Lisa Markowicz Huddleston Our apologies extended to Mr. Kirk M. Huddleston for any problems Birmingham, Michigan

POSTED: Tuesday, June 14, 2011
On  June 6th 2011 Mr. Kirk Huddleston lost his Def/Slander case in Macomb County Michigan.  Mr. Huddleston was sued by Utica Attorney John Temrowski ( The one and only) for Def/Slander.  The case # is 2010-005044-NZ.   The party was given $250,000.00 in damages b/c this guy or better referred to by the court as a callous Coward slandered a family business on the internet.  Can you say Karma????  I told his ex-wife Lisa Markowicz Huddleston that I was going to run this son of a b***h's a*s up a flag pole and thats exactly what happened.   
    Judge James Biernat Jr. was appauled at what was written on all of the examples that I brought in of Mr. Huddlestons work.  While he was so busy trying to slander my family name and businesses I kept my cool long enough to know that this idiot was to much of a p***y to show his face in the court room.  Not only was this guy running like a chicken when his wife filed for divorce in Feb of 2007 everytime I tried to serve him ,but he did it this time as well.   The guys on every dating sight known to man and or pervert and when she decides to get out of the marriage you'd think he'd be happy yet ran like a leopard to avoid being served ( must have been the tax return he lied about).   This time it was a little more difficult but well worthit.  
    I'm going to financially choke this guy like the chicken he is for what he wrote but no matter what its personal satisfaction just knowing he has to pay the $ to even file it in a Bankruptcy in 2016 LOL!
This would make 3 times this guy couldn't manage his affairs ( uhhhummm no pun intended) or his finances.  He lives off his wife who unfortunately has been nothing but a menace to the whole situation as well.  She called me in December and was crying to me how her husband walked out on her.  Though this didn't surprise his ex-wife at all to her it was simply 'typical' of the guy I actually almost dropped a tear for her sake and I don't even know why.  
    Lets not forget that he supposably was deceased according to his "mail" that came back to my office but I too soon found out No such luck.  You think this grown p***y would have learned by now that it just does you NO good whatsoever.  In January he lost visitation of his now young son for exactly this kind of behavior.  Like I've said many times before he simply has nothing better to do with his time and how happy can he be in his 'marriage' to spend so much time on me and others not named here.   All I can say is "Thanks Buddy"!!!!!!!!  I will be mailing this judgement out to people I am sure will appreciate it, businesses he's put an act on for and future victims I can see coming his way.
                                           He's Toast!!!!!!!!!!!!!! J.T.

if I thought I'd seen enough, i've seen it now.  i thought we finally got rid of this crazy lady but now she's contacting our entire family and pretending to be Abi Meicher on Facebook.  or making up other IDs to be someone else that may or may not even exist.  it's bad enough she's convinced everyone in her life of all of her outrageous stories now she has to contact my family now.  she wants everyone to tell her that she's wonderful and what a bad man this guy is.  the truth is he wants nothing to do with her. 

i couldnt even go to my son's school conference without everyone talking about this crazy lady while waiting in line to meet their kids' teacher.  and this was three times!!!!!

get a job lady, move out of the ghetto that you live in and SHUT UP.  do i hear rehab clinic #4 anyone?????

Sorry that I can't say my name but my job prevents me.  This woman/ex-wife is a real nut job.  She calls us every week for the past two years.  We have memos and jokes on the bulletin board about her.

This bi*h started dishing it out and I just got in on the game.  I get about as many laughs out of this all as many of you do. 

It's driving her crazy that she doesn't know where I am working.  Why don't you go out and hire your wonderful Private Investigator?  I leave about 9:00 and get back anywhere between 4:30 and 8:30.  Try and tap into my phone records as you like to do.   Something like this should be easy for him.  You are the laziest b***h I have ever seen.  It's funny to hear you brag about a trip to Las Vegas, that I know daddy paid for but you can't even pay for your kid to have a pair of pants. 

About 90% of the money that I have paid for child support has been re-routed for stupid court motions.  Why does my son's father have a woman living with him?  LOL.   He kidnapped my son and I have three different witness reports.  LOL(It was my visitation day).  My wife and I sell drugs and are alcoholics.  ROFLMAO.  That is the s**t that you have wasted over $10,000 for.  All false allegations, all negative results.  Oh, and then there was the allegation of how your 13 year old daughter recalled that I molested her.  That one got you really far. 

Between the money you've spent and me, our son would have the first two years of college paid for.  But as long as your chubby little spoiled daughter gets what she wants then I guess it's all good.

And if you have our son so petrified about not getting to talk to his mommy for TWO minutes on the phone out of a 7 day week, then shame on you.  But it's all control with you.  You don't have a man in your life.  You never will, so you kind of made him your boyfriend.  Now that's some sick s**t.  Do you put him in bed at night with a pacifier and a pair of diapers?

You have once again broken into my email account.  My parents are worried about you getting into their banking and other personal accounts.  And strangely enough, Royal Oak Beaumont has all of a sudden decided to follow up on the allegation of you violating patient confidentiality.  So, that will be the reason I give the courts for not having a phone number accessable for you on my weekends.    My attorney has told me that he highly doubts I have anything to worry about.    You didn't keep up with your end of the agreement, so that means I will not be punished by not keeping up with my end.   The phone number is blocked.  You have the right to speak with your son but you don't have the right to harrass me.

Take your airwaves and your advice and shove it straight up your a#*!!  You just happen to run into this sight for entertainment reading, I guess I'll set up a merchant account to this as well.

Alright you lunatics, since you seem to have some wierd desire to air your dirty laundry for the whole world to see, why don't you see if you can get on Jerry Springer, or maybe Maury?

It's fairly obvious that you're both out of your minds, and that one of you likes to pretend like you're several different people (yes, we can tell when the same person is writing rebuttals under different names).

Now I'm not saying that I didn't get a good twenty minutes of entertainment out of your little spat here, but why not take this in front of a larger audience?

Peace!

This boneheads worried about me getting a second and third job when he doesn't even have one.

I have been told by so many people that I need to file a restraining order against this dumb b***h. God knows how many times I've heard about how she lives in BIRMINGHAM and that I live in Wixom, which I don't but it seems to make her happy to think so.

This is all this b***h needs to make her feel good about herself. Today I get umpteen text messages because apparently the FOC has f'd up their paperwork and I am showing to be about $250 behind in child support so she is filing a show cause motion. How well can this f****s be doing that she has to spend $20 in gas and a whatever other fees because her son's father, who takes care of his son most of the time anyways, is TWO HUNDRED AND FIFTY DOLLARS behind? I mean, let's me honest. You live in BIRIMINGHAM but $250 is going to break you plus my son literally owns TWO pairs of pants. If she only spent as much on our son as she did for McDonalds, then we would all be happier.

I don't file any police reports against this idiot any more. My local police department simply told me to not waste my time on this idiot. Her own attorney said that she was crazy at our last court appearance.

That pretty much sums it up.  I have chosen to no longer write on this venue because Kirk Huddleston literally says the same thing over, and over and over again.

Yes, more police reports were filed and no charges were filed. The allegations made upon me have thus far been considered frivolous and unsubstantiated. However, upon the advice of my attorney, I have been advised to not use any names while civil suits are possibly pending. However, I can defend myself and I stand by any previous reports, comments or allegations that "I" or my wife previously made either in this report or any other related reports.

I can furthermore say that if the so-called 'victims' of defamation and slander were innocent then they would not continue to feel the need to either defend themselves OR give out meaningless police report numbers. I have chose this venue to exercise my First Amendment Freedom of Speech and shall continue to do so. I applaud ROR for granting me this right. However, any more details regarding this circus side show, I see meaningless.

Good Day!

This matter was brought to the attention of the Wixom Police Department in the city where Kirk Huddleston resides. Officer Stephen Ross was present and filed a CFS# 09-17866.  It was then put in the hands of Corporal Jerry Hall of the Birmingham police dept. where we reside # 09-14894

If everyone on ROR that told a few fibs and lies went to jail or even got sued, the courts would be so busy.   Let me get this straight, you talk about a daughter with one father and son with another father.  What kind of water are they drinking in this trailer park that you live in? 

My experience has always been that most people on ROR are not completely innocent.  Maybe they didn't do everything they have been accused of but they generally aren't innocent.

My suggestion might be, lady, get a job and stop have all these men you sleep with and welfare put you through life on a free pass.

Kirk Michael Huddleston will be turned in to the Wixom Police Dept. on Dec 2nd 2009 by his ex-wife Lisa Markowicz Huddleston.  You are welcome to google Alexandra Markowicz and follow the prompts in why nothing was said for almost 3 wks. At the advice of Officer Dave Stewart I wrote nothing until now. 

Thankyou to Mr. Dickerson for his time on the telephone and was HONEST enought to say "Don't retain me"  go to the police where this man resides.  He had his own personal opinion about me dealing with Birmingham and I will leave it at that but said I strongly advise you to deal with Wixom which is what I will try.  I don't know what is going to come out of it but if R.O.R. get it erased and her name is taken off of google ( She is a minor and these stories contain sexual comments) then it would have made it all worth it.  

Thankyou to my bankruptcy attorney who offered to show up on behalf of my daughter and myself in filing a slander/defamation suit but I will start with the law and see where that gets me, it doesn't cost anything and if it does than so be it.  It would be worthit to have this a*****e face a judge and have a judge make him apologize to my daughters face.  She has handled this so well, and to all her friends that wanted to get involved and handle things their way I thank you for letting me put this situation in the proper hands, she has great friends that really care about her and I was more impressed with their parents.  It does not hurt to have a friend who's father is a lawyer.

I would never in a million years let my daughters father treat my son like this and I am sure as hell not going to let my sons father treat my daughter like this. ( Though he would never, ever do something like this)   I have not had a chance to speak with Mr. Gimik of Instyle Painting but what Kirk has been doing to him twists into what he has done to me and my daughter...the same names are used, Chris L is my daughters father and he is in "metamora"  how stupid can you get?  Brad V. is a good friend of mine.  KMH is Kirk Michael Huddleston so in other words he has put his two cents in on me, my daughter and his wife of 2 years' childrens father.  So this guy is supposed to I am sure help support his minor daughter yet Kirk goes on there and accuses him of "sleeping" with his customers, robbing them and doing a poor job all the way around.  Now I was told that "service magic" gave him a great review.  These were the people that Kirk sent to my house in Troy to clean my air ducts.  I have the report.

I've said it before in my long winded blogs back and I will say it again.  If Kirk put as much time into our son as he does his keyboard and defaming people he would be a lot better off.  He can write back whatever he wants it does not end here. Wed. Dec 2nd I have an appointment with the Wixom Police Dept. on behalf of me and my daughter.  I am not going to let him get away with this so I suggest he work hard between now and then and erase mine and my daughters name and the things he has written and Mr. Gimik too, I'm sure the guy has never done anything to him but because he is the "ex" that gives him a bad name already.  Same day different story it always "starts" with Kirk and it will end with me.

For those of you that may read this and honestly wonder what the heck is all of this about.  Lisa Markowicz HUDDLESTON is a world class liar.  The original report was written as a favor to Kirk M. Huddleston for having been harrassed unfairly by them for numerous false allegations. Once they were able to confirm TWO false reports, they felt it fair to assume that they were all untrue and made with malice. 

I have flipped through some of these reports and can honestly tell you that the reports that defend Lisa in any way are all FALSE, or have such little truth to them that they're not even worth reading.  And the ones that are written by Lisa's friends are actually from Lisa.  Why she wouldn't think to change the screen name is just proof.

I've often wondered why Kirk talks so venomously about his ex-wife.  Now, I can understand why.  Kirk is a good guy, good father.  I would love to know why she would say the things she has about him.  I've gotten to know Kirk, quite well over the past year and I just can not believe all the things this woman has done.  If people out there knew the lies and extremes this woman has gone through to discredit Kirk.  The last time I talked to Kirk he said, "I'm lucky, I don't have to ever put up with her or see her again.  I just feel sorry for my son."  I just thought was such a healthy comment to say from a man that has been through so much. 

I know his new wife, and both of them are just so lucky to have each other.  Lisa was the real loser in all of this.  I know enough history on this woman to make you all think this woman is a lunatic. 

Good luck, Kirk.

I didn't get to read this entire report but I think I caught enough.  The part that stuck out to me was this woman telling her ex-husband to stop spending as much time on her and more on their son.  If I get the jist of what this man is trying to say, then I think he is putting time into his son.  I might even question that he is putting too much time into his son more than anything. 

I got pregnant at 19 and my son's father didn't decide to spend time with him until he was 17 years old.  I made similar mistakes as this woman.  I was bitter, I was in it for the money. I didn't think I was but I was.  I had a warrant out for him because he got a little behind.    Now I've got a son that is 23 years old and upset with me for him not being closer to his dad. 

The length of this woman's emails alone I think tells you the whole story.  She's a control freak, has to get in the last word, insecure, bitter, resentful.  You have to have spent at least 10 years with this man but you just now figured out that he's this awful person.  I think he finally got sick and tired of you and realized that just because the two of you had a baby was no reason that he had to give up on the rest of his life.  What is this man, in his 30's/40's?  I do respect a man that honors his committment as a father.  Personally, I think if there were more men like him the world would be a better place.  Most men would get a woman pregnant and the first thing they would worry about was where was the nearest abortion clinic?  For that reason alone I think you treat your son's father like s**t.

This woman thinks she is the High and Might.  She has critcized anyone that she is not.  She has critcized lesbians, working fathers, has no respect for the law, the police reports alone should have landed her in jail.  I was waiting for her to make fun of the Jews. 

She has lived off of everyone and some how thinks it is owed to her.

This Markowicz woman loves to talk a lot but just how much truth is there in anything she says?  What did the father do now, not see his son for a weekend and she screams that he has abandoned him?  How is she going to explain all of this to him when he gets older one day and reads this?

Don't make a little boy resent his father.  It doesn't sound like you tell the truth about very much but even anything that is true, I don't suggest you do that to a little boy. But that's just my opinion.

The both of you already have every moron in the United States putting in their two cents.  It's bad enough he might find that one day.

The one thing about ME and my ex-wife is we do both love our son. You don't have to like me and you don't have to like her.  Now James Webb is just this idiot that gets his kick out of looking up this site every day. 

That's why I really want to know.  All the BS that comes out of this person's mouth just doesn't make any sense.  WHAT DOES THIS GUY CARE FOR?  I believe her daughter is 16 years old now.  Are you looking to ask her out James? Seriously?

