents, take my car and

drive off to their home where I stayed in a distraught state for days. My parents attempted to not let me go back with him. This happened on several occasions from 1998 and all through the marriage

1. He would attend at my parent's home not taking "no" for an answer. He would demand to see me saying that I was his legal wife and he had a right to talk to me. Once he talked with me alone, he threatened me saying that he would harm me and my parents and brother if I did not return back home with him. He would further threaten that he would have me run off the road or that my family would never find me because he would make me disappear. He would also tell me that he does not care if he went to jail that he would be out in a day anyway. Given his life style and his aggressive behaviours his threats, carried a great deal of weight and he was very capable and resourceful.
2. I knew nothing about his life other than what he told me that he was very powerful and that "it only takes one call and you'll who you are dealing with". I was desperate and afraid for my life and my family and returned with him each time hoping that he would change his demeanour and out of fear for my life. This continued after our daughter was born.
3. I became pregnant in (((REDACTED))). The Respondent seemed happy but did not help in any way especially since I was not well. He seemed to runaway from the situation rather than stay around me and help.
4. Our child was born (((REDACTED))). The Respondent refused to get her support or the assistance needed for my child and I. (((REDACTED))).
5. The day my child was born he showed no affection or responsibility like a new father. He did not bond with his child or with me. He also did not stay with me or his child at the hospital but disappeared and left me alone with the exception of my mother staying with me and my dad. (((REDACTED)))
6. I became engulfed in my child's life (((REDACTED))) and avoided the Respondent as I knew he was cold, cruel and uncaring. I spent my days until late into the evening at my parents home and he was nowhere to be found nor did he ever contact me with concern about me or our baby. I would be asleep with my baby and hear him enter the house at about 4:00am each night. He never bought anything for me or the baby I had the bare minimum in the kitchen and in the fridge just for us to survive. Never once did he bring home food or a gift for our child nor financially assist in any of (((REDACTED))) clothing that she required.
7. Significantly, in September (((REDACTED))) I demanded that the Respondent sit down with me and discuss our financial situation now that we had a child I was extremely concerned about her future (((REDACTED))). He always fled and never wanted to talk about it as if he wasn't part of our lives. He responded very arrogantly and very cruel "talk about what?! He kept repeating this over and over with a very frozen cold face without emotion but I confronted him to say that I would not put up with this any longer. I told the Respondent that if he did not take financial responsibility and involve me in the money aspect of the marriage which he has always hidden from me to this day, our marriage would be over. I then distanced myself from him. I took my child and stayed at my parents for many nights. Other than my family I confided in my best friend and she was very concerned and told me to seek medical attention as I was feeling physically ill with chest pain and emotionally crushed. He avoided the entire -situation and showed absolutely no concern for my state and well-being and that of our (((REDACTED))) child. He continued his up scale lifestyle and went to fancy dinners, ordering specially tailored Italian suits directly from Italy, and whatever else he did until the early hours of the morning as usual.

