Ziad Mohammed Fouad Belgaied Violent insecure soon to be ex husband please stay away Tempe

I am back to express how life reveals consequences for every bad choice we make in life whether it be out of revenge, ignorance, anger, justice etc? I would never want to intrude on Ziad's marriage; he knows that I will always be here for him before anyone else. He knows that I love him in my soul through and through. Ziad knows that I don't want him to suffer in his present marriage, like I suffered him. This is what some call karma. Be that as it may, for the past four months, I somehow allowed myself to open my mind and heart up again for Ziad.

IT WAS WITH PERMISSION BY MY HUSBAND, AND TARA, ZIAD'S SECOND WIFE.

Never did I think it would be a turn for the better. I thought maybe this would help me to heal from the broken heartedness, disappointments and terrible memories of abuse. However, I must confess out of my own mouth that Ziad has truly changed for the better. Had I not given ear to his kind approach by asking my forgiveness over the last 4 months, I would not know the things I know now.

I mentioned by phone just the other night to Ziad, Please don't leave Tara because she is the mother of your 2 children. I know how much you love your children and I am not worth loosing everything for, including your father. (He still has less respect for me than Tara, I don't know why but that's another subject).

It has become simply apparent that neither one of us truly made the right decision after the first divorce. I (again) immediately re-married a stranger just to escape from being stocked and harassed by Ziad. I did not marry out of love; I had to grow to love this individual.

Ziad, like wise immediately re-married; a young, wild, promiscuous female drug user who actually ONLY BY APPEARANCE favors me in a small way.

At any rate, Ziad and I have struggled within these marriages, on and off with dissimilar issues.

Being married to other people however, did not erase the memories and fate that have brought us back together. The bottom line is that Ziad was a young man, new to the country and simply ignorant the American culture when I met him.

I, on the other hand, was young and stupid and had no parental guidance or strong family support. Mixing the two together at that time was like mixing gas and motor oil. We were not on the same page at that time.

Since August this year, Ziad and I have really been trying to figure out why things happened in the past and how to move forward without shame and guilt. We have been working together on the healing and forgiving process. It has re-bonded our love for one another. Actually it never died. Everything makes sense now. It's like a clear glass of water.

Well, to get to the point, Ziad and I are still in love. Regardless of the past, we are both on the same page for the first time in life, we both understand what went wrong and I have truly forgiven him. I love Ziad deeply because he is a man of honor, humbleness and humility; which is Godly like.

There is a spiritual side to Ziad that no one will ever understand, but I do believe that we are kindred spirits or soul mates, later to reunite some day. I use to tell him when we were married that I would always be there for him no matter what; I said this through all the pain. I still mean that.

Ziad was a good person when I was married to him. It was his temper that messed everything up. Other than that, Ziad is the most wonderful individual I have ever met in my life. And I mean that from the bottom of my heart. I tell the whole world, ?Ziad is a changed man and a kind man! I love Ziad! I love him so much!?

Bismillah
I hope you remember French.

Espoir de Ziad I vous comprenez le frans parce que je dois vraiment te parler directement.

Je dois e honn. Votre maman avait raison au sujet de votre use. Elle a dit a maman des choses terribles au sujet de votre mariage et moi l'exact vis-is de. Je crois qu'elle a seulement voulu me parler pour me rendre jaloux de elle mais je t'ai seulement souhaites deux le bonheur.

Cessez svp de lui dire des choses au sujet de mon corps. Elle m'a insulteaucoup de fois sans raison. Je n'ai pas mtela. J'essayais seulement de lui dire comment e une bonne use, mais elle a pensue je la mettais vers le bas.

Veuillez ne parler de moi lle plus parce qu'elle est trop jeune pour respecter votre processus curatif. Elle ne comprend pas que vous avez besoin d'heure de se pardonner pour la douleur que vous m'avez causElle pense cela disant des moyens gentils de choses que vous me voulez en arri. J'ai dit qu'il n'est pas vrai, si vous connaissiez vraiment Ziad comme je le connaissais, alors il est maintenant comme un ange et vous devez fermer vers le haut et cesser de se plaindre.

Elle a dit que je n'ai eu aucun droit de lui dire qu'elle n'a aucun probl ou n'importe quelle raison pour se plaindre particuliment si vos mains aiment maintenant seulement. Elle a dit que vous ne la frappez pas quand elle obtiennent des attitudes parce que vous aimez l'argent et la libertJ'ai dit l'alhumdulilah!

Elle a dit a m qu'elle vera son chren d'enfants et que vous n's plus un musulman mais changn le christianisme parce que les chrens peuvent prier en n'importe quel arabe de langue non seulement. Elle est une Amcaine vraie.
Ne desserrez pas votre identitt ne changez pas votre religion pour l'approbation amcaine! Dieu vous voulant peut e un musulman sucessful. Inshaallah.