I honestly thought that he was my ex-wife because I couldn't figure out why some idiot would take so much interest in me and my divorce, or custody non-sense. I think I'm right, as I'm sure she thinks she's right.  But when JAMES WEBB has to wake up at the crack of dawn every day to hear about out domestic troubles it makes me wonder what is really wrong with this guy.

How does the bantering back and forth or the emails or the accusations between me and my wife rate any worse that some sick pedophile 30 year old guy from Rockville Centre New York jumping in EVERY day and putting in his two sense.

I've got good reason to be as irate as I am.  My whole LIFE is online because I feel very adamant about in the injustices that have experienced over the past few years.  Just what is your PASSION James Webb?  Is it arguing with people?  Or is it fantasizing about 16 year old girls?

Because you really haven't contributed anything positive since the very first day you opened your big mouth.  Don't think you bother me, I just think you are a joke.  I will place a comment from time to time about a ROR but I don't follow it everyday.   I just still can't understand how this idiot does his daily search for Markowicz every day, gets told everyday how to spell it, yet everyday he spells it incorrectly.  It won't even come up in a search unless you spell it correctly.  So he spells it correctly every day so that he can find it and get his rocks off but then to throw us off he misspells it so that we don't know who he is.

I also happen to know people in the US Government and there is no James Webb in Rockville Centre.  A real man will attach his real name or at least some sort of vague indentification.  James Webb makes up a stupid name and thinks he has fooled us all.

Sylver, don't even begin trying to comprehend this thread or one of the dozens of other RORs Either of these two retards (Lisa Markowitz and KVH or Kirk) started, most of which are written about there kids. Nice, huh. Makes you think that there should be laws against some people having kids. I guess Darwin was wrong, nature doesn't weed out the inferior. Now watch as one of these two accuses me of being the other person. They put there personal family business on the internet for the whole world to see and then get angry when anyone posts an opinion. How about you two step away from the computer and spend some time with the kids. Novel idea, I know, but try it. Also there is something called EMAIL which is, get this..private! Yeah, you two can talk all the sh-t you want about each other and your kids without everyone seeing. And then you don't have to worry about people like me calling you worthless parents. I just hope someone from child protective services comes across this thread. And think about when one of these kids googles there own name and sees what his or her parents think about him/her and each other. Nice, right?

I can't even begin to decipher what this thread is all about.  Can someone kindly post a shortened version, maybe using bullets, for those of us who are completely in the dark?  Thanks!

My husband practices out of Beaumont. This woman also works at Beaumont. We have lived in Birmingham for over five years and have two children.  Why do they let this crazy woman in to our childrens' school district.  Her vulgar language alone offends me very much. 

My children are in Birmingham for an education.  The owner of the house that this crazy lady lives should have been sold and if they had to rent the house it should have been rented to people that would better our community.  She speaks bad of our community and our school district.

I am familar with the house and the mother.  I had heard of the daughter.  I am very upset that we pay taxes for this woman to use our schools and our neighbord.

I spoke to someone I know at the school, who I must leave nameless---you all understand.  Basically I was told 'yeah, she's crazy but she's harmless for the most part.

I can't say I want my kids over there between her behavior and language but at least I'm not scared of her pulling a Columbine or anything like that.

Thank you all for listening.  As always, I'm a Mother Hen.

I haven't looked at this website in months.  I scrolled down somewhere and saw you mention my name.  Oh my, he gave out all of your personal information.  What a terrible guy.  Aren't you the woman that had PAGES of his personal information?  Cell phone records, email records, etc. 

From what I've heard, you've been doing that to him for years.  Actually, we all thought it was hilarious.  That wasn't even really his idea originally.  Although it was his idea to print your name, SS# and DOB on 3 dozen coctail napkins on Tikki night. That guy is hilarious.  Didn't he know his new wife for all of a few weeks and you were screening her friends, who she knew and had a background check ran on her.  You had your son stealing mail from his house.  You lied to the courts regarding his son.  What do you expect?  If it's any consolation, Lisa, there is at least a few dozen of us that have your name, date of birth and social security number and we all email to those Nigerian scam letters.  My whole office has a copy and paste with your SS# and date of birth.  I heard your credit is so bad, I'm not quite sure why it would bother you.  It's not like anyone is going to get any where with it.  There are actually a few bars out in the Walled Lake area that have you SS# on the bathroom stalls.

I don't really have anything further to say.  I was happy to see my name in print.  I don't believe we've ever met but I have heard a lot about you. You are the woman that brought in a stack of papers about six inches high with 'information' that you illegally obtained from your husband at the time but you're mad that he gave out your ss#. LOL.

......as one of the respondents just wrote.  But I've been through a divorce and I know that there are times where it can get ugly.  I'm just going to repeat what I saw another blogger say, they both need to restrain their comments.  I think he's angry and she's playing every trick she can think of to not let the father see his son.

It's almost like the goal is for them both to embarrass each other.  She embarrasses him in court so he's getting her back through this venue.   I did a few things in my divorce that I wish I could take back but I never went to the extreme of making police reports, social services and false accusations.  I'm just judging by how mad he is, he didn't do any of that stuff.  He wouldn't be that mad if he was guilty.  That's just the part that seems to give me a littley sympathy for him.  I think she got some bad legal advice and the boy suffered as a result.  When you have kids involved fight fair.  This will, in turn, teach your child to fight fair.

The guy is seeing his son less than a week at most every month which he doesn't feel is fair. Some fathers would, but he doesn't.  Let the boy start right now spending time with his dad and if he doesn't like him by the time he is about 15 years old then it will be kind of the boy's decision.  I think that's all the father wants.  Once you get the courts involved it really does turn into a mess.  I told the FOC after less than a year that I didn't want their services.  The FOC in Tennessee is awful too.  From that point on, things went much better.  We are actually best friends now.  He told me one day, that the FOC made him feel like a criminal.  And ever since then, I couldn't ask for a better father for my three kids.  

Talk nice about each other around the boy.  I know it's hard to do but you have to.   And, if they can't do it together, get some counseling individually.  And I mean serious counseling.  You can't have any of that anger be felt by the child.  You can't have the lying be seen by the kid either. 

I think of myself as somewhat of an expert about divorce.  I've only been divorced once but it really improved our family's lives if you know how to deal with it. 

It is really more sick of what comes out of your mouth Kirk than anything and everyone really knows that.  As far as your son goes you go out of your way and make it perfectly clear to him how "perfect" you seem to think Kims  kids are.  That was straight from your own sons mouth.  He does not answer a multiplication table within one second and you start putting him down.  Rather than be part of the solution you just remain to be part of a problem.   You write me e-mails telling me he has gotten fat and the kids a bean pole.. You don't have to worry about anything when he's older he gets it all now. It is your loss completely!  I have lots of friends that are divorced and ALL of their kids fathers remain a huge part of their life.  You could have come by at any time after work and taken him to dinner, or to shoot some baskets or catch a movie.   The sad thing is at this point in the game it would almost make him uncomfortable.   He finally gets you on the phone for the first time in 3 weeks and your drunk and ask him where his parents are at?"   He tried telling you "One is home with me and you are obvioulsy at the bar, you think you sound funny but to him it is upsetting. 

He sees his buddy that he used to be in daycare with a few weeks ago and his parents are divorced and his dad still goes by to see his son and spend a lil time with him, he watches him play b.b.  he lets him know that no matter what he is going to be an important part of his life. I respect him for that reason alone.   You can brag about Kims kids all day long, I could not be more proud of the person he is and the young man he is turning into.  He loves your mom and dad and at least going there he sees a sense of consistency which is important for a boy his age. You've already missed so much.  He should'nt be going to his sister to ask about girls, and how to be around themk,  and how to act and confide in things he'd like to know, that should be YOU that he wants to go and talk to.  Like I said I am not worried about when he is older he knows how you are and he knows its never going to change so like I said he accepts it for what it is and makes the best of it.
  He knows you were drunk the other night and he can't help but think what a f**king idiot your are that you would be asking him "Where his parents are at" in some slurring, stupid drunken voice.  

It is just like the counselor taught him over the summer, each of your parents develop their own relationship with you.  Chris did achieve that, I will give him that much.  He has always maintained contact with Alex and though he did not help me out financially he was always their emotionally and thats all she ever cared about.   Thats why every time you would throw yourself around like an idiot if he asked me to meet him so he could spend time with her but did not have alot of gas, I just went behind your back and did it anyway so that she could see her dad. I never agreed with him not helping financially but I would not stop him from being in her life either, I can see I made the right choice he has a great relationship with her, has always been so nice to Nick and him and I get along actually very well.  He's happy and I am happy for him.

Nick is a great kid, its just too bad you don't know that!  I won't be reading your "blogs" anymore their old, tired and boring.   Leave your parents out of this too, If your mom has a problem then she can discuss with me.  I think you have dissapointed everyone enough DON'T YOU???   You should be ashamed yourself, everyone else is!

both of you are sick and neither of you should have those children.

you both should find a positive way to channel you energy, rather than wasting it on this site.

Tennessee

 

Lisa, I have no reason not to be nice to you.  The one thing I've learned is that we only have precious small amount of time to be on this earth. I'm not going to miss any time with my grandson just because of you. Every time you don't like the way someone talks to you or looks at you, I end up not seeing my grandson for two months. 

I don't care about you but I care about my grandson more than anything in the world.  He is welcome to live here anytime he wants.

I don't agree with my son starting this airing of dirty laundry on the internet but I know why he did it.  The guy is frustrated.  You forget, he's my son.  And when I sit here and read half of this stuff that you put on the internet about him including our family name, knowing that it's all lies then I have to say something. And whether you think so or not, my family has done the same thing to show their support to Kirk. 

You've got not one but TWO kids over there that you had a relationship with both of their fathers for over 10 years.  Alex's father was always a nice guy.  He might have a problem with his drinking but other than that, he wasn't a bad guy.  As far as my son, Kirk just doesn't know when to throw in the towel with you.

But no, I'm not going to be mean to you when you call.  What would that accomplish?  You would ramble on for an hour, I would get in about 5 words and that would be that.  I really don't care if you believe if this is me or not.

I know Kirk loves Nicholas and I know that you know that too.  Have you ever thought that when he get older one day, he might have to read this one day?   Is that any thing that has ever entered your mind?

It just amazes me that any time you get a response from someone online to your defense then that's okay.  But when someone comes to my son's aid then they must be a sick sexual deviant or Kirk changing his name.  Honestly, no one wanted to get involved but a lot of my family realized how important it was for Kirk to know that there were people that love him and are on his side that we figured all of this internet stuff out and came to his defense.  It didn't help when you put my family name in here as well.  I have people that I used to work with when I was with the district and this is just embarrassing.

The day you sat there and called the police and said that Kirk hit his son when all we wanted to do was go out to lunch, as it was Kirk's day to have his son was the day I lost any respect I ever had for you. 

Kirk was a good father for Nicholas.  And the reason he may not be as good now, is because he realizes that he really doesn't have any control over any thing that goes on in that little boy's life.  A good father doesn't just wake up one day and change his mind about loving his child.

It's kind of hard to be as good of a father when you go from seeing your child every day to 5 days a month.  Like I said in my last letter, Kirk and Kim haven't borrowed a dime from us.  You cost us thousands of dollars, then turn around and slam us and our family in the process.  They both work 2-3 jobs.  Kim is a thrifty shopper.  Granted those kids wear all Tommy Hilfiger and Hollister but they are well fed and cared for.  And don't think my son didn't have something to do with that.  I don't think a cheap man would have ever have gotten remarried, especially to a woman that has two kids.

Doesn't it bother you that he ends up spending more time with her kids that he does with his own?  I know it bothers him.  It bothers you that everyone doesn't hate Kirk and just think you are Mother of the Year.

I don't have any intentions of being rude to you.  Most of the time, I'm either in the shower or out if you notice.

Yeah, I lie when i have to for my kids.  what good mother wouldnt do that.  would if be better to just let my kids be abused. Both my kids daddies are like sliprey sam. They lie and lie and never get caught.  i was molested by my daddy, Richard Markowicz, when I was 2 years old and I never forgot it.  actally i dont remember any of it but my mom said it happen so  i beleve it.

that was the real reasen he got left the state and moved to caleforna.  my family was goin to kill him.  but i dont care, i moved and led a normal life.

i have nothing against men but a man is only about as fateful as his options.  if a man can get away with having sex with a miner then he will.

Well there you have it folks. Now Kirk Huddleston decides to start signing his mother name to his e-mails.  Now let me tell you how ignorant he is.  I literally just got off the phone with his mother because I was checking basketball information for our son and she could not have been nicer.   Thats what Kirks problem is, nobody believes him, well except his wife maybe.  My sons grandmothers main concern is to be able to maintain a relationship with her first grandchild.  Not to mention that Nick holds a special place in her and his granfathers heart. 

Kirk does not in anyway have the same relationship with his mother that he once did.  You never stop loving your child, but he has caused them so much stress, grief and heart ache.  He fights with her and does not call for weeks at a time and uses our son as leverage to get what he wants out of them and I think that is really terrible!

They have helped him and his wife out so much more than Kirk is willing to give them credit for.  They are very good people and Nicholas is lucky to have them, that's why I told "Nana" myself that she does not have to go through Kirk to see her grandson, she is always welcomed to be in his life no matter what.

Oh sure she would think this is all dumb and childish and I actually agree, but she would NOT waste her time to even entertain the idea of reading this much less writing on it.

There is a difference between leaving your home at 16 and being kicked out of it or choosing to walk out on your own.  If Kirk is so proud of his wife's indipendence then why not go out and buy her some pretty flowers or a nice card instead of writing on here.

So lets have a lil' fun at Kirk's expense, he goes into that flower shop to by the wife some flowers and she shows him a beautiful bouquet that cost $50 he says "Oh thats too much do you have something cheaper so she gives him a smaller one for $30 and he says that is still to much so then she comes out with one single rose which is romantic and says how much and she says $8 and he says "Oh, I was hoping for something even cheaper than that" so the sales lady hands him a mirror.  LOL

I've heard a lot of retoric back and forth. Now grandma speaks. She sounds sane and she sounds like a grandma. From my experiences, grandmas don't lie.

So it's official, Lisa is crazy. Can anyone say Lorainna Bobbit or Susan Smith?

I usually don't put in my two cents worth, Lisa, but I looked over some of the stuff on this internet.  I couldn't help notice the comment about my son being cheap.  I think you might have my two son's confused.  Not that I am saying either one of my sons is cheap but 'frugal' would be the word for at least one of them.  Kirk has always been the spread the wealth kind of guy.  He spends too much if you ask me, although he's gotten better now that his new wife doesn't pressure him to buy everything that he can't afford; unlike his first one.