1. The Respondent promised me on countless occasions that he would be financially responsible for myself and our child. However, to this date he has never done anything to ensure nor protect our future. Each time we would argue about financial matters he would threaten to apply for bankruptcy to ensure that I had nothing.
2. During our entire relationship he was extremely verbally abusive towards me and extremely violent. This also occurred during my pregnancy with our child as well. I had to remain in bed for the first six months of my pregnancy to avoid the risk of miscarriage. The Respondent would leave the home early in the morning and return late at night. He did nothing to assist me in anyway nor showed me any support what so ever. My mother had to come to my house after work to bring me dinner as going up and down stairs could cause me to bleed. He never showed me any affection always making me cry.
3. My best friend would call me daily questioning his behaviour and neglect. She had urged me to have him followed because his indifference toward me didn't make sense. She always told me he either had a double life but he was torturing me and I could never fight him because of the continuous threats toward me. The Respondent would also threaten me saying that "the people I know believe me, you wouldn't want to meet" his words always put extreme fear in me and left me paralyzed.
4. In June 2006 I feared for my life. The Respondent started a fight with me in front of our child. He would start arguments that escalated and also picked up a shovel in the garage and said to me "just one shot (((REDACTED))) and its all over" his face was tight and jaw clenched like he was going to kill me. My child was in my arms crying hysterically. I ran from him and called 911 but he grabbed the phone hanging it up in the process. He threatened me that if the police came I better say that I was scared because our child wouldn't stop crying because if he went to jail he would be out within hours and then he said "just watch me!" The call had gone through and the police came. I told the officer what the Respondent had told me to say. The officer looked all around our home and made sure the situation was under control and then left
5. The Respondent would often leave early in the morning and return very late into the evening. If he ever had late meetings and I would ask where he was going he would say to meet someone and that I did not know them. He would come home to eat dinner, expect the house to be cleaned then go to bed. While he was home he would smoke and drink excessively while being on his cell phone outside away from me so I was not privy to his business conversations. He would completely ignore me providing me no assistance with the home nor our daughter. I was consumed with her (((REDACTED))) and taking care of our daughters needs ensuring that she was taken care because I was alone with her day and night with no assistance. He always kept his car locked at all times never allowing me to go near it and to this day his car is in our garage and his brother purposely let the emission test lapse so that the car is not drivable _ even in an emergency situation.
6. The Respondent was only ever really home on Sundays during which time he would spend the day yelling and threatening me. He would never talk to me about his life, his work or our finances. He also showed no interest in our daughter. If I ever attempted to talk to him about my daughters needs or my own he would remain silent looking at me with contempt. He would tell me that I could leave, he would take our daughter away from me and I would have nothing_
7. The Respondent refused to even so much as furnish our matrimonial home. I had to beg him to get necessities for our daughter. His family always supported him telling me that I did not need anything. It took him five years to even so much as pave our driveway. While the Respondent dressed in designer

suits I had to have my mother pay for me to get my hair done or our daughters clothing. My parents have even gone without to ensure that my daughter's (((REDACTED))) needs have been met.

1. (((REDACTED))) The Respondent showed no interest in this what so ever. He refused to pay for a private tutor saying that it was too expensive. He would make empty promises that he would assist in teaching her but never bothered.
2. The Respondent took away my self esteem during our entire marriage. He would always ask me why I am eating certain foods, telling me to fix myself, made me cry, was never near me and would always embarrass me around others. This was all in addition to his threats against my life as well as my family members.
3. I was solely responsible for cleaning our 7000 sq foot home alone, doing his laundry, taking care of our (((REDACTED))) child alone (((REDACTED))).(((REDACTED))) My child was denied programs that she should have been entitled in order to enrich the quality of her life because he was a cruel, calculating manipulative, liar and completely an irresponsible father not at all being empathetic to our child(((REDACTED))). He solely made her underprivileged when he solely was living the lifestyle of a millionaire and bragging about what he did what he wore and what car he drove. He isolated me and my child from the few neighbours on our street.
4. Eventually in the fall of (((REDACTED))) the Respondent forced me to move out of our bedroom and would not talk to me. He always controlled the money totally he deposited minimal amounts of money in the'only joint bank account we had. To this day it has been the same although expenses and needs have grown excessively over the years. He never wanted to discuss money plans to save money or for an unexpected emergency.
5. Many times when I would wake early in the morning while the Respondent was still asleep in the guest bedroom. He would leave his jacket lying around downstairs and his jacket was left opened. His pockets would contain a large amount of cash some $1000.00 bills rolled. I could never talk about this to him for fear that he would get physically violent with me and leave me defenceless. I also had a small (((REDACTED))) child to consider in my actions and decisions as well.
6. I would always smell perfume and see makeup marks on the Respondent's clothing when he would come home at 3 a.m. He always insisted that I don't touch his Italian designer suits because they were too expensive and only he could touch them. This was also the situation with his leather personal case and wouldn't ever leave it out of his sight. In fact he slept with it as well as with his cell phone. I would hear it ring at all hours of the night that he would answer and take to the washroom with him. Even if I went to so much as move it when he would leave it on the table he would yell and scream at me.
7. (((REDACTED)))
8. In May, 2010 the Respondent suffered a brain haemorrhage. The day prior he had told me he was driving with people up north five hours away and would not share any information with me. He did not contact me during this time and I eventually was able to reach him at 4:00 p.m. during which

conversation he advised he would be home after 11:00 p.m. He went to bed in the guest room as he had always done and the next morning I woke to find him unconscious and blue. My daughter witnessed the incident and I immediately contacted 911 and gave him mouth to mouth. I contacted my brother and we went directly to the hospital. I attempted to reach the Respondent's brother to no avail. He was not

expected to live and underwent emergency surgery. My family, our daughter and myself remained at the hospital day and night even sleeping there for over a week around the clock.