Sachez juste cela, ? je vous pardonnent ? pour tous ce que vous avez faits. ? I s'inquint et vous aiment toujours trop comme une soeur n fr. ? Elle ne te dira jamais cela parce qu'elle m'a dit. ? Pi de l'amour ? que vous ne comprendrez pas.
Durez, utez vos parents. Ils sont les personnes sages, et j'esp que votre papa vraiment ne m'a pas appel que le mot de ? n ? elle s'est rapportC'est si erron'il. Soyez juste trfutomme je me rappelle vous.

Enfin et surtout. Si quel de cette marque vous fLa prise juste une promenade et pensent. Mon mari est bon comme celui. Veuillez ne pas la frapper ou ne la blessez pas. Svp.

Allah (swt) sait que je ne suis pas parfait mais je fais mon meilleur et il est mon seulement juge. Et peut Allah avoir sa pitit bdiction sur toi de sorte que vous puissiez e correctement guide
kia

According to Islam, I must listen and do what my parents tell me to do and she wanted me to tell you this:


I told my mother everything you said Ziad and she wanted me to tell you this.

She wants you to call her and she will talk to you personally. She said you know where she lives, the address and phone numbers are still the same. She said if you are so financially successful and you want to do something about fixing everything with her she wants to talk to you about it and she looked at you as her son, because your mother was so far away and that's why she did everything for you. She said call her.

She also said that you can start by fixing the financial strain you left her with such as the apartment rent she paid every month for 1 year and the car she bought you.

And if you are doing so well financially and the JOB YOU DO IS LEGITIMATE, why haven't you filed taxes since 2001? And why is the IRS is still after Kedrian because there is no record of you filing taxes?

Now Ziad my question to you is, what does this "Tara" mean when she says that your income is in the top 1% in the country and you are a director?

:) (lol)That sounds like you, tooting your own horn.

because i feel that i also owe a lot to your mother please let her know that no matter what she needs i'm willing to help her with it because i owe her that much. with all do respect to your husband but i still hope to be considered a friend or family simply because hate is not going to fix anything or change anything but love and friendship can build a lot and it will be my honor to have your family including your husband to be on good terms with my family including my wife.
and trust me when i say this i'm willing to do anything so i can erase that old ugly picture of mine.
hopefully we can or you guys can come visit sometimes inshaallah.

al salamou alikoume wa rahmatou allah wa barakatouh.
first of all i would like to first thank God then i like to thank you(De/Kedrian) for being one of the main reasons why i completly turned my life arround. because without my experience with you i would have never learned what it means to lose something very valuable and apreciate people for what they are now not what they were. so in front of the whole world and God is my witness i would like to apologize to(De/Kedrian)about everthing i have ever done. because she does not deserve any of it by any means because she's truly the most wonderfull person i have ever known and inshaa allah she is going straight to heaven.
thanks again (De/Kedrian)and know that if i can go back in time knowing what i know now i would have never treated you that way and no matter what i accomplish in life it will never be enough to cover losing you and i mean this in a good honest way without any bad intensions.
say hello to your mother, sister and husband. may God bless you all.
love to all of you from a faithfull and apreciative student(myself).
by the way el hamdulillah i just purchased my first home yesterday for me, my wife and my son plus there's one on the way. things are going really well for me el hamdulillah and i hope the same for you.
please thank your mom also on my behalf please.

After reviewing all the comments I made about my past with Ziad, I realize where I went too far.

This was posted almost 4 years ago and at the time, it had been only 8 months since the divorce. I was still emotionally damaged. I was ignorant for expressing everything to the world, even if it was true.I WASN'T THINKING. Now the only thing I can do is work on doing good deeds and not speak ill about him or his family anymore.

Again, I don't have hard feelings against Ziad anymore however, I don't have interest in speaking to him or anyone with him. It's taken 4 long years of recovery with my new husband; whom Ziad already spoke with in the beginning. Therefore I see no logic for recessions and dealings like that would only be like opening a can of worms. Maybe in another 14 years(IA)when we are old.

I only wish Ziad well, that he too has learned from his mistakes and that he has matured into a better person(inshaallaah).

After reviewing all the comments I made about my past with Ziad, I realize where I went too far.

This was posted almost 4 years ago and at the time, it had been only 8 months since the divorce. I was still emotionally damaged. I was ignorant for expressing everything to the world, even if it was true.I WASN'T THINKING. Now the only thing I can do is work on doing good deeds and not speak ill about him or his family anymore.