My son paid for you to drive around a new truck, he's not a day late on child support.  The last I recall, you owe us $9,000 that we just decided to write off for the sake of our grandson and keeping peace.  My son and his wife struggle just like a lot of people out there are right now.  I would hardly call that cheap. The man spent thousands of dollars to take his son to Pistons, Lions, Red Wings, Tigers games which I always thought was just too much. Kirk is cheap?????????????Just about every thing you say irates the living hell out of me but that comment in particular just burned me.

He worked hard for you and both of those kids and you have got the nerve to talk about him like that.  And that is exactly what his problem is with you.  I have heard you whine and moan, over and over about how Kirk doesn't need to spend money on his son but just his time.  Then you sit there and tell my grandson how cheap his dad is.  And I know d**n well that you tell him that.  It's no wonder that kid thinks the things he does.

Last weekend we went out to breakfast with him and Kim.  Kirk paid the bill and left the waitress a 25% tip; never even thought twice.  I guess I'm just old but in our day it was 15-18%.  I just don't see where that is cheap.  There's nothing cheap about Kirk.  He might be a lot of things but he's not cheap.  You don't like the things on here about you and your daughter then don't do it to other people.  

You are 46 years old, Lisa, and you haven't lived but maybe one full year on your own.  I can honestly say that since him and Kim got married, we haven't had to lend Kirk a dime.  Kim has been on her own since she was 16 so I think she knows a little bit more about life than you.  My husband and I paid for your honeymoon plus a good part of your wedding.  And your mother kicked in the rest.  We also helped you out with the mortgage payment any time you were late or needed extra money, and a lot of which we never got paid back.  Well, $9,000 we never got paid back.  Having two kids out of wedlock and letting your mother, brother, or us pay your way through life, I hardly think is an example you want to lead for your kids.  You have no concept of money.  I think your mother would be ashamed of you acting like you are. 

Cheap, that is a good one.  Everyone is cheap to you.  You called Chris Lechel cheap, your sister, Maria, and her husband cheap, you've called us cheap, both my son's cheap.  You don't borrow money from 'cheap' people.  What does that say for you?  A lot of these 'cheap' people that you say, own homes and have bills and responsibilities.  They don't look for houses in Birmingham that they can't afford just so they can look important, stop paying the rent after six months, then pack up and leave.  Not everyone is an automatic ATM for you Lisa so that you can turn around and call them cheap when you don't get any more money.

You have foreclosed on TWO homes, gotten kicked out of how many houses and apartments now? 5, 6.  You filed bankruptcy or filing, not sure which.  You had a car repossessed.  You have an attorney that you owe thousands of dollars to.  I don't think you're the person that should be explaining to us what the word cheap is or who is cheap.  It must be nice to be perfect.

It just drives me crazy thinking that my grandson is living with a woman that is looney.  And it's me too.  I don't make up names or pretend I'm someone I'm not.  Obviously, I avoided using my name but it's me.

I can not believe what I am reading.  This woman has just moved to our community and her cussing and swearing is all over the place.  What a 'Welcome to Birmingham' she gave us all.  You would think that she had some shame.  Our children go online and check out Facebook and My Space.  And if her daughter does have friends then they and their parents are going to see all of this.

I know anyone that sees my name is going to know who I am.  There's not too many Colettas.  I don't want to put my last name on here for fear of being confronted by this lady.  She sounds crazy enough to show up at my doorstep.

Does anyone know if we can do something about this legally?

I'm not trying to be an overprotective mother but it scares me to have this woman living in our neighborhood.  Can we at least have Social Security, or FIA stop by her home and talk to her?  Just make sure that's she's not completely crazy and is going to run around the neighborhood talking about martians, or God knows what else she talks about?

I'm probably being over protective but this woman is crazy and it scares me.

Well as you can see folks, this is what Kirk now does on his spare time. He's gone from business lunches and meetings to typing with one hand and playing pocket pool with the other.  He's so concerned about my entire family and their personal business.  This is a guy that ended up in a psych-ward, banged some chick that was a senior citizen at the time, got his a*s thrown in jail and then she makes up a  crazy a*s story that she's pregnant with his child.   Its all on record in Oakland Co.  Animal cruelty????  He's talking about my nephew, now that is literally the pot calling the kettle black.

He's so concerned about people that live in Birmingham, there are lots of people that rent out here and they seem to like it and they have better jobs then he does so I am not sure what that is all supposed to be about.  Okay, ladies and gents, "Don't think that Kirk wrote his own responses"  he's a straight shooter, remember that.

Like I said, I have the e-mails and the voice mail to go along with it, that's where he screwed himself.  I'm waiting for him to file his bullshit motion with the Macomb Co. Friend of the Court and tell them that my family held a gun to his head to leave the voice mail regarding our son. Believe me its not the first one. You are not allowed to put e-mail addresses on here but I'll give it a whirl. His is  Kay as in the letter huddleston zero eight two five at yahoo and mine is markowicz and the letter elle two thousand four at yahoo.   What a bonehead seriously.

He's just embarrassed to even be talking about his son like that and realizes as always a day late and a dollar short and so now the best thing to do is blame someone or anyone else.  Like I said our son is not stupid by any means. He makes the best out of the situation and recognizes it for what it is. He knows he can either choose to be miserable like his dad (God help us) or he can do what he's been taught to do, just deal with the situation the best he can at hand.   Kirk can't stand the fact that he is such a nice well mannered kid, it actually bothers him rather than make him proud.

Nick would be happy just playing  a game of basketball and drinking a red bull. Of coarse Kirk would complain about how much they cost.  This guy is so cheap if he swallowed a quarter you would be lucky if you could get him to s**t out two dimes.  He's checking his computer I am sure as we speak just looking for a "rebuttal"  Just for you baby!

How concerned can one ex-husband be about my personal life. I think it bothers him more that some guy may actually treat our son the way he should be treated. 

You have to understand we all live and learn and being married to Kirk Huddleston was kind of like a hangover, you'd have to live through it to believe it.  LOL
 
Maybe he can do everyone a favor and just go away and leave everyone alone and not come back, but he will be back, Kirk should have been named "Herpes" when he was born.  

He does this because it kind of is a rush for him and it turns him on, his life would be so boring without it.   Think about it, he thinks he is some kind of a writer or something and he could be spending all this time writing love letters to his wife, or thank-you letters to his parents.

Stealing office supplies????  If I was going to steal and take a chance of getting caught I would find something much better to steal from a job then office supplies.  So in other words all this tells me is he was jocking some stuff from work and someone obviously caught him. So if he is not taking from children that have next to nothing he is taking from a man that has tried to build a reputable business and was nice enough to employ him.   How STUPID!!!!!!

LOL.  It looks like you are known as Crazy Lady around B-Ham.  Don't think I wrote any of those responses or told anyone to.  I'm pretty much a straight shooter.  If I've got something to say, I say it and I attach my name to it.

How do you keep getting houses to rent when you don't pay the rent and destroy the houses?  Aren't these landlords checking references?  Never mind, that's a stupid question.  You would just put down someone that you know as a reference and have them pretend to be your former landlord.

What's up with the email portion?  LOL.  I haven't owned that email address in at least 6 months but good try Lisa.  The Wixom police have access to that email account upon my request. I can assure anyone, I don't put anything in an email or voice mail with this woman.  Remember when you broke into my email account like some obsessed ex-wife and got information on my parent's bank accounts, and my brother's cell phone account, etc.? And I don't suspect her of doing this, she actually leaves me a voicemail TELLING me she did this.  LOL.  But then, since she also knows my voicemail phone number and a code on my cell phone account(which I don't even know) and erases the voicemail, 5 minutes later. That was a good one.  I was pissed at the time but now I can laugh at it and tell you how good of a spy you are.

Please let me have Glen Close in Fatal Attraction instead of this woman. I enjoyed the one writers association of her with Fatal Attraction.  You had me laughing hard on that one.  She hasn't boiled a rabbit yet but she has her own new and creative ideas.  I want her to call Steven Speilberg and give him some ideas for his next movie.  This woman rants and raves about what a terrible person I am, yet she has to know EVERYTHING I do, where I am going, where I live, where I work, traces my wives background and relatives, bank accounts, cell phone accounts.

Important information for anyone out there, although many of you may already know this.  This woman has a tracking program put on my computer.  She is able to break into my email account and see anyone and everyone that I email.  Then she sends them some type of BS email, pretends she's someone else and when they respond, she can track them as well.  From that point, once she can track them to their computers then she can get passwords when they log into their bank account,  cell phone account, email account or whatever.  We did get lucky, as my step-son was able to print out one of the 'anonymous' bragging emails that she had sent and traces the IP address to Royal Oak Beaumont.  The same place she works as it just happens to fall on a Saturday in which she volunteered to work. 

Personally, I never gave her much credit for being too intelligent but this scam took some time and follow through.  Although, I'm sure that her nephew, Ricardo Markowicz, has tutored her through the process.  The kid is pretty good with computers.  That is, when he's not out beating women or being convicted of animal cruelty for throwing pets into the street to watch cars run them over. 

This people is why you don't inbreed.  You have an aunt that is now a step-mother, a cousin that might be a half brother, and a brother that is married to his cousin.   I wouldn't call them red-necks but they're certainly not normal.

After calling the the police with FOUR false domestic violence reports(two of which were proven to be false), two false child abuse reports(one of which to the police and CPS) and accuses me of child molestation of a daughter I have known for over 12 years; there's not too much that could possibly embarrass me any further. 

If anyone decides to date this woman, which I doubt, but if you do, BEWARE.  You are dealing with a 44 year old woman that has had THREE boyfriends in her life.  And with those three boyfriends, she had two abortions, a child each with two of them and married one of them.  Yet somehow, she managed to file domestic violence charges against all three of them at one point.   Hmmmm.  Two convictions.  I got off on mine.  Once they sat down and realized that they had three police reports and all describing the incident as happening at different locations of the house, they figured something was fishy.

All I'm saying, is keep an open mind.  Don't dismiss what I am telling you here.  I know how it is, you meet a woman and it's all candy and roses and hot sex but just keep what I claiming in the back of your mind because she hasn't gotten any better.  Quite the opposite, she's gotten worse. 

My goal is to prevent some poor guy from going through what myself and at least two other victims have suffered through.

And nice try, Lisa, with calling my job to tell them that I was stealing office supplies to sell on eBay.  ROFLMAO.  They knew it was the same voice as the woman that called several months back and said that she was from the Friend of the Court and needed to verify my social security number.

My wife was telling me today about the crazy lady that is living in our neighborhood.   Why am I paying taxes to have something like this living less than a mile away from me.  Let the guy see his son and shut your mouth.  I saw at my daughter's school.  You need to shut your mouth.  Put up your hands and move away from the cheesecake lady. LOL.  There should be an ordinance in the city about renters.

Here is a correspondence that was written between Kirk and I.  It
is the actual e-mail. Oh anyone could write to and from and all that
but go ahead and e-mail me and I will be glad to send it to you.  Gee,
He seems a little upset, I think by now that lil' vein in the middle of
his forehead is popping out. He's probably biting his tongue and the
wheels are spinning. What can Kirk make up next??   Notice the
difference in the letters you can see the way I talk and respond and
the way he does.  Must have hit a soar spot huh?  So in other words its
okay for Kirk to talk nasty about me and my kids and even my family 
but it's not okay for it to be done to him.  The difference is I would
not write anything bad about his family because I don't have anything
bad to say. They are really nice people and they are good to my son so
thats all I care about.

Notice the name "ROBOTMAN" in his initial e-mail it says that he is an
impartial witness, then it says his grandmother met his other
"girlfriends" and then it says that they  liveclose to me AND then it
says that they saw Nick playing basketball with his dad just the past
weekend.  Now this was written on Oct 16th and my son is clearly with
me because Kirk did not want him this weekend and the weekend before
that we were in Cedar Point for Halloweekend so this person must be a
ROBOT because they can't sure as hell be real.  "I love the part were
it is written "I'm knew to all of this but I heard about it"  Ummmmm
OKAY..Maybe we should just put the message he left on my answering
machine on youtube.  Oh but then he would say it was a transvestite
talking and not him so unless you knew Kirks voice that would be a
problem huh?

I don't mind anyone going and looking at my case at the F.O.C. There
are plenty of e-mails in there from (((Redacted)))   you
will notice the part where his lawyer said "Yes, this is Mr.
Huddlestons e-mail address and he did admit to writing some "blatent
e-mails" and he is sorry.  But then of coarse Kirk would say that I
broke into his e-mail address then and wrote them myself and he just
admitted to the courts it was him  for shits and giggles.  I love the
part where he has me acting like a " coke head"  when that certainly
would not be my choice. Hell I'd take real candy over that s**t.  Not
into drinking or drugs, never have been.  If Kirk spend half as much
time trying to help himself as he does concocting e-mails and stories
for this website it would only benefit our young son.
 Of coarse he loves his dad...do you really think I tell him things
like his dad called him a loser, a delinquent, doesn't want him and
wants nothing to do with him.  He thinks dad has simply been busy the
last 2 weekends.  I don't tell him that stuff, why hurt him.  He's
nobody's fool despite what Kirk thinks.  One second I got people
saying  "He loves his son to death" and in e-mails and voice-mails he
wants nothing to do with him.  Nick knows that his dad has problems,
its sad but he does.  I always tell him you have one father and one
mother so he does make the best of it.    Lets put it this way. He has
called his dad everyday since the last time he saw him Sunday Oct. 4th
and he never got one return call back.  Don't you think an 11 year old
starts to think things.  He knows that if he calls me I do whatever I
have to so that I can get back with him.   Like I said he handles the
situation rather well he knows it is what it is.   Do you think his dad
would have called him to say "Are you having fun at Cedar Poin?t"  "How
was your b.b. game?"   Again all by Kirks choice and Nicholas knows
that.  If he files this "motion" in court to stop the phone contact and
stop his visitations then as you have read his wife would be thrilled
and at that point I would have to tell Nick a lil more in depth and he
would simply say. Oh, Okay.  Like I said its the time of year that Kirk
does this, its not the firs time, we ALL know that so I do not put much
stock into it.

I learned last summer when Nick had a lot of problems with his dad and
I took him to see a  counselor that if I make a big deal out of it he
will.  If I don't he won't.  So honestly to him it is really all out of
sight out of mind.  Though he would never wish anything bad on anyone (
not a chip of the ole' block beleive me )  He does not think much of
it.

The counselor explained to Nick in a way he very much understood that
parents build their own relationships with their children. If  Kirk has
also spent as much time communicating with Nick as he does with me I
think it would be beneficial.

Go ahead and keep scrolling down.  This is the "nice good guy" he keeps calling himself. What a sweetheart.



