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Thank you to the people who have been instrumental in facilitating and encouraging James W. Busby's contact with his family.

James W. Busby has relocated, and is reconciling with and making amends to his children for the past. He has shown regret and remorse for his actions and the impact they have had on his family.  He is working on relationship reparation, and his decision to return to his children and directly invest his time and effort as a father in their lives has begun a much
needed healing process for all. 

With the support and encouragement of his family, James W. Busby is seeking gainful employment. Once he is employed, regular payment of childsupport, and child support arrears will begin.  

Again, thank you to all who have contributed comments.   Your contributions served to facilitate James W. Busby accepting his responsibilities to his family, and reuniting him with his children.

I sincerely thank you.

Yours, Mother of Children/ Former Wife

Spokane,
WA

Ok, I had to speak out.  Can not find your email address or I would have sent it there.  Why are you not telling the whole truth on these writings that you place on here.  Are you just trying to hurt everyone?  Every one of your reports contain different information and a lot of the information is untrue.  So I am here to set the record straight.  So you say no support has ever been received......really???......then why does the Washington State web site say differently?  Why do you say differently?  I have receipts showing the money that was sent and a print out from Washington State Support Office showing how much money was actually paid to you over the years.  You yourself sent me a copy of the payments that he sent to you and if you like I can place a copy of your email you sent me and/or the receipts on here as proof.  You were receiving regular payments from James and decided that was not good enough.  You wanted the money garnished from his check so you had the state start to garnish his checks.  After his employer got those papers, in a week he no longer had a job.  I saw James get a $235 check (more than once) for the week and send you $200 of it but that was not good enough for you.  Now he has no job and that's no good either.  Really June, I don't know what else to do.  I was able to get him back in contact with the kids, start sending money and try to do the right things.  You just recently sent him a letter, a rather nice one, talking about the kids, offering advice on jobs and talking really nice about him and me.  But then I get on here and there is all of this.    Did you stop and think that all of the crap you put on the internet could be the reason he is not getting a job??????????When an employer looks up his name and sees all of this, do you really think he is going to get hired?????? you are constantly shooting yourself in the foot.  If he gets a regular job then you get regular support payments.  If no one hires him, and he has no income, how do you expect to get anything?  The more he makes the more you make but you cant get something from nothing. How is it that you cant see this??????
 And as for the other post.......I am irritated and hurt at the fact that you would place on there that I am nothing but his sugga mama........That is one thing that I am not and how dare you make that reference to me.  You know, from your words in the many emails that we have exchanged I thought that we had a good relationship and an understanding that I was on your side, that I wanted to help make sure that the children were cared for.  Even in the letter that you wrote to James last week you talked nice to him, talked about the kids, told him how you all thought he was blessed to have a kind caring woman in his life.  That you were happy for him.  It really can't be both ways.  My feelings are hurt.  I opened up to you, befriended you, stuck up for you, defended you and did everything to try and help.  I don't get why you would do this, but I guess you have your reasons.  I guess some people just like to hurt others, maybe it makes you feel better to do this kind of thing.

Jim is going to do what he can for the kids, he is going to keep looking for steady work, may not happen with all of this crap on the internet, but he is trying.  He will continue to call the kids and they will always be welcome to call, to visit, and they can turn to me whenever they need something.  I will do what I can to get it to them.  But I will leave you alone, no more contact.  It hurts my feelings to know what you truly feel about me.  I had so hoped that we could have been friends and pulled together to get things done for the kids.  Since you feel I am so horrible I will no longer contact you, but I will continue to help the kids when they need it, I won't let them suffer because their mom thinks I am nothing but a doormat who is enabling their father.  Who knew you thought so little of me.  I will appreciate that if you continue to place things on here you place accurate information, and please refrain from mentioning me in any of your posts.  There is no reason in the world for you to include me in any of your many posts or complaints. You have no idea what is going on in my house, or my life.  I am not the kind of person you perceive me to be and it is best that it is left as that..........