1. Since the Respondent suffered his medical incident I have met with all of the specialists, made decisions, dealt with all of the necessary social workers, doctors, and ensuring that his needs have been met following all doctor's instructions and directions diligently and did everything to ensure he had the best care. The Respondent deliberately and secretively put nothing in my name, no money in our account, no assets nor investments, no medical benefits, no RRSP's, no savings account, no joint credit line for me to access, no visa in my name with a substantial amount of credit and nothing for his sweet little child (((REDACTED))) which will require exorbitant amounts of money. The Respondent had left me with no contact information for anyone dealing with his financial matters, no will nor power of attorney or anything to obtain funds to financially support the family. This was a result of several arguments during our marriage and my worst fears had come true after his medical incident in May, 2010.
2. As a result of the Respondent's brother and parents threatening behaviour towards me I was forced to -make arrangements for home security to be present in front of our home. The attack towards me from his parents at the hospital brought this on. His other was gossiping with her relatives in front of the Respondent. I had asked them to leave and the nurses witnessed this, called security and had them removed. The social worker involved documented the incident. I told her from his own health and mental well being it was harmful for him to hear and she was invading my privacy too. She became hostile, verbally abusive and his father back aggressive in front of my face making violent gestures as he has always done wanting to put his hands around my throat to choke me.
3. The Respondent's parents and family members were furious with me and attacked me verbally and almost physically in the hospital in front of the medical staff. Security had to be called and removed them. The Respondent's family did nothing for him while I brought him books, cds, his clothes and ensured his needs were met. During the Respondent's entire stay in the hospital as well as rehab thereafter the Respondent's family would scream at me, ignored me and their grandchild. I only ever went home during this time to sleep and bring food.
4. When the Respondent was finally released from the hospital his brother wanted him restrained at night so that he did not have to pay for assistance. I refused to allow my child's father to be treated in such a manner and support workers were hired to be in the home to assist as needed around the clock. I ensured that all of his needs were met once he returned to our matrimonial home. As I did not work and had no - monies I took the Respondent's company visa and arranged for care 24 hours. When this was maxed out I had to beg the Respondent's brother who appointed himself to be the sole person lowner without discussions with me or approval for the Respondent's money to even feed the family. If I did not do as he demanded or what he required he would refuse to provide me with money for even food or to pay the heating costs of the house. Given the Respondent's medical condition, he has no ability to take care of such things.
5. After the Respondent's incident his brother, whom is his business partner, immediately cut me off financially. All he would give me money for was the bare necessities to live and even that on occasion he would not do. They even had the house hold taxes redirected from my home to theirs. When I questioned them about what they had done their response was "what?! You are going to pay them?" knowing that I did not have the funds to do so. Recently, the Respondent's brother took over payments

of the house insurance costs. I. was making payments and tending to the house with the Respondent's visa.