From: . < khuddleston (((Redacted)))> To: Lisa Huddleston <(((Redacted))) Sent: Thu, October 15 , 2009 4:35:41 PM Subject: Re: Hi Kirk

Kim and I don't really want to be part of anything that has to do
with you and including Nicholas.  Kim and I have started our own
business, and we are doing okay with it considering it's only been open
for business for a month now.  And, I'm happy. We need to start
spending more time together.  We are busy during the weekday evenings
and especially on the weekends.  Plus, we are going to be moving slowly
too.  We need time alone and don't need some noisy, court-ordered
little s**t to be watching our every move, stealing my mail or whatever
else you teach your kids to do.  It took me over a year to build this
business.  I built it on hard work and my good reputation.  I don't
need you, J-Lumpty, or Nick to try and f**k it up for me like you do
with everyone and everything that you are jealous of.
 
If all goes well, I will be quitting my 9-5 job in the next two
weeks as long as I can handle the business by myself.  As far as the
FOC, you can tell them to go f**k themselves.  If they want to send out
a PI to watch me then go ahead.  I've covered my bases pretty well. 
Go get a lawyer, take my visitation away, I don't really give a flying
f**k.  Oh, and make sure you leave this email open so that everyone can
accidentally read it and feel sorry for the fat chick that lost her
mother and got treated so bad all of her kids' fathers.
 
I love Nick but you have turned him into a little punk and I don't
want to take any claim to that.  Kim and I had a talk and it was either
going to be this business or you and Nick continuing to pry into our
lives.  This is too important to me to let you f*** it up.  Seeing my
son for 5-6 lousy days a month is hardly worth me losing any sleep and
sacrificing my 'career' over.  You go off on one of your rampages and
give me a bad referral like you've done continuously for the last 3
years and I'm done in this business.
 
This email address hasn't been used in months.  I got divorced
from you and you had to break into my email, my mother's email account,
our bank account, my brother's bank account.  Don't think we didn't
figure out it was you.  The weekend my email account got broken into,
my whole family had some type of account broken into.  What a
coincidence.   You're like some sick obsessed psycho that just keep on
coming up in a bad nightmare.   If I get a bunch of voice mails from
you then I will be seeing MY police department.  You certainly made an
impression on them.  The detective told me that more than one voicemail
at a time and anything resembling an idle threat is grounds for at
least a restraining order if nothing else.  I won't have your son so
you won't have any reason to harrass me.



From: Lisa H (((Redacted))) To: . <khuddleston(((Redacted))) Sent: Wed, September 30 , 2009 9:38:03 PM Subject: Hi Kirk

I would check with them because I have never heard of them going
in someone's bank account. They usually handle child support through
garnishment but I am not sure. The following weekend he would be with
me anyway and we will be at Cedar Point
for Halloweekend which is why he won't be at basketball that weekend.  
Please let your mom know this then because she told me that Her and Pa
were taking Nick  to basketball practice this weekend. I will make sure
he goes then I just need to know what time. I was never given a
schedule of his games or practices, Nana said she would e-mail it but I
have not seen it.  I have a gentlemans number that she gave me but we
keep playing phone tag.   Thanks for letting me know.    Lisa



From: . <khuddleston(((Redacted))) To: markowiczl(((Redacted))) Sent: Wednesday, September 30, 2009 12:50:48 PM Subject: Keep Nicholas this weekend Kim,
myself, Krista and TJ have a painting and cleaning job this weekend for
some extra money and we won't have any time for Nicholas.  The good ole
FOC screwed up my checking account and since we only keep minimal
amount of money in my checking account and most of our money in our
business account it caused some major issues so we have to get money in
the bank by Monday.  Most likely, if all goes well, we'll have
the same side job the following weekend as well so I would just plan on
having him the following weekend too. Thanks.
 

CLICK here to see why Rip-off Report, as a matter of policy, deleted either a phone number, link or e-mail address from this Report.

I would appreciate you keeping the family name off the internet.   As for Kirk being on the right path, Kirk has been on the right path for quite some time now.  From what I seem to recall, he put a roof over you and your kids' heads.  I'm glad you posted your case number on the internet.  People can see that HE was income earner and that the guy isn't a day late in child support.  So I'm not quite sure what your gripe is.   Kirk has a 4 year college degree, smart guy and the only reason he has ever had to work a second job was to support YOU.  And he still is.

Don't drag my name into any of this, sister.  You drag everyone around you down.  The only big mistake I can really say Kirk made over the last 10-15 years was getting you pregnant.  Even marrying you, he had good intentions.  A bonehead move, but good intentions.

I know most of this stuff to be true about you.  The guy is happy, can't you just leave him and his son alone?  I still don't agree with him putting your business on the internet but you started it and when he dished a little back to you, you couldn't handle it.

This crazy lady lives close to me.  Word travels fast in B-Ham.  I am glad my kids attend a private school. 

You gave it your best shot, Kirk but the fact is, I have your kid and I will have him believe whatever I choose for him to believe.  Funny how that works.  Just keep handing me over your paychecks.  Do you really want me to call the police again?  You might not get convicted but I'll bet I can have them put you in jail for a day while they sort it all out.

Christopher Lechel tried to win with me but he lost too.  I'm a woman, they will believe whatever I tell them.  Don't think for a second that when I nailed Chris for domestic violence that I wasn't the one to throw the first punch.  But guess what, I'm a woman.  When you touch a woman, you go to jail.  LOL.  It doesn't matter if you are a man trying to protect yourself.  If you touch me, YOU will go to jail.

You are a sorry excuse for a human being and I make sure to tell your son that every day.  You call it brainwashing, I call it mothering.  I used to do cocaine with Chris at the Bustance's house when I was a nanny.  I worked for them for over 12 years.  So I guess in part, you are right.  A woman can pretty much do whatever they want.  

So I told the police you molested my daughter? So what?  Notice how you didn't get to see your son as a result for six weeks?  Then I told the Troy police that you hit your son, wow, another three weeks.  Even putting all of this on the internet won't do anything.  All I have to do, if it even got asked was say that you wrote this. 

I told your son that you killed his dog.  You never liked the dog so that was easy to get him to believe. Would you like some wine with that cheese?  I have to get back to my job.   And yeah, I"m using a Royal Oak Beaumont computer.  But they can't prove that it's me.  So what are you doing to do?

Kirk's a good guy.  This is being written as a favor to a guy that doesn't deserve all of this drama in his life.  The guy has about a dozen pictures of his son all over his desk.  So abandonment is absolutely ridiculous.  If anyone can't see by what this crazy lady writes that she's not all there.  Who has that much time? 

I know for FACT that at least 50% of everything this crazy lady writes are lies.  And by how I perceive Kirk, I would say at least 95% of it's not true.  The whole thing is such a shame because Nicholas is an awesome little guy.  He should be with his father but we all know courts don't work that way.  Instead, they let crazy lady raise him for most of the week, brainwash him and send him to see his dad for a few days. 

When I heard that the woman told her son that his dad killed his first dog, that did it for me.  And, from what I was told, she was asked about it in court and the best she could come up with was-no, he came up to me and he figured it out.

That's messed up.  I don't agree with the way Kirk has handled every thing since that time by bantering back with her but you're dealing with a guy that was a successful businessman in the community and lost his career due to all of the vicious slander his ex-wife had to put out there on him.  I know the economy was more than partially to blame but she definitely played her role. 

I can assure you, Lisa.  Kirk didn't make up anything that has another name attached to it because I know of four of the people alone that put in their two cents.  The whole time I knew you, you were loud, obnoxious, over-bearing.  Should I go on?  I haven't heard anyone stick up for you about anything yet.  I just think it's awful that you would put the kind of things out there about the father of your son.

You knew him for 2-3 years, he raised your daughter, you had a son with him, then married him and all of this stuff is true???????????????????????????????????????????  Why would you marry someone if all of this stuff is true?  For the sake of your son, leave the guy alone.

That is literally the dumbest report and rebuttal I have ever seen written.  Don't tell me she spoke and you typed?  Robotman okay,, I'll call myself Android woman.  As I am sure everyone has figured out that if someone broke into someone's bank account they would pretty much be sitting in jail.  Let me get this straight, so in other words I went in your e-mail and erased my personal information and in your e-mail you have your brothers bank account, your parents bank account and the code to do all of this.  Forget health care I should be working for Nasa. 

You can stop shitting your pants over Al Pacino following you and slitting your throat like a pez dispenser.  Maybe the mafia rolls that way but I don't.   You're still here aren't you? I see enough blood at work I'm not into finishing people off, not even you! 

Kimmy you need to stay where you belong in this whole situation, in the background. Your opinion does not mean much to anyone.  I don't need you to express any concern over my kids being screwed up just worry about the 2 you already have. Mine are fine, I have no problems with either of them.  Just because Nicholas is in the book club, and isn't a bully and has a sweet disposition and respect for people doesn't make him some wimp.  You should be so lucky!

I don't listen in on my sons conversations, why don't you shut your pot hole and ask him for yourself.  He's 11 Kimmy not 20, so when something is upsetting him sooner or later  then he will confide. Kirks done this all summer long and finally he came out and said why does he do that.  Don't tell me you were just sitting on your a*s the whole time this went on with your son under it  listening to his dad talk to him or did you bother for a second to say "Kirk, stop lying that is ridiculous.  Anybody that would drive some guy they hardly know around to destroy his kids mothers car does not hold much ground at all I promise you. 

If anything I would think that listening to your husband constantly go on and on and on about me rather it be on paper or in person  would get a little old after a while.  Don't tell me,  you were in the bathroom taking a s**t when he texted me literally 32 times while you were "supposedly  out to dinner with Dr. Todd and his wife. Now that's what I call marital bliss.  I'm glad that's okay with you because I find it rather rude, to you Todd and his wife quite honestly.

First of all I could give a flying f**k where you live at. Just for starters, if I really wanted to know Kirk would be bound by law to tell me if it is a place my son resides at overnight so get over yourself.  I found it more upsetting as to why you would lie about it.  You don't live in Walled Lake you live in Wixom, what's so wrong with that? They are neighbors.  You were the one that went out of your way to tell ME  "Oh, Kirk and I just moved into brand new condo's in Walled Lake that cost $950.00 a month. I didn't ask you cause I really didn't care, its not a condo it's an apartment that cost about  $600 a month, I just don't see the reason to lie.   I don't care if I live 10 places in 2 years what's it to you?????   My concern was not where I lived it was keeping the kids in their schools. My kids were thrilled with where we moved and it is not a house it is a condo and we don't have to move in a year.  It is close to both of Nicks schools and he has freinds here.  He is happy I am sorry that seems to bother you so much.  I am not like you I know the "Kim and Paul" story.
  I am sure he is a really nice guy but if anyone went out of their way to turn their kids against their dad is was you and I am sure Kirk did not help any either.   I don't approve of  Chris not helping take care of our daughter fiancially, he never really has, I find it to be more lazy then anything but it does not stop her from loving him or wanting to spend time with him.  If I bashed him left and right and she would have never have wanted to even try living there. I knew that when you like your school, teachers and friends, that is a tough act to follow.  The only stipulation I had was if she did not like the school she could come back, she did not like the school and was back home days later.   She can always get a job around here, she knows her high school years will go by way to fast.  It was no big deal. It didn't mean she did not love her dad.   When Nick is 16 and if he wants to try living with his dad that will be fine with me. He knows that.

My son  DOES have respect and so does my daughter for that matter. I can't speak for the Wixom people that you feel are so much better than they are  but try attending a parent teacher confereance with Kirk sometime and drop the euchre' game at night and mention his name to anyone in that school and all I ever get is what a well polished, polite young man he is, so as far as you saying he's just this rude lil' delinquent you can go f**k yourself and worrry about your own son and I will worry about mine.I can't imagine he has a very high regard for you with the way you speak to him anyway way.   Amazing really last night him and the other student council members along with his girlfriend  made about 300 pancakes for the event Fri.  night and the lady that I car pool with for catacism told me how proud I should be of Nick, I believe her comment was "What a nice kid Lisa" However thanks for your concern anyways.  I'm supposed to be taking motherly advice from a woman that called her overweight son a "f****s" to his face. Pretty cruel if you asked me.   How would you like it if he took some flaws that are pretty evidant on yourself and made fun of you?   "Kirk wants to talk and I take no responsibility in what he writes? "  I'll meet up w/you in study hall...What are we like 12?

How in the world would my families business possibly effect you in anyway Kirk?  David being in Jail and stealing? Yes we know you would know nothing about that, funny actually I ran into Brianna about 3 mos. ago and she recognized me, I did not know her and she kept saying "I was at your wedding with Brian"  I'm thinking Wow, I can't place this person and then she said "Kirk got fired from Papa Johns for stealing money from the toys for tots drawer and how you tried to set it up like it was some other guy there"  And then yes I knew who she was.  Yeah, stealing and jail only something David Markowicz would know about. I am talking to someone that took his brothers birth certificate, his identity, got a drivers license in his name only to max out his discover card and you are talking about David???   You had bullets flying in your family, you know the one that has no "divorces" in it but you didn't see  me blaming that on you.  Get a grip, seriously. 

Post pardum what are you talking about. That happens AFTER birth not while in gestation, go talk to your local ob/gyn.  You mean when I was crying at an at&t commercial AFTER I had our son? If Iwas stressed out it was because you kept calling me from the Sycomore hotel and crying on the phone that your parents took all the camera and video equiptment I bought you to tape your newborn son and then kept rattling on about the way you ran-sacked your dads gas station and the next thing I know me and your 6 day old son are bailing you out of a mental institution. Remember you hid your wristband in the back of his diaper while in his car seat?   Do I have that right???  Or has Nicholas' lying rubbed off on me???  As far as my mom goes the only thing she did was hold the door open for you when you had no where to go, I don't think that memory is serving you correctly. As far as knowing where you lived  you can stop telling people that your son "stole" your utility bill, Now he's a liar and a thief huh??  Thats the part of you I think is just plain sick, I'm just waiting for you to turn him into the police and set him up on a robbery or something.  I would be glad to tell you  how I know where you live at why didn't you just ask me and stop making up stories about an innocent little kid.

The rest of your family I will keep out of it, I have plenty that could be said, I know what you are waiting for me to write on here the only difference I wouldn't talk like that about my sons family no matter what.  I think you get my drift...The whole thing is who cares???  Would you like me to read through all your stories and comment on them?  Lets see here.