Again, I don't have hard feelings against Ziad anymore however, I don't have interest in speaking to him or anyone with him. It's taken 4 long years of recovery with my new husband; whom Ziad already spoke with in the beginning. Therefore I see no logic for recessions and dealings like that would only be like opening a can of worms. Maybe in another 14 years(IA)when we are old.

I only wish Ziad well, that he too has learned from his mistakes and that he has matured into a better person(inshaallaah).

Al-salaamu alaykum wa rahmat-Allaahi wa barakaatuhu,

Subhanaallah Ziad. This rebuttal is not for directly for Tara, due to that fact that I pardon her for standing in representation for Ziad. I too was forced to speak words that didn't come from me. Therefore I pardon you.

First of all I will not apologize for telling the truth about what happened to me in those three years I suffered him. Prophet Muhammad (SAWS) said, Whoever among you sees something which is munkar (hateful or evil in Islaam) should change it with his hand; if he is unable to do so, then with his tongue; if he is unable to do even this, then by his heart and that is the weakest kind of faith. (Muslim. Reported on the authority of Abu Sa'eed al-Khudri.)

Ziad did try punishing me and correcting me with his hands about something he never saw and with judgement against my past sins and as an American. He had no right to hold my past against me since he had no part in it. Therefore, he had no right placing his hands on me and judging me during the whole time of our marriage. I do forgive him because he was young and ignorant.

Nahy an al-Munkar or munkar is necessary in order to protect others from being harmed from such a dangerous individual ie telling the truth was my obligation.

If this really is Tara and you have reverted to Islam, I advise you to seek a fatwa in order for you to deal with your situation rather than judge mine. I don't feel sorry for you anymore since you have made your decision to stay with him and if it works for you alhumdullillah. InshaAllaah, no one else will ever suffer by him.

On my day of judgement, I will not be the one judged on provokeness but, thanks for trying.

I posted this comment about Ziad almost 3 years ago now, and posting the comment turned out not only to be incorrect, but embarrassing for our family. I've been married to Ziad for almost 3 years now, and if I were to post anything on the internet about him now, it would be the complete opposite of what I originally wrote.

I never imagined that this site would actually get any attention and now I've been corrected and see that it has received attention. I wrote this report out of spite and immaturity. I hope to change and correct the perception this article created. Not only has Ziad been a faithful husband and wonderful father, he has been a humble ex-husband as well. I know very well of his previous marraige and all that took place, including the ways in which his ex-wife provoked him. Apparently she told only her side of the story (which I can tell you is not the full truth) to this website. With all due respect to Kedrian, I only wish she could know what I know about him now. If you would like to contact me Kedrian, you can look us up and we are more than willing to talk with you in a peaceful manner.

My testimony of Ziad's character can be verified by his present employer, in which he is a Director, earning a salary that puts him in the range of the top 1% of the country, providing us with everything that we need, Thank God, and allowing me to be a stay-at-home mom with our 16 month old son. He has proven that 6 years in a new country is enough time to be successful, despite the odds.

It's terrible that I should have to make a second posting and further offer my personal information to this website and the world, but I must correct my mistake of making previous accusations, specifically because it is the policy of this website to NOT remove postings but to update them with new information. (I found this out after a few phone calls and emails.)

After being a part of the Belgaied family for this long now, I have smothered the family name and I am ashamed. The family has accepted Ziad and I with open arms and is the most respectful and religious family I've known. They have treated me like their own child. It is a privelege to be associated with the Belgaied family and I wish with my whole heart that only good will come out of this.

If there can be any lesson learned from reading all of this information about Ziad, it should be that love and only love will change a person and in this case, Ziad's love for Allah and our family and been a catalyst for his metamorphisis into the person he is today, and the person I am too.

I am very pleased to find that you are leaving Ziad. He may be charming at first and very intelligent however, he has lots of mental issues that we can not fix.

It took me about three years to finally break away and it was only because he was tired of me. I don't know why I put up with all the abuse for so long. I imagine it was because I couldn't handle the thought of my first marriage becoming a failure no matter what the cost. I think maybe I was ashamed that I made a mistake marrying him and tried to fix it by making something that could NEVER work, work.

Anyway, you are better than me for the fact that you didn't need to take as long to know that this kind of life is not good enough for you. Just from reading what you wrote, I can tell that you too are a very good person and deserve more. I hope that you will be blessed to find the right one.

Presently, I am married to a wonderful man who is from Europe with a heart of gold. We've been together almost two years.

I know Ziad will say or do anything to try to talk you back into staying with him but understand that it's all a part of his game and the consequence is very bad! The more you leave and return, the worse the abuse gets. Please try to stay strong and good will come your way. You know you deserve it. Best of luck! KIA