1. When the Respondent first returned home from rehab he had memory loss, violent outbursts, confusion and disturbing behaviour including biting his fingers, angry when he could not get the car keys from me, and chasing me in the home in front of our child.
2. Since then the Respondent still continues with his threatening behaviours of unlocking doors while the child and I are in the bedroom or going to the washroom as well as constantly calling my cell phone while I am out screaming and yelling at me. He is continuously staring me down when he sees me. He verbalizes anger when he is directed to eat his breakfast or go for a walk or shower. The Respondent is constantly badgering our child with his threats about harming her dog and says "I'm going to kill this dog". Our child runs to me for safety and is in constant fear he will really do it. And our child is always in a state of panic when he walks toward the dog. When both myself and our child go up the stairs and he is around he runs directly behind us trying to get in front of us as to make us trip and fall. This is extremely dangerous for our child (((REDACTED))). The Respondent then laughs at her, his own (((REDACTED))) daughter. When I tell him to stop he threatens to hit me making a fist in my face. Threatening me and in front of my daughter that he will "give you just one shot and all this nightmare is over" This further traumatizes my child and she does not want him anywhere near her. She never wants to be at home when he is there. She is so scared for me and that he will hurt me and she will be left all alone. When I take my child out in the car he opens the garage door entrance to the house and watches us leave with hatred in his face. He took a wrench in the garage and waved it at me and said he would throw it at the car. This has happened on a few occasions. While he is laughing each time our daughter is crying hysterically and has had panic episodes. The PSW's are always present however have a hard time stopping this behaviour or some times distracting him successfully. They keep their physical distance to protect themselves from physical harm as well.
3. There is no peace in the home and he is extremely volatile. He has no regard for myself or the child and does not hesitate to yell at both of us.
4. In October, 2011 I met with Respondents brother to discuss that under the circumstances there was not enough money for the needs of the house hold, the respondent's medical condition and that of our (((REDACTED))) daughters. These needs kept escalating, the Respondent was ill and he was not around now to manage monies outside the house which I had no idea how and where he obtained the funds to support his lavish lifestyle or at least the lifestyle that he led only giving me the bear minimum to survive with our daughter. He told me that he would pay off all of our debts very soon and not to worry.
5. After the Respondent's medical incident I was left managing this big home, bills, I couldn't any longer (((REDACTED))) my daughter while now I was managing all the household needs, the Respondent's demanding and complicated illness without any assistance. I was also now dictated and bullied by his brother without being informed as to our financial position. Whenever I attempted to ask the Respondent's brother for more money to support the home, the Respondent's medical needs, (((REDACTED))) and just day to day living requirements he said repeatedly forceful and yelling "I am not telling you anything, you are not Camillo! Take this cheque if want it and everything else is none of your businesses!" Nick Resciniti verbally harassed me continuously even in front of my child, my mother, my brother, the Respondent's personal support workers and my best friend whomever was with me at the time. He always wanted an account of what I spent to the dollar.
6. Out of extreme fear and destitution I had contacted Jeremey Karkheck, the Respondent's accountant, for the first time I had never met or seen Mr. Karkheck in all these years nor anyone else the did any work

because the Respondent had kept everything and everyone secret from me, At the onset of the Respondent's sudden illness, his brother and shareholder partner at their company, Americorp

Enterprises, without any disclosure to me upon my request, took control and issued to me the regular money amount of a mere $4,000.00 per month but the costs of running the house and the family were in

fact triple this. He issued it in the Respondent's name originally however over the last two years; he decided to write cheques in my name instead of Respondents name.

1. As this happened I was alarmed and questioned him that this was incorrect, I was not working at the company, the accountant was aware of this, and as such company cheques should have never been in my name. I told him over these last two years I wanted to meet with accountant and lawyer of the company because he now involved my name and due to my husbands medical condition I wanted to be personally informed of our financial situation. When I repeatedly asked for information the Respondent's brother refused in a very hostile manner. He yelled at me and said I had no right to question or know any information. The Respondent's brother Nick Resciniti forbid me to go to the Respondents office and was verbally abusive towards me in public around others when I would question what was going on. He would only agree to meet with me at a nearby McDonalds or Tim Horton's alone to badger me and threaten me without witnesses.
2. On contacting the accountant by phone he had knowledge of who I was and he had agreed to meet with^-me on (((REDACTED))). In the meeting he divulged in confidence to me that Respondents brother calls him everyday day to ask him if I have contacted him or met. I questioned Jeremy Karkheck about the cheques made out by the Respondents brother to me. I was never asked to give consent or informed by Jeremy Karkheck nor the Respondent brother as to taxes being filed on my behalf indicating an income from the business. The accountant informed me that he had never seen a shareholders agreement document and didn't believe there was one, he told me that the cheques were put into my name for "income splitting" purposes so that if there was ever a separation between the Respondent and I this would reflect a very low income difference and thereby benefit the Respondent and harm me. I was never employed by the company. The accountant also told me that due to their "flood of money that continues to come in the company" they should have been reporting a higher income all along for all the years that they built the company/companies. He further informed me that he always relayed to them over the years that their lifestyle did not reflect the monies that they were withdrawing to survive with their families. It was impossible to live these lifestyles on that poverty level income. The accountant said that he was not aware where they were getting the cash income to make up the difference but it had to come from some where. Jeremy Karkheck divulged to me that the Respondent and his brother/partner owned the building complex that their office was located in which consists of 70 business condos and large covered parking lot right across. The value of this asset alone was 15 million today. He reassured me that there is "more money that floods in that is ever needed".