"Confused and Euchre Nut" -Why would euchre nut be wondering who divorced who? What does that have to do with anything?  I'm supposed to worry about who is googling my name and what sites my info. is on? Maybe you should be just as concerned I would think. I however don't really care.   "The guy loves his son, he's cool in my book"  Thats funny most people that "love their children"  defend them if anything, they don't go out of there way to tell the world they don't want to be in their life anymore ( thats an old one believe me") and refer to their own son as a coward, a punk and piece of s**t"    Well "euchre-nut"  the names got it half right, you must be a nut!!!

Michelle from F.O.C.  --  Shhhhhh!  Quiet, I could get in trouble for this and lose my sensored de-coder ring if I get caught. Sensor, sensor, bleep, bleep.   Lets see you have Erin Grant that was killed and cut up and thrown around Stoney Creek by her husband  Steven Grant yet the media and the f.o.c wants to focus on the Kirk and Lia Huddleston case. Hmmmmmmmmmm. I think we should have our own reality show how about you? It seems that strangers are all drawn to this sight.   That makes lots of sense.  The motions, the e-mails, the denials, the lies, the documents  Oh, and lets not forget the proof of service it's all in our file the case number is 2007-000-481 DM.  Now everyone can go and read for themself and I think I need not say anymore. And while you're  there please find the criminal record in the divorce proceedings because that must have been somoene else, I've never seen it.  A brief case? a stack of papers?  Wouldn't you think the attorney being paid to handle this case would have all of this so why would I ?   My hair, don't tell me it looked like someone dropped a gallon of peroxide on it?  My clothes YES they were my scrubs, because I was always coming from work, something Kirk knows  nothing about.   That would be like me going out of my way to say that his wife would be wearing black shoes, black pants, a black coat and a red shirt  and Kirk would be wearing a light green shirt with a blue tie and a tan suit. Thats it!!!  Next time no same clothes for anyone!!!  Deal?  After Kirk files his motion that he does not wish visitation with his son anymore and does not want him to call at least thats what his e-mail and phone message says and the order gets changed we all promise to wear new clothes my lawyer included, and yours too Kirk. One min. its a woman then a man, then a transvestite just stick w/ one I can't keep up. Yes this is surely the kind of guy that should have his son living in his house, he complains about taking him to watch him play ball on an early Sat.  his sister takes more responsibility with him and she's in high school.  God forbid Kirk roll his lazy a*s out of bed to watch his son play.

How Awful---- I think this letter was supposed to be coming from Kirks Uncle.  Nice guy and believe me even the typing is not believeable.  This guy if anyone has tried to help set Kirk on the right path so along with his brother and folks I have nothing bad to say about him, I'm just sorry that Kirk even used him like that.   I think we should bring Ivory back to life and put Kirk to sleep, maybe we'll just give him some anti-freeze instead of our dog.  You got an a*****e that is making  comments of how his buddy at shore mortgage " a coke head mind you" told him that a table spoon of anti-freeze would put a dog down in days and a week later  we come home to find ours thrown in an 80 degree garage with the bottle on the floor with fork holes poked through the bottom of it along with a dead dog literally in hours and "Oh my gosh" how could our 10 and 5 year old have figured this out?????  I'd love to pay for the polygraph test on that one.  I would literally bet my kids lives on it!!  Its done, Kirk , its over, just own it and move on, who the hell are you trying to kid? That was just plain sick and rotten bottom line!

Passive Aggressive- On a photo it would be found in the prefrontal cortex of the brain, in a nutshell (no pun intended)  It controls the part of the brain to act in a way that is considered to be socially appropriate.  Examples - deliberate inefficiency, forgetfullness, always blaming others, stubborn, mean, hurtful and very hostile.  I did not learn this on Oprah it was honestly explained to me by a counselor.....Kirks.

How could Kim have seen Kirk as a "handsome soon to be available man" Now that goes to show the blatent lies in here.  It was his own wife that told me Kirk had expressed to her that he was already divorced when he met her. That would be called simply Lying.   There is a differnece with a woman being "good for someone" and "enabling to them"  there is the difference right there.  The plain reason WHY Kirk absolutely was a better father when he was with me was because despite everything there was some sense of  balance in his life, we had too many responsibilities to live the life that they do now and I would not have tolerated it for a minute. .  Family was important to him at that time.  His son came first, not last. Being a soccer coach meant more than catching last call with the "Taxi driver for the destructive." 

How could Kirks Uncle be sick and tired of hearing that he "cheated" on me?  I never told him that.  I was always good to his family especially his grandmother so we know who wrote that one too.  I think if she were alive she would be telling Kirk to shut his big bazoo and not someone else. I went to her house all the time and cleaned for her and then we always went out to lunch together. We seemed to enjoy each others company and I did it mainly to help his mom out and take some weight off her shoulders. His  grandpa was a very sweet man and adored my daughter and his grandmother loved our son to death so you can go f**k yourself with your nasty comments of them in your sick minded head where I'm sure the carpet doesn't match the drapes.

Ashamed to be seen with ME? then it looks like history must be repeating itself huh?

Michelle- Another Michelle what a concidence.  "I don't like to work with her" Thats amazing one thing Kirk and I never had in common. I don't have a problem getting along with people and I never have and neither do my children for that matter. Sitting down 3/4 of my shift. Hmmm sadly there were hundreds and hundreds of people laid off from the hospital and if I sat down all day I am sure I would have been gone a long time ago.   I'm not like you, I am just grateful to have a job to take care of my kids unlike Kirk I don't wish anyone to not have their employment which is why I would not go out of my way to try and start problems at their job. And for your information I also have no problem working a small part time job for extra money.   How could I  have never "met these people" they were all at my wedding!  A few holes in your story Kirk just like the ones in your head.
And there was nobody in my departments that worked only 2 days a week.

Flipper- Was your mom mad when you were born? Tough break!  - My daughter is a thief now along with my son?  So in other words I went to my daughters school but it was when I was teaching catacism and she stole something that she told 3 people about and the whole time she was bra-less?  There goes Kirk again, talking about his step-daughter not wearing a bra.and a teenager lives under that roof.    Ummmm if Alex ends up swinging on poles topless like Kirk seems to think then we will just change her name from Alexandara to Bra-less babe.  No wonder she flipped him off, what a pervert! As far as I'm concerned it's about time someone told him to f**k off!! It was long over due.  Though I don't teach my kids to do that just like when Kirk was stealing and breaking in peoples houses his parents didn't teach him to do that, I am not mad at her.  She was sticking up for her little brother and has seen this guy put this kid through hell, so, like I said, telling him where to go was long over due.  So he can stop directing it at his parents they know better as well.  It's this kind of attitude and behavior that has caused his father the dissapointment that he has felt over the years. Kirks father could walk circles around him.   Its just like Pa always said.  "For Christ sake Kirk can you just STOP"  but as you can see it wasn't fatherly advice he ever took.  There was a time while we were married that  his dad could not have been more proud of him, but, the day he blamed our son for pouring a gallon of O.J. in my computer his dad himself said "Thats just bullshit!" and he is right it is.  Nicest guy you will ever meet and Kirk is always trying to make a joke out of him. Pretty mean but then again this is Kirk we are talking about.

Phillip and Amanda L.  Gee, I wonder where these names came from.  Who the hell cares if they slept in different rooms when he met her.  Then he must not have been drunk enough  from the party.  Kirk would sleep with what he calls a 3 O'clock lay if it was available.  I think Kirk knows exactly what I am talking about. We wouldn't want somone that has too much baggage would we Kirk?  Kirks decided to go commando??  He is worried about who is and is not wearing underpants yet his has holes in all of them from playing with his pecker.Oooops we didn't advertise that did we? He also went to CVS and bought Nair and tried acting like it was for my daughter so he could shave his d**k and his  balls like a newborn robin. Talk about ridiculous! Manscaping is one thing but who wants to feel like you are sleeping with a 12 year old.  That's when he got into the choking and slapping. Its all good... Like I said I'd like to slap him into next week   alright and choke him too only I wouldn't let that belt to loose for air at this point in the game.  Just a lil' too kinky America? believe me it gets better  maybe Kirk should write novels instead of bashing people on the internet!

Why would you go out of your way to feel it necessary to tell me that your parents have not given you a dime. You sure as hell should not be asking them. I think they bailed you out enough after the stunt you pulled with your son. However, it happens to be a lie!  No, they may not have given you money for anything you just made them sign there name on a dotted line for 2 cars and your insurance as well.  Give em' a break already you are going to suck em' dry!

Dianne- Breaking into his e-mail? There is a differnce between hacking into someone's e-mail and typing 2 lines.  So in other words this a*****e puts my personal info. on the internet and I erase it and I did something wrong? Ummmm Where did this all start?  I can do it today if I wanted too, I just  really don't care to.  True I found it sad to see in there that he was pulling the same bullshit on her that he was to me and I actually sympathized, because you claim that you "love" someone but Kirks idea of that and everyone else's is different.  Love is not supposed to hurt, love is supposed to feel good.  I don't think that would feel good to anyone despite what my personal feelings are about them.  You see "Dianne" it was after I erased his inbox, outbox, trash and sent mail and everything when I saw my name on the same page that I saw that he wasted no time with this one.  At least give it a chance long enough to let the paint dry.  But when Kirk saw and remembered everything that was in there that I saw I think he just plain s**t his pants and then started putting on the act that "Oh Kim didn't want you to think this or that"  It was not 30 seconds, I received an e-mail 4 mos. later saying you got under her skin!  Not to worry I've been there, done that and I really don't wish that on anyone.  Maybe that stuff does not bother her but it bothered me, I did not want my kids thinking that was the way a marriage was supposed to be so after 3 years I got tired of it and decided I was doing them more harm by staying and allowing it to go on then I would be to leave it and make it without him.  If defying someone and betraying them like that is love then No thanks. Maybe she doesn't mind being second to some stranger, I personally did, call me crazy. I wanted all or nothing, I'm not into the swinging and sharing but that's  just me.  Taking somoene's side just because they are a "woman" is not a very good reason, you should take someone side because you feel they are right not because they are female. 

Just trying to help?-  The case is in Macomb County. And courts can do what ever they want to do which is where you will see we tried to avoid them but no luck thanks to Kirk.  I am the one who always said that he should speak to his dad when with me and me when our son was with his dad, I felt it would build up some sense of security when there was an absent parent in the situation. The kid would ask his dad to use his phone and call me, and all he would get is "Why, what do you want to say?  So in other words it is okay for Kirk to call his mommy everyday but not okay for his child.   I bought Nick a cell phone, loaded it with everyone's number,my family, his dads family and even his wifes family,  he could call anyone at anytime then his father was jealous and took the phone away from him. The courts saw this to be as stupid and cruel as I did and ordered the phone contact.

Kirk knows that at the time he could have picked up the phone at any time or come by our house and asked if Nick could go to a movie, or to the batting cages or out for some dinner just to see his dad a little more and it would have been fine with me, but now we have to be more concerned with him  wanting to come here just to pop holes in my tires just like he did when he spent more time at our sons performance last January excusing himself from his seat and popping tires out of my car then he did watching his son sing on stage.  I wonder how he would have felt if it had caused a blow out on Woodward and his son was killed in a car accident.

The courts know when a situation is completely out of control, they have yelled at him in court, told his wife to "shut up or get out" and do not want to hear from people outside the situation.  That is also why I fought to have him a weekend out of the month, he had no time to spend with my family at all.  When he wanted to stay home one weekend when he was not feeling well his dad would not let him and took him to his house only to leave him alone for the night without someone that could be there for him when he was sick.  I am glad to have him home the whole weekend, he is doing great!  and even his grandma recognized that.  She went out of her way to say how organized Nick has become, how he puts his clothes out the night before school, makes sure everything was in his back pack and got to bed on time.   Nick did speak with a counselor during the summer, him and I went there together actually to help him sort out some things that he could not deal with on his own.    I think Kirk is a straight up a*****e, personally I think Nick deserved a father that wanted to spend some time with him even if it was an hour a day.  I am sure I am guilty of him over hearing my frustration of how he was treated and now I just keep it to myself.   It is still his father and if I knock his dad I am basically knocking him so I let Nick make his own decisions for his own feelings.   

He is not the idiot Kim and Kirk make him out to be, not even close, he truly knows what they are about but he also deals with it very well.  He loves his dad, and he knows that some of these issues he deals with are going to be life lasting so has a pretty good grip on it as good as a young boy possibly could.   I found it very sad about a year ago when  Nick was playing with his buddy and I was talking to his mom and we had just had another Kirk/Kim incident and his friend asked him "Nick, why does your dad do that kind of stuff?"  his response was simply, "My dad has a lot of problems"  I know he was hurt but I also felt it was too much for him to handle.   This was a while ago when my kids came home from school, hit the answering machine and Kirk left not one, not two but three messages and was making fun of my mom being sick, calling our family a bunch of Niggers turned inside out and saying nasty things about my daughter.  That kid literally lost any sense of respect he could of ever had for his dad.  I believe the words that came out of his mouth was "What an a*****e!"   I don't condone that kind of language and my son does NOT have a potty mouth but it was the only word that fit according to him and I could not agree more.  Yet to this day he will still say "I love you " to his dad, because he knows the situation is what it is, it is not going to change so he can either accept it and handle it like a young man the way he does or he can turn into this destructive, bitter, delinquen tween that his dad and step-mom would love to see.  I specifically remember him saying "I'm never going to do that kind of stuff to my kid"  And he won't!  Nicholas will be a great father someday, any kid would be lucky to have him.

I don't baby my son when it comes to things like that.  I let him have his feelings, own them and not tell him how to feel because it is not my parent and I don't know how he feels.  I think it all embarasses him more than it makes him angry. I have told him you only have one mother and one father so you try to make the best of  your situations.   I don't bash his dad around him at ALL and I have plenty to say believe me!  I have also seen first hand that by speaking only positive about  him it actually makes Nick have more respect for me  if anything. Oh, I will not say I have never said anything negative but it has been a long time.  But we also learned that a parent builds their own relationship with their child no matter what, the easy thing to do is blame someone else. Alex has grown up having her dad bashed left and right by Kirk because he did not like the fact that he did not pay child support, I did not like it either but I never told him he could not be in her life and I could not have if I wanted to.   If anything I got myself in trouble by going out of my way to get her to her dad if anything.  I can see it did not hurt any she has a great relationship him.  We may not always be on the same page but the bottom line is we both love our daughter and if she's happy we are happy.

I won't be on here for a while I've said what I had to say, I am sure by the next few mos. Nicholas will be a terrorist,  Alex will be a stripper and I would have been running the Mob in Birmingham.

That is literally the dumbest report and rebuttal I have ever seen written.  Don't tell me she spoke and you typed?  Robotman okay,, I'll call myself Android woman.  As I am sure everyone has figured out that if someone broke into someone's bank account they would pretty much be sitting in jail.  Let me get this straight, so in other words I went in your e-mail and erased my personal information and in your e-mail you have your brothers bank account, your parents bank account and the code to do all of this.  Forget health care I should be working for Nasa. 

You can stop shitting your pants over Al Pacino following you and slitting your throat like a pez dispenser.  Maybe the mafia rolls that way but I don't.   You're still here aren't you? I see enough blood at work I'm not into finishing people off, not even you! 

Kimmy you need to stay where you belong in this whole senerial in the background. One second I got you typing me some gramatically correct e-mail stating how happy you are with my "ex-husband" and the next you were complaining to me that he sleeps all day and you pay all the bills. I don't need you to express any concern over my kids being screwed up just worry abou the 2 you already have. Mine are fine, I have no problems with either of them.  Just because Nicholas is in the book club, and isn't a bully and has a sweet disposition doesn't make him some wimp.  You should be so lucky!

I don't listen in on my sons conversations, why don't you shut your pot hole and ask him for yourself.  He's 11 Kimmy not 20, so when something is upsetting him then he will confide. Kirks done this all summer long and finally he came out and said why does he do that.  Don't tell me you were just sitting on your a*s the whole time listening to his dad talk to him or did you bother for a second to say "Kirk, stop lying that is ridiculous.  Anybody that would drive some guy they hardly know around to destroy his kids mothers car does not hold much ground at all I promise you.

If anything I would think that listening to your husband constantly go on and on and on about me rather it be on paper or in person  would get a little old after a while.  Don't tell me  you were in the bathroom taking a s**t when he texted me literally 32 times while you were "supposedly  out to dinner with Dr. Todd and his wife. Now that's what I call marital bliss.  I'm glad that's okay with you because I find it rather rude, to you Todd and his wife quite honestly.

First of all I could give a flying f**k where you live at. Just for starters if I really wanted to know Kirk would be bound by law to tell me if it is a place my son resides at overnight so get over yourself.  I found it more upsetting as to why you would lie about it.  You don't live in Walled Lake you live in Wixom, what's so wrong with that? They are neighbors.  You were the one that went out of your way to tell ME  "Oh, Kirk and I just moved into brand new condo's in Walled Lake that cost $950.00 a month. I didn't ask you cause I really didn't care to know and if I did I would have found out on my own. I just don't know why you would lie.  They are less than $700 a month big deal!!!!   I don't care if I live 10 places in 2 years what's it to you?????  My concern was not where I lived it was keeping the kids in their schools.

My son  DOES have respect and so does my daughter for that matter. I can't speak for the Wixom people that you feel are so much better than they are  but try attending a parent teacher confereance with Kirk sometime and drop the euchre' game at night and mention his name to anyone in that school and all I ever get is what a well polished, polite young man he is, so as far as you saying he's just this rude lil' delinquent you can go f**k yourself and worrry about your own son and I will worry about mine.I can't imagine he has a very high regard for you with the way you speak to him anyway way.   Amazing really last night him and the other student council members along with his girlfriend  made about 300 pancakes for the event last night and the lady that I car pool with for catacism told me how proud I should be of Nick, I believe her comment was "What a nice kid Lisa" However thanks for your concern anyways.  I'm supposed to be taking motherly advice from a woman that called her overweight son a "f****s" to his face. Pretty cruel if you asked me.   How would you like it if he took some flaws that are pretty evidant on yourself and made fun of you?   "Kirk wants to talk and I take no responsibility in what he writes? "  I'll meet up w/you in study hall...What are we like 12?

How in the world would my families business possibly effect you in anyway Kirk?  David being in Jail and stealing? Yes we know you would know nothing about that, funny actually I ran into Brianna about 3 mos. ago and she recognized me, I did not know her and she kept saying "I was at your wedding with Brian"  I'm thinking Wow, I can't place this person and then she said "Kirk got fired from Papa Johns for stealing money from the toys for tots drawer and how you tried to set it up like it was some other guy there"  And then yes I knew who she was.  Yeah, stealing and jail only something David Markowicz would know about.  You had bullets flying in your family, you know the one that has no "divorces" in it but you didn't see  me blaming that on you.  Get a grip, seriously.  

Post pardum what are you talking about. That happens AFTER birth not while in gestation, go talk to your local ob/gyn.  You mean when I was crying at an at&t commercial AFTER I had our son? If Iwas stressed out it was because you kept calling me from the Sycomore hotel and crying on the phone that your parents took all the camera and video equiptment I bought you to tape your newborn son and then kept rattling on about the way you ran-sacked your dads gas station and the next thing I know me and your 6 day old son are bailing you out of a mental institution. Remember you hid your wristband in the back of his diaper while in his car seat?   Do I have that right???  Or has Nicholas' lying rubbed off on me???  As far as my mom goes the only thing she did was hold the door open for you when you had no where to go, I don't think that memory is serving you correctly.

The rest of your family I will keep out of it, I have plenty that could be said, I think you get my drift...The whole thing is who cares???  Would you like me to read through all your stories and comment on them?  Lets see here.

"Confused and Euchre Nut" -Why would euchre nut be wondering who divorced who? What does that have to do with anything?  I'm supposed to worry about who is googling my name and what sites my info. is on? Maybe you should be just as concerned I would think. I however don't really care.   "The guy loves his son, he's cool in my book"  Thats funny most people that "love their children"  defend them if anything, they don't go out of there way to tell the world they don't want to be in their life anymore ( thats an old one believe me") and refer to their own son as a coward, a punk and piece of s**t"    Well "euchre-nut"  the names got it half right, you must be a nut!!!

Michelle from F.O.C.  --  Shhhhhh!  Quiet, I could get in trouble for this and lose my sensored de-coder ring if I get caught. Sensor, sensor, bleep, bleep.   Lets see you have Erin Grant that was killed and cut up and thrown around Stoney Creek by her husband  Steven Grant yet the media and the f.o.c wants to focus on the Kirk and Lia Huddleston case. Hmmmmmmmmmm.  That makes lots of sense.  The motions, the e-mails, the denials, the lies, the documents  Oh, and lets not forget the proof of service it's all in our file the case number is 2007-000-481 DM.  Now everyone can go and read for themself and I think I need not say anymore. And while you're  there please find the criminal record in the divorce proceedings because that must have been somoene else, I've never seen it.  A brief case? a stack of papers?  wouldn't you think the attorney being paid to handle this case would have all of this so why would I ?????   My hair, don't tell me it looked like someone dropped a gallon of peroxide on it?  My clothes YES they were my scrubs, because I was always coming from work, something Kirk knew nothing about.   That would be like me going out of my way to say that his wife would be wearing black shoes, black pants, a black coat and a red shirt  and Kirk would be wearing a light green shirt with a blue tie and a tan suit. Thats it!!!  Next time no same clothes for anyone!!!  Deal?  After Kirk files his motion that he does not wish visitation with his son anymore and does not want him to call at least thats what his e-mail and phone message says and the order gets changed we all promise to wear new clothes my lawyer included, and yours to Kirk. One min. its a woman then a man, then a transvestite just stick w/ one I can't keep up. Yes this is surely the kind of guy that should have his son living in his house, he complains about taking him to watch him play ball on an early Sat,   Please!!!!

How Awful---- I think this letter was supposed to be coming from Kirks Uncle.  Nice guy and believe me even the typing is not believeable.  This guy if anyone has tried to help set Kirk on the right path so along with his brother and folks I have nothing bad to say about him, I'm just sorry that Kirk even used him like that.   I think we should bring Ivory back to life and put Kirk to sleep, maybe we'll just give him some anti-freeze instead of our dog.  You got an a*****e that is making  comments of how his buddy at shore mortgage " a coke head mind you" told him that a table spoon of anti-freeze would put a dog down in days and we come home to find ours thrown in an 80 degree garage with the bottle on the floor with fork holes poked through the bottom of it along with a dead dog literally in hours and "Oh my gosh" how could our 10 and 5 year old have figured this out?????  I'd love to pay for the polygraph test on that one.  I would literally bet my kids lives on it!!  Its done, Kirk , its over, just own it and move on, who the hell are you trying to kid?

Passive Aggressive- On a photo it would be found in the prefrontal cortex of the brain, in a nutshell (no pun intended)  It controls the part of the brain to act in a way that is considered to be socially appropriate.  Examples - deliberate inefficiency, forgetfullness, always blaming others, stubborn, mean, hurtful and very hostile.  I did not learn this on Oprah it was honestly explained to me by a counselor.....Kirks.

How could Kim have seen Kirk as a "handsome soon to be available man" Now that goes to show the blatent lies in here.  It was his own wife that told me Kirk had expressed to her that he was already divorced when he met her. That would be called simply Lying.   There is a differnece with a woman being "good for someone" and "enabling to them"  there is the difference right there.  The plain reason WHY Kirk absolutely was a better father when he was with me was because despite everything there was some sense of  balance in his life, we had too many responsibilities to live the life that they do now.  Family was important to him at that time.  His son came first, not last. Being a soccer coach meant more than catching last call with the taxi driver for the destructive. 

How could Kirks Uncle be sick and tired of hearing that he "cheated" on me?  I never told him that.  I was always good to his family especially his grandmother so we know who wrote that one too.  I think if she were alive she would be telling Kirk to shut his big bazoo and not someone else. I went to her house all the time and cleaned for her and then we always went out to lunch together.  It seemed to me she enjoyed my company and appreciated the help so that hardly makes any sense at all only to Kirk of coarse the deceased can't defent themselves.  And if his grandmother ever heard you making her great-grandson out to be this  f**k up that you do  she would be calling you a wrinkley faced, peroxide headed ugly s***k a*s w***e c**t!  She was a fiesty one but not a force to be wreckened with. And his great-grandfather adored my daughter and if he heard you talking about her like that he would have simply slapped you upside your head where I'm sure the carpet doesn't match the drapes.

Ashamed to be seen with ME? then it looks like history must be repeating itself huh? Like I said who are you trying to convince me or you?

Michelle- Another Michelle what a concidence.  "I don't like to work with her' Thats amazing one thing Kirk and I never had in common. I don't have a problem getting along with people and I never have and neither do my children for that matter. Sitting down 3/4 of my shift. Hmmm sadly there were hundreds and hundreds of people laid off from the hospital and I managed to keep my job so I must not be the slacker I'm made out to be huh Kirk?  I'm not like you, I am just grateful to have a job to take care of my kids unlike Kirk I don't wish anyone to not have their employment which is why I would not go out of my way to try and start problems at their job.  How could I  have never "met them" they were all at my wedding!  A few holes in your story Kirk just like the ones in your head.
And there was nobody in my departments that worked only 2 days a week.

Flipper- Was your mom mad when you were born? Tough break!  - My daughter is a thief now along with my son?  So in other words I went to my daughters school but it was when I was teaching catacism and she stole something that she told 3 people about and the whole time she was bra-less.  There goes Kirk again, talking about his step-daughter not wearing a bra.   Ummmm if Alex ends up swinging on poles topless like Kirk seems to think then we will just change her name from Alexandara to Bra-less babe.  No wonder she flipped him off, what a pervert! As far as I'm concerned its about time someone told him to f**k off!! It was long over due.  Though I don't teach my kids to do that just like when Kirk was stealing and breaking in peoples houses his parents didn't teach him to do that, I am not mad at her.  She was sticking up for her little brother and has seen this guy put this kid through hell, so, like I said telling him where to go was long over due.  So he can stop directing it at his parents they know better as well.  It's this kind of attitude and behavior that has caused his father the dissapointment that he has felt over the years. Kirks father could walk circles around him.   Its just like Pa always said.  "For Christ sake Kirk can you just STOP"  but as you can see it wasn't fatherly advice he ever took.  There was a time while we were married that  his dad could not have been more proud of him, but, the day he blamed our son for pouring a gallon of O.J. in my computer his dad himself said "Thats just bullshit" and he is right it is.  Nicest guy you will ever meet and he doesn't even appreciate his dad like he should.

Phillip and Amanda L.  Gee, I wonder where these names came from.  Who the hell cares if they slept in different rooms when he met her.  Then he must not have been drunk enough, maybe from the party.  Kirk would sleep with what he calls a 3 O'clock lay if it was available.  I think Kirk knows exactly what I am talking about. We wouldn't want somone that has too much baggage would we Kirk?  Kirks decided to go commando??  He is worried about who is and is not wearing underpants yet his has holes in all of them from playing with his pecker.Oooops we didn't advertise that did we? He also went to CVS and bought Nair and tried acting like it was for my daughter so he could shave his d**k and his  balls like a newborn robin. Talk about ridiculous! Manscaping is one thing but who wants to feel like you are sleeping with a 12 year old.  That's when he got into the choking and slapping. Like I said I'd like to slap him  alright and choke him too only I wouldn't let that belt to loose for air at this point in the game.  Just a lil' too kinky America? believe me it gets better  maybe Kirk should write novels instead of bashing people on  blogs.

Why would you go out of your way to feel it necessary to tell me that your parents have not given you a dime. You sure as hell should not be asking them. I think they bailed you out enough after the stunt you pulled with your son. However, it happens to be a lie!  No, they may not have given you money for anything you just made them sign there name on a dotted line for 2 cars and your insurance as well.  Give em' a break already you are going to suck em' dry!

Dianne- Breaking into his e-mail? There is a differnce between hacking into someone's e-mail and typing 2 lines.  So in other words this a*****e puts my personal info. on the internet and I erase it and I did something wrong? Ummmm Where did this all start?  I can do it today if I wanted too, I just  really don't care to.  True I found it sad to see in there that he was pulling the same bullshit on her that he was to me and I actually sympathized, because you claim that you "love" someone but Kirks idea of that and everyone else's is different.  Love is not supposed to hurt, love is supposed to feel good.  I don't think that would feel good to anyone despite what my personal feelings are about them.  You see "Dianne" it was after I erased his inbox, outbox, trash and sent mail and everything when I saw my name on the same page that I saw that he wasted no time with this one.  At least give it a chance long enough to let the paint dry.  But when Kirk saw and remembered everything that was in there that I saw I think he just plain s**t his pants and then started putting on the act that "Oh Kim didn't want you to think this or that"  It was not 30 seconds I recieved an e-mail 4 mos. later saying you got under her skin!  Not to worry I've been there, done that and I really don't wish that on anyone.  Maybe that stuff does not bother her but it bothered me, I did not want my kids thinking that was the way a marriage was supposed to be so after 3 years I got tired of it and decided I was doing them more harm by staying and allowing it to go on then I would be to leave it and make it without him.  If defying someone and betraying them like that is love then No thanks. Maybe she doesn't mind being second to some stranger, I personally did call me crazy. I wanted all or nothing but thats just me.  Taking somoene's side just because they are a "woman" is not a very good reason, you should take someone side because you feel they are right not because they are female. 