43 When I attempted to get further financial information and proof as to our financial position the accountant told me that he could not give me any more information unless the Respondent was present. A meeting was scheduled at his office for July 31, 2012 at 3:00 p.m. for this to occur. On July 31, 2012 I attended at his office with the Respondent only to find that he was not there for our appointment. I was very distraught but what was taking place. I left the accountant numerous messages and after about six days he returned my call saying he could not meet with me. He told me that the Respondent brother "somehow" found out he had met with me previously and refused to do so without the Respondent's brother present.

44. On Friday August 3, 2012 the Respondents brother initiated and instigated a threatening argument in public that my daughter and my mom witnessed from my car. In this he said very threatening words such as "there is nothing you can do if you don't like it what are you going to do? I have blocked you, every where you turn I have blocked you in every direction that you try to take. There is nothing you

can do about it!" The accountant also informed me that there are three houses in the Respondent's parents name to avoid me getting anything if I left the Respondent. Jeremy Karkheck said that, this was their family conspiracy so that I would "have to fight them tooth and nail to claim my rightful share in all his assets properties and monies" He said there is an enormous amount of money that I am entitled to by law and what they did was illegal.

1. On Saturday August 18, 2012 at approximately 7:00am my daughter and I were asleep in our bedroom with door locked. The PSW on duty knocked on our door to inform me that the Respondent's parents were outside in front of our house. The Respondent's parents were walking all around the property and -parked their car in our driveway. This alarmed me as to why would they be here so early in the morning without any prior call or arrangement with me. The Respondent was asleep at the time as was my daughter in her own room. When I went downstairs and opened the front door the Respondent's mother walked toward me and I asked her why they were here. She began yelling at me that she was there to see her son. When I told her that he was sleeping and I would call her when he woke up she refused to leave. She would not take no for an answer and said in a very forceful rage that she was not going to leave and that I can't do anything about it. The Respondents father came out of his car very hostile standing about three feet from me stretching out his arm and making a very violent fist gesture at me, cursed at me and defaming God. He screamed to me in Italian translating: "d**n you and the Almighty God" When I asked if he wanted to repeat what he said so that I could record it the Respondent's mother took his arm and held it down, I told them to leave my property and I locked the door behind me.
2. My daughter had come down stairs by this point and was very worried. I wanted to escape this situation and told everyone to get ready quickly because we were going out for breakfast. As everyone was to go, I checked front door and noticed that their car was back but they were not in. And now they parked much closer to the front door. As I could not see them I was even more scared. I took everyone through the garage door and got into the car rushing off away from them ensuring to lock all of the doors and set the alarm.
3. I discussed this event with my parents and brother and for all our safety we all took security measures that we all stay away from the house for fear of physical violence happening to all of us and our home. We have been away since and have been staying at hotels since. My parents have stepped in and used their credit for funds for our protection including the Respondents and his PSW whom are in a completely separate room keeping my daughter and I safe from the Respondent. As, I have no funds no credit or credit card available to me.
4. (((REDACTED))) We are in the same situation do date. That is, staying away from home, i have returned for quick periods of time accompanied by my mother or brother to get fresh clothing. We had to escape on an urgent basis therefore we are living out of a duffle bag. We do have three pets which are my daughters. I have to return daily to give them their daily care. We are nearing the end of the month and will be left with zero dollars in the bank account and no ability to even purchase food to support ourselves.

Restraining Order

1. Each time that the Respondent and I would have arguments they would be extreme. He would clench his teeth and say over and over "just one shot and its over".
2. The Respondent's threats also occurred when our daughter was in my arms and less than a month old at the time. On one occasion I was in such fear of the Respondent's threats that I contacted the police but the Respondent grabbed the phone and hung up. Prior to the police attending at our home the

Respondent threatened me saying "you better say you were scared because the baby would not stop crying and you called or just watch me". These types of incidents continued on for our entire marriage.