I won't be on here for a while I've said what I had to say, I am sure by the next few mos. Nicholas will be a terrorist, Alex will be a stripper and I would have been running the Mob in Birmingham.

I have found this woman's name on three different websites so it caught my attention.  I live in Southeastern Michigan.  What kind of court would have a court order for a child to call a parent?  How would they have jurisdiction over something like that?  Is sounds like a lot of stress on the little boy.

Is this Oakland or Macomb?  I really don't to take sides since I don't know any of the parties; however, what is the good of this being all over the internet?  Why is this mother such a control freak?   I mean is there reason to be?  Did something happen other than the fact that neither of you like each other?  I don't buy too much into the He Said/She Said stuff.  And since the stories are both so extreme from one end to the other, there is clearly a lot of lying going on somewhere.

I guess my only comment is why doesn't the mother just let the father see his son?  All this is doing is hurting the boy.  I'm 50 years old.  My kids are grown.  I use to practically beg for their father to come pick up his kids.  Why doesn't she just let him see his son? 

I don't know this woman but she writes pages and pages. Why not just let the kid go to see his dad and the whole situation would just cease? It sounds to me like that is what the mission is here.   Getting the courts involved is the worse thing you can do.  I never went through the courts myself.  I saw too many of my friends go through the courts and all it does is make the father resentful, because they do treat the fathers bad, and the kids just end up suffering.

This father seems a little over the top but if he's been through Oakland or Macomb County then I can almost understand why.   This little boy needs to know that both parents love him and hear positive things about both of his parents from the other one.   I forgot how old he was but I would suggest find a resolution real soon before he gets older.

Does your mouth ever stop, Lisa?  Every family has their own dirty laundry.  The difference between everyone else and you is that everyone else doesn't have to break into bank accounts, emails accounts, computer tracking programs.

I'm very happy with your ex-husband.  We have a nice family here and we plan on keeping it that way.  You honestly made an a*s out of yourself.  The fact that you have to listen in on your own son's phone conversation is plain sick.  It's shows quite a bit of insecurity.  Kirk seems to think that you have your son reporting every little detail of every conversation.  My opinion is that it is you listening in because you are so jealous that me and Kirk enjoy each other's company and that you don't have anyone. 

The humorous thing about it all is, just like Kirk said, "Big" hasn't worked at Hungry Howies for at least two months.  He works at Whitmore Lake now.  You can call there and check if you want.  I just think it's amusing that you are so concerned with what MY husband is doing all the time.  You come across as an obsessed little school girl.  It's like our address.  Kirk bet me that you would go through the trouble of finding out where we lived with two weeks.  I told him he was wrong.  Well, it was about one week.  The bottom line is, why do you care where he lives? 

I told Kirk months ago, and I finally got Kirk to admit himself as of late.  Your son is going to be in a lot of trouble as he gets older.  And I don't say that because he's not a sweet little boy.  He is a terrific kid.  But you have got him so screwed up.  Your son needs to learn and respect his mother AND his father.  And you've turned his father into a joke.  You send that little boy over here with the intentions of spying on his own father and that's just wrong.  What kind of 11 year old boy steals an electric bill and puts it in his school backpack?  I mean come on.   And don't say it must have been an accident.  He was watched doing it.   Kirk loves Nicholas.  Maybe you and Kirk can't stand each other but there is absolutely no reason that you needed to pull the BS that you have.  I don't see why you would want to hurt Nicholas.  I tell you this, Lisa, because I went through.  I come from a divorced family.  I ended up okay.  My brother ended up DEAD.  He never got over my dad leaving.  And my dad is a wonderful man but my mom made his miserable, just like you're doing.

YOU divorced him.  So why do you have to know what he is doing all the time?  I didn't read all of your non-sense because that's all it ever is with you.  I did see some mention about how his brother should knock me and Kirk out.  Are you crazy? I mean seriously are you?  I was there that day.  I saw what happened.  His brother was wrong.  And even his parents will admit that.  And one of the reason Kirk got into it, was because he wanted his son to know that you can't always back down in life.  He didn't really like his son seeing that whole incident but he knew if wasn't the first time Nicholas had seen his uncle acting like a jerk and it was about time he showed his son that you have to stand up to people.  But you see, you weren't there, so you wouldn't know that.  I've said my peace, now Kirk wants to talk.  I take no responsibility for what he is going to say.

Thank you.  So you want to sling mud?  I'll sling mud.  I have nothing to lose, Lisa.  You lied about me from the minute you filed a divorce so I have no more shame.  Let's first start to put some names out there.  Tell your family how you got me going and just didn't know when to stop. 

Let's start with ole' Richard Markowicz nailing his own brothers wife, Evelyn Markowicz for 20 years while he was married to Marietta Markowicz.  Or how about Mark Markowicz building a house for Tina Woodward, aka Tina Rudder, aka Tina Markowicz and while he's building her a house, as a married man he buys her a nice pair of breasts.  But then Tina wasn't happy with those breasts so her bought her some bigger ones.   Or how about the affair she had that Mark still doesn't know about?  Or we can talk about the IRS going after Mark Markowicz and Marietta Markowicz both at one time for tax evasion?  Should I go on?  How about Audrey Markowicz telling you how she got sick to her stomach when she had to sleep with Ricardo Markowicz?  I can go on. How about your cousin, David Markowicz going to prison from stealing bonds from his dad, Eugene Markowicz, and god knows what else?  How about Marietta calling me up calling me up SIX months after we got married and bought our first new home?  YOU moved out of the house and signed a lease on an apartment after MY parents co-signed on a home for us, which we bought for zero down.  And after 9-11 the value dropped tremendously. And your mother calls me and starts an argument about where was your EQUITY.  That was all-time the dumbest comment I have ever heard.  Other than the time that she tried to explain to me and my parents that you were suffering from POST-partem syndrom WHILE you were carrying our son.  That was #2 dumbest thing I've ever heard.

You have told so many lies about me from day one, that I don't care any more. Personally, I never cared about what anyone thought about me with the exception of my son. But you've lied to him so much that it's going to take years of psychotherapy to fix what you've done to him. Any woman that tells a little boy that his father killed his dog is a sick woman.   I know, you're family is close with the Italian mafia and I better watch my back.  Bring it on, baby.

Did I make sure that all of your buddies at Beaumont know that you don't own any underwear and never have?....which is not a pretty site.   I don't know what more you want.  You need to understand what a 'divorce' means.  It seems to me that Nicholas was a happy little boy when I was around.  When you get a divorce, you don't have the right to break into your ex-husband's email or check his parents and savings account out any more.  Or do a background check on his new wife. 

I don't know what your problem in life is but it's not my problem any more. Hell, even John Temrowski told my attorney in court last time that you needed a psychological exam.  The truth be known, I probably do too but mine is all stress related and it will pass.  Right now, I'm venting. 

Now you are starting to upset me, Lisa.  You seem to forget, between my 'grandson' and my son they share the same last name.  So when you drag their name through the mud, you drag mine through the mud.

I sometimes try and see your side but in most cases, you bring all of your problems upon yourself.  Kirk has always been a good father to not only your son(and my grandson) but to your daughter as well.  I am ashamed to ever admit that I know you when you throw around the words 'child molestation' and 'abandonment'.  I honestly try to stay out of things and keep my mouth shut but when you throws those words around like it was nothing.

You have fought dirty since day one.  If Marietta was still alive I think she would be ashamed of the way you conducted yourself and call yourself a mother at the same time.  Kirk doesn't always make the best decisions but he has never wanted to not see his son.  If it were up to him, he would have Nicholas all the time.  But because you have gone into court and cost US thousands of dollars every time you get on your 'soapbox' and want to prove a point, Kirk just chose to throw in the towel.  He can't afford it anymore and neither can we.

So before you try and call someone out for abandonment, bring him over to our (or Kirks's) doorstep and let him stay here as long as he wants. Your father abandoned his family, my son did no such thing. 

YOU are the one that filed for a divorce.  YOU are the one that got reprimanded by the court for filing what they consider a false police report and report with child protective services. YOU were the one that tried to hire that sleezy John Temrowski and say that my son molested your daughter, YOU are the one that can't seem to just leave my son alone now that he is married and happy.  YOU are the one that filed a false domestic violence charge that the courts had to drop because you admitted to lying.  And not just once but also again in 2002.  Personally, I don't know how you keep getting away with it.

YOU were the one that broke into his email account and checked into mine and Don's checking accounts and CDs. YOU were the one that broke into my other son's bank account because you thought it was funny.

Our door is open to our grandson any time he wants.  Don't try and compare our family to yours.  No one has ever been divorced in this family.  We all manage to get along when the day is over. You are the one that had your father having a 20 year affair with your aunt.  Therefore, you don't know if your cousin is a cousin or a brother.  You are the one that had a brother leave a 20 year marriage and three kids for a bimbo that he bought, not one but TWO breasts implants for.  Actually four, if you count each breast.

But I guess I forgot, you're a good catholic family.

I don't want my name thrown into this whole saga so I just came up with Robotman as screen name. I'm new to all this but now I've heard about it.

Kirk, I'm disappointed in you.  I'm disappointed in the fact that you are letting this woman get you going like this. Why are you wasting an ounce of energy on her? Lisa always knew how to push your buttons.  Look at your life now and how much better it is.  Forget about her.  Anyone that knows you, knows that you are a great father.  That little boy loves you.  I haven't seen him in quite some time but he loves his daddy. You went after getting your son with, 3-4 lawyers.  He would have been better off with you, we all know that.  You work two jobs to support him and your wife.  You fought the good fight and you lost. If she considers that abandonment then she's as crazy as we've always known she is.  Didn't you have him two-thirds of the summer??  I don't think that is abandonment.   Michigan is a woman's state.    She could be a crackhead and you could be a buddha monk and she would win.  Everyone that cares about you, knows that you didn't abandon your son.  Lisa is crazy.  You should be happy that she's out of your life.  There's no need to explain anything to anyone.

IF THIS HELPS(AND I CAN ATTEST THAT IT IS TRUE) I SAW KIRK JUST THIS PAST WEEKEND WITH HIS SON PLAYING BASKETBALL.  So I don't where this idiot comes up with abandonment.  I don't think she even knows what the word means.  Didn't she move out of the your marital home TWICE in the first year?????????????? Isn't that abandonment?  I believe you have a marriage certificate and two apartment lease contracts that will prove that.

You had a beautiful son with an evil, rotten to the core woman.  Over the years, your grandmother must have met a half dozen or more of your girlfriends.   The first day she met Lisa, she told you that Lisa was trouble.  God bless your grandmother but she knew.  And God knows that she didn't like everyone anyways but she knew Lisa was trouble.  And what did your mother day, when you brought Kim home?  And you are happily married too, correct?  You're older and wiser, Lisa is part of your past.  You need to bury it and move on.  Putting this non-sense all over the internet is nothing but a waste of time. 

Nicholas is a smart, intelligent little boy.  He'll figure her out one day.  That poor little boy misses his father, you can tell by looking at him.  But she has him so afraid to talk to you or anything that doesn't show his complete devotion and loyalty to his mother.  From what I've heard the daughter already has figured her out. 

I hope this helps. I realize that you need someone to come to your defense and that was the purpose of me writing this.  Otherwise, I wouldn't have bothered just because I don't think she's worth the time.   If anyone out there is listening to this whole saga, Kirk is a wonderful father, with nothing to be ashamed of.

I won't even bother to address Lisa. There is nothing you are ever going to say to her that is going to change what she is.  And you have to remember that too Kirk.  She's rotten and evil and you're not going to change that.

Good luck, Kirk, our door is always open.

Kirk likes to write for himself in place of "Lawrence". This is the only person you will ever meet that continues to go out of his way to say "I am not ashamed to work at a pizza joint but says it three times between voice mail, text messages and now on this website. In today's economy you would think he would be grateful to just have a job period. And now of coarse we have Larry.   Another concerned person that just arbitrarily reads Kirks b***h blog and has an opinion all his own.

Yes "Larry" it is true my son did speak to his dad last week in his own room with the door closed.  I don't have to listen to his conversations that would be Kirk not me.  And the minute he got off the phone said "Why does he do that kind of stuff Mom?"  When I said "What" He continued to say, He acts like he's one place but he is really at another. I don't know who "Big" is but Nick obviously did because he heard him loud and clear in the back ground.  He must have moved from Hungry Howies to the Whitney where Kirk was dining.   Or he tries to make him feel jealous because he is out doing something fun that maybe he would enjoy and basically tries to rub it in his own child's face.  Yeah, that's father of the year there talking. Bitches about paying about ten bucks a day to help care for a child that he brought into this world yet tries to make an eleven year old feel less then because he just missed that golden opportunity once again.  The sad thing is he's been going on and on since the summer that he does this every time he speaks with him.   So in other words our son is there a week at a time in the summer but misses out on all of this stuff and the second he is home is when it all occurs.  You would think a father if anything would try and spare his kids feelings but then again in this relationship Kirk is the child and unfortunately our son plays the role as the bigger person.

What dummy would sit there and ditch his kid for 4 days in a row when he was supposed to be with "Dad" and then go out of his way and tell him "I swallowed too many pills and I had to go away for a while. We are talking about an at the time 10 year old, like he really needs to hear that. Daddy was busy would have sufficed him. A little to much info. for him Kirk he is a child though you seem to forget that.

 You got someone that has enough issues to deal with as it is and then let him pop one to many pills and wash it down with the usual nightcaps and then of coarse you are going to have a train wreck on your hands.   You would think someone would care enough to get him some help if anything.  Today I received a voicemail that pretty much was laughed at of a grown man literally Whining on the phone.  His wife wears the pants in this relationship literally so she puts up with his sh*t, I don't.  I don't believe in treating a 41 year old man like some kind of wimp a*s pu*y that can't remember where his d*k is at  much less that he has a child that needs some attn.

  I felt like I was dealing with my son when he was 2 and wanted his bottle back. Kirk Huddlestons problem is he does not know what he wants.  We are all supposed to sit there and cry and flop around like fish out of water because he decides to take another hiatis and start the ole'  " I can't spend time with my son anymore" AGAIN!!
Kudos though he's early this year, he usually starts this between Thanksgiving and Christmas.   I honestly could not get the call straight. "I want my son I don't want my son, I am taking him, No! I am not taking him. I have to work all weekend, I have to go to Paris.  I'm a d**k, I'm a good guy, I care, you suck. I have a job, I don't have a job.  I'm quitting work, I'm not working for anyone I am self employed. Get a grip and make up your f**king mind already.

Somehow, someway, somewhere out there Lawrence and I mean way the hell out there Kirk seemed to think that I count on him to help care for our son.  I don't.  If he helps with him thats great, if he does'nt  It does not change my life at all.   Believe me his next intimidation move will be "I want to sign over my parental rights" And to make this all more laughable when you are dealing with such an a*****e this guy is carrying on and on over my voicemail telling me "Don't push Nick off on my parents" Now mind you these are the weekends that Kirk is responsible for his son.  Blah, Blah, Blah and then only to have my sons Grandma go out of her way to tell me that they could not have picked him up on Friday anyway because they were going out of town.  SO IN OTHER WORDS Kirk volunteered his parents to care for our child on HIS weekend time with him only they were never even asked it was all just assumed.  I got the message that his father was not taking him and made arrangements for him by my break at lunch time. AGAIN it does not bother me at all.  Unlike Kirk I enjoy being with Nicholas, he's funny, smart, and bright despite the dummy Kirk tries to make him out to be.  I enjoy his company and have no problem planning my day around his needs, Its called parenting something Kirk knows nothing about.
 

Here this boneheads trying to convince you, his family, his grandparents and of coarse the faithful readers of this sight that our son can't multiply but was shocked that according to our son every times table he asked him he knew.  You would think a father even worthy of calling themself one would have something nice and positive to say about their  son but of coarse you have Kirk Huddleston on this sight bashing his own kid over some numbers.  He can't bother to participate in anything concerning his academic life yet he worries about how many days of school he misses.  The funniest part is his a*s was almost brought to court over truency because he could not get his own kid up in the mornings to take him to kindergarten while I was  out working yet he worries about his absentee record. He ought to take a lesson from his brother, he tries to knock the guy every chance he gets but at least he is there for his kids and works hard to help take care of them.

I already told Nicks grandma today that he did not need to be picked up this weekend and I had already made arrangements for him and that is when she told me that she would not have been able to get him anyway.  Kirks seems to forget that his parents have done their time with their own  kids and ours is not their responsibility.  He makes them feel that his life is just oh so stressful and these people are made to feel like their time with their own grandson is jeopardized if everyone does not kiss his a*s.  His Nana already knows she can see him when she wants to, they are the ones if anyone that have taken a true interest and concern in his life. Kirks seems to forget that it should be okay for them to go out and have a nice weekend with friends or family.  Not everyone has to be there to pick up Kirks slack when he decides to act lazy.  His mom assured me that they want to spend time with him over a weekend so he will be with them the following weekend and maybe Kirk will pop his head in between euchre games.

This is just how full of sh*t Kirk Huddleston is.  Call the Birmingham Police and ask to speak to a Det. Lyons and see if the Birmingham Police apologized to him. If you ever wanted to give yourself away that was it!  Like I said Kirk wants everyone to just kiss his a*s and the only one thats dumb enough to do it would be his wife, thats because she's scared of him.  Sad but true. This is the guy that throws his lunch all over his front door when he doesn't get his way, again like I said its like dealing with a child having a temper tantrum.   His millions of text messages came in about 12:30 pm and the long winded whining voice message at about 1pm.   Talk about obsessed.  Like I said a simple phone call saying "Lisa I can't take Nick this weekend would do"  Then of coarse last year it was his wife calling me every Friday "We can't take Nick" as if she does anything for him.  Another example of Kirk acting like an idiot and her going along with it. I think his parents are just sick and tired of him saddling them with all of his adult responsibilities from money to his own kids. They have been bailing him out since birth.

I would not mind so much dealing with the fact that the guy is a straight up d*k but in my case I am literally dealing with Sybil.  Step off your soap box Kirk,  get your academy award and shut the f*k up already.

I appreciate your input, Lawrence.  My ex-wife is a psycho you've got that part right. I don't put a lot into her rants any more.  I did glance over her last outburst a little.  What's so funny about her comments is that this "Big" hasn't worked for Hungry Howies in over two months now yet it was two weeks ago that I had this conversation with my son.  And the night that I think she is talking about we were going out to dinner.  I want to say it was a Thursday and we were picking up our paychecks.

The point is, she has to know everything I am doing all the time.  I just think that listening to a young boy talking on the phone to his dad is just pathetic.  Personally, I can't stand the sound of her voice.  She'll call me tonight, leave about 5-6 voice mails, one after the other and I will just delete everyone of them without listening to a word she says.  My son is still doing 3rd grade math while he's in the 5th grade because his mother isn't much beyond that herself but I'm supposed to believe he caught who I was talking to, where I was, what task I was doing and a candlelight flickering in the background over a phone line. 

The whole thing is, Lawrence, is that she wants you and everyone to know that I work at Hungry Howies. It seems to empower her to have everyone know that I work at Hungry Howies.  I also have a full time job as well. And I run my own business.  I think she plastered that all over one report as well.  You will notice that it is in every report she writes. 

She just moved for the 5th time in less than two years.  I don't care where she lives, I didn't ask.  My mother told me that she didn't want to know either.  Yet just the other day I get a text message telling me her address.  She keeps thinking I am going to leave my wife for her 350 lb, no underwear wearing, greasy hair, uneducated loser a*s. 

Honestly, I think it's all amusing.  She is jealous.  I'm happy, never turned my back and had any regrets.  My wife and I set her up because I knew she was breaking into my email.  Everyone thought I was crazy until I proved them I was right.  We moved out to the west side and she had to track us down.  My son is so far behind in school it's not even funny.  But she thinks that having him attend 'Birmingham' schools is going to make up for her incompetence.  I tutor K-12 kids for extra income but my own kid is flunking out of school while missing 30-40 days of school.  There's no priority with his education what so ever. 

What she fails to mention to everyone is that while I work at 'Hungry Howies' about 10 hours a week, I work a main job that doesn't allow me to be home much.  And I am an 'educated' man.  The reason I know that she writes all of her own rebuttals is that the dummy spells all the same wrong words.  I've even told her for the last 10 years the words that she spells wrong but she's too stupid to remember which ones I tell her.

I just feel sorry for my son.  Her oldest daughter turned out to be a loser, you would think she would have learned something.  Instead, she has to make the wrong mistakes.  I believe it's Chris Rock that says, "you can drive a car with your feet but it don't make it a good idea."

I'm pretty blunt and honest.  If I have anything to say, whether it be a rebuttal or report, I will say it myself and sign it myself.  If anyone cares to notice, she has at least three rebuttals from different people but they are all signed "Lisa". AND from the same city.   It was after that time that she accused me of writing my own reports as well.

You are a trip.  You really are.  To have the nerve to sit there and blame me for being upset for having to give up a weekend with my son, as I'm down to about 5 days a month of seeing him right now.  Everyone has seen it first hand.  He doesn't see his father as much any more and he's slowly turning into another Alex.  Single mother trying to do it on her own, single mother screwing up--Big Time!  I see Alex couldn't cut it TWO weeks in a new school.  What is she 16 now and have never stayed at the same school for an entire year.  I'll take another quote from Chris Rock.  If the kids don't have lights on in the house to do their school work, that's daddy's fault.  If the kids are just plain dumb because no one is teaching them their school work, that's mommy's fault.  As far as I'm concerned, that's Daddys 2, Mommy 0.

You're a joke. 

 

I'm only writing this because my wife knows who this Markowicz person is.   Lady, you are a wacko.  People get divorced every day.  Get over it and move on.  Men can be real a-holes sometimes.  I will be the first to admit it.  But I don't have to be a psychiatrist to see where the whole problem lies with this scenario.  You are possessive and psychotic like in that movie------Fatal Attraction.

Seriously, who cares where your ex-husband works or where he went to dinner?  Let the boy have a conversation with his dad without you listening.  Isn't this kid, like 13 or 14 or something like that.  I could understand if he was 2 and couldn't hold up the phone easily.  All I see is a lot of people that you are dragging into your personal life and they all seem to think you are a nut.

Me, my family, my lawyer, my daughter, my friends and now our son.  How many people have to be the topic of Kirks own reports and rebuttals???  You are the only guy that I know of that I can sadly say I would love to see you put as much time and effort into our son as you do into me.   I honestly have not  even looked at this in the last 2 mos. and then of coarse I get that e-mail that so many reports in my name have been filed. So if I am not making headlines of what a lousy mother I am I have co-workers that never existed just googling my name for  any reason because they have nothing better to do with there time.

Making up pretend e-mails in my name, still handing out my phone numbers to the Gods in Nigeria waiting to put a half a million dollars in my bank acct. only for the call to come from Ohio.   I just let the authorities keep their own paper trail for the heck of it.  The pretend money orders you keep sending are more comical than helpful because you actually pay people to do this yet you complain about having to help raise our child. Talk about ignorant!  Do you really think anyone would try to cash them???

Oh and FYI the Birmingham Police do not handle anything that occurs while I was at a Troy address.  Yes I said the word was, we are now back in Birmingham and if you would bother to put your keyboard down for ten seconds you would have known that almost 2 weeks ago.  Your son has tried to call you to give  you our new address so that you know where he is living but you are so busy writing your own reports with everyone else's name and making up multiple e-mail addresses that you can't even bother to call the kid back.   He knows the routine, he makes his ordered phone call and you let it go to voicemail and never bother to give him the courtesy of a call back." Hi son, how is your day?" How was your trip?" What is going on in school? "  I know it does not bother him because he is used to it but personally I think it is just piss poor on your part.  Do what you want to me, obviously, but why treat him like he is second choice to a euchre game that can't even get a return call at "break-time"?
He has learned by now that when and if you do answer and you do call him back you will be "In California court-side at a Lakers game"  "Throwing out the first pitch for the Sox" or Climbing Mt. Everest.  Though its all comical to him, I find it mean more than anything, so in other words all of this stuff occurs when he is not there or it is just not his week during the summer.  I always knew better but he caught on before anyone.  That is  how unbelieveable  you are.  

FYI - Last week when you were out for your "candle light dinner" he heard your boss at Hungry Howies I think his nick-name is "Big" talking in the background.  Don't tell me a table for two and a comped meal?  In case you forgot he's 11.

I don't think anyone has to "worry" about Nichoals when he is with me on my weekends he seems to have a good time.  In Sept. he spent time with his family and all his cousins and seemed to be having lots of fun and this passed weekend I could be wrong but my brother and I rented a 36 ft. R.V. and took the all the kids to Halloweekend at Cedar Point camping and I think he had a great time.  He was so excited to tell you about it but God forbid you answer that phone or return the little guys call.  He went to Kalahari resort too and surfed the waves there and he didn't seem to be crying that he was having a rotten time so I would not worry about that too much. 

He does not need sympathy from you or your imaginary friends either. Don't tell me something was wrong again???  Thats funny he's always well dressed, clean, happy, organized and probably the most popular kid in the 5th grade at least with the girls so he seems to have a great sense of self-esteem lately. True he  has been gifted with a beautiful face but the fact that he is kind, thoughtful, polite and respectful according to his teacher does not hurt him either so I must be doing something right. 

I should never have had to "fight" for weekend time with my own son, you should want him to have a good time while you're out climbing Mount Rushmore.  Maybe you don't but people have lives, they work during the week, they have plans, your son attends school, has homework, goes to the library, plays ball, and goes to catacism the weekend is his down time to see my family too not just yours so get over yourself.  Anything important is always planned while he is with me during my weekend or holiday that way it just avoids argument that he would just have to hear about.  You complain about that 2 days a month of him not being there yet when he is you are out playing euchre any chance you get.  That makes no sense to me at all. 

You know like the stunt you pulled over his birthday trying to tell me that plans were made for him to go to the "water park" with his grandparents yet he never made it there.  It was because you were waiting for me to say No.  That is where you and I are different because I would not keep him from something like that.  Oh and your mom? I have probably spoken to Nana about 4 times since our last "court date"  Just so you know I requested this letter of my not following along  with this order and the first sentence told me who wrote it. Strike that,  the second I received a copy of it.  I did request a courtdate back if it was something that had to stay in my "file".    I don't bother your parents or anyone associated with you for that matter. I think that actually bothers you too.   When your mom calls me or I her it has probably been 3 times once to give her a courtesy call that we were running late from up north, the second time she called me to give me basketball practice place and time, and the third was to locate his winter jacket I just bought him.   So the "letter" from grandma that you said was not necessary won't do any good. It would have to be her coming in there herself and raising her hand under oath saying that  I have "bothered" her concerning our son. Not to mention it has nothing to do with parenting time. Unlike yourself she seems to show a concern of what goes on in his life.

Your wife????  I did attempt on one occasion to try and speak with her to get your son home and she sat there telling a little boy "No, No I will get in trouble with your dad".   Seriously grow up and be a step parent and handle a situation like an adult. 

Its just like the "e-mail" you sent me saying  "Well you were really getting under Kims skin"   WHY??? Because you were e-mailing other woman and referring to her as the maid.  Yes, I find it rather disrespectful but she should be considering the source.  I don't even talk to her she is not  the parent of my child you are. Seriously its all just old to me.   Going out of your way to make up multiple facebooks with my name on it.  Markowiczl2009  your kidding right? It would be like me doing khuddleston825  Wait, no well forget it.   I don't think the e-mails of you and your wife arguing with each is what "got under her skin" I think it was more what I wrote and I did not write anything that was not true.  You are who you are and that is never going to change sadly your own child knows that but it does not stop him from caring.  You accept your parents for their flaws because you love them and they are your parents, I just think he deserves so much better than to always be put on the back burner.  I feel bad  for him but I also accept the situation for what it is and I wish you would to.  This making up all these family members, co-workers and people popping out of the woods to google my name like I am some celebrity is a little ridiculous don't you think.

Why can't you just be like a real father that has a real concern for his son and just talk to him to say I love you, or I am proud of you, rather than going out of his way to tell him that you are "tutoring" someone that knows their times tables as if he doesn't. He's your son if you're going to take an interest in someones academic life don't you think it should be his.   Will the person that really "started all of this " please stand up.?  Give me a break!!!! 
                                    Lisa Markowicz Huddleston.

Seriously? Is this a joke?  The Birmingham police department is a joke.  I get a dozen phone calls from some stupid detective because of a vindictive ex-wife clearly making up these stupid little stories and wasting tax players dollars.  But Detroit Tiger celebraties can 'triple' the limit of being legally drunk, domestic violence allegations and nothing happens.  I can't count the number of times the Townsend hotel there has some incident break out yet the Birmingham police are always somewhere else in that two sqare mile city, sleeping under a tree or god knows doing what.

You have a city that has nothing to do.  Half the city has a parking meter planted in the ground to pay their salaries because they have nothing to do.  Birmingham Police are a joke.