51 I am scared for me life. The Respondent constantly screams and tells me to "shut up (((REDACTED))) or Ill end this right now!" Now that he is ill he always threatens me in front of my daughter and the PSW that are in my home. He tries to fall on me; he puts himself in front of me and bangs his chest into mine not allowing me to pass him. The PSW has to come between us and calm him down. He follows me everywhere I go in the house and when I tell him to stop he gets right in my face in a rage like he is

going to knock me out. If I tell him to stop badgering our daughter as he always upsets her with his cruel and inappropriate reactions he tells me "oh shut up (((REDACTED))) I have heard enough of you" he comes right in my face breathing on me pushing his chest on me and not moving until I move back where he then corners me and screams in my face. The Respondent will pick up objects and chase me around the

house such as TV converters, tools, and different objects. Not even the personal support worker's can hold him back from harming me. Out of fear for our lives I take my daughter and we go from room to room in extreme fear we are tormented in every way by his behaviour. He has no regard for us our fear does not stop him. He has no filter as to what he says and does. He is emotionally torturing my child and crushing me in every way. My child and I will be sleeping and he will unlock our bedroom door and say "why are you not ready to go out to the wedding". The PSW will tell him its late there is no wedding but he ignores that and orders me to get dressed when I tell him to leave he says "you make me sick" he is in an extreme state of anger and slams our bedroom door and wakes our child.

1. In March 2012 along with my family and his PSW I took him to a religious retreat held in a church in Mississauga, Ontario. At the end of the service when we returned home the Respondent broke out into a rage saying he had to go out and demanded I gave him his car keys. I told him that I didn't have them he went absolutely crazy and chased me around the house completely mindless that our daughter was watching him she was in a complete state of panic. No one could hold him back as his rage was so extreme I began feeling physically ill my heart was racing. It was quite clear that he was going to kill me with our daughter watching and come through on all of the promises that he had made. I felt I couldn't breathe I thought he was going to kill me with my daughter watching. I begged him to stop and look what he was doing to her. He couldn't see past his violent rage that he directed it all to me. I grabbed the phone and called his mother. He yelled at me with even more rage for calling her. .I told her that I was putting him in a cab and he grabbed the phone and hung up. I grabbed my daughter and ran into the other bedroom and locked the door. While he was unlocking it I called his brother and he heard me and yelled punched the wall saying "why did you call my brother! ! !" his brother said "just deal with it! you are his wife!! and began yelling at me.
2. 53.  I began to sleep with my daughter out of fear from the Respondent during one of his violent outbursts typical of whenever I asked anything about his work, money, planning our lives, he would shut me down.
3. In the fall of 2006 with my daughter in her room and door wide open he threw a hair dryer at me. By mere luck he just missed me and cracked our mirrored wall in our main washroom which is directly across my daughter's room. The broken mirror is still there masked by a picture frame.
4. The Respondent would often break into our locked bedroom and say to our five year old daughter "see what mommy is doing?" referring to the fact that I was sleeping apart from him because of how cruel he was to us yet he was looking at our child for pity that he slept alone. I had to jar a chair up against the door to prevent the Respondent from being able to get in.
5. I was constantly having chest pains and anxiety as a result of the Respondent's abusive threatening behaviour.

Support and s.7 expenses

1. I worked all through University and continued to remain employed through the first three years of our marriage as financially he made it impossible for me to develop a career lost skills crippled me lost all of my skills (((REDACTED))). I was her sole caregiver 24/7 with no relief only help from my mother. I nursed her for over a year and I never left her. (((REDACTED))). He neglected all my needs and those of my child financially, physically and emotionally. He never gave me money to help our situation. He was and is a compulsive liar by always saying I have everything under control. Yet he refused to register our home in both our names. He said to everyone in my family that he couldn't put our house in our name at the time of marriage because he said the people he was in business with would put liens on our property. He did the same with the money he earned. I never knew what he really earned by working, his profits, net worth of assets. Therefore he left me with nothing; he was falsely letting me believe that there was no money anywhere because he never gave me any disclosure. Yet, he alone lived the millionaire lifestyle outside our house. The Respondent also purchased three of his families' homes and registered them in the parents names for the purpose of avoiding giving me anything if we separated.
2. The Respondent expected me to pay for groceries, my vehicle lease, gas, clothing and insurance while I was only earning at the time $20,000.00.This was while I was working just after (((REDACTED))) first three years of marriage. He refused to involve me in any financial matters or inform me what he did with the company that he owned. I was completely in the dark. He deliberately kept me in the dark to make me suffer.
3. The Respondent had always told me that he was successful in business yet I never saw any documentation of his net worth, properties he owned or cheques from his business or monies saved, investments, absolutely nothing. He did everything he could to keep me away from anything related to

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his business so I would have no knowledge; he even refused to allow me to meet any of his business associates.

1. (((REDACTED))) The Respondent refused to get her and I the support we needed. I could no longer return to work after that time and have spent the past ten years tending to (((REDACTED))) my child.(((REDACTED))) . The Respondent refused any participation in assisting myself and our child. When she was of age to start school he refused to pay for a private instructor. (((REDACTED))). I begged him repeatedly to assist me in finding something for her to learn like piano, something she could learn that wouldn't limit her (((REDACTED))). I had opened a small savings account for her at the TI) bank monies she had received as gifts and child tax credit cheques. He insisted on using that savings money to purchase a piano for her. He promised he would return that money into her account within a year. She was five years old at the time. He told family and friends he bought it. He has never returned the monies as he promised.
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3. Since the inception of our marriage I begged the Respondent to meet with his accountant and lawyers to arrange our wills, and establish an RESP for our daughter and RRSP's for us. I also begged him to obtain life insurance and medical policies to secure our future. He would ignore my requests and shut me down and threaten me that he would take our daughter of the country and never let me find her. I was leaving me helpless and abandoned. He supressed me with threats and violent verbal behaviour. He had absolutely no regard for me or respect for my rights as a wife and mother.
4. In April (((REDACTED))) I could no longer make all the required payments towards the house, our debts and our living expenses. The Respondent's brother was constantly forcing me to survive in a limited amount of money. He was giving me from $6,000.00 to $10,000.00 whenever he felt like it in whatever amount he felt inclined to give me where I had to pay $3,000.00 in credit card interest,(((REDACTED))), house utilities, my fuel for my vehicle where I drive and feed a home of 5 people (2 PSW's in my home) personal care, living expenses, pet care, telephones, cell phones, house insurances of $480, insurance of $300, medications for everyone of $400, service to water used in home of $150 plus more. There was not nearly close to enough money that was provided and with no available credit on our credit cards we were living month of not making ends meet. As a _ result of this our heat was cut off in April, 2012. I also had no credit card to use since December, (((REDACTED))). I was forced to go purchase heaters for the home while the Respondent's brother refused to provide any further financial assistance to even pay to heat the home yet he was busy renovating his at the time. We did not even have hot water to bath ourselves.
5. The Respondent's brother promised me he would resolve all debt and outstanding monies owing. However when the time to came for him to deliver on promises he always started arguments, and attacked me never giving me my husbands cheque unless he felt the need to do so. This compromised the family even being able to eat.
6. In the spring of 2012 I had also went to consult a family lawyer to deal with what had been going on. The lawyer attempted to make a few phone calls with no results. His reason was that he had to have a meeting with the Respondent's brother and myself. I did not have the financial means to pay for the lawyer to do so and was left to attempt to deal with the hardships of my family on my own. I had to beg the Respondent's brother constantly for monies to even have heat in the matrimonial home or put food on the table.

Equalization

1. When the Respondent and I were first married we moved into a home that he had owned prior to marriage. We continued to reside there for the first six months of our marriage. He made it impossible for any other arrangement. However two years prior to our marriage he insisted on purchasing a lot to have our matrimonial home built. We had many heated disagreements throughout our engagement about this subject. He was so secretive and never showed me any financial plans or costs. He insisted that it was not my business. He refused to furnish anything so as not to invite anyone over to keep his tyrant behaviour a secret from all my friends and family. Whenever I tried to communicate with him about my needs and rights as a wife he did his utmost to fight and bully me he was verbally abusive threaten me with a wrench and said "just one shot and it ends" People that know him are aware of how he bullies and has a violent threatening temper. This is a common trait between his father, his brother and himself. His mother is also extremely verbally abusive. They use violent threats to get away with the injustice they inflict on people.